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Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Eberex(m): 9:20am On Jul 04, 2017
I am a woman in my early thirties. I got married 3 years ago. Prior to that, let me give you a brief of myself and how i was raised.

My mum made it a point of duty to educate us on the issue of sex before marriage. Which I would say was successful because even during my university days I kept my virginity. The only thing I allowed myself do was cuddling, kissing and caressing. The guys all wanted sex but seeing that I was very adamant on my stand, they end up leaving.

After my graduation and NYSC, I got a job. I still meet guys who ask me out but during dating and they discover my rules of no sex before marriage, they leave.

This continued until I met a man who was a member of my church. He asked me out too and didn't mind my request for no sex. He said he is okay with it. But we do the usual kissing and all that.

We got married. On the eve of our wedding, he disvirgined me and only lasted for a couple of minutes, probably 5mins. And then claim tiredness which I guess was as a result of the wedding stress and all that. These were my thought back then anyway.

We are blessed with a baby girl who is 4 years old, I guess from the early sex we had.

Since then, it's been less than 5 mins. After each time he sleeps, or his joystick doesn't get erect. He always claims tired. This has continued for the past 4 years now.

I saw by mistake a test result which he left carelessly. The result shows "erectile dysfunction". I called his attention to it, he cried and told me he couldn't tell me.

Right now I am helpless. I have been crying for years, hoping one day it would all end. We make love only once in a month if I am lucky, or let's say if the JT gets erect.

I don't know what sex is, talkless of an orgasm. I had the impression sex is just a 5 mins thing.

Was it wrong to say no SEX before Marriage?

My mother in law is always picking on me, on when I would give her more children, and I can't start telling her these things.
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Gourdoinc(m): 9:25am On Jul 04, 2017
when we told you then to let us put the cap inside, you claimed you will enjoy heaven and hell with your husband and it's only him you will allow put even the balls inside sef. we sulked and acted like lesbians and then walked away. now you have met the man who met all your specifications and by God's grace he isn't seeking sex like all those useless men like urs truly tend to do. nne ebby baby why are you complaining. women and foolish wisdom is like 5 and 6.

nevertheless I feel your pains, if you don't want me to come Bleep you senseless cos you married, why not invest in intimacy gadgets. many are wonderful. I sell them discreetly to lovely women such as you who don't wanna break away from momma's teaching by letting me use all your holes for orgasms.
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Lalas247(f): 9:26am On Jul 04, 2017
When I say you have to sample the goods
Una no go hear .. u see now she stuck with a fuvking 1MIN MAN

Kai moment silence for the dead sex tongue what a mess no orgasm either shocked marriage is a doomed one
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 9:29am On Jul 04, 2017
No, it's not necessarily a mistake to save your virginity until marriage. You're complaining about your issues now, some other woman is contemplating her own woes resulting from the fact that she had premarital sex. No situation is perfect: we take our convictions, make our decisions, and live with the repercussions the best way we can.

Sex (and the enjoyment of it) isn't just about a stiff dick. The most vital organ for good sex is your brain, actually - that's where sensations become perceptions. Your skin can feel the exact same warmth from a man's hand and a baby's bum; but the brain translates the former into something sexual. If you love your husband and value intimacy with him, you'll discover that there are a variety of ways to stimulate your nerve endings in the exact way a penis would. And you'll have mind blowing orgasms. Don't restrict yourself or dismiss all hope of sexual satisfaction; his ED is more his loss than yours. Stay very open minded.

You can also try a variety of medication. Eg Viagra.

A man who suffers ED may still have very viable sperm. He may not be sterile. The only problem is he cannot deliver it where it's required. Assisted reproductive techniques like IVF could solve that particular problem.

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Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by EricBloodAxe: 9:29am On Jul 04, 2017
Which kind lie be this na

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Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by iweecureyou: 9:30am On Jul 04, 2017
Eberex:
I am a woman in my early thirties. I got married 3 years ago. Prior to that, let me give you a brief of myself and how i was raised.

My mum made it a point of duty to educate us on the issue of sex before marriage. Which I would say was successful because even during my university days I kept my virginity. The only thing I allowed myself do was cuddling, kissing and caressing. The guys all wanted sex but seeing that I was very adamant on my stand, they end up leaving.

After my graduation and NYSC, I got a job. I still meet guys who ask me out but during dating and they discover my rules of no sex before marriage, they leave.

This continued until I met a man who was a member of my church. He asked me out too and didn't mind my request for no sex. He said he is okay with it. But we do the usual kissing and all that.

We got married. On the eve of our wedding, he disvirgined me and only lasted for a couple of minutes, probably 5mins. And then claim tiredness which I guess was as a result of the wedding stress and all that. These were my thought back then anyway.

We are blessed with a baby girl who is 4 years old, I guess from the early sex we had.

Since then, it's been less than 5 mins. After each time he sleeps, or his joystick doesn't get erect. He always claims tired. This has continued for the past 4 years now.

I saw by mistake a test result which he left carelessly. The result shows "erectile dysfunction". I called his attention to it, he cried and told me he couldn't tell me.

Right now I am helpless. I have been crying for years, hoping one day it would all end. We make love only once in a month if I am lucky, or let's say if the JT gets erect.

I don't know what sex is, talkless of an orgasm. I had the impression sex is just a 5 mins thing.

Was it wrong to say no SEX before Marriage?

My mother in law is always picking on me, on when I would give her more children, and I can't start telling her these things.



Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 9:30am On Jul 04, 2017
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Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by iweecureyou: 9:33am On Jul 04, 2017
Eberex:
I am a woman in my early thirties. I got married 3 years ago. Prior to that, let me give you a brief of myself and how i was raised.

My mum made it a point of duty to educate us on the issue of sex before marriage. Which I would say was successful because even during my university days I kept my virginity. The only thing I allowed myself do was cuddling, kissing and caressing. The guys all wanted sex but seeing that I was very adamant on my stand, they end up leaving.

After my graduation and NYSC, I got a job. I still meet guys who ask me out but during dating and they discover my rules of no sex before marriage, they leave.

This continued until I met a man who was a member of my church. He asked me out too and didn't mind my request for no sex. He said he is okay with it. But we do the usual kissing and all that.

We got married. On the eve of our wedding, he disvirgined me and only lasted for a couple of minutes, probably 5mins. And then claim tiredness which I guess was as a result of the wedding stress and all that. These were my thought back then anyway.

We are blessed with a baby girl who is 4 years old, I guess from the early sex we had.

Since then, it's been less than 5 mins. After each time he sleeps, or his joystick doesn't get erect. He always claims tired. This has continued for the past 4 years now.

I saw by mistake a test result which he left carelessly. The result shows "erectile dysfunction". I called his attention to it, he cried and told me he couldn't tell me.

Right now I am helpless. I have been crying for years, hoping one day it would all end. We make love only once in a month if I am lucky, or let's say if the JT gets erect.

I don't know what sex is, talkless of an orgasm. I had the impression sex is just a 5 mins thing.

Was it wrong to say no SEX before Marriage?

My mother in law is always picking on me, on when I would give her more children, and I can't start telling her these things.



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Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 9:34am On Jul 04, 2017
Ma'am, don't regret your decision for keeping your virginity for your husband. It's unfortunate he's going through erectile dysfunction. You should be happy he isn't impotent and was able to give you a daughter. Don't pay attention to what your mother in-law says, since it's usually 5minutes or less, you could bring spontaneity into the bedroom, engaged in more pre-intimate activities and if possible discuss getting a dìldo with him to be used when his dick goes flaccid, instead of cheating on him.

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Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by swiz123(m): 9:40am On Jul 04, 2017
Sorry ma,get a vibrator
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 9:41am On Jul 04, 2017
Lalas247:
When I say you have to sample the goods
Una no go hear .. u see now she stuck with a fuvking 1MIN MAN

Kai moment silence for the dead sex tongue what a mess no orgasm either shocked marriage is a doomed one
she should file for a divorce nah
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 9:42am On Jul 04, 2017
This is the reason why I have sex once in a month no matter how the konji stubborn reach...after wedding, then I can explore the dirtiest things with the woman of my dreams.
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Lalas247(f): 9:46am On Jul 04, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
she should file for a divorce nah
She is MOST LIKELY broke .. she ain't going anywhere
The fact she asking us what she should do says it all .. na to lay for that bed remain and take that L grin
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by dacovajnr: 9:47am On Jul 04, 2017
Lalas247:
When I say you have to sample the goods
Una no go hear .. u see now she stuck with a fuvking 1MIN MAN

Kai moment silence for the dead sex tongue what a mess no orgasm either shocked marriage is a doomed one
How many container of goods have you sampled over the years? undecided

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Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 10:12am On Jul 04, 2017
Lalas247:

She is MOST LIKELY broke .. she ain't going anywhere
The fact she asking us what she should do says it all .. na to lay for that bed remain and take that L grin
I really don't want her to cheat but she's really suffering in that marriage.


She would get help from her family members for sure or what do you think?


She can't remain like this forever.
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Lalas247(f): 12:36pm On Jul 04, 2017
dacovajnr:
How many container of goods have you sampled over the years? undecided
Spoilt child sad
No spoil me o body na temple of God we no dey sample till we ready .. ...
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Lalas247(f): 12:37pm On Jul 04, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
I really don't want her to cheat but she's really suffering in that marriage.


She would get help from her family members for sure or what do you think?


She can't remain like this forever.
She will just cheat o
But why can't she tell her man what she wants and needs ... maybe he might try
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by dacovajnr: 5:11pm On Jul 04, 2017
Lalas247:

Spoilt child sad
No spoil me o body na temple of God we no dey sample till we ready .. ...
You're spoilt already, Temple of God wey we don pave way turn BRT lane

Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by RENOWNED2(m): 5:16pm On Jul 04, 2017
Op, you gat (m) as your gender...... pretty weird innit.
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Fadiga24(m): 5:18pm On Jul 04, 2017
You are lying.
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Eberex(m): 5:31pm On Jul 04, 2017
RENOWNED2:
Op, you gat (m) as your gender...... pretty weird innit.

Its not me, i know. but i know who the person is
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Eberex(m): 5:41pm On Jul 04, 2017
Fadiga24:
You are lying.

So you think it's all make up story. Then please pass by
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by unqombothi(f): 5:42pm On Jul 04, 2017
You two can still enjoy sex since he is not impotent. Use sildenafil (Viagra) or taladafil (Cialis). You guys haven't heard of them? For the pregnancy thing, do your best to meet when you're ovulating.
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Fadiga24(m): 5:43pm On Jul 04, 2017
Eberex:


So you think it's all make up story. Then please pass by

I stay wherever I want to, I hope it doesn't bother you.
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Eberex(m): 7:22pm On Jul 04, 2017
Fadiga24:


I stay wherever I want to, I hope it doesn't bother you.

Na! Only trying to hear from you guys because her problem is not something I alone can solve
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 7:32pm On Jul 04, 2017
Benita27:
Ma'am, don't regret your decision for keeping your virginity for your husband. It's unfortunate he's going through erectile dysfunction. You should be happy he isn't impotent and was able to give you a daughter. Don't pay attention to what your mother in-law says, since it's usually 5minutes or less, you could bring spontaneity into the bedroom, engaged in more pre-intimate activities and if possible discuss getting a dìldo with him to be used when his dick goes flaccid, instead of cheating on him.


@RaggedyAnn why share this...this...this...
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jul 04, 2017
connectpoint:



@RaggedyAnn why share this...this...this...


You know I did

grin
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jul 04, 2017
RaggedyAnn:



You know I did

grin

too graphic.. na wa.. these days the soul can no longer be restrained...una wan spoil our eyes shey ?
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by drunkpunk(m): 2:37pm On Jul 05, 2017
Benita27:
Ma'am, don't regret your decision for keeping your virginity for your husband. It's unfortunate he's going through erectile dysfunction. You should be happy he isn't impotent and was able to give you a daughter. Don't pay attention to what your mother in-law says, since it's usually 5minutes or less, you could bring spontaneity into the bedroom, engaged in more pre-intimate activities and if possible discuss getting a dìldo with him to be used when his dick goes flaccid, instead of cheating on him.
Isn't that weird? Husband n wife using Love Machine? Ive heard of Drugs for Erectile Dysfunction. Let her confide in someone who can assist too. I'd say she acts early cos Menopause too is something to worry about...
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jul 05, 2017
drunkpunk:

Isn't that weird? Husband n wife using Love Machine? Ive heard of Drugs for Erectile Dysfunction. Let her confide in someone who can assist too. I'd say she acts early cos Menopause too is something to worry about...
Obviously he was given a prescription in the hospital. Don't forget drugs don't perform miracle, it takes time for it to take effect. I suggested she discuss it with her husband, and if they're open-minded, they could give it a try.
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jul 05, 2017
connectpoint:



@RaggedyAnn why share this...this...this...
connectpoint:


too graphic.. na wa.. these days the soul can no longer be restrained...una wan spoil our eyes shey ?
There's nothing graphic there. We act too sanctimonious on social media. grin
You never spoil abi?, we hear!.
Re: Help!!! I Am Going Insane by Oyindidi(f): 3:08pm On Jul 05, 2017
Wow! Just wow!! lipsrsealed cry all will be well by God's grace. Strong woman

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