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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 12:05am On Jul 21, 2017 |
sunshineG:Don't be surprised, most of these people who talk more online - Nairaland and Facebook - are actually introverts. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by espn(m): 12:06am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Inanna:u b witch now.. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by espn(m): 12:07am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Rorachy:hmmm..maybe u lack self confidence? If u don't like bin in d midst for crowd..or prob u r too shy!! |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by iamcy(m): 12:08am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I frigging hate parties.... programming is a solace. immediately after secondary school I just disappeared. I all my mates have no idea where to find me. I didn't get any one's contacts. just one or two. intelligent and cool looking dude in my opinion. single perhaps due to the introvert thing. need to work on that... lol 5 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 12:08am On Jul 21, 2017 |
SPEEDEPITOME:you may be right |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by dmgr(m): 12:08am On Jul 21, 2017 |
wins18: thank u for this |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by martineverest(m): 12:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
pryme:U have OCD |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by espn(m): 12:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:okay can we be friends? Snubbing tins as expected! |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 12:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
SPEEDEPITOME: There are things involved here and the op failed to differentiate them 1. Been an introvert 2. Been shy 3. Not been out spoken. You are a victim of Just one, the major threat of been an introvert is they are easily bored and Many of them are realist, the world doesn't really like realists, so you end up losing friends as an introvert. You need to marry an extrovert who is shy but outspoken to balance your relationship. Udo 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Eastatlantaniqqa(m): 12:10am On Jul 21, 2017 |
feyiflutist:Please don't rather try to encourage him to work on his flaw(s) |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by micxwell(m): 12:11am On Jul 21, 2017 |
wins18:They mistake it for PRIDE o |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by espn(m): 12:11am On Jul 21, 2017 |
wins18:@ OP..introvert + extrovert + anyvert..na as holy spirit bring am I dey do.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by micxwell(m): 12:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:Exactly.... |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by malificent(f): 12:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I hate people. I am indoorsy, I barely go out. I prefer being home with a few close acquaintances than being in a crowd. I avoid people. People think I'm weird and I think that's a compliment. I love my solitude, it's addictive. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 12:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
SPEEDEPITOME: 90 percent of them are introverts but some are shy and some are not outspoken outside the internet |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by TrollTrap: 12:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I don't even know what I am sef and I still dgaf 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by RSVP: 12:13am On Jul 21, 2017 |
You people should disown me now oo... I don't wanna be like you. Lol. Anyone here hate people who show off?? I can't stand dem! why would you inconvenience yourself becuz you want to oppress others? It doesn't make any sense to me. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by MayorOlohLo1(m): 12:14am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I tend to always have a serious look on my face, makes people avoid me, always scared to interact with me. I once shut a girl up with a look.. meanwhile for my mind I not dey vess, just dey indifferent. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 12:15am On Jul 21, 2017 |
The reality of been an extrovert is you don't have time for abstract things like the internet unless you doing business or catching up. Its allowed to be an introvert Its allowed to be shy But its never allowed for you not to be outspoken. You would lose a lot of opportunities 5 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 12:15am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I'm an introvert and I feel cool about it.. I hate being the centre of attention to a group of people and I hardly speak very loud....I do well when it comes to one on one or interpersonal relationship.... but trust me it became a problem when I left the country for another country where most people are extrovert and very social...and being an introvert just won't help as someone close to me said I was sending people away from myself I didn't have a choice than to try and adjust...that was when I realised I was having social anxiety (phobia) and I seek for help. Most people who see themselves as introvert are also suffering from this phobia.....it has to do with d part of the brain that controls pain...the amygdala.... Read up the symptoms of this phobia and u might find it helpful... I'm currently saving up to see a psychologist.. .but with what I'm doing right now....I've seen positive changes and I relate better. 7 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Elkay3: 12:17am On Jul 21, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez: Writing...poem? Novel? Diary? Which one? |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Uniqueness01(f): 12:17am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I don't keep friends, don't go to parties whether birthday or wedding even when I am among the bridal train or asoebi I don't attend receptions because I don't like staying out for long...my tailor will be vexing that all this your body and style I am making for you suppose bring more customers for me o I will belike I go try and people will think I am forming And when I finally go out people will belike where this girl dey since....... Now that I am working,after office my house straight 6 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 12:17am On Jul 21, 2017 |
barallanee: Lovely eye balls As an introvert, I like to be alone and not alone. I keep very few friends that we are benefiting one thing or the other from each other. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Heterodox(m): 12:18am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky:On the contrary, the contrary is the case. People find it hard to keep you as friends. You know what, no matter how one day, someone will appreciate you for being you. If Introverts are complaining, what do schizoid like us do? |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by MisterKings(m): 12:19am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky: If u wouldn't mind. I would very much like to be ur friend |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by martineverest(m): 12:19am On Jul 21, 2017 |
sparko1:i have thesame problem....it has resulted to ADHD |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Heterodox(m): 12:20am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Uniqueness01:Can we be friends? Extending my hands of friendship. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by RSVP: 12:21am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Tunby: Bros e no easy. All my guys don go joint me dey house dey press phone. I jzt can't imagine still out at this time of the day. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 12:21am On Jul 21, 2017 |
kagari: Yeah, you're right. My mum noticed my ish in secondary school. I'd represent my school then, face the camera, feature on TV and talk on radio coz I was the literary and debating society. I spoke in front of my state's Governor then and even sang in the choir but I'd run away from family functions. She made me stay in the Hostel during my OND days, now I'm no longer in touch with any of them. *sighs* |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 12:21am On Jul 21, 2017 |
malificent: You are an introvert, and for you can continue like this if you are very beautiful or a genius, unless you have to start socialising. Start going out, go to eventbrite.com and look for free serminal, talk shows to go to, if you are a student, bombard lecturers with questions in class but don't come as been witty, you go just get carryover for nothing. When you go out compliment people, pickup sales job for a month or 2. You can't impact to the world inside your room. Mike zukerberg at a time had to come out of his shell 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 12:24am On Jul 21, 2017 |
SPEEDEPITOME: You are OK, just use your introverted brain to affect something positive around you. It would have been a problem if you were, introverted, shy and not outspoken. Udo 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Elkay3: 12:24am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Been an introvert is never a bad idea. Give me a bowl of "extrovertism" and a plate of "introvertism" I'd gladly pick the plate. People seems to see introvert like a handicap. The problem is, if you're not self confident, or have low self esteem. Then you should work on that. 2 Likes |
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