nkemdi89:

Lol.

You dey keep knowledge abi.. a whole Mother of Zion like you, wey suppose dey mentor the younger ones... Chai, you drop somethin d other day i laff for two weeks.. Yu say if Urhobo man guy, you go know say igbo man dey learn work..

Samzzy94:
hmmn....reading all the posts so far makes me wanna share my own experience. I broke up wit my gf of almost two years today, it was a hard experience but I had to do it. And I must add dat d relationship became a long distance one the moment she got admission to school early this year. Two months ago, I started noticing some strange attitudes from her, we quarrelled a lot over it....but at the end of it all we always settled our differences. D whole ish became worse when she called me one day and told me dat she is sorry, dat there is someone else she has been dating for a while, she said the guy was too persistent that she couldn't resist him. This is coming from a girl I would av sworn wit my life that she wouldn't do such a tin.....she begged and begged that she doesn't want to lose me as well....dat it was because she misses me.blah blah blah...To cut d long story short , I accepted her back, cos I still loved her and I wouldn't also want to lose her. Yesterday I couldn't take it any longer, she came to my place and while going tru her phone , I saw messages and pictures she took with d guy, iimmediately I felt extremely jealous, and asked her if she loved the guy, after hesitating for some moment she said YES!!!!.....I felt like killing at that moment....but in order not to have my name in news headlines for the wrong reason I left my room for her without saying anything......since then my phone has been busy with calls and messages from her..... She even promised she would break up wit d guy for my sake....but I won't have any of that....Today I called her and broke up with her amidst tears....it wasn't easy but I just had to do it...I jst hope I did the right thing

Bro if fake no dey, people no go appreciate original

If defeat no dey, how success go sweet..

If tears no dey, laughter go dey boring...


Hope you're good.. wish you one sweet chic, coming your way... oya catch am

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You dey keep knowledge abi.. a whole Mother of Zion like you, wey suppose dey mentor the younger ones... Chai, you drop somethin d other day i laff for two weeks.. Yu say if Urhobo man guy, you go know say igbo man dey learn work..

Abeg you no go kill me o, I dey observation mood.

nkemdi89:

Abeg you no go kill me o, I dey observation mood.

I hear you.. How you an Obinna break nah.. that yellow bobo wey be dey do business.. yes that one... wey yellow well well

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I hear you.. How you an Obinna break nah.. that yellow bobo wey be dey do business.. yes that one... wey yellow well well

Lol.

nkemdi89:

Lol.

..tell us nah.. just whisper, no one else will know

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..tell us nah.. just whisper, no one else will know

Go and bring the wine.

nkemdi89:

Go and bring the wine.

ehn hen... okay, on my way, when i reach Agbor, i go call ya #

luminouz:
My last ex was an eyeful!!! Beautiful,tall n big ASSed..just d way I like em......but she was a LIAR....
Stupid coot told me she was a V n she doesn't wanna break it coz God told her not to.....n I said no pressure.
On a fateful day...she acted up n said she needed time alone that I am blocking her spiritual sense...she needed to feel God.I said no problem. 2 weeks later I was at a supermart close to her house n decided on a hunch to see her...I walked in on my ex using a big aladura candle on her pussay.....I just smiled n asked her if d candle has been baptised for holey penetration.....I took off my clothes n spent 1 rounds on her.....d Vjay wasn't tight at all.....I decided to collect tithe n offering n did 3 more rounds.......she was oh! Lumi ur such a great fvcker.....
I.smiled at her n said 'I do what I can for d lord's sisters', donned my clothes,walked outta d room n outta d relationship n outta her life...
MI o Raye oshi!!!!
Since then....I have been morafucking single!!!
Please dont ask me y women lie.....I fvcking have no idea!!!

At last I can quote this comment! This your experience cracked me up for real.. I was wondering how true it is.. She didn't lock her door or you saw her through the window?

donaldking10:
I was so madly in love with her, and for two years she lied to me that she was a virgin, and i foolishly believed her. Each time i tried to go down there, she would scream and tell me she's saving it till we get married.

So, one fateful day i went hanging'out with my friends, we started talking about our girlfriends, and i mentioned her name. One of the guys there described her to me, told me she used'to be his girlfriend, and that he had fvcked her in the past.
I was so shocked, i even found it hard believing. I was even arguing with the guy that it was a lie, and he just calmly told me that if i doubt him, that i should go ask her myself.

So, that weekend i invited her over to my lodge and decided not to ask her first, but play along as usual.
As i tried to go down there like before, she still gave me the same stupid excuse. That was when i decided to ask her.

Immediately i asked her, she started crying. I was so angry i didn't even send her tears, I just put'on my condom and fvcked the hell out of her.
My original plan was to break'up with her immediately after fvcking her, but she cried and begged'me, plus the pvssy was so sweet i couldn't. That was the biggest mistake i made, because few months later, she started acting'up, demanding for money a lot, and she started cheating on me with another guy, and finally broke'up with me without giving me any reasonable reason.
Though i later found out it was due to one Yahoo boy called George.

I cried for weeks when it happened.
It was so painful, heart'breaking and annoying, that a girl i forgave due to the fact i loved her, and did a lot of things for would do such a thing to me. I regretted not breaking'up with her when i first had the chance.

Blessing Nkeiruka Nwamgbe God will punish you wherever you are.

Though i've finally moved'on, and currently have a wonderful, lovely, beautiful and loving real virgin in my life, whom i dis-virgined not long ago because i no longer take chances.

I don laugh tire but bros. I think deres something about this ladies called blessing, they are mostly cheats, liars, materialistic and good with pretending.. God help us.

olayiwola4u:
I told my fiancee to choose between her female friend and me and she told me she is going for her friend.

To be sincere, I don't like her friend that was why I asked her to choose between her friend and me.

I thought it was a joke until she told me she can never leave her friend, that she would rather leave me.

Since then, I knew I was in for a big trouble.

I begged her and we stopped talking about the issue.

I didn't know what happened to me. I forgot that story and I fell seriously in love like never before.

After few months to that incident, she changed. I was really troubled, so I ask her what happened.

She said nothing.

I asked her again...perhaps there is something she wants me to do.

She said, she wants me to leave her that she is not interested again.

After begging, someone who claimed she couldn't sleep or eat without me, for 1 month...then I realized IT WAS OVER.

I cried my eyeball out of my ball socket...sleepless nights turned to a regular routine for weeks.

Now I realized when a fiancee/fiance tells you that he/she loves someone more than you...you have to sit tight...because OUT OF THE ABUNDANCE OF THE HEART, THE MOUTH SPEAKS.

I really cannot imagine me choosing a girlfriend over my boyfriend o. Its obvious she's a lesbo. Pele. I find it hard imagining a guy crying.. Wonder y

lilbest4:
I'm currently breaking up with my girl right now. We are still chatting sha and I'm bringing it out little by little before evening it will be over. She suddenly started disrespecting me and I ain't taking the shit

Have u tried communicating with her about the bad attitude u don't like? You can't just up and breakup just because of that... You talk things out... That's what matured peeps do.

Nma27:
At last I can quote this comment! This your experience cracked me up for real.. I was wondering how true it is.. She didn't lock her door or you saw her through the window?

Don't wonder sis.....its true!!!
If I saw her thru d window how would I then fvck her!!!!
As luck or providence would have it,no one was in d house when I went in....n she just closed(not locked) d door!!!!
But then y should she lock d door when she never imagined I would come along....

jakandeola:
iv realise what a fool I was to give my heart to an animal. only a foolish man will ever belief in ttue love. The girl I thought is mine betray me last year. we hv been together for 2yrs, yet I neva touch her cos I was saving her for myself. we have been having issues. 3months b4 we brake up we quarrell because of money issue and we kept malice for 3 weeks until we settled. den her elder sister got married, and she told me she needed money for suveniar to share. she know I have money I want to invest, yet I gave her good 40000 naira. after the wedding she suddenly changed don't pick my calls or like my pix anymore. when I confronted her she said shes no longer interested that im not man enough for her and cant provide for her. this is a girl I wished to marry I never knew she is a cheap thing that goes sleeping around. In time karma will catch her. I will never in my life trust any woman again. now I believe love is wicked. I feel so sad.

You lucky I wasn't able to quote u this morning when I saw your posts here. Your post was so tribalistic! Anybody could have scammed u like that bro. Chill out, you'll definitely find true love and work on yourself too.

sholikay:
well I have never had any break up,but might be having my first break up soonest.. she is my first girlfriend, I cherish her.she is nice,not too pretty but unique..I thought we could maintain a no sex relationship,and she said she is not even moved by any sex,but she is ready to give me when I need it..I said okay.but her attitude always seems wrong whenever she is with me and just two of us alone.I got to know she wants us to be having intimacy which I'm not ready to succumb to now..its been a year plus now and still same attitude of wanting sex.although she has supported me finanacially and materially with my academics..just 9 month ago we have not been seeing each other as usual kus I'm holding a religious post in my school fellowship.whenever we see she will be telling me that when I pass on the religious Post to another in the next two month,that she will now pour out her mind to me fully.I already know its about this sex issue..and I have purposed in my heart that if she makes such complain, it is certain I will cut off with her..I know she is cheating on me,kus I could feel she is a nymphomaniac..some ladies anyway.

My God knows not to bring Bro churchy type my way... Go for someone with d same sexual orientation as you.
Do you even know the meaning of a nymphomaniac? Just look at this dude, a full blooded lady is prepositioning you and u calling her a nympho. Odikwa egwu. Pls cut off from her to avoid unnecessary temptations brother.

luminouz:

Don't wonder sis.....its true!!!
If I saw her thru d window how would I then fvck her!!!!
As luck or providence would have it,no one was in d house when I went in....n she just closed(not locked) d door!!!!
But then y should she lock d door when she never imagined I would come along....

Just karma or how fate will have it. Badt guy.

Nma27:
Just karma or how fate will have it. Badt guy.

Na u be my mentor or mentress!!!

luminouz:

Na u be my mentor or mentress!!!

Na. Innocent lady like me? You na Jagaban

I have read this thread from page 1-15 and I have had a filled day.

I hope guys are learning from all this, especially the popular trick girls now use: "I'm a virgin, so no sex"

You can check my profile and see the topic I wrote about issue.

Well, to my story, I haven't really had break ups while dating though, because I know how to systematically make things slow down and favourably for me is the fact that either distance, education, job, etc usually came between me and my girls and I would just slow things down with them, it won't be as if we really broke up but it would be clear we both can do things with serious people in our lives, and then there's that possibility that in the future if we still are ready we would hook up. Till date I'm still close with about 5 of my ex girlfriends.

But there is one girl whom gave me some heartache which molded me into the man I'm today.


While in University I met this lovely girl, my friends thought she was too good to be true and I can't get her, but I did! We got along well for like a year, but at the tail end I started noticing things about her which I suspected she was having something with another guy.

I uncovered some things like messages and her whereabouts but she always denied. I did my investigation and knew she was with an older dude, I just finished Uni and she was in 200, I understood she wanted to get married as she was a first child and around 24 years at then, and the guy around her was kind of comfortable, but this girl would always deny everything, that she still wants us together, I just wanted her to tell me the truth but she didn't and because I loved her deeply I kept enjoying while it last.

One day the dude picked my call and wanted to get all insultive, I calmed his hot head and he had some sense and said he knew about me too and that the girl told him I'm her ex but I don't wanna let her go. Can you see how girls could be so cunning?

I talked to the guy like a man and he had some sense and told me we all should meet to settle everything, even a day before we met I asked her about everything and she swore that there is nothing like that. So I met the dude and his guys and he brought this babe as well to the place, she was shocked I came, she didn't know smart guys were on her trail, that's how everything went down and her and she was exposed.

The dude thanked me like mad, because this was the same girl he was about to go for her traditional marriage in 2 weeks having seen her parents and all, and the icing on the cake was that the girl was a few weeks pregnant! This is the same girl who had sex with me like 2 weeks ago before the whole meeting as well, meaning between I and the guy she can't be so sure who really is the father of the child, fear women o! That's how men father kids who are not theirs.

The dude called off everything and that she must abort the pregnancy because he can't be sure the baby is his, I got to know about this through the lady though, because after the meeting I left and never contacted her because in the meeting she was forming that I'm her ex who doesn't wanna let her go so after the meeting I got up and left and never contacted her again.

The dude didn't marry this girl and she still aborted the pregnancy, she is 29 now and not still married, girls think they can eat their cake and have it. How sad! Like they always do, she still came back to me later on after the whole mess but we what I felt for her was gone.

I laugh at how guys fall for the "I'm a virgin, no sex" trick a lot, 90% of girls who use that trick are either not virgins or don't really like you that much but wanna keep you around and milk you dry financially and never let you taste intimacy with them as they don't see you as worth having it, and the goal of the trick is that you would get tired of waiting and would leave on your own.

After that episode with that girl, I got mature emotionally in handling ladies. There are good girls out there no doubt, but the majority are big scams and lying leeches! Fear women!

sholikay:
well I have never had any break up,but might be having my first break up soonest.. she is my first girlfriend, I cherish her.she is nice,not too pretty but unique..I thought we could maintain a no sex relationship,and she said she is not even moved by any sex,but she is ready to give me when I need it..I said okay.but her attitude always seems wrong whenever she is with me and just two of us alone.I got to know she wants us to be having intimacy which I'm not ready to succumb to now..its been a year plus now and still same attitude of wanting sex.although she has supported me finanacially and materially with my academics..just 9 month ago we have not been seeing each other as usual kus I'm holding a religious post in my school fellowship.whenever we see she will be telling me that when I pass on the religious Post to another in the next two month,that she will now pour out her mind to me fully.I already know its about this sex issue..and I have purposed in my heart that if she makes such complain, it is certain I will cut off with her..I know she is cheating on me,kus I could feel she is a nymphomaniac..some ladies anyway.

With your post, u must a be a religious type in which I adore, buh what if u catch ds your Bae with anoda guy?. Wont u be feel jealous, won't u call her names like cheater, a LovePeddler and etc...? At least, she have told u how intimacy starved she is.. Ones man food is anoda's poison anyway

ojotobiloba1:

With your post, u must a be a religious type in which I adore, buh what if u catch ds your Bae with anoda guy?. Wont u be feel jealous, won't u call her names like cheater, a LovePeddler and etc...? At least, she have told u how intimacy starved she is.. Ones man food is anoda's poison anyway

Don't mind him.

Nma27:
Na. Innocent lady like me? You na Jagaban

Lmaoooooo!!!

ToastedBread pls come share your story

luminouz:

Lmaoooooo!!!

So are you in a relationship now or you chilling for now?

Ferdinandu:
Novice. You dated a Lesbian. She chose her Female friend over you and you are still wondering why she left you

i had to quote this comment because it made me laugh out for real! i swear, the same thing came to my mind when i read his post. i was like "is this guy not smart enough to know he's been fvcking a bisexual all this while?"

LMAO!

Nma27:
ToastedBread pls come share your story

after you. ladies first.

toastedbread:

after you. ladies first.

I don't have any dramatic breakup story. So pls, share yours

Nma27:
I don't have any dramatic breakup story. So pls, share yours

How about that guy that got married to your best friend? isn't it dramatic enuff ?

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How about that guy that got married to your best friend? isn't it dramatic enuff ?

Hmmm
Nawaoo

I have had a number of breakups before I finally settled with my beautiful iyawo, but I'm going to talk about the last breakup.

It was when I had decided to hang my bachelor boots and look for my missing rib that I met this girl whom I dated for a year-plus. I finally gave her my ring after confirming she met up all I required of a wife, but she did something silly.

She requested that - scratch that - she DEMANDED that she MUST pay her ex the final visit. Don't be surprised, this was just the sign I asked God to show me to know if the marriage would be a blissful one or would have rough patches, and Almighty Baba did it.

I told her no problem, you can go, and she foolishly went.

Don't ask me what I did when she came back. Meanwhile, I'm married to another beautiful girl who gave me one bomboy.

Nma27:
Hmmm
Nawaoo

What I hit G- spot ?

Ehen just remembered one.
There was this guy I met, things was okay, d chemistry was great. He asked me to marry him and I didn't think twice before accepting only for us to make our intentions known to family and they told us to ceasefire.
Lolz... We happened to be related somehow and the tie wasn't up to Fourth generation as them old peeps take talk am o.
Well, I gave back his ring and moved on.

I wonder y devil push wrong people our way sometimes. Anyway, life goes on.
ToastedBread I'm waiting o