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Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 8:11am On Jul 01, 2017 |
SmellingAnus:I can't, I won't, I'm now calm hearing u guys talk, so I ain't going no where, tnx. |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by SmellingAnus(m): 8:14am On Jul 01, 2017 |
liz4eno:anyway, I am not against you travelling, just do anything right to win your man back... 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by kindredspirit(m): 8:21am On Jul 01, 2017 |
liz4eno: Wait, this dude quit answering your phone calls ( that's like effectively breaking up with you if you're frank with yourself ) because you chose to obey your mother over him? A guy who is merely A BOYFRIEND to you? Somebody that she and your family don't know officially as a would-be husband to you? Listen, your mum was in order. I'm proud of her. That's a woman with dignity. If your boyfriend was mature, he'd realise that your mum's refusal is a plus on your family's side. That's the type of mother whose daughter he can marry and go to sleep. He would therefore quickly proceed to put a ring on it. Then, his sour grapes would be justified in future if he asks for favours from you that you decline. Did you say you got his mother to plead with him and he didn't budge? My advise : Continue your attempts to get him to reason with you for one more week. DO NOT TRAVEL to see him. If he still maintains his stance that you should have disobeyed your mum's cogent reason for not helping him, then I think you should take a deeper look at the character of the man you want to get married to. This is maybe a litmus test and it is good that it is happening at this time. Your prayer should be that God exposes the real nature of your suitors, pre-marriage. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by liz4eno(f): 8:26am On Jul 01, 2017 |
kindredspirit:No I didn't tell his mum anything even though we talk often she asked if all is well I say yes, but breaking up jus mere reason of not coming, isn't that harsh a decision?? Tnx aniway I've been praying bliving all will be well, I'll keep messaging him at least he opens nd read them( watsapp). |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by adetayo234: 6:33pm On Aug 01, 2017 |
liz4eno: I hope you have resolved the issue by now. Be that as it may, I think you will be making a mistake if you marry that guy. The way people behave during courtship goes a long way to show how they will behave during marriage. He will also want to take revenge for every little thing, including things that sound unreasonable like this one. You may not want to leave him because he has a good job bla bla bla, but I hope you won't live to regret marrying him. While it is important to consider financial security in a man you want to marry, it's more important to consider the characters and behaviours of the man above every other thing. It is true you know his family and speak with his mother every day, but you will not be marrying his mother; you will be marrying him. Pls, look before you leap. 1 Like |
Re: Urgent Advice Pls, I'm Loosing My Mind. by adetayo234: 6:39pm On Aug 01, 2017 |
liz4eno: That's one of the benefits of courtship; it helps you to discover new things about each other and get to discover each others characters. Love is never enough; characters and behaviours are the ultimate 1 Like |
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