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Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by petitejolie(f): 10:29am On Jun 24, 2017
she's spiting you.

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Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by rosieluv(f): 10:33am On Jun 24, 2017
PrickGetSize:

I have a very big black prick, you know?
I lyk the fair ones grin
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 10:36am On Jun 24, 2017
I wonder why some guys dont act like men angry it baffles me a lot. A lady takes u for granted, someone u ain't even married to and u're here reporting shiiit. Ughh this guy weak me, u know what? Ladies only know who they try shii with. Once they see u're a mumu. Dem go use ur head turn am upside down. Guy act like a man, I wouldn't want to say the nurse thingy is making u think like a woman, but Ogbeni, u need the hard truth. U're not acting like a man angry

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Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nelson21(m): 10:37am On Jun 24, 2017
finfol007:


Guy on a normal day, i would just read your story and move on, but since we are both male nurses and i have experienced such beforeand wouldnt want u to fall prey to the end of what i called "holding on" i would simply advice you to walk away.
Walk away from the relationship cos when the time comes, she would use the slightest reason to dump you.
I know it aint gonna be easy, but trust me......u no love reach me.....held on for over 2 years like you too.
She aint interested anymore.....and she has shouted loud to u that she aint into u anymore.
I wouldnt just leave u with that advice, but how i moved on and how i moved on.
You need to sublimate the hurt and pain into something more productive, try your best to make it in this profession of ours to the peak. Make sure who ever she left you for no matter hoe rich and how successful he may seem, he wont be able to stand you in the near future.
Its d pain thats fueling my drive to migrate successfully into the states. Already registered with texas board......Get to the peak and HAVE YOUR REVENGE.

Contact me for any info and id lead you aright.

I had to login to reply you.
You be correct MAN!
Ride On Bro.
May God Bless all of your efforts.

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Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by g8alumetal: 11:03am On Jun 24, 2017
oga, FLEE, walk away, its better nw dan story dat touches d hrt latter, I tell u dis cos I am a living witness..
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 11:09am On Jun 24, 2017
R u the girl
Luvdk:
Men can be funny,their sense is in between their legs
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Luvdk(f): 12:17pm On Jun 24, 2017
romeorails:
R u the girl
No
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Noblepreneur: 1:33pm On Jun 24, 2017
ifenuwon:
Good day pple,

I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.

She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.

The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)

Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...

And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.

Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.

No insults
Op,abort mission if not you might commit suicide or murder. When a girl suddenly start forming bold and daring,just know that another dude is in the picture.
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by rosieluv(f): 2:32pm On Jun 24, 2017
PrickGetSize:

I have a very big black prick, you know?
I prefer the fair ones grin

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Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by rosieluv(f): 2:33pm On Jun 24, 2017
Funlord2:



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See F9!
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Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by mapist(m): 2:47pm On Jun 24, 2017
ifenuwon:
Good day pple,

I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.

She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.

The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)

Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...

And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.

Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.

No insults

Just read your first paragraph again; with the consent of your pastor......Dont you think she aint supposed to act wayward given the fact that, the union has the consent of your pastor(who is a mere man before God)? My point is, the sooner we Nigerians wake up to certain realities, the best for us. The pastor has NO right to ordain a woman for you. He is only to celebrate the union of you both before witnesses and not "ordain".

Try to talk to her about your grievances and watch her for weeks. If there are no significant changes, then you know what to do. Please, DO NOT MANAGE A PROSPECTIVE SPOUSE that has refused to turn a new leave. That's a shortcut to the grave.
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jun 24, 2017
Guy,have you made any form of committment to her,like a ring perhaps, all that church nonsense wont hold high water and she is probably thinking before this guy just waste some years of my life, let me just have backup plan, if she is doing that she is being smart dont blame her.

she could also be trying to make you jealous just because maybe you aren't giving her so much attention anymore OR she may be cheating on you. The koko of the whole thing is not to jump to conclusions, do your homework, find out what is going on, get evidence and confront her with your findings.
ifenuwon:
Good day pple,

I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.

She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.

The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)

Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...

And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.

Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.

No insults
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by pope191: 3:25pm On Jun 24, 2017
rosieluv:

I lyk the fair ones grin

Can albino lyk me fill d registration form? In d male eyes all fair nah fair grin
rosieluv:

I lyk the fair ones grin

Can albino lyk me fill d registration form? In d male eyes all fair nah fair
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by uzoexcel(m): 4:16pm On Jun 24, 2017
Gbam

StrawberryGloss:
You must respect yourself first and foremost if you want somebody else to respect you back. What she is doing is a lack of respect. You need to think that the reason for doing that is that she is lacking attention from you, or yours isn’t enough.

Flirting is a symptom of future cheating. Think about it, if you were married.. would you want the mother of your children doing that? Would you be okay with that? It is all about perspective and putting yourself in the shoes of your future self.

Think ahead. A woman needs a man. Be a man. Take charge. Sit her down, confront her and tell her to stop or it’s over.
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jun 24, 2017
There's a saying, you'll never see a good thing til it leaves you so maybe its time you left her and find a real women
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by finfol007(m): 6:37pm On Jun 24, 2017
Nelson21:


I had to login to reply you.
You be correct MAN!
Ride On Bro.
May God Bless all of your efforts.

Amen
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Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by abimic(m): 8:47pm On Jun 24, 2017
Challenge her, sit her down, be romantic and speak senses bluntly into her, two years aren't a child's play for emotional sarcasm. Speak senses into her, let her know she would lose you if that won't stop. If she won't respect you first before challenging your stand, she's not worthy a partner. The love no dey shack again.
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Augustap(f): 11:09pm On Jun 24, 2017
StrawberryGloss:
You must respect yourself first and foremost if you want somebody else to respect you back. What she is doing is a lack of respect. You need to think that the reason for doing that is that she is lacking attention from you, or yours isn’t enough.

Flirting is a symptom of future cheating. Think about it, if you were married.. would you want the mother of your children doing that? Would you be okay with that? It is all about perspective and putting yourself in the shoes of your future self.

Think ahead. A woman needs a man. Be a man. Take charge. Sit her down, confront her and tell her to stop or it’s over.
You're right. But she might pretend to change and later deal the guy a blow that might kill him. He should just forget her, cos a lady who loves her man won't even cheat talk more of showing him
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by AleeDee(m): 11:30pm On Jun 24, 2017
As a computer scientist lemme write u a pseudocode or algorithm

Begin

Do (picking of slippers)
While (bending down)

Print ("stand straight, fold slippers, put under ur armpits and run"wink

For (status==run; status!=new lover; status++)
/*i.e, keep running as long as u ve not met a new lover*/

If (status==new lover)
Print (" kiss kiss kiss"wink
Else
Print (" tongue tongue tongue"wink

End

Hope dat helps
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Organs(m): 12:38am On Jun 25, 2017
adetayo234:


If you are not an idiot, your demented brain would have told you that people see things from different perspectives. That's my perspective and it differs from yours. You should start reasoning with that your stupid brain and understand that we can't see from same angle. Cursed fool


Adetayo234: Its one thing to see things from different viewpoints i agree, but it takes a "FOOL", not just a fool, but a fool by the actual definition of a fool - Adetayo234 that knows not, and knows not that he-adetayo234 knows not, to have that viewpoint, which is ok, but now, believes it, then acts on it by accusation, conclusion and judgment. Arguments and disagreements apart adetayo234, do not accuse, judge, point fingers to others on your (adetayo234) viewpoint or understanding. Shows you're highly uneducated, and you don't even know it. Again, don't assume education is formal or Western education alone, Yoruba's informal "eko-ile" is also lacking my broda, thats why ure pathetic. Goodnews bro, you are capable of learning, start with english comprehension.
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 12:55am On Jun 25, 2017
break up with her and save urself lots of headache
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 1:00am On Jun 25, 2017
ifenuwon:
Good day pple,

I need your advice on some issues bothering me now
My girlfriend (dating for 2 years now with pastor and parents consent) has been behaving very funny these days.

She suddenly starts flirting with other guys openly and anytime I ask her who those guys are, she gets angry and tells me I have no right to ask her who they are even after I discovered she is having hidden chats and dates with them.

The first instance happens to be on her birthday, I planned to take her out and on getting to her shop I met this man there, though I didn't ask her who he was but on getting to the eatery she became very cold and didn't eat any of the things I bought for her...On asking her who the guy was she started telling me I shouldn't ask her but I later got to know the man cos his wife happens to be a patient of mine (I am a male nurse)

Second instance happens to be with a street guy I know
Though I recently started seeing the guy in her shop every day but didn't ask her anything. My suspicion arose wen the few times I actually met the guy in her shop. She starts acting strange and both of them get very quite In one instance the guy was just in front of her and she texted him not knowing I saw what she was doing...

And the following day, I met them together on the way and immediately the guy saw me...he pretended like he wasn't with her and stylishly walked away.
When I asked her who he was, she started over reacting and telling me I shouldn't ask her and if I don't trust her that is my problem.

Now I don't know what to do about her cos our families are close and we go to the same church...pls I need your opinion.

No insults
the painful truth is that she's being chopped by other men, the fact that she agreed to be your gf means that she did love you at some point of her life but now you simply bore her, let her go my guy.
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 1:50am On Jun 25, 2017
rosieluv:

never!!!! angry
grin grin grin
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Nobody: 2:47am On Jun 25, 2017
rosieluv:

smh!!!!
lol how old is PrickGetSize? His so childish but I do agree with him on one thing you are truly beautiful :-) have a lovely a day
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by adetayo234: 5:50am On Jun 25, 2017
Organs:



[s]Adetayo234: Its one thing to see things from different viewpoints i agree, but it takes a "FOOL", not just a fool, but a fool by the actual definition of a fool - Adetayo234 that knows not, and knows not that he-adetayo234 knows not, to have that viewpoint, which is ok, but now, believes it, then acts on it by accusation, conclusion and judgment. Arguments and disagreements apart adetayo234, do not accuse, judge, point fingers to others on your (adetayo234) viewpoint or understanding. Shows you're highly uneducated, and you don't even know it. Again, don't assume education is formal or Western education alone, Yoruba's informal "eko-ile" is also lacking my broda, thats why ure pathetic. Goodnews bro, you are capable of learning, start with english comprehension.
[/s]

Do you know the principal sign of mental derangement? Writing incoherently. Very soon, you will end up at Yaba Left. Happy Lunatic Life in Advance
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by rosieluv(f): 6:13am On Jun 25, 2017
nhlanhla8701:
lol how old is PrickGetSize? His so childish but I do agree with him on one thing you are truly beautiful :-) have a lovely a day
thanks smiley have a lovely day too
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by rosieluv(f): 6:15am On Jun 25, 2017
lefulefu:

grin grin grin
smiley how are you
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by Augustap(f): 12:43pm On Jun 25, 2017
Pls run for your life. A woman who cheats can do and undo. She doesn't love and respect you, imagine you confronting her and she doesn't care. If she pretends to change after you talk to her, when you finally get married, na die u dey
Re: My Wife To Be Flirts With Other Guys, What Do I Do? by ifenuwon: 2:41pm On Jun 25, 2017
Thanks a lot guys
Well
I have made up my mind even before posting this issue....
The thing is that I have avoided her ( no calls no visits) for the past one week and I have been at peace bt some of our friends have been trying to settle issues and she keeps saying that she doesn't know why I have been acting strange and that she is confused
I later got to know from my friend that the guy who has been disturbing her is having problems with her( she told the guy not to call her or visit her again)
And the guy says he knows me very well cos he happens to be a patient of mine once like that ( he was admitted for substance abuse)
She has been talking to my friends from yesterday that they should talk to me cos she noticed that I have not given her attention and I am more happier without her in my life
So pls all these ur insults should stop

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