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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Martin0(m): 4:39pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Quinn22:see u 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by wendy241(f): 4:43pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
josju: 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by nerus419(m): 4:44pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
don't even go there. she will turn to a beast in a short-while. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Collins87: 4:44pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Am in your shoe op. More opinions highly welcomed. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Jbleenk: 4:44pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
A guy 40 fuckeen a 20yr old girl. Is anything wrong in that? Just asking 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by sukkot: 4:45pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
DejiJ:obviously they dont. they are wolves in sheep clothing 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by sukkot: 4:46pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
freedomland:hello Sir 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by FamousAbN: 4:47pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by oshe11: 4:49pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
josju: Whatever U do, mk sure U dnt marry her yet bt if U most then make sure she doesnt go to skul again if nt na U go fund her n her bf wen go dey kpansh her everytime, yet na him go carry ur bags wen U go visit her..... THIS IS EXPERIENCE TALKING 5 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by haske7(f): 4:49pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
josju: Desr brother. Get ready to be very understanding and also accommodation cos we girls at that age are very immature, impressionable and childish. Most of them are looking for wiz kid and davido including fall6the bad guy.so get ready for a bumpy ride bro 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by tabisegroup(m): 4:50pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
ItalianWine: Hahahahah now I know ur a troublemaker ![]() ![]() But its nice reminding me of dat ..cus it will fuel my intentions ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by ItalianWine(f): 4:52pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
DejiJ: Let's Pray it is Sunday 1 Like
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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by ItalianWine(f): 4:55pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by mayormick(m): 4:55pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Hmm...seriously like someone said, they will still want to explore life and dat is when u will be having issues with them. Unfortunately base on their level of experience, trust me u will always be miles ahead of them in d relationship. The funniest thing is if they do anything dat look too childish and u correct them, they will see u as someone dat has too much policy. In short, they are just too raw, 'they are like crude oil, u just have to refine them somehow. However, the most painful aspect of it is after spending about 2-3 yrs training them(refining them), they will follow another person comot giving one rubbish excuse or the other. Walai, trust me av been there b4 and not sure I can date a gal in her early twenties for a serious relationship. No be profitable business jare 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by yinkeys(m): 4:56pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
ikp120:I think I agree to this. Spot on 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by ItalianWine(f): 4:57pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
tabisegroup: Time is ticking ![]() 2 Likes
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Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by yinkeys(m): 5:01pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
ItalianWine:I understand your point really well. But seriously in this hard times, one would be struggling for money & grooming a babe too. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by tabisegroup(m): 5:02pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
ItalianWine:Lol..lets connect ..I'll drop my digits ..but I'll delete in 7minutes.. Flash me Wen u copy it.. Write "ok" to confirm dis mgs 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by yinkeys(m): 5:03pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
TheLastIdiot:Funny 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by OLUJOSHINS(m): 5:04pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
BUSHHUNTER: The landlord mistakingly trusted U 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by sukkot: 5:05pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
DejiJ:by staying at home and reading the bible on your own. you dont learn anything in church anyway. its a harlot house 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Biggers82(m): 5:07pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
[color=#000099][/color]No point in dating a girl in her early to mid 20's.... ...especially if you are looking to settle down. I went to a wedding last weekend, and met several ladies in their late 20's that were either married, engaged, or seriously dating their guys for 5 or more years. The central theme that each woman portrayed to me look somehow. "I met one Nneka when I was 25 and we've been together 5 years. I didn't really know what I wanted when I met her, but we have a pretty good relationship, you know, its got good days and bad, sometimes more bad than good. I mean, she is really supportive of me, but its sometimes boring. But we have so much history together and I think that's what keeps us together a lot, though. Gentleman- based on what I saw, and my own experience being married to a woman that you met when she was only 20 or22, I give a resounding don't do it. I understand the appeal- women in their early 20's are obviously sexually attractive, but also confused and trying to figure out what they want. You are going to go on that roller coaster ride with them and probably end up devastated at best, and divorced at worst. Guy just Stick with 27 and up (which all of these women were). Almost all of these girls, honestly, are ready for a serious relationship, just not with the guy they are with. They aren't bad women- just not in love anymore (which I'm sure at one point they were). Timing is everything. They have outgrown their time. It was so clearly evident. Chicks in their late 20's and early 30's rock anyway- so much sexier by then they have known what they want. Unless you want to continue say sorry and begging her till you die . A wise man learns that anything said negative about or to a woman should always be followed with good and positive stuff. It has to balance and the good should always be the last thing they hear. That's where many guys screw up. They make negative generalizations and leave it at that. It's basically called failure[b]No point in dating a girl in her early to mid 20's.... ...especially if you are looking to settle down. I went to a wedding last weekend, and met several ladies in their late 20's that were either married, engaged, or seriously dating their guys for 5 or more years. The central theme that each woman portrayed to me look somehow. "I met one Nneka when I was 25 and we've been together 5 years. I didn't really know what I wanted when I met her, but we have a pretty good relationship, you know, its got good days and bad, sometimes more bad than good. I mean, she is really supportive of me, but its sometimes boring. But we have so much history together and I think that's what keeps us together a lot, though. Gentleman- based on what I saw, and my own experience being married to a woman that you met when she was only 20 or22, I give a resounding don't do it. I understand the appeal- women in their early 20's are obviously sexually attractive, but also confused and trying to figure out what they want. You are going to go on that roller coaster ride with them and probably end up devastated at best, and divorced at worst. Guy just Stick with 27 and up (which all of these women were). Almost all of these girls, honestly, are ready for a serious relationship, just not with the guy they are with. They aren't bad women- just not in love anymore (which I'm sure at one point they were). Timing is everything. They have outgrown their time. It was so clearly evident. Chicks in their late 20's and early 30's rock anyway- so much sexier by then they have known what they want. Unless you want to continue say sorry and begging her till you die . A wise man learns that anything said negative about or to a woman should always be followed with good and positive stuff. It has to balance and the good should always be the last thing they hear. That's where many guys screw up. They make negative generalizations and leave it at that. It's basically called failure[/b]No point in dating a girl in her early to mid 20's.... ...especially if you are looking to settle down. I went to a wedding last weekend, and met several ladies in their late 20's that were either married, engaged, or seriously dating their guys for 5 or more years. The central theme that each woman portrayed to me look somehow. "I met one Nneka when I was 25 and we've been together 5 years. I didn't really know what I wanted when I met her, but we have a pretty good relationship, you know, its got good days and bad, sometimes more bad than good. I mean, she is really supportive of me, but its sometimes boring. But we have so much history together and I think that's what keeps us together a lot, though. Gentleman- based on what I saw, and my own experience being married to a woman that you met when she was only 20 or22, I give a resounding don't do it. I understand the appeal- women in their early 20's are obviously sexually attractive, but also confused and trying to figure out what they want. You are going to go on that roller coaster ride with them and probably end up devastated at best, and divorced at worst. Guy just Stick with 27 and up (which all of these women were). Almost all of these girls, honestly, are ready for a serious relationship, just not with the guy they are with. They aren't bad women- just not in love anymore (which I'm sure at one point they were). Timing is everything. They have outgrown their time. It was so clearly evident. Chicks in their late 20's and early 30's rock anyway- so much sexier by then they have known what they want. Unless you want to continue say sorry and begging her till you die . A wise man learns that anything said negative about or to a woman should always be followed with good and positive stuff. It has to balance and the good should always be the last thing they hear. That's where many guys screw up. They make negative generalizations and leave it at that. It's basically called failure 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by feddiferri(m): 5:08pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Dating a girl in her early 20 is just a huge amount of fun. I can never forget that moment when i was heading to that hotel. She was waiting for me and we really enjoyed a lot. It was really great indeed 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by edeXede: 5:16pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
![]() ![]() during the 1990s to early 2000s, dating a 20 year old lady makes sex enjoyable because the puna is still fresh and tight and the breast is still like iya sidis apple.. Fast forward ten years after 2000s, date a 20 year old lady at your own peril In short, op please have at least two side chics to serve as substitute till when you find out the winch have been cheating on you 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Acidosis(m): 5:17pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
The last time I tried to date a girl of that age, I discovered she had an alternate Nairaland acct (which she never disclosed). I was jejely reading some stuffs on Nairaland that fateful day when I stumbled on that strange moniker, I clicked out of curiosity, and alas! I saw the picture of the supposedly single and ready to mingle girl. On that account, I noticed she runs a powerful Diary where she regularly updates her escapades with the authentic boyfriend, including memories of kisses, movies, visits, even nights together. ![]() ![]() That was the last time I approached a girl of that age for anything, including friendship. Its been 4 years now though. @OP, nobody can answer your question as we don't have any tangible information about your girl and her upbringing. I think you should go ahead and date her with your (head), not your (heart). Not everyone wants to "explore", it all depends on her personality . The desire to explore is always there even among married men and women. Maturity is key in order to manage that desire, and maturity in every sense got nothing to do with age. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by tabisegroup(m): 5:17pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
ItalianWine:Lol.. Lets connect..we never can tell! I'll drop my digits buh..I'll delete in 7minutes. Meanwhile write "ok" to confirm u are on standby now. ..flash me Wen u copy it 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by Samadict(f): 5:19pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
Have you discussed this with her? Does she want what you want? If she does, then let go of your fear and enjoy your relationship. I met my hubby at age 19. He was 27 then. He was scared like you at first feeling I may decide to leave him later for a younger guy after committing himself. I was scared he might later want to go for an experienced older lady. We later realised we were on the same page (want to be his and he, mine). We drove our fears away. People said lot of things (friends, family and neighbors) but last year we got married at ages 26 and 34. I do not regret staying with him. If you both want it, then you both can work it out with God. 17 Likes |
Re: Dating A Girl In Her Early 20's. Experienced And Mature Response Needed. by degelinglacis: 5:22pm On Jul 02, 2017 |
ikp120: That's how you people will not let us see husband with your yeye analysis ![]() Please op, if she's responsible go for her 3 Likes |
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