It ain't easy after a break up saga. Ma boyfriend that I was dating wt ma whole life and trust was double dating. He bodly told me "babe, av been double dating o" and their relationship is almost 2yrs wyl ours is almost 3years. Been tryna pick up afterwards buh it ain't just working. This love sef at tyms...... Can't wait to experience TRUE LOVE o biko dat is if it exists sef

Met this cutie from one big private sch during one inter collegiate debate.we exchanged no,my friends warned me...that it'll be hard to nail the gal cox d financial gap back then was huge...& ur guy was in a govt sch...fast forward..... we started dating,the gal was so sweet & caring...she even became friends wt ma friends....4 months later, she invited me to their house afta everybody don go church...we were intimate for d 1st time & damn the sex was good...until she told me we should break up up cox she didn't wanna fall for me coz she had the intention of using me when we met but she's developed feelings due to ma charisma or whatever ...damn I cried... since then your boy no love again.

sirusX:


Well, I know it wouldn't matter now, but I do believe there was something you did wrong.

You know you had a boyfriend that would have wanted to spend time with you on vals day, yet you made a decision without even the mention of inviting him.
If the program was that interesting and beneficial, why didn't you invite him to share in the grace and blessings of the day?

I don't like the word "permission" or the fact that there was an ultimatum, but I'd say you both acted like kids back then, and all the drama wasn't necessary.

We need to realise that we all are human, and in that we say things we might not mean out of impulse or whatever.

But anywayz, it's good you found someone else, but don't rub it in his face like your post seems

I made my decision which was clear to him..did I stop him from coming to the program..he clearly didn't show interest in it and wanted me to come spend Val with him ....I chose the one that's more beneficial to me..he's not even my husby

lilbest4:
I'm currently breaking up with my girl right now. We are still chatting sha and I'm bringing it out little by little before evening it will be over. She suddenly started disrespecting me and I ain't taking the shit

Hmm hmm...
I kinda like ladies that are disrespectful meaning she's my type

teresafaith:
He was my first boyfriend dated him for eight years, dude called one day to say he wasn't interested anymore that he needs to focus on his life that I should do the same. Well to cut long story short I got married six month later to a wonderful guy who I'm ready to stand by through thick and thin.


Dude called up one day and was like "he thought I was going to wait for him to finish focusing on his life"

Guy!! me no get chance for oshi

smart girl...�

PerfectlyPerfect:

Damn bro, I'm in a similar situation as yours. Babe is a virgin and says she wants to keep it until marriage. I reluctantly accepted, though I have other ladies by the side to satisfy my cravings but I love her more than others. I just hope she doesn't end up like your ex

Another novice

sekxy:

I made my decision which was clear to him..did I stop him from coming to the program..he clearly didn't show interest in it and wanted me to come spend Val with him ....I chose the one that's more beneficial to me..he's not even my husby

I do get you dear, it's just that some guyz have this issue with big egos and they would want to be the one that gets to make the decisions.

In the past, I guess it might have been that way, so you changing things without his say so was a big deal for him

demefa:
Another novice

Lolz. Bruh I ain't a novice o. I've been down there and confirmed she's truly a virgin. She's currently in another town so we see just once a month. I'm just chilling for her to move to my town at the end of this month

nibblealittle:
After 5 years, he leaves to do his residency in another state. No call or text. Only when he's back home. I'm still going to school too. We seen each other 2 weeks ago after 1 year of no communication. I told myself that I was going to give him a piece of mind and that he can't just disappear on everyone, especially me.

Well when my moment came to tell him how it is, I broke down and cried instead. In a son of tears I told him "I missed you so much; I thought I lost you; please don't leave me." Please don't leave I know right - I was a hott mess.

He calms me down. He said we need to work on our communication in my face but after making love (once more) and he left, he later texted me: 'I don't want to break your heart'

My friend of several years. He walked in a blizzard to see me. We cooked and danced. I was there with him to prepare for medical school conferences. I taught how to tie his ties (to this day he wears the ones I made). He introduced me to the Nigerian culture. I was just continuing my schooling and patiently waited. We never argued and I NEVER ever nagged him. Only recently I started speaking up because we're older. Almost 30 years old.

Now he's pushing me away and I'm leaving to Botswana in a week.

dump him.....he is a time waster....move on with your life

sholikay:
well I have never had any break up,but might be having my first break up soonest.. she is my first girlfriend, I cherish her.she is nice,not too pretty but unique..I thought we could maintain a no sex relationship,and she said she is not even moved by any sex,but she is ready to give me when I need it..I said okay.but her attitude always seems wrong whenever she is with me and just two of us alone.I got to know she wants us to be having intimacy which I'm not ready to succumb to now..its been a year plus now and still same attitude of wanting sex.although she has supported me finanacially and materially with my academics..just 9 month ago we have not been seeing each other as usual kus I'm holding a religious post in my school fellowship.whenever we see she will be telling me that when I pass on the religious Post to another in the next two month,that she will now pour out her mind to me fully.I already know its about this sex issue..and I have purposed in my heart that if she makes such complain, it is certain I will cut off with her..I know she is cheating on me,kus I could feel she is a nymphomaniac..some ladies anyway.

She is a nymphomaniac Using what yardstick These jaded reasons up there?
U don't even know her bro!!!
Pass her unto niggas who can take Care of a woman n get ursef an SU geh

Beey:
yes.Seriously? Really?

Lol... then you no dey frequent here like that if not you for don know me.... Anyway go through my threads and compare am with my username

PerfectlyPerfect:

Lolz. Bruh I ain't a novice o. I've been down there and confirmed she's truly a virgin. She's currently in another town so we see just once a month. I'm just chilling for her to move to my town at the end of this month

Just pray to God I don't meet her before then...coz she is a GONER!!
Abeg na joke o!!!!!!

TinaAnita:


But why would you agree to take selfies with some random girl despite knowing full well that babe would be allergic to it? You might not see anything wrong with it but it sent a wrong signal to her. I could imagine how she felt and her reactions thereafter. You don't do things that fuel a lady's insecurity. My thoughts anyway

babe, it wasn't a kiss
just a picture

jakandeola:
guy watch wat u blog am a matured guy dont let me get mad at u

Lolz, I will really love to see you try

sekxy:

I made my decision which was clear to him..did I stop him from coming to the program..he clearly didn't show interest in it and wanted me to come spend Val with him ....I chose the one that's more beneficial to me..he's not even my husby

that's the problem; y'all don't listen. he just gave u a candid advice and ur arguing..

kelvinrhs:

Hmm hmm...
I kinda like ladies that are disrespectful meaning she's my type

lol.. only u urself will still Coman open "share your break up stories" thread. shebi u like disrespectful girls.. continue

kushercain:
She was too narrow minded
When she found out I smoke weed she saw me as the devil.
She ended it but truth be told if I was left with a choice I'd choose MaryJane over her

I concur

Oluwapresley:


lol.. only u urself will still Coman open "share your break up stories" thread. shebi u like disrespectful girls.. continue

I'm not like other guys lol!

Mskrisx:
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U seem like a very calm person... Keep it up

Tanchu

luminouz:


Lmaooooo
Refiner darlingggg!!!
What's up

Your story tho...remember a beautiful lady with beautiful quality can be likened to a camel passing thru d needle's eye...

U gat me?

connectpoint:



Have some self esteem naa guy, why are you still single all along, are you that hopeless ?

Savagery is written all over this your quote sha

refiner:

Your story tho...remember a beautiful lady with beautiful quality can be likened to a camel passing thru d needle's eye...

U gat me?

Lmaooo!!!
Are they DAT scarce?
I mean....ur one ain't u

luminouz:

Lmaooo!!!
Are they DAT scarce?
I mean....ur one ain't u

They are very rare to find my dear...very rare..

I cant say abt me because as expected i wont wanna describe myself as bad...so u better be careful of whom u choose...

Judek2:
I Dont even Kwow what a relationship is. I dont know when im into one or when we break up. Ive loved many girls, but Any girl i love end up getting married or relocating, and i forget her in few hours. The love dies a natural death.
Dont Know How ones heart get broken, She enjoyed me, i enjoyed her, so if she leave me, i forget her and find another girl.

life is too complicated to start thinking about one Love, and better when one is free.

You too make sense, experiencing same....nothing beta than dis wen dating, used ur head not your heart.....one of the girls I dated whom is now married, contacted me via Facebook, that we should talk....No Strings Attached.

Although what makes it cool is the girl being matured and very reasonable irrespective of her age when u dating.

refiner:


They are very rare to find my dear...very rare..

I cant say abt me because as expected i wont wanna describe myself as bad...so u better be careful of whom u choose...

Hmmmmmm....deep words!!!
I will babe..thanks
Make I no talk again before ur NL boiz come for my head!!

dljbd1:


Savagery is written all over this your quote sha

You just found out about this word? the first time the girl came.. two years, second time...lets say one year, the third, lets say one year...he's still there confused...ur his fada..no wonder

luminouz:


Hmmmmmm....deep words!!!
I will babe..thanks
Make I no talk again before ur NL boiz come for my head!!

Do av a fun filled day..

RGem:
I type this with so much heaviness in my heart. So, i started dating this wonderful guy and we were both perfect together. Ours was a definition of a perfect relationship.
All was going on well between us till his dad said he can never allow him marry someone from my town because of something that happened in the past. We are both from the same state.
He tried his best to convince and plead with him but he insisted. Even people pleaded on our behalf. We had to end it.
Am depressed is an understatement.Finding it very difficult to move on.

Firstly i feel ur pain. It can be very painful.
But on d other hand, i perfectly understand the man. You dont know what he's endured in the past and couldnt heal. me too i have compiled my own list of donts for my future kids, any one that tries to marry from that family/area no go get my blessing #simple

justino57:
av had 3 major breakup bt this was one of them ... i was madly inluv with
her to extend that wen i went to
manchester to skul i had to send for her
wen dem send me money we shared de
money together ma parent didnt no i was
wasting their money in England with that so
called ex naw to the extend that i had to
train her myself in skul using ma parent
money omg untill my wicked friend from
russia got her pregnant she confessed i
wanted to run mad jexxxx niger girls naw
eeh .....naw she has a white kid i don move
on bt de money i spent on her was too
much british pounds then was high de girl
use me tavel go 5 countries then shal not
anymore wen ma dad later knew that de almost changed his will

O boy! Your English get as e be for my eyes. Where you school abeg no vex

Drawsoup:


My brother my experiences are bad... The second to the last one I almost died, God saved me...

draw soup,y u go let woman break ur heart..lol u fall my hand o

sekxy:

I made my decision which was clear to him..did I stop him from coming to the program..he clearly didn't show interest in it and wanted me to come spend Val with him ....I chose the one that's more beneficial to me..he's not even my husby

My sister, you have a valid reason, but do you consider that even God respects marriage, well you're not married but some times God understands..no one can compare with your God and i feel you're too harsh o..Val is an expensive day to miss out on to many people..if you wanted to prove a point that it wasn't about trust or mistrust, couldn't you have invited him over so it'll be you , God and him and then build your relationship, rather than break it? All we men all have flaws, and ending a relationship without strong reasons doesn't mean you'll meet the next guy and he'll be perfect.. Like i tell people, i'm not advising you oh..I'm your younger brother here, but i just feel like chipping my own two cents...so as your younger brother, i'll tell you what i tell many chicks i've met considering breaking up. I simply tell them, if you leave your guy because he has 2 demons, do you know it the next one has like 7 billion? I don't intend to confuse you, prove you're wrong or win an argument, but please take it easy on the next guy, biko nu...

Some statements here shock me.. No wonder we have many burnt ladies, why date a guy for 9 years without proposal? even 4 years without a proposal is too much.. na wa oh.. after na another man go bear the " burden ", rather shaft, cause the main substance has been taken away, what's left is body, engine don go... Na wa...Chineke...