kagari:


Bro you need to visit a councillor, there is nothing cool about you. This your character would tend to make you a masturbator and it would directly affect your sex and social life. People don't bite. Don't give a f.uck about what people think about you. Go for interactive section, listen to people and talk when you are absolutely sure to avoid going brain dead in the middle of you talk. Compliments ladies and guys and take insults as morale buster, if a lady or mate look down on you, give 100 reasons to go to hell, but work on your weakness

pweeryambre:
People take advantage of your loyalty a lot for being an introvert...

barallanee:
Nairaland jux helped me to be open a bit..and jux bkos it's a social media platform...hmmm BT my real life out der am a big time introvert and sumtyms ah jux pray ah change..

Jiang:


But i already do all that , its just that parties ain't my thing. Infact most people think am an ass cause i always tell them whats on my mind

stukinherdr1222:
i hate going out ,crowd scares the shit i have this mindset everyone is a monster

the worst part i have no friends i do visit or visits me .

thank God i married a very understanding woman ,she made me believe its not a sickness ,

i pray i overcome it some day

holatimmy:
Every Jack and Jill will be claiming Introvert as if it's some sort of trophy...

Temperament defines everything accurately

Elkay3:
I talk a little less than necessary. But laugh alot.
I have few friends whom I cherish. I stand in for my friends.
I avoid crowd because I just can't raise my voice like a tout.
I adore my quiet moments. It's for self-recharging.
I trust easily. This could be my weakness.

People say I'm an introvert. Others sighted pride. But for me, it's neither. It's just the way I chose to be. I could chose to be otherwise.

menace1:
hmm kinda right but I believe I won't av problem with finding a job my certificate would speak,being an introvert has really increased how I think, I find it very difficult to sleep cause am always calculating or creating ideas within my mind, most of my cousin friends though dy are older than me always come to me for Ideas dy know I never lack it. Am working on it though, am trying to be free with people cause being alone is kinda making me imagine crazy things

Uniqueness01:
I don't keep friends, don't go to parties whether birthday or wedding even when I am among the bridal train or asoebi I don't attend receptions because I don't like staying out for long...my tailor will be vexing that all this your body and style I am making for you suppose bring more customers for me o I will belike I go try and people will think I am forming
And when I finally go out people will belike where this girl dey since.......

Now that I am working,after office my house straight

kagari:


Been introverted shouldnt make you a dummy, unless you are introverted and shy, for the records everyone wants to hear an introvert speak, they might challenge but respect you, if you are an introvert and not knowledgeable, you ain't an introvert you are just plain stupi.d. you guys are just mixing up this thing

BarrElChapo:
Over analyzing stuffs in my head especially if I'm hurt rather than say it out I'd punish myself with thoughts

Inability to deal with ever changing nature of the opposite sex, I wish I could do better its quite lonely in an introverts world

kagari:


This is the first introvert on this thread, as an introvert people respect you, they want to hear your idea, your contribution, seek your opinion, call you that guy or girl with so much idea, in gathering, you easily change discussions from petty talks to productive ones. Mind you been an introvert doesn't make you shy or not outspoken, it only makes you slightly more intelligent than an average tom, why you think and fantasise all the time.

Nofuckgiven:

You are a schizoid. Its a disorder. Go and seek help while you can. I can't believe there are men like you who still think at this age and century village girls dont know as much or even more than those born and bred in the cities.

pweeryambre:

Dude, how does being loyal amount to being stupid please? ... in a bid to sound smart you totally missed the point. I'm sure some people understand what I'm talking about here but all in all, you have been noticed. thank you

ZaraGift:
My main problem as an introvert is too much thinking, creating and living in imaginary world than reality, though it gives me joy

ZaraGift:

Same with me

alexanderkings:
nairaland is jst a place too beef...shouut afonja.. Fllatinoo.. Hausa.ipop stuffss like dat ..bt outside am worst ..am an introvert.. I live for six yr in a particular area without knwing my way around .jstt come back .upstair .there wass this time i spend six month upstairs without steppinng ma foot for groundd. Jst give me electricity.tvv. Novels.... Game .. Am ggoood to go,,my mum started forcing mua out to play with friends . Snd me on eerrands ... I actualllly gat lost for my area cos nahhhh one road i kknow .whichh is where i usualllly pass come home

kagari:


This is the first introvert on this thread, as an introvert people respect you, they want to hear your idea, your contribution, seek your opinion, call you that guy or girl with so much idea, in gathering, you easily change discussions from petty talks to productive ones. Mind you been an introvert doesn't make you shy or not outspoken, it only makes you slightly more intelligent than an average tom, why you think and fantasise all the time.

alexanderkings:
nairaland is jst a place too beef...shouut afonja.. Fllatinoo.. Hausa.ipop stuffss like dat ..bt outside am worst ..am an introvert.. I live for six yr in a particular area without knwing my way around .jstt come back .upstair .there wass this time i spend six month upstairs without steppinng ma foot for groundd. Jst give me electricity.tvv. Novels.... Game .. Am ggoood to go,,my mum started forcing mua out to play with friends . Snd me on eerrands ... I actualllly gat lost for my area cos nahhhh one road i kknow .whichh is where i usualllly pass come home

Nofuckgiven:

No worry by the time you are 35 and your mates' kids start asking you for schoolfees you go know whatsup! Keep loving 'your cool'! You would regret it if you don't change soon.

jojothaiv:
Almost 27, still can't approach a lady....

Seems I love my cool, don't wanna be disappointed...

Boc007:
Wow! So introverts are this much. I feel your pains. I just came in here to read comments. I believe in one thing, if you want to conquer your fears, you have to start surfing the Internet on "how to communicate with people without fear" Google is your friend, unlike police. Check my signature, I need a female friend who is an introvert, residing in Lagos jare, let me show you how to communicate with the opposite sex.

walexzee11:
Not so good, break out of your shell bro. For how long would you be timid and can't approach a lady @ 27yo!

kagari:


I am sorry if you feel insulted, not my intent. Actually I do this in real life, making people see the dangers in been an introvert, shy and not outspoken.

Let me make you understand what I mearnt, been an introvert doesn't make you very loyal to few friends, an introvert is his or her owns friend. You belong to everyone belong to no one, when you are loyal to friends its because you are shy and not outspoken. As a shy lady and not been outspoken you swallow and move on without addressing the issue, you keep withdrawing from people till you finally become a dummy introvert.

I wish you can visualise my point. All the same mean no insult dear

MisterKings:
Introverts are mostly people from the water zodiac signs.

Cancer
Pisces
Scorpio

Also the earth zodiacs get that too

Taurus
Capricorn
And virgo

So those of you beating up yourselves should let it be. This is who you are. Someone within ur sign will find and love you just the way you are

Boc007:
Wow! So introverts are this much. I feel your pains. I just came in here to read comments. I believe in one thing, if you want to conquer your fears, you have to start surfing the Internet on "how to communicate with people without fear" Google is your friend, unlike police. Check my signature, I need a female friend who is an introvert, residing in Lagos jare, let me show you how to communicate with the opposite sex.