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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by MisterKings(m): 12:26am On Jul 21, 2017
Introverts are mostly people from the water zodiac signs.

Cancer
Pisces
Scorpio

Also the earth zodiacs get that too

Taurus
Capricorn
And virgo

So those of you beating up yourselves should let it be. This is who you are. Someone within ur sign will find and love you just the way you are

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by smsventures: 12:26am On Jul 21, 2017
As an introvert my challenges is relationship-related bc i fear rejection more than anything else
I can stay indoors for days without stepping out even during Christmas and new year days.
I can keep quiet to the point that if u ask me a question that looks too foolish to me I won't even react as if I heard it not to talk of reply you
And i dont trust people

Modified: but am a talkative on social media group chat ( not one on one messages)

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by menace1: 12:27am On Jul 21, 2017
Am so introvert to the extent that a man in. Y university think am deaf nd dumb. I am always indoors I can go weeks without going out. In university except from my cousin friends I don't av up to 2 friends of my own. My cousin friends always think am d wisest of dem cause how I reason is kinda different from theirs

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 12:27am On Jul 21, 2017
RSVP:


Bros e no easy. All my guys don go joint me dey house dey press phone. I jzt can't imagine still out at this time of the day.

Its normal, when its not normal its when you guys are celebrating someone or an occasion and you lock yourself up. With that attitude you won't be far from been a chronic masturbator, and this comes with been very antisocial
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 12:27am On Jul 21, 2017
espn:
hmmm..maybe u lack self confidence? If u don't like bin in d midst for crowd..or prob u r too shy!!
The fact that someone has lot of friends and hang out with people does not mean they have self confidence. some of them even use to crowd to cover their lack of it. Get on a one on one with them, they'll melt.
Point is, the dude might not just like crowd, it has nothing to do with self confidence.

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Heterodox(m): 12:28am On Jul 21, 2017
EmpressEnnie:
I find it pretty difficult to confront pple,i find t difficult to make friends especially males.i prefer to stay indoor all d tym.the thought of a relatnship scares d shii outta me e.t.c
My hands of friendship. I can help you out of the shell.
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by piagetskinner(m): 12:28am On Jul 21, 2017
if not for the internet so many people would have died form being introverts....lol


introverts are deep thinkers

but I don't like it wen two introverts date...its always dull

there was a time I hated people coming to my house...I just tell them I'm not going to be around.. because I no get time to dey talk

work - church- house does it for me

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by MisterKings(m): 12:29am On Jul 21, 2017
wins18:
lol, we are just being programmed differently by our creator, we are nice people to be with though, just that people don't understand us, sometimes they mistake our silence mood to keeping malice or...something. some people say we are weird, maybe they are right though.

Some even say we snub. And thats not true. We are the homely type. We guys are the knights in shiny armour and our ladies are damsels in distress.
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by micxwell(m): 12:30am On Jul 21, 2017
MisterKings:
Introverts are mostly people from the water zodiac signs.

Cancer
Pisces
Scorpio

Also the earth zodiacs get that too

Taurus
Capricorn
And virgo

So those of you beating up yourselves should let it be. This is who you are. Someone within ur sign will find and love you just the way you are

I'm a Sag o
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 12:31am On Jul 21, 2017
menace1:
Am so introvert to the extent that a man in. Y university think am deaf nd dumb. I am always indoors I can go weeks without going out. In university except from my cousin friends I don't av up to 2 friends of my own. My cousin friends always think am d wisest of dem cause how I reason is kinda different from theirs

Been an introvert and been productive is cool, been an introvert, shy and not outspoken is deadly. For a graduate you would find it getting jobs if you don't stand out. For ladies, you will need a miracle and ironically introverts loves pretty , slim ladies. You go wait tire. Bro people don't bite

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by espn(m): 12:31am On Jul 21, 2017
SPEEDEPITOME:

The fact that someone has lot of friends and hang out with people does not mean they have self confidence. some of them even use to crowd to cover their lack of it. Get on a one on one with them, they'll melt.
Point is, the dude might not just like crowd, it has nothing to do with self confidence.
u maybe rite.. shocked
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by smsventures: 12:31am On Jul 21, 2017
MisterKings:


Some even say we snub. And thats not true. We are the homely type. We guys are the knights in shiny armour and our ladies are damsels in distress.
true but I do snub at times especially when an outsider throws a useless question @ me

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Petitediva14(f): 12:31am On Jul 21, 2017
I hate crowds. I hate going out (I don't know how I would find a husband like that). I hate talking to people on the phone. I like texting or chatting. I get bored easily when people are talking. I don't have time for plenty friends which is challenging considering I have a start up handmade skincare and hair brand, a blog and youtube channel and I need people to buy things, read my blog or watch my videos.
It is well o.

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by MisterKings(m): 12:32am On Jul 21, 2017
Brown14:


...and introverted girls are ALWAYS pretty and intelligent.

More like warm and down to earth
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 12:33am On Jul 21, 2017
nairaland is jst a place too beef...shouut afonja.. Fllatinoo.. Hausa.ipop stuffss like dat ..bt outside am worst ..am an introvert.. I live for six yr in a particular area without knwing my way around .jstt come back .upstair .there wass this time i spend six month upstairs without steppinng ma foot for groundd. Jst give me electricity.tvv. Novels.... Game .. Am ggoood to go,,my mum started forcing mua out to play with friends . Snd me on eerrands ... I actualllly gat lost for my area cos nahhhh one road i kknow .whichh is where i usualllly pass come home

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by malificent(f): 12:33am On Jul 21, 2017
I've been called a snob countless times. I'm not. If you Hail Me I'll Hail you back. I'm not clingy. I respect people's privacy so I expect them to respect mine. Most people that finally get close to me confess they don't know I even talk. I leave whatsapp messages unopened for days once I see the messages on the notification Bar,calls scare me, I'll much rather text. I'm just too reserved. And the demons I fight, I don't want the whole world to know about. Sometimes I get too lonely or I'm bored out of my wits. But it's the life I've chosen for myself and it's quite peaceful. smiley
micxwell:

They mistake it for PRIDE o

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by MisterKings(m): 12:33am On Jul 21, 2017
micxwell:


I'm a Sag o

Wow and u are an introvert?
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 12:33am On Jul 21, 2017
MisterKings:


Some even say we snub. And thats not true. We are the homely type. We guys are the knights in shiny armour and our ladies are damsels in distress.

You don't snub but your facial expression looks snubbish. How would cool people know you are a Knight in shiny armour and your ladies damsels in distress when you have knocked them away with don't talk to me kind of exoression

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by micxwell(m): 12:34am On Jul 21, 2017
MisterKings:


Wow and u are an introvert?
Yea
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by micxwell(m): 12:34am On Jul 21, 2017
MisterKings:


Wow and u are an introvert?
Yea
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by MisterKings(m): 12:35am On Jul 21, 2017
kagari:


You don't snub but your facial expression looks snubbish. How would cool people know you are a Knight in shiny armour and your ladies damsels in distress when you have knocked them away with don't talk to me kind of exoression

Who dey follow you fight
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by TENHEU22(m): 12:36am On Jul 21, 2017
One man squad, don't ask me to talk or pray in a gathering.

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by smsventures: 12:37am On Jul 21, 2017
MisterKings:
Introverts are mostly people from the water zodiac signs.

Cancer
Pisces
Scorpio

Also the earth zodiacs get that too

Taurus
Capricorn
And virgo

So those of you beating up yourselves should let it be. This is who you are. Someone within ur sign will find and love you just the way you are
I Rep Leo
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 12:37am On Jul 21, 2017
I think my case is worse not only do i hate calling people

*I can stay alone without talking to anybody for dayz & it won't even bother me.

*I expect everybody to be smart & notice the little things without me having to explain.

*if some1 ask a question that requires too much explanation my answer will be "I don't know" cause i dont wanna talk.

* I hate sharing space with ANYBODY.

* I always notice when some1 touches my stuff.

*if you pay me a visit, bring ur gist with you cause i have nothing to say & feel u won't understand me even if i decided to speak.


*Never being to a party, though once in a while i might have a crush on a lady, i will end up forgetting about her d next day grin not much of a problem since i will be going to d village for marriage anyways just like my brothers

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by piagetskinner(m): 12:37am On Jul 21, 2017
Uniqueness01:
I don't keep friends, don't go to parties whether birthday or wedding sad even when I am among the bridal train or asoebi I don't attend receptions because I don't like staying out for long...my tailor will be vexing that all this your body and style I am making for you suppose bring more customers for me o I will belike I go try cheesy cheesy and people will think I am forming cool
And when I finally go out people will belike where this girl dey since.......

Now that I am working,after office my house straight cheesy





choi...as fine as u are...anyway its good...as long as its not taken to the extreme

peoples general ideology about introverts is that they are proud.... and that's because they don't get to know them.
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 12:37am On Jul 21, 2017
malificent:
I've been called a snob countless times. I'm not. If you Hail Me I'll Hail you back. I'm not clingy. I respect people's privacy so I expect them to respect mine. Most people that finally get close to me confess they don't know I even talk. I'm just too reserved. And the demons I fight, I don't want the whole world to know about. Sometimes I get too lonely or I'm bored out of my wits. But it's the life I've chosen for myself and it's quite peaceful. smiley

I totally understand you, but people like you are supposed to leave impacts here on earth cause been reserved you have more time to communicate with nature and think out of the box. But if you are reserved just to press your phone and frustrate your siblings some days of the week for no just reason, you need to reorientate yourself, and start socialising
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nofuckgiven: 12:37am On Jul 21, 2017
MisterKings:


Lol I am introvert too but i don't pass up on green light o. I fear rejection but make that green light no shine for my eye if not i must grab my opportunity.

In my own case when i am not at work i hide in the deepest part of my room and no one will ever know i am around
Misterkings how do you manage to do your real estate marketing as an introvert? Are you not scared of crowds or public speaking?

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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kowalsky: 12:37am On Jul 21, 2017
Cleopatra4:
I find it difficult to make friends...
When I do I just snub them just like that.
People think say I get pride but Na lie grin I'm one of the most simple person on earth.
Just the introvert thing embarassed

is your name rose?
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by micxwell(m): 12:38am On Jul 21, 2017
malificent:
I've been called a snob countless times. I'm not. If you Hail Me I'll Hail you back. I'm not clingy. I respect people's privacy so I expect them to respect mine. Most people that finally get close to me confess they don't know I even talk. I'm just too reserved. And the demons I fight, I don't want the whole world to know about. Sometimes I get too lonely or I'm bored out of my wits. But it's the life I've chosen for myself and it's quite peaceful. smiley
I rearely get bored though, can stay indoors for a month without getting bored.
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by smsventures: 12:38am On Jul 21, 2017
piagetskinner:
if not for the internet so many people would have died form being introverts....lol


introverts are deep thinkers

but I don't like it wen two introverts date...its always dull



Someone like me

If not for my phone ehh
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by RSVP: 12:38am On Jul 21, 2017
kagari:


Its normal, when its not normal its when you guys are celebrating someone or an occasion and you lock yourself up. With that attitude you won't be far from been a chronic masturbator, and this comes with been very antisocial

You're very correct.

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