CoolFreeday:


I am not defending the guy but does it rather make sense to be moaning while being rape?

If you understand things very well you will know someone's body can betray him or her during an inter course, pity our educational system is so bad people think its unusual for a rape victim to moan

BUSHHUNTER:
moaning instead of crying or screaming for help...Idiot!

At gun point?

sanpipita:


Are you by anyway justifying the actions meted at this woman, are we this mad in this country?

no, am nt justifying the rape but supporting the man's action.

YelloweWest:

Hiding this sad incident.
Protecting her image as it was not her fault!

Let's be honest this man is foolish for sending his wife away!
Did she ask to be raped?
How can u absorb the man of all blame and them blame the innocent victim by supporting the man?

Would it have been better for the man to stay in the marriage and torment her with frustration and even domestic violence as a result of his inability to achieve closure? We're talking about emotional and psychological scars here, and everybody has different tolerance levels.

If he had kept her at home and eventually beaten her to death out of frustration, people like you would still shout 'why didn't her divorce her if he knew he couldn't forgive and forget the incident'. Cut the man some slack.

YelloweWest:

Yes that's our Nigeria. We must always blame the victim.
If the husband could fight off the robbers, why is he then fighting his wife? The victim...

I'm just weak, they are taking her for cleansing like she committed an abomination, this has spoilt my day.

blaquemyc:
no, am nt justifying the rape but supporting the man's action.

The man's action is nothing but utter stupidity and ignorance and I could add low esteem too, its never justifiable in any way

The husband don't give her well

...for crying out loud this is a rape situation in which the woman doesn't have any control over. It's stupidity, lame and wicked for her husband to keep pushing over this issue.

This is the time that man needs to show love to her wife. It's possible. He can do it.

The man should just cover his face in shame. As the head of the family, he is expected to ensure that the family is protected. Robbers came, overpowered him and his wife and raped her right in his presence, he couldnt do anything. Later after they have all gone, he drove the wife away. What should have been a family secret now became public knowledge. How foolish can one be?

SmartyPants:


absolve.

There are two things that happened here: One, the woman got raped. this was a sad incident that no one could help. Second, the woman enjoyed the rape. Now in the mind of the husband, whereas in the first place he is feeling angry, upset, and weak for not being able to protect his wife, the wife turns around to actually enjoy the encounter. So in the first incident it was not her fault she was raped. It was no one's fault.

In the second incident, enjoying the rape, we now can only speculate as to whether it was involuntary enjoyment which is unlikely, or whether she actually was in a conscious state of enjoyment. Are you completely trying to rule out the obvious possibility that she consciously enjoyed the encounter?

If you can agree that this was a possibility, then do you agree that the husband should be right to feel offended by such enjoyment?

Are u serious?
U are an educated person. But what I just read sounds like it came from stark illiterate!!

ARE YOU AWARE THAT SEX FEELS GOOD?? One can't help it when sex feels good! Damn it! Why on earth would u victimise someone who was raped??
Can those robbers stand before a judge and say it wasn't rape because the victim seems to have enjoyed it??
How are we even sure that the husband is telling the truth?
The only certainty her is that a woman was raped in the presence of her husband!
For gods sake how are we even sure that she was not moaning out of pain??

sanpipita:


The man's action is nothing but utter stupidity and ignorance and I could add low esteem too, its never justifiable in any way

i no wish u bad but i for like see ur action/reaction if 3 men rape ur wife or girlfriend for ur eyes and she dey moan like gurls wey the act bf

hedonistic:


Would it have been better for the man to stay in the marriage and torment her with frustration and even domestic violence as a result of his inability to achieve closure? We're talking about emotional and psychological scars here, and everybody has different tolerance levels.

If he had kept her at home and eventually beaten her to death out of frustration, people like you would still shout 'why didn't her divorce her if he knew he couldn't forgive and forget the incident'. Cut the man some slack.

OK now imagine this.

Some homo-sick guys burst into your house, pull ur pants down and rape u in front of your wife.
Your wife out of fustratration picks up mortar pestile and beats you to death a few weeks or months later.

Honestly how does that sound to u?
Pls with a mind set like this remain single cos if you can think of beating an innocent wife to death over a situation she had no control over, how much more when she does something that offends you?
I'm guessing in that case you would not only kill her but also her kids and entire family!

By the way if he has strength to beat a person to death, why didn't he beat the robbers?
What a cowardly a accession

YelloweWest:

Are u serious?
U are an educated person. But what I just read sounds like it came from stark illiterate!!

ARE YOU AWARE THAT SEX FEELS GOOD?? One can't help it when sex feels good! Damn it! Why on earth would u victimise someone who was raped??
Can those robbers stand before a judge and say it wasn't rape because the victim seems to have enjoyed it??
How are we even sure that the husband is telling the truth?
The only certainty her is that a woman was raped in the presence of her husband!
For gods sake how are we even sure that she was not moaning out of pain??

You are going to absurd extremes in defensiveness right now. Why do "we" have to be sure about the bolded? The husband was there, he was sure. And the wife has not come out to say any such. If you import facts in answering a college-level problem question you get a big fact zero so you are the one behaving uneducated.

You also sound inexperienced with women. ARE YOU AWARE THAT SEX VERY OFTEN DOES NOT ACTUALLY FEEL GOOD?? If a woman is not wet, SEX IS NOT ENJOYABLE FOR HER. And women don't get wet simply because you stick a dick inside them. They have to be aroused to get wet, and then sex would be enjoyable. So if she was enjoying the sex, then she was aroused.

some people will come here and be forming educated over somebody else's case but will react like the man in question or even worse if they were in his shoes.

Good for her




She won't produce fluid for her husband but will give it to an intruder

SmartyPants:


You are going to absurd extremes in defensiveness right now. Why do "we" have to be sure about the bolded? The husband was there, he was sure. And the wife has not come out to say any such. If you import facts in answering a college-level problem question you get a big fact zero so you are the one behaving uneducated.

You also sound inexperienced with women. ARE YOU AWARE THAT SEX VERY OFTEN DOES NOT ACTUALLY FEEL GOOD?? If a woman is not wet, SEX IS NOT ENJOYABLE FOR HER. And women don't get wet simply because you stick a dick inside them. They have to be aroused to get wet, and then sex would be enjoyable. So if she was enjoying the sex, then she was aroused.

I did not categorically state that she was moaning out of pain.
On the other hand u have concluded that she was moaning out of pleasure... just because her husband said so.

About being inexperienced with women, there are so many ways a woman can get turned on. For some it's instant for others it take much more time.
But trust me when there is a dick inside the vigina, the thrusting is a turn on! That's why at first a woman may be uninterested but after a while she's heated up!












By the way... I'm a woman.

LMAO. funny thread.

In all honesty I don't blame the man. It's bad enough that his wife was violated in his presence. It's way worse if it looked like she enjoyed the experience.if I were in the man's shoe I'd probably go crazy.

YelloweWest:

I did not categorically state that she was moaning out of pain.
On the other hand u have concluded that she was moaning out of pleasure... just because her husband said so.

About being inexperienced with women, there are so many ways a woman can get turned on. For some it's instant for others it take much more time.
But trust me when there is a dick inside the vigina, the thrusting is a turn on! That's why at first a woman may be uninterested but after a while she's heated up!












By the way... I'm a woman.

Alright...in my experience women don't like it..especially if they are tight down there. Well at the end of the day we cannot call the man unreasonable since only he was there to narrate what he saw. I don't agree with sending the wife away since she did not initiate the encounter but maybe if he has genuine reasons to feel she consciously enjoyed it it would help heal the relationship if he sends her away for a while.

blaquemyc:
the woman should have been screaming even if was enjoying it but she chose to moan instead, if na me be the man, i can't fit to forgive her, i dey craze?

When rape becomes inevitable, a wise woman simply enjoys it so says the adage!

dipznano:



Gbagaun

Lol

What that suppose to me?

owukpa:
[url]THENIGERIAN.NEWS[/url] can authoritatively report that the 28-year-old woman, who was sacked by her husband for moaning while being raped by robbers recently has finally arrived her country home in Owukpa for spiritual cleansing.

The woman, whose name was given as Ejalo (surname withheld) arrived her husband’s Umufu home at Ugbugbu community in Owukpa, Ogbadibo LGA of Benue State for the exercise.
Our source revealed that the woman had gone for HIV test in Lagos before leaving but the result showed negative. However, the doctor asked her to return in six months time for another test to ascertain she is free form any from of STD and pregnancy.

The insider said, the woman, who hailed from Ifikeri, in Itabono Owukpa is expected to spend sometimes in the village to perfect the spiritual cleansing.

“During this process, she is not expected to step into her father in-law’s compound nor shake hand with the oldest person in the family. She would be forced to go before Ekwu Anya in Ipole Ugbugbu with a three-day old chick and some kolanuts for prayers.

“From there, she would move to Aje’Owukpa in Ipole Owukpa where the cleansing would perfected by the chief priest,” the source added.

Asked if the husband is ready to take her back, the insider, who would not want his name mentioned said, the man had already sent the bride price to the go-before so he could return it to the wife’s family.

“The truth of the matter is that the man is not ready to accept the wife back. He had since sent the bride price to the Ogbobonya for a refund but some family elders are still trying to meditate to see how they could resolve the matter,” the source added.

Speaking on the development, the Ochoklobia of Ogbadibo, Johnson Agada said the man should accept the wife back after the spiritual cleansing since it was a case rape, the gods would look the other way.

“No, its not really her fault. It’s really painful. The man should allow her do alekwu and return home,” the source added.

When reached, the eldest man in Ugbugbu community, Mr. Ameh declined to comment on the issue.

“I am a Christian, so I don’t really have much to say about this. It would be better they settle it rather than involving the public,” the centenarian told THE NIGERIAN.

SOURCE>>>http://thenigerian.news/crime/shocking-update-woman-sacked-moaning-raped-robbers/

The stupid woman should be sent packing. What nonsense!!

YelloweWest:

Are u serious?
U are an educated person. But what I just read sounds like it came from stark illiterate!!

ARE YOU AWARE THAT SEX FEELS GOOD?? One can't help it when sex feels good! Damn it! Why on earth would u victimise someone who was raped??
Can those robbers stand before a judge and say it wasn't rape because the victim seems to have enjoyed it??
How are we even sure that the husband is telling the truth?
The only certainty her is that a woman was raped in the presence of her husband!
For gods sake how are we even sure that she was not moaning out of pain??

Seriously our education system needs to do better, comments I read here befuddles me, people are more concerned about her moaning than what could have triggered it, getting raped can damage anyone for life but for us rather than protect the victim we are hanging her out dry more, what a society we live in

What cleansing? If the woman enjoyed herself while being bleeped (raped) she should look for the guy a continue life is short

tuniski:

When rape becomes inevitable, a wise woman simply enjoys it so says the adage!

hmmmm! na de 'enjoys it' cause de wahala nw sooo

blaquemyc:
i no wish u bad but i for like see ur action/reaction if 3 men rape ur wife or girlfriend for ur eyes and she dey moan like gurls wey the act bf

Is this all you can say? I don't want to wish you bad to but I will like to see your reaction after your sister or daughter gets raped and she gets humiliated like this, do you realize actions like this damage people for life.

sanpipita:


Seriously our education system needs to do better, comments I read here befuddles me, people are more concerned about her moaning than what could have triggered it, getting raped can damage anyone for life but for us rather than protect the victim we are hanging her out dry more, what a society we live in

It's really sad. These are supposed to be educated people...

No wonder we are so backwards.

Another case of being raped to stupor.

Lol this issue carry belle oh , But sha the woman no try at all in her part , the thing sweet you nor mean say you go show am out . But the length the husband is going is not the best .

blaquemyc:
the woman should have been screaming even if was enjoying it but she chose to moan instead, if na me be the man, i can't fit to forgive her, i dey craze?

Like seriously! Why would she moan for a RAPE in the presence of here husband! Na so F*UCk sweet her reach?

I won't forgive her either if I am to be her husband abi she no know the different between MOAN and Screem

owukpa:
[url]THENIGERIAN.NEWS[/url] can authoritatively report that the 28-year-old woman, who was sacked by her husband for moaning while being raped by robbers recently has finally arrived her country home in Owukpa for spiritual cleansing.

The woman, whose name was given as Ejalo (surname withheld) arrived her husband’s Umufu home at Ugbugbu community in Owukpa, Ogbadibo LGA of Benue State for the exercise.
Our source revealed that the woman had gone for HIV test in Lagos before leaving but the result showed negative. However, the doctor asked her to return in six months time for another test to ascertain she is free form any from of STD and pregnancy.

The insider said, the woman, who hailed from Ifikeri, in Itabono Owukpa is expected to spend sometimes in the village to perfect the spiritual cleansing.

“During this process, she is not expected to step into her father in-law’s compound nor shake hand with the oldest person in the family. She would be forced to go before Ekwu Anya in Ipole Ugbugbu with a three-day old chick and some kolanuts for prayers.

“From there, she would move to Aje’Owukpa in Ipole Owukpa where the cleansing would perfected by the chief priest,” the source added.

Asked if the husband is ready to take her back, the insider, who would not want his name mentioned said, the man had already sent the bride price to the go-before so he could return it to the wife’s family.

“The truth of the matter is that the man is not ready to accept the wife back. He had since sent the bride price to the Ogbobonya for a refund but some family elders are still trying to meditate to see how they could resolve the matter,” the source added.

Speaking on the development, the Ochoklobia of Ogbadibo, Johnson Agada said the man should accept the wife back after the spiritual cleansing since it was a case rape, the gods would look the other way.

“No, its not really her fault. It’s really painful. The man should allow her do alekwu and return home,” the source added.

When reached, the eldest man in Ugbugbu community, Mr. Ameh declined to comment on the issue.

“I am a Christian, so I don’t really have much to say about this. It would be better they settle it rather than involving the public,” the centenarian told THE NIGERIAN.

SOURCE>>>http://thenigerian.news/crime/shocking-update-woman-sacked-moaning-raped-robbers/

I repeat: that woman is a bastard and fool! why was she moaning? Its so absurd! You were being raped by robbers, and were enjoying it. What nonsense! All the fools on this thread defending the woman saying ''she could not control her hormones'' shame to u all because dem go come rape una one day then make una dey enjoy am she una hear? Very stupid people on this thread. Defending moaning and excitement during rape? What stupid wife. And women, I keep saying, are big idiots and fools. Animals are even better than women. Some fools here were even saying the husband has not been doing it well to her. What else is the husband supposed to do during sex? Tie a wood to his dick before fucking the slut? Una dey mad!!!!!

Tunagee:


I repeat: that woman is a bastard and fool! why was she moaning? Its so absurd! You were being raped by robbers, and were enjoying it. What nonsense! All the fools on this thread defending the woman saying ''she could not control her hormones'' shame to u all because dem go come rape una one day then make una dey enjoy am she una hear? Very stupid people on this thread. Defending moaning and excitement during rape? What stupid wife. And women, I keep saying, are big idiots and fools. Animals are even better than women. Some fools here were even saying the husband has not been doing it well to her. What else is the husband supposed to do during sex? Tie a wood to his dick before fucking the slut? Una dey mad!!!!!

Hope you are dating or married to an animal, if not shame on your stupidity and over leaking brain