Being an introvert comes with some down sides, as an introvert I have my own challenges or should I call it excesses lol.
I miss my chances on getting that pretty crush of mine, I fear rejection and I am yet to device a means of handling such when it occurs, even though when the green light is at its peak.
Another one is that I find it hard to maintain closer relationship with people, they complain I don't call them, truth is I prefer texting instead.
Share yours too lets know ourselves better.

I believe if the right one comes, introveted or whatever u ll man up to talk to her...
Life is not too complex as it might seem...


As an introvet, i like being alone but when i dont want to be alone... I dont see anyone to be with cos i cant keep friends...
Sad story..hun..

I don't like hanging out with many people like crowd. I love my quiet time.

I dont like leaving my house....... Meeting new people scares the sh*t out of me.....

Well, I don't fear rejection. I try to calculate the situation before I push. But being an introvert, I don't have time for meaningless relationships.

Staying out for long makes me unhappy..
Going out can be so frustrating, annoying, let's just stay at home Eat popcorn and watch movies, wetin i wan use cinema do ....

But it has cost me alot, I have missed opportunities, words I'll rehearse :Din my head, but wouldn't be able to say it out, memories i couldn't gain....I wouldn't want any of my child to be one.....


Introverts don't mind staying in another planet where they can be aliens, the world seems too populated to them
But i love them because THEY CARE, THEY CARE MORE THAN THEY SHOULD.....i give them A1 When it comes to taking care of others, even if they don't like you.....


Tell an introvert your secret, it's save for life,they barely have time to gossip
Commonly used word :I DON'T KNOW

Divay22:
Staying out for long makes me unhappy..

Op have you completed that your story

so you have been following without dropping a comment, lol. More updates coming makai Go buy 100naira airtel recharge card use buy 10mb data come finish am sis.

iPrevail:
Thread for people with complexes

lol, we are just being programmed differently by our creator, we are nice people to be with though, just that people don't understand us, sometimes they mistake our silence mood to keeping malice or...something. some people say we are weird, maybe they are right though.

I find it difficult to make friends...
When I do I just snub them just like that.
People think say I get pride but Na lie I'm one of the most simple person on earth.
Just the introvert thing

Cleopatra4:
I find it difficult to make friends...
When I do I just snub them just like that.
People think say I get pride but Na lie I'm one of the most simple person on earth.
Just the introvert thing

Why do we find it hard to keep friends?? like i lose friends almost every month... Nd they b lyk m complicated

hinky:


Why do we find it hard to keep friends?? like i lose friends almost every month... Nd they b lyk m complicated

Yeah...
I feel we attract d opposite of us.
Don't like crowd.
Can't stand a noisy environment likewise lousy people..
Just prefer staying at home when I'm not busy..
Sometimes I wonder if na like this I go take see husband

I use to be a chronic introvert. I hid a whole lots of feelings so that I won't offend anybody. I talk less. It took me two years after my secondary d school days to confront a girl. I have outgrown some of those behaviours now and you can mistake me now for a talkative.

hinky:
I believe if the right one comes, introveted or whatever u ll man up to talk to her...
Life is not too complex as it might seem...


As an introvet, i like being alone but when i dont want to be alone... I dont see anyone to be with cos i cant keep friends...
Sad story..hun..

...and introverted girls are ALWAYS pretty and intelligent.

I love being alone sometimes

I have missed a lot of opportunities(relationship wise) because of this my nature...I ave lots of stories to tell but each time I remember them I just feel defeated and stupid because some of the green lights would be so glaring (full current) but I just could not make that first move.

Cleopatra4:
Yeah... I feel we attract d opposite of us. Don't like crowd. Can't stand a noisy environment likewise lousy people.. Just prefer staying at home when I'm not busy.. Sometimes I wonder if na like this I go take see husband

Same.... People take me for anti social nd boring... But funny enough m lots of fun to be with ;'(

Brown14:

...and introverted girls are ALWAYS pretty and intelligent.

Same with the guys... And also there is a difference between a timid person and an introvert

hinky:
I believe if the right one comes, introveted or whatever u ll man up to talk to her...
Life is not too complex as it might seem...

If she knows that she is the RIGHT one, why shouldn't SHE approach him and talk to him instead?

I don't trust people and I feel people are judgemental because you are not as cool as they are.

hinky:


Why do we find it hard to keep friends?? like i lose friends almost every month... Nd they b lyk m complicated

You don't need much friends anyway.

I talk a little less than necessary. But laugh alot.
I have few friends whom I cherish. I stand in for my friends.
I avoid crowd because I just can't raise my voice like a tout.
I adore my quiet moments. It's for self-recharging.
I trust easily. This could be my weakness.

People say I'm an introvert. Others sighted pride. But for me, it's neither. It's just the way I chose to be. I could chose to be otherwise.

i think my challenge as an introvert is that i think too much.
Pay too much attention to the little things.

hinky:


Same with the guys...
And also there is a difference between a timid person and an introvert

Lol true because timidity is a whole nother level of shy.being an introvert is a kind of personality but being timid is like an habit.

I don't know how to ask mofeoluwadassah(that mumu girl) out.

Afhounja:


If she knows that she is the RIGHT one, why shouldn't SHE approach him and talk to him instead?

Some girls feel they might be belittling themselves or the guy might friendzone her... Its not only guys that are afraid of being friendzoned you know

Cleopatra4:

Yeah...
I feel we attract d opposite of us.
Don't like crowd.
Can't stand a noisy environment likewise lousy people..
Just prefer staying at home when I'm not busy..
Sometimes I wonder if na like this I go take see husband

lol @bolded.. Buh truthfully, introverts can't keep friends no matter how they try.. I don't even know how to talk to people on phone.. I hardly pick calls. Damn.. Buh have worked on myself and things are better now and i believe you can do that too.. And maybe you don't even need to stress yourself buh pray to God instead and let Him bring your husband to you instead. You don't have to strive with God. Husband will come looking for you..

Elkay3:


You don't need much friends anyway.

Yh,i am trying to make few friends now
..

Brown14:


Lol true because timidity is a whole nother level of shy.being an introvert is a kind of personality but being timid is like an habit.

True... An introvert can speak out in crowds if given a reason or chance

hinky:


Some girls feel they might be belittling themselves or the guy might friendzone her... Its not only guys that are afraid of being friendzoned you know

adonbelifit.. Are you for real?

Inanna:
I don't like people

I can so relate to this. And I've been beating myself up about it. But your honesty is encouraging.

paybak:
adonbelifit.. Are you for real?

Yhs... We re very few tho... Very few...
unlike guys