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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 1:03am On Jul 21, 2017 |
kagari: But i already do all that ![]() |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 1:03am On Jul 21, 2017 |
pweeryambre: Been introverted shouldnt make you a dummy, unless you are introverted and shy, for the records everyone wants to hear an introvert speak, they might challenge but respect you, if you are an introvert and not knowledgeable, you ain't an introvert you are just plain stupi.d. you guys are just mixing up this thing 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by stukinherdr1222(m): 1:04am On Jul 21, 2017 |
i hate going out ,crowd scares the shit i have this mindset everyone is a monster the worst part i have no friends i do visit or visits me . thank God i married a very understanding woman ,she made me believe its not a sickness , i pray i overcome it some day 1 Like
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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by HausaOverlord: 1:05am On Jul 21, 2017 |
barallanee:u should try an go out more , get associated with people, join an orgy, start a gang, rep a cult. Go and enjoy life. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 1:06am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Jiang:If you do all this that means you ain't introverted, just shy that gets his mood regulated by circumstances. You just a shy quiet guy, you ain't introverted. Party is not a yardstick dude 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 1:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
stukinherdr1222: Bro I can bet you married your kind. If you had married an opposite there would be spice in your marriage, and there would be a cause for sober reflection |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by BarrElChapo(m): 1:09am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Over analyzing stuffs in my head especially if I'm hurt rather than say it out I'd punish myself with thoughts Inability to deal with ever changing nature of the opposite sex, I wish I could do better its quite lonely in an introverts world ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 1:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
holatimmy:Now there's no medal for claiming what you're not, is there? Let people bask in the euphoria of what they are or what they think they are. Not everyone is gonna understand who they truly are. Like you said there's no trophy, so let them be. 6 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by malificent(f): 1:13am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Still.. 2 Likes
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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by alabi484(m): 1:13am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Elkay3: Awwwnnn...this is so me ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 1:15am On Jul 21, 2017 |
menace1: This is the first introvert on this thread, as an introvert people respect you, they want to hear your idea, your contribution, seek your opinion, call you that guy or girl with so much idea, in gathering, you easily change discussions from petty talks to productive ones. Mind you been an introvert doesn't make you shy or not outspoken, it only makes you slightly more intelligent than an average tom, why you think and fantasise all the time. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by walexzee11(m): 1:16am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Uniqueness01:I like hitting on ladies like you but not yet ready to hit on you ![]() |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by pweeryambre: 1:17am On Jul 21, 2017 |
kagari:Dude, how does being loyal amount to being stupid please? ... in a bid to sound smart you totally missed the point. I'm sure some people understand what I'm talking about here, but all in all, you have been noticed. thank you 5 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 1:18am On Jul 21, 2017 |
BarrElChapo: Cause you are an introvert 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by menace1: 1:21am On Jul 21, 2017 |
kagari:you right, am studying law but due to my ideas on computer my cousin friends always tell me to go learn ICT or hacking, even when I was young there was rarely any phone or laptop I can't operate if u show me for the first time. I wish I can change it though cause am so worst I didn't attend my secondary school graduation nd am already thinking of how it's possible to avoid my university graduation which is next year. One thing about me is that when am with the few people am free with I can make dem laugh all day. I lost two gals that really like me due to my attitude of not calling this year 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 1:22am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Nofuckgiven: You are very close, but according to an annoying consultant shrink which happens to be a family friend he said "I lack empathy" had an accident a long time ago, it was due to some damage. Anyways you must be a shrink to be able to pick up such Things. am impressed 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Boc007(m): 1:23am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Wow! So introverts are this much. I feel your pains. I just came in here to read comments. I believe in one thing, if you want to conquer your fears, you have to start surfing the Internet on "how to communicate with people without fear" Google is your friend, unlike police. Check my signature, I need a female friend who is an introvert, residing in Lagos jare, let me show you how to communicate with the opposite sex. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 1:25am On Jul 21, 2017 |
pweeryambre: I am sorry if you feel insulted, not my intent. Actually I do this in real life, making people see the dangers in been an introvert, shy and not outspoken. Let me make you understand what I mearnt, been an introvert doesn't make you very loyal to few friends, an introvert is his or her owns friend. You belong to everyone belong to no one, when you are loyal to friends its because you are shy and not outspoken. As a shy lady and not been outspoken you swallow and move on without addressing the issue, you keep withdrawing from people till you finally become a dummy introvert. I wish you can visualise my point. All the same mean no insult dear If you are Igbo they liken introverts to ndi aruruana. Because people don't get to understand them. From the way they get to talk, laugh, behave just so so different |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by BininKingdom: 1:25am On Jul 21, 2017 |
ZaraGift: Nice |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by jojothaiv(m): 1:25am On Jul 21, 2017 |
ZaraGift:Guy, Na Solution Man Need Now... But I Already Got A Daughter Of Six, Just That Her Mum Couldn't Stay With Me... |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by walexzee11(m): 1:26am On Jul 21, 2017 |
alexanderkings:This one weak me. I give up on you, your remedy must be imported ![]() ![]() |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 1:27am On Jul 21, 2017 |
kagari:Yeah, true. An AVERAGE introvert has the solution to problems. While you're shouting and worrying your head off, he's lost in thought trying to get solutions. Basically, some of them are usually one step ahead. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 1:29am On Jul 21, 2017 |
alexanderkings: 4 Likes
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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by jojothaiv(m): 1:30am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Nofuckgiven:Way To Go, Bro... Thank God, Surprisingly I'm A Father Already.. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by walexzee11(m): 1:33am On Jul 21, 2017 |
jojothaiv:Not so good, break out of your shell bro. For how long would you be timid and can't approach a lady @ 27yo! |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 1:33am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Boc007:Jesus! For the umpteenth time, being introverted is not the same as lacking communication skills! How does 'I don't like crowd' translate to 'I have communication problems' And No, it has nothing to do with fears, it just the way they are wired. 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 1:37am On Jul 21, 2017 |
walexzee11: They end up saying my money would do the talking |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by ottohan: 1:39am On Jul 21, 2017 |
wow honestly speapking, I taught I was d only one dat possess some of the attribures ,bur looking at dis thread, I see pple wit my kind of nature, too...hmm, now I'am happy. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by pweeryambre: 1:41am On Jul 21, 2017 |
kagari:OK, but I call out people on their behavior anytime they act up or wanna end up taking advantage of my quiet nature, the down part is that they mostly don't get second chances with me, and the relationship kind of ends there and then it appears like I'm shutting them out but I'm not, its actually a way of protecting my mental health. meanwhile, withdrawing from people, is that not the essence of being introverted? so you can get to have a quiet time alone to recharge and analyse your situation. there is nothing timid about that. And the topic is about the challenges and not about accomplishments or the likes before it gets diverted now. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by sirfee(m): 1:44am On Jul 21, 2017 |
MisterKings:I'm reppin' Sagittarius,I'm also introverted... Sometimes it is hereditary |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by walexzee11(m): 1:47am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Boc007:Baba I tire oooo.... so all the pretty intelligent ladies guys been looking for are hiding away in a corner of their rooms cos most are introverts? The worst be say to see them na war, shebi na person wey u see u go chyke. 1 Like |
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