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Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 10:41pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
I've been an addict nairalander, posting for the first time, pls I need advice on what to do because I'm confuse, might be lengthy pls bear with me. Where do I even start? In summary I've been dating this guy and we are to go for introduction by September, I served in Delta state while he was working in Benin, when I passed out I stayed with him for a while like a month plus before I left for Lagos to be with my sister she's kind of heavy and need me around. He was transfered to Akure I still came down with him before I left. The main issue here is he called me sometime last week to come and help him pack completely from Benin to Akure but I told him to seek permission from my big Sis, He did nd she told him she also have to ask my mum if I'm allowed to go,,obviously mum refused on d basis that he has not come home and I already stayed for awhile with him, he should be patient and do the right thing. He was upset I didn't come, in a nutshell now he isn't picking my calls, not returning them nor replying my messages, seriously I'm going out of my mind,the last time we spoke was on Tuesday and kept saying me I refuse to come he'll get his revenge. Pls is this how to revenge? His silence has been eating me up, my Sis she's also worried but don't want to get involve, I speak with his mum daily is it proper I tell her? Pls I need advice, I know its deliberate act but I'm emotionally down, can't think straight, help me fellow nairalanders, should I go,I'm tired of this,tanks a lot, insults are welcome. 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by tosyne2much(m): 10:42pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
I think he's only acting strange due to his disappointment for not being available due to the circumstances beyond your control. Though, his attitude is not borne out of whether you offended him or it, he's only acting cold due to his disappointment for not helping him when he needed you most I will advise you to keep pleading with text messages if he refuses to pick your call, and I trust that, with time, he will forgive you. if things remain unchanged, then you can beckon on his mom and explain to her Please disregard any advice that you should dump his ass. And please, do everything to get your man back 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by Airforce1(m): 10:45pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
He's not good for you His actions doesn't speak well of him. He threatened you with a "revenge" for not coming to assist him park his things in a state you're not even at.. Please look well o. You sef wey go spend a month In the house of a guy thats not married to you, Na wa for you 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 10:47pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Don't know wat to do ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 10:47pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Airforce1:I'm tired oh been begging |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by ochobaba(m): 10:48pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
He never loved you a first cz if he truly do I see no reasons for revenge, though have seen a relationship where flimsy excuses ruined such relationships... My sister if you to be a friend I will advice you to calm down cz he will surely come back to you!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by austyn0(m): 10:51pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
He is acting childishly for ignoring your calls in the name of revenge..... I advice you explain everything to his mom in other to reach him through her. |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
I don't usually comments on such sh!t, BT let me just try. God damn it, he is a f#cking kid for acting that way. God damn it ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by Sleekfloyd: 10:53pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Op to tell you the truth i didn't read all that |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by Nobody: 10:58pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
I think you should be calm about this, he will find his way back to you. He's only acting like a kid. |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by 2dice01: 10:58pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
the nigga needs space Can you kindly give him the whole universe |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by Nickymezor(f): 10:59pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Give him tym, he wld definitely come around. |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by tosyne2much(m): 10:59pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Nickymezor:Yes he will surely come around |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by VargasVee(m): 11:01pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Gee! Congrats you got yourself a man-child. But Op seriously, is your family a corporation? What's with all these permissions? BTW, It's ok for him to be disappointed but not to be a baby about it. Your ma said it all, he should do the right thing if he wants it so bad. This is one of those signs you see before marriage and ignore, later you'll start seeking 'nother round of advises. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 11:01pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
ochobaba:I'll do just this, I'll let him be. 2 Likes |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by Nickymezor(f): 11:02pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Hez just acting up... He will re trace his steps eventually. OP, jst relax. |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 11:02pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
2dice01:Yes I can, I will, won't bother him any longer, tnx a bunch. 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 11:03pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Nickymezor:Most grateful, I'll do jus dat, let him be, I pray he re trace back. |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Airforce1: Airforce? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 11:05pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
austyn0:I'm feel he might get upset for involving his mum, I might just give it a try, if he doesn't speak to me by Sunday. |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 11:07pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Aderola15:Abi?? I know I caused it for staying awhile u knw how d tin be naaa, aniway I need help now. |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by Nickymezor(f): 11:07pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
liz4eno:Alright. I do hope so too ![]() |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by Nobody: 11:08pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Forgive her, forgive her you say? What's her crime because I'm yet to see any from her post? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by 2dice01: 11:08pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
liz4eno:good... When he comes around dont do too much shakara o ![]() |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 11:09pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
VargasVee:The "man- child' got me laughing, but seriously we r in love but this side of him I can't tell. |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by VargasVee(m): 11:11pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
liz4eno: I guess this isn't the first time he's up to this? 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by tosyne2much(m): 11:11pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Aderola15:Maybe because I don't know the right word to use sha ![]() |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 11:12pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Can't thank you enough, just what my sis advice, I'll still try and plead, he was like its the house we starting our lives together in, and I wasn't even there to arrange it to my taste, he's really upset. 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 11:15pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
VargasVee:Seriously first time attitude, he knows how much our communication mean to me, especially with the distance. |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 11:16pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
Sleekfloyd:Lol tnx aniway |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by tosyne2much(m): 11:16pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
liz4eno:Give it a trial till Monday. Mind you, tomorrow is another month, so I will advise you use that as an opportunity to blow his mind with a fascinating new month message. You should know the right thing to compose ![]() |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 11:17pm On Jun 30, 2017 |
2dice01:e fa hear, na small I go do, missing him we can talk for hours but now ![]() |
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