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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by tobbie247(m): 8:37pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG:yeah...I'm dating my laptop. 6 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
meelorlah: Wow! I can relate with most of this. I'm allergic to parties even if I'm forced to attend, I will just sit at a corner observing everyone yet, hiding my eyes from meeting someone else's own. I don't know how to keep friends, maximum of 3 months, I would be bored and tired, that their calls won't even move me. I don't miss people. Highly emotional and I trust people even at first sight. 10 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
pterson: This particular last part happened to me yesterday. Rummie was to collect an award in a dinner party. After paying for the award, he got broke and I paid for the tickets and drinks , only for me to decided not to attend again. They tot it was a joke until I took a stroll till they left for the party. Many attimes, I used to fee like hitting the cinema or parties but the fear of the crowd do turns me off and if I manage to attend, I will just miss my steps on entering with the tot that everyone looking at me. Chai 15 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
tobbie247:bro go out and find a girl jhoor Take your time though, if you are new to the game Don't rush cause some girls can spot a rookie from a distance 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
drunkpunk:Social media... Socializing in d internet |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
..... Double post.... |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by tobbie247(m): 8:46pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG: I'm naturally too seriously with everything I do. how far? send me your number let's talk. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
tobbie247:bro why my number now? I think you should get a chicks number jare Only a chick can tell you how to get a chick Don't you think 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by tobbie247(m): 8:48pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Neyoor: see my people oh! |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by pryme(m): 8:49pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
wins18: At some point in life, you will realize why you give a fvck in the first place. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by pterson(m): 8:50pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Neyoor:We're on the same wavelength bro. Someone noticed and confronted me sef so I had so spill the beans as to why I didn't come. The told me I missed so much but it can't beat the peace I would get being alone... 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
tobbie247: You nkor.. Can u approach a lady in public. Me I will just turn to a stutterer 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kuchikau1: 8:51pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
I dnt date gals dat Menstruates. Gals wey blood dey comot frm deir toto every 28days. Spits |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by tobbie247(m): 8:52pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
sunshineG:haba now...I wasn't asking your number for that. just for normal talks. I have my laptop already... thank you. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Ghosttt(m): 8:53pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
I can't imagine myself being an introvert. The tot of it makes me |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
My boyfriend/husband must be an extrovert. I Can't continue living in a shell. I need to explore the world and see it in all dimensions and perspectives. Introverts tend to view the world from only one point of view- loud, scary, discomforting and unnerving when in actual fact there's more to it. There's the good, exciting, dynamic and interesting part of it. I want to see life and people this way. Although I can't help but just think of how amazing it would be if I end up with someone that's just like me. Where we don't need to have conversations, there'd be comfort in our silences, we'd spend long hours indoors doing introvert things. where we could spend long hours together without saying a word but understanding each other's thought perfectly well, where we'd decline every invitation to attend whatever event because we'd rather stay home and read a good book or just enjoy the comfort of being secluded . Where we'd not really have any friends because we are more than enough company for each other. Who else can relate? 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:55pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
tobbie247: |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by tobbie247(m): 8:56pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Neyoor: well...If we have something in common. say, she's reading a book I like or I had seen her somewhere before. but on a random, I don't think I'd do that. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 8:57pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Inanna:are you an introvert ? I can't believe it ? |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by tobbie247(m): 8:59pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Inanna: me... 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by ORIJIN201(m): 9:02pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Being an introvert unfortunately, never make friends except we have something in common or have thesame area of interest like being in thesame department in school or we are fans of the same soccer team. I used to be afraid of rejection, but after being rejected by 2 girls, now I can handle it. To be honest this world and it's people can be very unforgiving. To be able to suppress my true nature I chose to be humorous when am in school although I have a good sense of humor, I want pple around me to have a good laugh and enjoy their selves when am around. But I don't get close enough for you to know me, I only let you know what I want you to know. Where am living its more than a year now I don't have any friends. So its a diff. Scenario when am home just me and my self in my playing game on my laptop or doing something else or am here on nairaland. I have just been rejected by a girl I really like a lot, been trying a lot to let her see I have good intentions. Was talking to her today in the middle of a convo she just told me to keep quiet tried to say a word again she told me to keep shut lol, didn't say anything till I left (we were walking together in a pack) it was quite embarrassing. Didn't say anything to her she felt guilty and kept looking at me all through till I left. Because I told her my feelings she just misbehaves and feels she is entitled to do anything she likes, but guess what I will leave it to her, there are other girls out there. 14 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 9:02pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
tobbie247: Hmmmmn. You still try but yet u r not man enough |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Don't be deceived by my abrasive attitude here. It's just a facade. I'm actually ridiculously reserved and anti-everybody. Lol. sunshineG: |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by tobbie247(m): 9:05pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Neyoor: thank you. I don't need to know all the ladies in the world |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by wins18(m): 9:11pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
meelorlah:lol, funny enough we all have same issues, work on it, try to force yourself out of your shell until it becomes part of you, countless opportunities has been missed because of this lifestyle of ours, The light in you is not meant to be kept under the roof, or at your bed of comfort. Shine your light for all to see, never allow anyone to dull your sparkle, we are all destined to be great in life but all this pose as limitations on our way, so I urge everyone to comeout, shine your light, explore the world, conquer more territories and broaden your horizon! #peace 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Inanna:I am so surprised oo, I almost can't believe you But why do you throw all those insults? |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
wins18: It is easier said than done. Just think about the comfortability and peace of mind that would be hindered if one struggled to move out of the shell. How about the impression that is synonymous to low self esteem, like a situation where u will be cornered in a dilemma that what if" they don't like me, they don't appreciate it or it doesn't go well with them. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by meelorlah(f): 9:23pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
tobbie247:[left][/left] hmmm, you're sounding like you're not really pleased with who you really are....they could be rheorics though |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Just because I'm an introvert doesn't mean I can't be foul-mouthed. Plus like I told you before, I get irritated by bullshit easily. sunshineG: 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by wins18(m): 9:35pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
Neyoor:Yea, I once harboured those thoughts too, but who cares wether they like you or not bro, truth is that everybody is not gonna like you no matter how good you are, just don't bother at all. Know your right and never give in to intimidation, mantain your stance and fight for your right. You have every right to be happy and enjoy the world you are in, so the only person who has that key, and that can quarantee it is you! #HAKUNA MATATA 6 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by dstringer: 9:41pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
I dn get it.when u all say u don't like to attend party.I'm an introvert and I love to attend parties.a moment I could be so quiet and d next I'd be disturbing d neighbours from our closet continent wit my noise. I once had a situation where I sat close a group of people at an event without talking.but when I started my own d girl close to me was like.I thought u don't know how to talk.after d event she was like i want to knw u Nd ur place kind of stuff.Nd she follewed me home even though I stylishly insisted she shouldn't .d tin we had didn't last long though I get bored easily Nd tend to walk away to a fresh challenge. PS.dnt be decurved introverts are not boring they are d funniest people to be with but sadly the choose wu they want to be with from my own experience dnt change who u are BT try to be a better version of who u are 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by tobbie247(m): 9:44pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
meelorlah: it's not that I'm not pleased with who I am. I am perfectly normal. I just ask funny questions sometimes. I asked those because it's quite hard being an introvert in Nigeria. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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