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Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by pinkp: 5:32pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Another story shared by someone here and she needs advice: I met ds guy named Jay few months ago and I fell in love with him @ first sight, but till now we've bin only friends. He is from a very rich family and recently moved to Nigeria because of his dad's gas stations problems. He is very humble n not arrogant like his oda brother. I have succeeded in being his close friend by trying to form hardworking-lady. We always talk about business which he always adviced me. The other day, he called me and offered to give me cash to start my business. I refused but he insisted way too much. Already, he sent d money to me. But, that's not wat I want. I want him to love me. D reason y av bin so serious lately was so dat he can love me. PLEASE, wat should I do? Should I send d money back to him? (because I don't want him see me differently) Did he GIVE ME MONEY to get me out of his air? May be I hav bin disturbing him too much with questions. Have I bin bothering him too much by always asking for advice? Is it dat he wants to get rid of me? How can I make him LOVE ME BACK. PLEASE GIVE ME GOOD ADVICE LIKE I AM YOUR SISTER Cc: Lalasticlala Tosyn2much Zarzar Twaci Makydebbie Wristbangle Martin0 Myfantasies tosyn2much Oyindidi Onstelly Rukkydelta Lala247 Smellymouth Lefulefu Kingrex1 Laveda Mimzyy Aderola15 Traphedges Itsjude toks2008 ishilove lala247 |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by greatbrian(m): 5:36pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Gold digger spotted 1 Like |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by cjobia: 5:37pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
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Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:41pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Such man can NEVER love you. And since he knows your "medecine", he gave you money so that you can get lost. Take a hint and enjoy the money as parting gift, it's clear he wants nothing from you than friendship. You will have to keep searching for your mumu #1 1 Like |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by MissRaine69(f): 5:45pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Maybe he gave you money to test you? Have you thought about that. Return the money and explain the reasons why you are returning the money. Most Nigerian women will never take the initiative when it comes to relationships. It's all on the man. Tell him how you feel or you will forever regret it. If he does not feel the same way accept that, you don't always get what you want in life. 3 Likes |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by pinkp: 6:06pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
MissRaine69:Thanks |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by Martin0(m): 8:04pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Now when it comes to "getting" your man, there is
one thing you must not do if you want a man to see
a future with you. Do not treat him like some kind
of project that needs to be fixed because it
immediately brings up the walls. If you have the
urge to try to change his clothes, his circle of
friends, the way he talks, what he loves to do
— don't do it!
Just move on and find someone you can respect
and appreciate just the way he is right now. If he
wants your help, he'll ask for it. The right guy for
you deserves to feel like he's your hero. If you can't
offer that, he's not your guy. |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by Martin0(m): 8:05pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
MissRaine69:sorry what if giving her money was way out of the thought of the guy |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by Martin0(m): 8:11pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Making eye contact is a crucial component of flirtation and
it can also increase his feelings of attraction for
you. Gaze into his eyes when he is talking to you
and don’t be afraid to lock eyes with him even if
you are both silent.
If you are too nervous to gaze into his eyes or
you don't think it is appropriate yet, use quick
glances to make frequent eye contact with
him. By looking at him for a moment and then
looking away, you can show him that you are
interested and see if he is interested too. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by Martin0(m): 8:13pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Being clingy and dependent on someone else for your happiness are not attractive qualities. Instead, try to show him that you are an independent, strong woman. Showing him that you have a great life and that you don’t need someone else to be happy will intrigue him. Keep your plans with friends and family and turn him down for dates now and then so that he knows that you have your own life. I guess I have answerd the first part you seeking for.. |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by MissRaine69(f): 8:35pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Martin0:She did not have to accept. |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by pinkp: 8:39pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
@ Martin0 thanks triplemuch |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by Martin0(m): 9:08pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
pinkp:you welcome thanks.. |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by Martin0(m): 9:12pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
MissRaine69:Miss forget those things before u accept something from a guy there are actions that follows it,and she did state such for us to portray if she was to reject or probably return it,so it was clear the guy give out of kindness |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Just here to read. I really don't care about super stories. |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
pinkp:So you succeeded in being his close friend by trying to form a hard working lady, not that you're hard working?. |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
Babe, I'd advice you not push it. If a guy doesn't love you (that way) from the start, nothing would ever change it. Just be cool with what's happening already. |
Re: Help Me: He Wants To Get Rid Of Me by Nobody: 11:35pm On Jul 09, 2017 |
pinkp: I declare your thread dead on arrival |
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