So many of us were raised to a subtle beat (or loud gong) that went something like this, “Get good grades. Get into a decent school. Get a solid desk job (with benefits). Be happy.”

Problem is, for some people this formula doesn’t lead to career fulfillment at all. In fact, for some, it’s a formula that ultimately makes them want to crawl out of their own skin or run screaming from that solid desk job (with benefits).

Could this be you? What are some signs that you may, in fact, not be cut out for a traditional, 9-to-5 job?

Here are a few signs, plus what should you do if this becomes clear to you.

1. You Feel Like a Caged Animal When You’re in the Office

Sometimes, it’s not about resenting authority at all. For some who aren’t cut out for traditional jobs, it’s the endless sea of desks that makes them want to run screaming from the building.

I remember my own first corporate job. At first, it was all like, “Oh. Sooo cool. Look at all these important-looking people in these little cubby holes.” By about six months in, I was finding any excuse possible to get out into the fresh air. (“You need someone to go pick up lunch? On it!”)

By a few years in, I’d had enough. I lasted a grand total of seven years before I’d flat-out had it. I needed freedom, and I needed space.

What to Do If You Feel Trapped

If your job truly requires you to sit in one space and stare at a computer all day (and you actually don’t mind the work), you may consider requesting the option to telecommute a couple times a week. This article includes templates and suggestions for starting that conversation.

If your role doesn’t really mandate sitting in one place every day, start planning your day (or requesting to do so) in a way that gets you out and about at least a time or two every day.

Monotony can crush even the brightest spirit. Find ways to break up yours (simple suggestions here. Or, if you know an office is simply a no-go, start investigating ways to apply to a field that has you, well, out in the field.

2. You Don’t Like Working Regimented Hours (or Having a Regimented Life)

Similar to the feeling that a cubicle may give you, being required (or nearly required) to punch in and out each day can make you feel like you have no say in your career or life. And having no say may make you want out, stat.

What to Do If You Despise Set Hours

Of course, there are many roles that simply require you cover a shift. If this is your job (and it’s making you nuts), you may want to consider a new position or line of work. Businesses that run shifts need shift workers. No getting around that.

However (and this is especially true if you’re a top performer), if the imposed hours are arbitrary—done because this is what everyone does and has always done—perhaps you could put together a proposal that shows your boss how you can achieve your goals outside of the current schedule.

Use care with this approach, of course. (Keep in mind that your boss may long for a similar scenario but be too afraid to push it with “the powers that be.”) But if you do it strategically and in a non-pushy manner, you may just find your idea is heard. And, hopefully, approved!

3. Spreadsheets Makes You Crazy

I recently worked with a client who was having a heck of a time finding a new sales role. It was a mystery to me at first, because she has so much going for her. But as we spoke, I began to realize that, while she loves selling, she hates (understatement) all the paperwork and reporting that goes along with it.

In fact, she doesn’t just hate it—she’s terrified of it. Thus, every time she gets into a conversation with a hiring manager (for another sales job), they get as far in conversation as the spreadsheets and then she’s out.

The companies she is eyeing simply don’t want a sales person who can’t or won’t also do the necessary behind-the-scenes work.

What to Do If Paperwork Makes You Pout

Whether you’re afraid of the paperwork (or the technology you need to know how to use to complete it), or simply annoyed about having to do it, here’s the reality: It’s probably not going away.

Whether you’re working for someone else or for yourself, your job will likely require at least a certain amount of reporting, documenting, data entry, or number crunching. I don’t care if you’re on Wall Street or running a landscaping crew, business is business and it requires paperwork.

That said, if you truly abhor it, consider finding ways to delegate, outsource, or get support on the stuff you simply do not want to do. If you’re weak on the technology or tools that power the paperwork, ask for training, or invest in it yourself.

If you’re at the bottom of the ladder and can’t just delegate, see if you can trade tasks with a co-worker. Maybe they hate something you don’t mind and it could be a win-win for both of you.

Few of us adore paperwork, but it’s a part of business. So, either get comfortable with it, or get it off your plate.

4. You Resent Being Told What to Do (by Anyone)

No one likes an unreasonable or overly bossy boss, but the true fish-out-of-water 9-to-5-er tends to cringe when she gets even a whiff of “authority for the sake of being the authority” going on.

If you feel a bubbling rage when asked to attend a meeting you don’t want to go to, or work on a project you don’t think is a priority, this could be a warning sign. If you don’t think you shouldn’t have to arrive at a certain time or put in a request for vacation time at all? The writing’s on the wall.

What to Do If You’re Not Having it with Authority

If you’re feeling super resentful about having to answer to anyone, it may be a clear indicator that you’re meant to be your own boss. This isn’t me saying, “March right in and quit, my friend.” Slow your roll. In many cases, this could be reckless. But if you truly despise working on someone else’s agenda, consider how you might earn a living as the one who gets to make the agenda.

No matter how forcefully or consistently people wormed into your head that the formula for success always involves a 9-to-5 job, it’s just not true.

If you’re simply not cut out for one, don’t spend years pining away for something else. Instead, find strategic, creative, or brave ways to redefine your current role, or create your own.

Life’s too short to be stuck in a job (or cubicle) that you hate. So, make it your mission to find relief, or find the door.
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On point

realised too after i finished sec school

so had to take steps to avoid

when u see ur sibling who was earning well, walk away from the job. you just realise its not easy.

one major problem i have with jobs, is that most of them limit you.

there is a limit to what you can achieve with a 30k salary, and there is a limit to what you can achieve if you spend the whole day building another mans company

but in Nigeria where the jobs are not even there to start with
people have no option.

as for me, the world is too large to be caged in one hole.

Thank you.

Ok

Many aren't given a choice. They're suddenly thrust into the 9-5 life, without any escape, or thoughts of escape...except maybe during midlife crisis

The spread sheet interface can be really boring though.

working in the academic settings gives yiu such flexibility....

Quit in this recession? By fire by force I must adapt to office work. Nobody loves being bossed around.

No be who get work dey do yanga?

They might also be signs that you lack discipline and you are FuckkiN lazy

I agree... Personally, i am getting set to dump my wig and gown and face business fully!

queenfav:
I agree... Personally, i am getting set to dump my wig and gown and face business fully!

Having ur own law firm is also business.

rozayx5:


realised too after i finished sec school

so had to take steps to avoid

when u see ur sibling who was earning well, walk away from the job. you just realise its not easy.

one major problem i have with jobs, is that most of them limit you.

there is a limit to what you can achieve with a 30k salary, and there is a limit to what you can achieve if you spend the whole day building another mans company

but in Nigeria where the jobs are not even there to start with
people have no option.

as for me, the world is too large to be caged in one hole.

its not about the salary. as long as you work for another man there is a limit to what you can achieve....

Okied

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lapazi:
The spread sheet interface can be really boring though.

Really?

AntiWailer:


Having ur own law firm is also business.

Nope.. Right now, I prefer doing business to lawyering.

Eziokwu

If you are not doing what you love, you better try to love what you are doing until there is a breakthrough. Bills must be taken care of....

No room for afonja-lpob bashing on this thread.

Your Salary is that Bribe you Keep getting in Order to remain a Caged slave to another Mans dream..

For me I will rather become a Fulfilled Farmer or CEO of my own Buisness Empire than waste my life, time and Energy on another Mans ambition.

BTW..

Beautiful Piece @OP.

Nice write-up

hmmm

AntiWailer:
They might also be signs that you lack discipline and you are FuckkiN lazy

Nice observation

Lord Knows I can't do any job or get into a career that will keep me in a place.... that's y am so in love with my skill... I get to explore tho am still a student. wonder what life will be like when I get my Bsc

sommyblaze:
Lord Knows I can't do any job or get into a career that will keep me in a place.... that's y am so in love with my skill... I get to explore tho am still a student. wonder what life will be like when I get my Bsc

Amen to that bruh.

But still graduate fess

abumeinben:

Amen to that bruh.
But still graduate fess

fess ?

Self employed rocks mhen

True talk