1StopRudeness:


Poco dey para...

Our mothers including urs ddnt live the life most of these our slay queens are living now...most of our parents marry as virgins which also gives some level of trust to their husbands...

And if I marry, my wife can do wateva she likes just to be sure the man she's with is faithful..even I ddnt do anything to make her suspect me...whats the big deal, if I'm sure I'm clean..i will only laff at her and assure her I'm good to the bones...
we are all humans beings....there is no 1 all humans beings....there is no 100% trust anywhere...pple have used their wife & daughters for rituals and so on.....their is always a little % doubt at the back of the mind...

chibabe259:
Why are some men so dumb to know that DNA test is best done behind their wife?.

Why will a sane man seek the permission of his wife before conducting a DNA test on his children.


lefulefu hope you've done this on your children?.

pocohantas:

Story for the gods...
You'll also laugh when your wife starts policing you around your daughters, after all...men these days are raping their daughters upandan. Trust no one.

1StopRudeness:


yes..i will only laff but never get angry at her for beign cautious...go and look at recent marriages now...once a female child start to clock age 8-10 some mothers start to really take charge and not let the father participate in activities involving the child's nudity.... its not big deal...if u have nothing to hide and no hidden motives....the mother will only do it with wisdom and not attacking the man...just like any man that wants to carry out DNA test should do it with wisdom...

trust is an overrated word....Its the real life situation that determines the extent at which a person can behave..

WORDWORLD:


Comes home very, very late and first thing in the morning he is out. He is rich, married to his money. His wife is just by the way side. Even one of Dangote's wife sought for divorce when she realised he has no time for her. He compensated her with alot of money and let her go. That is a better option than screwing with a FVCK BOY.

tosyne2much:
That's what happen when you place money over your wife. When you starve your wife of attention and quality time, she becomes vulnerable to cheating

pocohantas:

Na you dey your dp?
You dey okay, why you come get bad character?

WORDWORLD:
HENCE, IT ALL ABOUT THE REALITY. There is no big deal about DNA test especially to those who you say havent been living a wayward life. Resemblance is not enough to prove one's child. Blood brothers betray each other. Its been happening for ages. Guess why there is the commandment "THOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY" if not that people have been known to commiting adultery. Your example of the man who married a one time prostitute is nothing but an elaboration of their children's status not a confirmation of who their biological father truely is.

WORDWORLD:


True faithfulness doesnt feel insulted because it has nothing to fear. To put up such as "IT SHOWS A LACK OF TRUST IN MARRIAGE" can only truely mean unfaithfulness. Even Ghana Soccer Stars Odartey Lamtey's wife must have said the same many times before being exposed of her unfaithfulness. A WOMAN WHO IS HONEST SEE NO BIG DEAL IN DNA TEST SHE SEES IT AS NOTHING BUT LIKE GOING TO CHECK ONE'S GENO-TYPE. Time shall come when DNA test will be the next test immediately after birth. It just a matter of time.

1StopRudeness:


yes..i will only laff but never get angry at her for beign cautious...go and look at recent marriages now...once a female child start to clock age 8-10 some mothers start to really take charge and not let the father participate in activities involving the child's nudity.... its not big deal...if u have nothing to hide and no hidden motives....the mother will only do it with wisdom and not attacking the man...just like any man that wants to carry out DNA test should do it with wisdom...

trust is an overrated word....Its the real life situation that determines the extent at which a person can behave..

Sierusvirus:
As a man, talk less and act more. Whether she is faithful or unfaithful, just bear in mind that we have very high percentage of unfaithful wives this days...
You don't need to announce that you are taking your children for DNA. Plan yourself early to know the true picture, if those children are yours, then you have a home and life continues but if not, the early the better you disgrace and push her out of your house.
Is it not better for the man to be happy now by checking his children to know the true picture than be disappointed after 30years knowing they are not yours, at that moment, you have lost.
I feel, don't see it as if she will be happy or not because she ain't thinking as such towards you if actually the children ain't yours.

lovelygurl:
Too many insecure, dumb boys on Nairaland

Sierusvirus:


DNA is necessary.
She is saying about father's raping daughters, what about mothers raping and abusing their sons and pretending not to. Am not just saying it but a true fact

eyinjuege:
Men have been raising bastards since time immemorial.
Even a lot of us commenting need to go and check DNA to confirm if daddy is really father.

Even MKO raised bastards till his death. It was after his death that the wheat was seperated from the chaff

1StopRudeness:


Are u from kenya?? Cos I know Nigerian women don't sleep with their son....unless the for money ritual...and women don't do money rituals as often as men

Sierusvirus:


They do in Nigeria but they don't say. Was discussing about it with my friends and some admitted to that. Guys don't and hardly accept or talk about all this, unlike the females.
The guy's ain't close to their mum because of this, their excuses which made me asking cos guys are usually close to their mum.

1StopRudeness:


I'm not a woman oooo...but I don't believe this...

Amarabae:
The call for DNA Test is an insult to faithful married ladies.
It will be a slap to my face if my husband demand for that.
Also it shows a lack of trust in the marriage.

pocohantas:
All of you on NL, that carry this DNA issue for head, have your fathers done DNA on you and your siblings?

BabbanBura:


why are you trying so hard to speak against DNA?

TheCabal:

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Once a guy marries a non-virgin.. DNA should be compulsory for all the children. Prenup is a must !

pocohantas:
All of you on NL, that carry this DNA issue for head, have your fathers done DNA on you and your siblings?

pocohantas:

Seems understanding is alien to you all.
How is telling you guys to encourage your fathers to do it, speaking against DNA? What are you guys scared of? Why so touchy about the suggestion?

pocohantas:

Seems understanding is alien to you all.
How is telling you guys to encourage your fathers to do it, speaking against DNA? What are you guys scared of? Why so touchy about the suggestion?



I guess you guys fear is training a bastard. Thanks to durex, she will fukc about...but will never bring home a bastard.

If she takes in and isn't sure of the paternity, she would abort it, you would never know and she'll remain your lovely wife. The DNA will always come back in your favour. Have no fear baeby

pocohantas:

Seems understanding is alien to you all.
How is telling you guys to encourage your fathers to do it, speaking against DNA? What are you guys scared of? Why so touchy about the suggestion?



I guess you guys fear is training a bastard. Thanks to durex, she will fukc about...but will never bring home a bastard.

If she takes in and isn't sure of the paternity, she would abort it, you would never know and she'll remain your lovely wife. The DNA will always come back in your favour. Have no fear baeby

Sierusvirus:
As a man, talk less and act more. Whether she is faithful or unfaithful, just bear in mind that we have very high percentage of unfaithful wives this days...
You don't need to announce that you are taking your children for DNA. Plan yourself early to know the true picture, if those children are yours, then you have a home and life continues but if not, the early the better you disgrace and push her out of your house.
Is it not better for the man to be happy now by checking his children to know the true picture than be disappointed after 30years knowing they are not yours, at that moment, you have lost.
I feel, don't see it as if she will be happy or not because she ain't thinking as such towards you if actually the children ain't yours.