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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goodfortun(f): 2:30pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Damsel21: Depends on the kind of wedding that was conducted. If twas in a registry / church you have to get a lawyer and apply for a divorce at the high court of the state where you're based. The lawyer will put you through. If you did traditional; based on your custom you must return the bride price back to the groom's family and if any paper was issued like a marriage certificate you can take that to a customary court in the area you live for the marriage to be properly dissolved and issues like child custody to be dealt with. If Islamic ask from your clerics for proper procedure. If in the north just head to the sharia court in your locality and apply for dissolution. Assuming your marriage certificate is not with you but you have a photocopy or even if not, go to the registry where the wedding took place and ask for a CTC which has the same effect as an original and take that to court for the divorce. But it's best you engage a lawyer who will do the work. 4 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by peggygee: 2:31pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
He will turn in Jesus name .Amen, I told him I'm his mother, who have gone tru a lot in these few and slow months anticipating his birth, I told him...he is not permitted to stay breech cox i gave up so much to make sure he is fine, I also told him I bore all his kicks so he should listen to no other voice but God Almighty, mine and his Father's. I sweet talked him, and gave him direct instructions, and thank God he he listened. (Dnt mind mybusing him oooo...I'm trusting God for a him) Do same, you and hubby, talk to his creator ...he will obey you. Awaiting r good news. Burntcoal: 5 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Burntcoal(f): 2:35pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
peggygee: thanks God bless u. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
goodfortun:thank u ma d marriage was not a court wedding I was nikhai which d dowry was paid in mosque d problem now is that d divorce letter must be from d town where d wedding took place is really confusing d lawyer said I will have to go d town to get d letter am not based there can't I get it where am based? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Giddyperson: 3:05pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
beyedew:I love chewing garden egg leaf like that. Maybe this is why I ignored all my prenatals and still had no pcv issues. Recently I used it to cook yam/vegetable with ugba for MIL, she loved it, I hated it. You can make abacha and just sprinkle the leaf on it. You can make boiled yam and spice red oil then just put the leaf in it like roadside roasted yam sellers put utazi. You can use it in place of ugu to cook okro. I prefer options number 2 and 3 cuz then u don't cook the leaf at all, but if you want to cook, make sure to turn off the heat as soon as you put the leaf to avoid 'killing' it. Oh and update since people keep sharing this post. adding condensed milk to the juice purged her so you may not want to try that 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ahnie: 3:43pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Giddyperson:I carry Beyonce Hand for you....when I read about your udara(African cherry)xploits.Damn dame...you are one helluva babe. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mignone(f): 3:54pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Damsel21:The authorities would most of the time advise d couple to try settling amicably first and/or involve (family) elders (dunno in d case of d.v tho); if after then d situation is still d same, they return to 'court'. The process is somewhat long sha&I guess d couple must have lived apart for at least 2yrs before a dissolution can be granted but just like u've been advised, seek counsel from a lawyer so that u can pick stuffs u need from d house in d mean time. pls sisters, this is a lesson to us all. when we av to leave a place for certain negative reasons, let's endeavour to go with our valuables, original credentials especially cos it may not be easy retreiving them when eye eventually clear/come down. no one prays to av issues in marriage bt shit happens &it may nt even be in marriage.I av seen many&they were all tough times for d affected, mostly women. damsel21 sis, the Almighty will see u fru. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Giddyperson: 4:05pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
ahnie:Lol I consider that shit my first son it was real labour 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lady25(f): 4:11pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
beyedew: I beg you in the almighty name of God. Eat whatever you have to eat to avoid pcv issues. I'm current receiving my second pint of blood. Both I and my baby are fine but i have learnt my lesson the hard way. Don't be like me o. I refused to eat well 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 4:21pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
mignone:Thank u sis I understand d family has not shown any interest of discussion no one from them.a and he doesn't want to release my documents.i have involved a lawyer I know it will take time.but I will scale Tru with is kind of attitude God knows how many wives ur family will choose for u Mr allknowing1 I know u are reading all my post show it to them as usual. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ahnie: 4:26pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Damsel21: Babe z this necessary....?you want him to tail you to this thread again to sprew rubbish?Haba cool down. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
ahnie:sorry to say sis he's viewing and I know what he will be doing am sorry if going off track Agony of a pained girl u won't understand 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Dazzle86(f): 4:50pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Giddyperson:See this woman, are you daring me!!!! You are lucky nothing major has happened except a girl wiping out the Freys totally. Giddyperson:See this woman, are you daring me!!!! You are lucky nothing major has happened except a girl wiping out the Freys totally. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by goodfortun(f): 4:58pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Damsel21: Well since that's the practice; you can spare timeto go to the mosque where twas conducted and make inquiries there about dissolution so you'll cover the bases. They'll probably invite both parties and take it from there. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Dazzle86(f): 5:00pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
lady25:Thanks for the advice mama. Please what was your pcv before delivery, was it low, is that what necessitated transfusion? |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Giddyperson: 5:18pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Dazzle86:Haha you are lucky that happened in season 6 already else you'd be serving out your one year ban now 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by HolySteph(f): 5:22pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
hunniesuzie:Thank you so much. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Dazzle86(f): 5:23pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Giddyperson:You know nothing Giddyperson Giddyperson:You know nothing Giddyperson 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by forzarush(f): 5:32pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Beyedew,mama pele. Just try. If u eat okro u cud add it sliced at the last minute and garnish well with fish and/or crayfish. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by HolySteph(f): 5:36pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Naomi14:Aiit. Thank you. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beyedew(f): 5:46pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Thanks to you mamas @ Giddyperson- first son indeed. Thanks ma for all the options you listed. You try gan Lady25- thanks ma, I will. Perfect healing is yours in Jesus name, Amen. Forzarush- thanks mammy . |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ahnie: 6:02pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Damsel21:Quite understood.....you wee bee fyne. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ahnie: 6:12pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
How do ppl even get low pcv sef...i delivered in one health centre like that...they just asked us to buy urine test tube,wee piss inside it...then them pierced our fingers...collect our blood samples...then collect 100 9ra from us,then we go for palpation.case close ? Is....since they behaved that way....how can a preggers check for her pcv welda it z low or high Cc :giddyperson,zaynie,soonest,tchiwinnie and the rest mamas. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by hunniesuzie: 6:17pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
If it was low they would have told you. You can ask for result after they take your blood ahnie: |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 6:57pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
goodfortun:noted thank you ma 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lady25(f): 7:00pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Dazzle86:I'm still pregnant o.4 and a half months. My pcv dropped from 26 to 23%. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lady25(f): 7:02pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
ahnie: Go to any medical laboratory. Tell them u want to do pcv test. But the little I know is that if u don't eat well and eat properly in pregnancy u might have it. Also if u don't take iron supplements 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Please don't derail the thread again. Thank you! Damsel21: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
The blood sample the lab attendant took, he/she must have checked for your pcv level. But if you want to know your current percentage, you can go to a good Lab and have the test done. ahnie: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ahnie: 8:32pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Naomi14: No need having it done again.... Babe how x vigi things la? |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Giddyperson: 8:42pm On Jul 19, 2017 |
Naomi14:Aww this is harsh nah 15 Likes |
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