Your partner (Husband/wife) of more than 8years of marriage is a chronic/serial liar that refused to change right from the year of the marriage till date, a lie that hurts deeply and difficult to forget even if you have forgiven, even when you have full evidence that he/she did it,he/she will keep telling the lie and can never accept unless you have shown him/her full evidence before he/she will accept.

Next time, he/she will still lie to you, and this has been the trend for the past 8 years. There is no steps that have not been taken for him/her to stop telling lies and amend his/her ways, all to no avail. It is now obvious that its is very hard if not total impossible for him/her to change.

Undoubtedly, the EFFECT is the opposite partner is being engulfed by lack of trust from the partner and has been bearing it in order not to break the marriage and hoping that changes will come for years,but none and now fed up with the marriage of distrust/lack of happiness that defy change of character and is now considering divorce.

Those that understand the meaning of lack of trust in a marriage know how deeply hurt it is. What do you think?

Simple nah

U should turn to a liar as well

no big deal

this is so sad!
how do you end up married to dat kind of person in the first place.

Refer the partner to Liar Mohammed for certification

LUGBE:
Refer the partner to Liar Mohammed for certification

I will start lying too

Hmmmmm

I really don't see why you feel bad about being lied to.
You've lived with this person for 8years and this person lies habitually to you.

Your partner is lying to you out of love.
Any person who lies to you cares about you so much to the extent they'd rather lie than hurt you with the truth.

I honestly think the problem is with you...
Your partner believes you don't deserve being told the truth.
You probably have difficulties handling the truth yet you always demand for it thereby putting your partner in a tight corner.
You have to prove that you can take the truth then you will start getting it.


You could also learn how to lie as well,
Sometimes it's good to give people a taste of their own medicine.
When you've beat your partner to the lying game; he/she would give up and a resolution on truth will be reached.



Lying has it's merits and demerits.
Trust me, in a country like Nigeria where honesty is extinct; a good liar is an asset.

S/he can become a spokesperson in any of the nations political party or an aide to a politician.
Better still; like my guy Lugbe has rightly adviced...ask your partner to partner with Lai Mohammed

That way, the lying will be very productive for your family.

We'll simply go our separate ways.

8 damn years!, u've really tried.
Well for u to voice it now means you have reached a cross road.
Where it is either you continue with Liar Mohammed's daughter or you back off.
If u have kids with her there is a tendency you have a talented inborn liar as a child.

Anyway, here is my advice. Choose anyone,

1. For better for worse-for truth and in lie I will live all my days with you. Stick with the lies, fall in love with them and possess them. Continue with your marriage to the chronic liar. There is a chance that she will outgrow the habit.

2. Opt out as these lies could send you to an early grave if care is not taken and of course it will definitely corrupt your children which may derail their course in life . I am sure u know that Evil manners corrupt good manners(scriptural)

3 . just survive and tolerate her. But come to think of it if you and your liar wife lived to celebrate 70th years wedding anniversary? I can bet my last buck, her lies must have sapped the best out you.

In conclusion.

Choose this day life-truth or death-lie

The choice is yours
There is a yoruba adage that says

Eni bi omo oran lo n pon

All the best friend.

just try to make her see d bad it will bring upon herself and make her stop

Take her to TBJoshusa for special deliverance.

Ugoeze2016:
I will start lying too

Na competition?

now how do silly mistakes like this happen? What happened to courtship? Or isn't the span meant to check compatibility?... If you end up with that kind of person all you can do is pray... Trust is the basics of anything ... But people ignore vital things like this well everyone with their own cup of nescafe

I will Use and dump her

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Since it's not the federal govt, I'd breakup with the partner jare

this question shouldn't be asked twice... lies/liars... something I can't stand or condone at all!


I will bounce immediately!

Give her the boot. I can't stomach liars.

Just be looking at him/her....

lols
I dream of having a smart wife..
having a too honest wife will be boring, I live figuring things out... it's challenging and exciting, Naturally I am very honest... so while she should enjoy my honesty, I want to enjoy her cunningness...

Knowing that lying entails u, Putin urself in the others brain and mind. to know what will make him believe u, n hw to manipulate it to be surreal...
I feel people who know how to lie convincingly are the smartest folks out there... I want to hv super kids.. so I am for the best.
#DeceptionIsAnArt.

It is impossible for me to have a chronic liar as partner. It won't even happen.

1StopRudeness that doesn't mind if his wife doesn't trust him, abeg...come and comment. I know in your case you didn't do anything, but share your tips on how to laugh over distrust.

I always have this piece of advice "people don't change we only grow older" I wld walk out before before you blow me 3lies

Well, I have a lot to say and nothing to say. Only weak-willed souls surffers this type of fate. 8 days, 8 weeks, 8 months, 8 years... too long a time to make up one's mind. Everyone deserves to be happy in life, no one should be tied to another person whose aim in life is to make them surffer endlessly. OP, indecision is also a decision, your complain is childish and....