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Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Algebral(m): 11:20pm On Jul 18, 2017
come and receive the Divine Knowledge of MAHARAJ JI for your eyes to open and see the solution by urself
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jul 18, 2017
Am only intrested in virgins, and you are clearly not even in my consideration list grin

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You be waka waka baby (oh yes)
You be chuku chuku baby (oh yes)

Ashawo, awusha
Awusha, ashawo
Ashawo, awusha, kpom kpom
Ehn, ehn, ehn, ehn, ehn, ehn, ikpom kpom

P.S i just want to spite you, i dislike women who sleep around , its nothing personal grin
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Oyecute(m): 11:23pm On Jul 18, 2017
SolexxBarry:
It might be that your vjay smells awfully,no pun intended
Most ladies dont take note of this and it is a big turn off to guys no matter how beautiful the babe is....... #experience

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Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by amdoyin82(m): 11:23pm On Jul 18, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
All these things happen to you because you think opening your legs for a man you love would keep him tied down to you forever. I can guess you open them too early than most girls do which is wrong. The logic IS;

When you get into a relationship with a man, first, focus on building that relationship with him, work towards making him see you as a wife material as past experiences may have diverted his ways of thought towards woman and make him see you as no different from the others other than as a sex object. Show him love, care and attention and monitor to see if he'll do same. See if he'll detach himself little by little because you've not offered sex, see if he's reciprocating the love, care, attention and commitment even more than you do, take things easy, don't be too demanding, show him that you love him genuinely without pretence and study his behaviour when he asks for sex the first time and you refuse, if he still hangs around, then when in a romantic scenario, ask him if he loves you, if he says yes with seriousness and ask you why you had to ask, then explain to him how you have been hurt by pple you trust and love in the past and how you don't want to go through that path again... I'm sure if he's a man and not a furckboy, he'll see the right to love you and even care for you more and make you see the difference between him and those you dated in the past.

Good luck dear.

Sex should come last, take note.
wash! keeping herself holy does not guarantee deep and materialistic relationship. It will only keep a sex addict with good iintentions away from her. Character and presentation matters a lot too.

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Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Xfemt(m): 11:24pm On Jul 18, 2017
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice
it ur choice call me if u wish let talk 08065500452 dnt get it twisted
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by tobrinskilanski: 11:28pm On Jul 18, 2017
Harinholar:
Not sure this post is real....
wil u believe me if i tell u i ve seen/straffed a gal like that b4?
The gal became so unattractive the moment we were done.
Itz more spiritual than physical.
do u ve to believe a story before u give advice??
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Livefreeordieha(m): 11:30pm On Jul 18, 2017
ur head is validly validated upon ur shoulders..indeed u are radically blunt grin
RadicallyBlunt:
Really? To be sincere with you if its not spiritual which I don't think it is, then its your character.

I said so because once a girl have sex with you, they just start believing that they've done you a great favour and unconsciously start trying to be in control of the relationship..this is something all guys can relate to. Only few girls maintain d tenderness that first attracted the guy to her even after sex and that's what inspires the guy to show more care.

When I meet such girl I usually have patience for a 2nd sex, after that I vapourize off. My long relationships are with girls that are simply feminine.

Other factors may include body odour, parasitic demands, lack of exposure, your disposition in public, level of neatness etc
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by doughziay: 11:30pm On Jul 18, 2017
Pheals:
u want to check her out also? ....op maybe ANIMASHAUN

I like your seat belt.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by TopGunFighter: 11:30pm On Jul 18, 2017
See the truth is that me as a man if I can ask you out and after 3 dates I bleep you my dear I am gone becuase you wiould have sold yourself cheap in my sight but so also this does not apply to all men. You cookie jar should be the last thing your open I am sure that you don't jack Shit about most of these dudes.. if you can't get intimate with somebody just by having a conversation and staying together excepts he bleeps you then you are just a bleeping buddy this I not to insult you or make you feel low of your self but you need to think your decision wisely. I have been in a relationship for 3 years and I haven't bleeped her not becuase I don't want to but she hasn't agreed yet and I have come to terms with it
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Nobody: 11:30pm On Jul 18, 2017
My spidey senses dey tell me say this na ladyF grin,roast the fish in your konjas so it will smell tastier
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Eluwilussit(m): 11:31pm On Jul 18, 2017
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice

Stop sleeping around. cool
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Zeusd3(m): 11:33pm On Jul 18, 2017
Let me advice you.... It is not a most you would have to be in a relationship even if you do .. calibrate... You can be single and happy.... Live right and appear right... Be single but not lonely and work on yourself.. Surprisingly you would attract the very one who isn't after ya body....
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by jjjjj2017: 11:33pm On Jul 18, 2017
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice
nairaland mods just give you cheap popularity?
You would have made more sales from your signature.
You wey be say na 8inch rod be your 3rd leg?
komtinue.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by jjjjj2017: 11:34pm On Jul 18, 2017
youmour:
My spidey senses dey tell me say this na ladyF grin,roast the fish in your konjas so it will smell tastier
this is not ladyf, op is a man promoting his signature.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Eluwilussit(m): 11:35pm On Jul 18, 2017
TopGunFighter:
See the truth is that me as a man if I can ask you out and after 3 dates I bleep you my dear I am gone becuase you wiould have sold yourself cheap in my sight but so also this does not apply to all men. You cookie jar should be the last thing your open I am sure that you don't jack Shit about most of these dudes.. if you can't get intimate with somebody just by having a conversation and staying together excepts he bleeps you then you are just a bleeping buddy this I not to insult you or make you feel low of your self but you need to think your decision wisely. I have been in a relationship for 3 years and I haven't bleeped her not becuase I don't want to but she hasn't agreed yet and I have come to terms with it

Are you sure you are not wasting your time? 3 years is a long time to be in a relationship without any activities. Abi you de do outside?
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by kaywhy09(m): 11:36pm On Jul 18, 2017
Henceforth, I repeat, henceforth, be 'just a friend' to every guys that comes your way, and always be yourself. Act as if you never want any man in your life! Male friends will discover you.

Per chance, one of your male friends might trip for what many ran away from in you. Anyway, invite me to your wedding.

But wait o, hope you aren't in 200l[center][/center]
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Livefreeordieha(m): 11:36pm On Jul 18, 2017
something tells me whoever composed that pooo u just quoted is an ancestor or almost at the finish line...any girl that tries that now will end up like kemi olunoyo,rita dominic,,,etc..kolewerkkkkkkkkk...what makes guys leave girlz is more than all diz xrap..
amdoyin82:
wash! keeping herself holy does not guarantee deep and materialistic relationship. It will only keep a sex addict with good iintentions away from her. Character and presentation matters a lot too.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by bababeejay: 11:36pm On Jul 18, 2017
You stink down there. Go get medical advice. I am talking from experience. I did it once with a girl, I withdrew and the most horrific smell hit me in the nose like antony joshua's blow. I walked away and never looked back

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Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Etemma1(m): 11:37pm On Jul 18, 2017
internationalman:
I'm in this category of men.
I don't know how will get married bcoz I always tend to develop a sudden hate for a lady after having my way with her like d OP said.

Your own is spiritual.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Harinholar(f): 11:38pm On Jul 18, 2017
tobrinskilanski:


wil u believe me if i tell u i ve seen/straffed a gal like that b4?

The gal became so unattractive the moment we were done.

Itz more spiritual than physical.

do u ve to believe a story before u give advice??
okayyyyy....Now that you are talking from experience....#I believe the post#....Am I free naw?
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by tit(f): 11:39pm On Jul 18, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
All these things happen to you because you think opening your legs for a man you love would keep him tied down to you forever. I can guess you open them too early than most girls do which is wrong. The logic IS;

When you get into a relationship with a man, first, focus on building that relationship with him, work towards making him see you as a wife material as past experiences may have diverted his ways of thought towards woman and make him see you as no different from the others other than as a sex object. Show him love, care and attention and monitor to see if he'll do same. See if he'll detach himself little by little because you've not offered sex, see if he's reciprocating the love, care, attention and commitment even more than you do, take things easy, don't be too demanding, show him that you love him genuinely without pretence and study his behaviour when he asks for sex the first time and you refuse, if he still hangs around, then when in a romantic scenario, ask him if he loves you, if he says yes with seriousness and ask you why you had to ask, then explain to him how you have been hurt by pple you trust and love in the past and how you don't want to go through that path again... I'm sure if he's a man and not a furckboy, he'll see the right to love you and even care for you more and make you see the difference between him and those you dated in the past.

Good luck dear.

Sex should come last, take note.

i likes this post.
the next mugu that comes,
just bend your head one side,
look him up and down with your eye shadow, and mascara,
then tell him that you are 1000-yard-wife-material ooo

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Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by dipznano: 11:39pm On Jul 18, 2017
emakoji:
Since you already know, then stop having sex with them. Wait after the wedding. My advice


So her husband can come and leave her after honeymoon abi?? grin
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by therapistmrs: 11:39pm On Jul 18, 2017
I think you need to ask yourself the simple true, which is *what kind of people do you attract?
*and most importantly Dress the way you want to addressed
*Evaluate yourself sincerely and work on that.
*Don't focus on sex but work on you and you 'll attract a Real man eventually.
All the best.
therapistmrs..com
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by willibounce1(m): 11:40pm On Jul 18, 2017
Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.




Please I need advice


After the first time? aunty your to.to dey smell. Go and see a gynaecologist
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by tobrinskilanski: 11:41pm On Jul 18, 2017
Benita27:
Vagina odour?, yes!.
what is your advice?? are u speakin 4rm experience?
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by iamwoods(m): 11:41pm On Jul 18, 2017
Pheals:
kuku tell her na only asshole attract asshole simple!
i tire o abi wetin be asshole all over na
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Yeligray(m): 11:41pm On Jul 18, 2017
Sister, stop opening your legs for flies to come in. Are you a book?
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by iamwoods(m): 11:42pm On Jul 18, 2017
dipznano:



So her husband can come and leave her after honeymoon abi?? grin
guy u get brain o are u related with baba bubu
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by MTKbudapest(m): 11:43pm On Jul 18, 2017
commit it unto God in prayer, there is nothing God cannot do. But hey dont do what other girls does in other to blend or be like them keep ur cool cos everything has time. With fasting and prayer u will overcome.
Re: Men Always Leave Me After Having Their Way The First by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jul 18, 2017
tobrinskilanski:

what is your advice?? are u speakin 4rm experience?
You could get tips from Google if need be. All such women need is proper hygiene, and I wasn't speaking from experience but common knowledge.

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