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Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by serenegroup(m): 11:05am On Jun 23, 2017 |
bros I seldomly air my views on issues on nairaland but I will take the time to lend my own two cent. if I am in your situation, I would give her some space with the intent to walk away but not just yet. I will scan for remorse and some drastic changes in her. if I can't see changes in her behaviour I will walk away. there are dozens of disciplined and deserving ladies out there. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:06am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Tahrah: Abi you dinnur see me see trouble nii, laaro kutukutu ojo Jimoh |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Azumoney44(f): 11:06am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Oyindidi:just gf and I didn't, she likes money just like naija girls always do, I only showed one guy ( friend) then delete, its just a game, I wanna know how it feels like having a female nude pix, it happened like this. one faithful day I was loaded at home ane bored, I dont wanna to catch fun outside ao I pic my fone ane call her to come ane spend weekend with me( fri. - mon) ahe honor my iv so on Saturday morning after breakfast, I st startef romancing her, kissing suck her breast then suck her pussy till she cum ans push my head away and I relax, then after 5 mins be ask me to Bleep her and I refuse I did it on a purpose becos the say calabar girls are good in bed and kitchen so I want feel it too. after pleading I Bleep her till she loose her inner strenght, she was so tired and sleep off so I was just there staring at the naked body so some pup up in my head I pick up my fone and snap her naked just to see howit will llook like on camera. so my friend thats how it happen, I only show one of my co worker telling him that I thoughtthey say calabar girls can Bleep but look at how I killed someone child in my room we just giggled about it then I delete it. am bad in bed not in attitude |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by femi4: 11:07am On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon:No respect at all No explanation No regard In fact she no send you Dump her and flee 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Victornezzar: 11:08am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Aderola15:I did before quoting u |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by jmaxjohn(m): 11:09am On Jun 23, 2017 |
I would like to chat you up privately. Send me a mail. Truth is bitter, but you'd regret sticking with her. Walk away. Go to her shop, take a hot woman along, tell her you're done with this relationship. It'll hurt you. But you'd be better off than marrying a slvt Plan with the lady you're taking along too to act like your new girl. Woh I hate typing long shii ifenuwon: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Azumoney44(f): 11:14am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Aderola15:out of mb or short of words or dont wanna argue? |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:16am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Victornezzar: You obviously don't understand what I wrote then. |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Bahddo(m): 11:18am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Hehehe... So dull guys like this exist? Mommy's boy, dating an adult with pastor's and parents' consent, as if that changes anything. Your girl tells you that what she is doing with other guys isn't your business and you run off to NL to ask what you should do. The problem is that you have no mind of your own, unable to process information and make your own decision. Just so you know, that girl is no longer yours. Either she is fed up with your dulling and so you have started to irritate her, or she has found better guys and so you have started to irritate her. Up next she would start doing things to make you break up with her yourself. If you don't take the hint, she'd look for an excuse to break up by herself. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:18am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Aderola15:Atention seeker ni 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nelgenius4me(m): 11:29am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Guy, sometimes it takes you walking away to getting away. why worry over a girl who will cheat and show no remorse. If you can give your girl a space and see what she is up to . You can quit the relationship if she doesn't want to change for the better. She might be playing her card because she has seen your weakness . |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:32am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Tahrah: No be me go give am, i can't let him dent this my jolly mood. |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by KelvinCX(m): 11:45am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Aderola15:na so we see am oh |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Oyindidi(f): 11:47am On Jun 23, 2017 |
Azumoney44:Clap for yourself |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by PrickGetSize(m): 11:50am On Jun 23, 2017 |
This is why I'm against marriage/commitment of any kind. Have a girlfriend and keep fvcking her till you're tired, then move to another girl. Girls should do the same too. Love is a scam. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Abita(m): 12:00pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon: walk away mahn, if you can't have a heart to heart talk with her. if you want the embrassement of a broken home in the future, do whats right now. my two kobo... |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Yeligray(m): 12:28pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Simple 'run' |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Azumoney44(f): 12:39pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Oyindidi:sorry am not a kid |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Sheflex4real(m): 12:39pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
I can only imagine what you are going through right now. Since all the funny behaviour is just happening I won't suggest u give up on what you have been unto for 2 years just like that. U want her back in her place here are the things you need to do: 1. Never ask her about her guy friend of hers anymore. That's shows you are not secure. 2. You need to give her a little break. By that I mean don't call her more than once in a day, call her when you assume she's less busy, if she missed the call Never call back until she reach out to you. Even it takes days. 3. While this is going on, Make sure you are not always available. Give her time to miss your present. 4. Try hard not to be miserable, cos she must not see or hear that you are. 5. Don't make the mistake reasoning, begging or buying stuff for her with the hope getting her back on track, It will only push her further away, cos she will see right through it, and Nothing kill attraction faster than desperation. 6. The next thing is make her jealous a little, I.e put you phone on password,when you with her and your phone rings, if it someone you can call back don't pick the call just put it on silence and pocket the phone, make it look like u have something to hide even though you have nothing to hide. But don't over do it though. REMEMBER what ever you chase run and things you seems to be running from will chase you at some point. Its one off the law of nature. Finally I understand doing those things will be hard "Really hard" but it is what it is! If you do it right within a week he should be back on track, belief in me she dosen't want to lose you either, but the problem is you are always there, always around so she tend to take you for granted. If u were to be in her shoes u will do the same. You need not worry about the new guys. You share with her what they don't "HISTORY" and that will always give u a upper hand. Hope it helps Don_Lex 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Azumoney44(f): 12:39pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Oyindidi:sorry am not a kid |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by ednut1(m): 1:30pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
weak pple everywhere. u know what to do ,if u like no soji. who pastor consent help,even pastor dey divorce 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by 2dice01: 1:46pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Sheflex4real:classic 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by NevetsIbot(m): 2:37pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Oyindidi:why do you talk like a blind person? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by robosky02(m): 2:47pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Oyindidi: AngelicBeing |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by modextus(m): 3:09pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Oyindidi:Aunty shot up... What are you saying? |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Oyindidi(f): 3:42pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
NevetsIbot:she is selling, what is she selling for us to know why those guys are always with her. I don't judge blindly. I've seen more than enough to judge blindly |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by pabostt: 3:42pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
StrawberryGloss: Your last submission nailed it Op ponder on it - Think ahead. A woman needs a man. Be a man. Take charge. Sit her down, confront her and tell her to stop or it’s over Who knows, maybe she wanted to be open minded to different options and cushion the blow if things don't work out with you. But she needs to be stopped if you truely want her. |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Oyindidi(f): 3:44pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
robosky02:Bosky02 |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by ifenuwon: 5:48pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
Actually she is a fashion designer and most of customers are ladies....at least all I have spoken to her more than 6 times concerning her change in behavior bt she alway says we should just leave it like that The worst thing is that my mom got back from surgery abt two months now and my supposed Gf hasn't called called her or come to see her ( she stays 10mins walk from my house) I really do love her bt with all these things she has been doing I am fed up I can't really imagine why she finds it hard to explain to me who those guys are.... |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by pabostt: 5:56pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon: I don't think she will tell you who those guys are since your love in her heart looks dim. Just act on the advice you have received on this forum so as to avoid being victim of the present occurence. Be man enough and if possible let her go and move on with your beautiful life. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by rosieluv(f): 6:16pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
PrickGetSize:smh!!!! |
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by HarunaWest(m): 6:45pm On Jun 23, 2017 |
ifenuwon:Marry her Period!. I find it ridiculous when I hear people say they dated for years. Why date her for so long if you aint ready to marry? Better remain single,cos you dont expect her to be so loyal when she aint your wife |
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