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Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by menace1: 1:47am On Jul 21, 2017 |
SPEEDEPITOME:lol very right though, I still hope I can change cause it's turning me to a weirdo. My graduation party Id next month nd am thinking of not going due this crowd, I didn't go to my secondary school graduation due to my hatred for crowd |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 1:49am On Jul 21, 2017 |
pweeryambre: I totally understand you, its just communication gap at a point. My mission is just to make people see the difference in been introverted, shy and not out-poken, those class of people are prone to suicide, and they get to that point over time. You can be introverted, shy but you must never be not outspoken. Sorry if you felt downgraded by my comment once again 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Lilijumes(f): 1:53am On Jul 21, 2017 |
![]() alabi484:[quote author=alabi484 post=58671281] Hmmm same here # |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by datjohn(m): 1:54am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Uniqueness01: Awwwwn... n u ar soo pretty. ![]() |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by walexzee11(m): 1:54am On Jul 21, 2017 |
SPEEDEPITOME:FEAR is an ingredient of being an introvert, that's what makes them different frm extros. Most Introverts are timid cos of FEAR of rejection! thereby having low self-esteem. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by pweeryambre: 1:56am On Jul 21, 2017 |
kagari:you must be mistaken if you believe that being an introvert amounts to being slightly more intelligent, there are quiet a lot them with average or below average intelligence. Introvert on a deeper level simply means people that get their energy from internal source unlike extrovert that gets there's from external source. each has it's pros and cons. The only thing is when an intelligent introvert speaks their words are taken more seriously than the one that is always talkng. Even when a retard is silent he will mistakenly be considered as wise. I have a very extroverted friend with a very sound high IQ. I always like having her around and to pick her brain when she talks and the way she does things. So the intelligence thing goes both ways not exclusively for introverted persons as the way you make it sound. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by RSVP: 1:56am On Jul 21, 2017 |
OMG! See pweety ladies coming out. Why we still single ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by walexzee11(m): 1:58am On Jul 21, 2017 |
kagari:Then smart Extros like mua help him keep his GF alive both outside n the oza room ![]() ![]() |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by pweeryambre: 2:00am On Jul 21, 2017 |
kagari:Its alright... Actually I didn't even feel anything, I'm just good at noticing and pointing out things that's all. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by ransomed: 2:07am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Create a buffer zone for yourself, mount a wall of protection around you, set limits to encroachment on your territory, seclude yourself from merry makers and unfriendly friends then you will identify your foes. Stay indoor during holidays. Attend church without joining any service group. See no evil and talk no evil then you will know that the heart of human is desperately wicked and only God can search it. Tell people the truth they will still probe further to provoke you to anger, then why answer them. People talk their destiny away by confiding in adversary they term as friend who goes abound undermining and backstabbing. Commune with your creator and avoid the cacophony of lieing tongues who engage in idle talk, gist, gossiping, backbiting and character assasination. Give short responces like yes, no, later, no problem, don't know and move on to enjoy your sweet quietness. Is it a crime to enjoy my space without interferrence? 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 2:11am On Jul 21, 2017 |
pweeryambre: Cool analysis. Goodnight dear |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by emenezer(m): 2:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Fine it so difficult to make friends, even when I eventually do make just 1,wud just let it remain cold, like chilled coke..Also owe a lot of people phone call. Most persons mistake my being just quiet to my self, to pride. But on getting closer, it's all a different thing.... its cool being an Introvert... So cool that persons nearby wud be curious to know u. |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by kagari: 2:15am On Jul 21, 2017 |
datjohn:if you believe that babe, you would believe snow falls in Nigeria. ![]() |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by sirfee(m): 2:15am On Jul 21, 2017 |
ransomed:A billion likes for this post,you've said it all,I owe you a bottle of chilled palmwine... |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by holysaint1(m): 2:20am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Brown14: Tell me sumtin I dunno |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 2:23am On Jul 21, 2017 |
pweeryambre:I totally agree with you Ma'am. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Akalia(m): 2:23am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I am a capricorn and I also double as an introvert too. But what amazes me is sometimes I don't understand myself- I go through mood swings; sometimes I act like an extrovert and most times I behave like an introvert that I am. A cacausian female friend of mine told me just recently that I am weird, I asked her to explain how she meant but she changed the subject. Thank GOD maturity and exposure helps me crawl out of my shell as the need arises. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Samzyarmani(m): 2:27am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Difficult to mingle with new people,I stay glued to my clique which us quite frustrating sometimes. finds it hard to make new friends especially females Hard to talk to girls that I love,waiting for them to make the first move |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 2:38am On Jul 21, 2017 |
walexzee11:You just made the whole thing complicated. First, you made being introverted all about inability to communicate. "in one thing, if you want to conquer your fears, you have to start surfing the Internet on "how to communicate with people without fear"- these were your words. See, Excellence in the communication department is called OUTSPOKENNESS and this is not a factor of being intro or extro. Now you are making it about low self esteem and fear. I'm not sure you read people's comment before posting. I insist that the ability to speak up, make your voice heard, self esteem/confidence or lack of it has nothing to do with being intro or extro. I respect your opinion but I have two questions for you. 1). Is fear limited to introverts 2). Does being introverted translate to low self esteem in all cases? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nov6(m): 2:49am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Divay22: whoever you are,i could9lt help but SMH after reading this, i guess we have same exact traits... I have tried shaking mine of ever since i grew up to become a man,but somethings about me are better off unchanged... 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Daeylar(f): 2:50am On Jul 21, 2017 |
So many people like me ![]() |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by pweeryambre: 2:51am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Akalia:Do you also feel like you have different voices in your head sometimes? lol, happen to be a Capricorn too, i totally get where you are coming from, think the introverted/weird nature is stimulated by the earth sign... not sure |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by jclassiq(m): 2:53am On Jul 21, 2017 |
wins18: NOT SOMETIMES......ITS ALL THE TIME!!! |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by jclassiq(m): 2:55am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Cleopatra4:feel like marrying u already 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nov6(m): 2:56am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Staying out for long makes me unhappy.. Going out can be so frustrating, annoying, am just the kind of guy that loves catching fun indoor ![]() ![]() ![]() But it has cost me alot, I have missed opportunities,chased many friends away, words I'll rehearse :Din my head, but wouldn't be able to say it out, memories i couldn't gain....I wouldn't want any of my child to be one..... Sometimes i imagine having an alien identity,if u ask me one impossible wish i would love to requst,will always tell you is have an Alien as a friend. the world seems too populated to them ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() But i love them because THEY CARE, THEY CARE MORE THAN THEY SHOULD.....i give them A1 When it comes to taking care of others, even if they don't like you..... Tell an introvert your secret, it's safe for life ![]() ![]() ![]() Commonly used word :I DON'T KNOW ; it brings extra pressure to my daily life especially @work,i team up wit me,myself&i alone. Am just one who derives his energy from another source. I guess i was just born this way 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Kayceenaz(m): 2:58am On Jul 21, 2017 |
I was immersed in delight once I saw this topic about introverts, hence my clicking on it without further ado. The story of my personality is interesting but where do I begin? To be earnest, the disposition of my way of life in the recent past and present cannot be isolated from God. Just thinking, would it be apt to say my encounter with the Most High God turned me to an introvert? I used to have quite a lot of friends and fancied going out but that gradually changed when I met Christ Jesus as a freshman in the university. The number of friends of mine depleted and I began enjoying my own company, which enabled me to prioritize more effectively. I set a high academic goal and studied more. God and studying offered me little time to "socialize" (in the conventional sense of the word). God helped me attain that goal and has made my life more purposeful to date. Well, let's take a leap to the present. In as much as I resent needlessly going out and mostly prefer staying indoors either reading or seeing a thrilling epic cum historical movie, I'm confident and outspoken to an extent that I feel bad when I do not air my view in any gathering with respect to issues raised. It is rare for me to be in an environment over a short period of time and you won't know me. Although I like my space and keeping to myself, I simultaneously have a dominant and assertive personality. As for ladies matters, I neither dread them nor rejection; I seldom approach them in order to ward off distractions. There is time for everything. Moreover, no one can make you feel inferior without your permission! I believe I am exceptional and en route doing great things. Believe same too. That makes all the difference. From the foregoing, would it be mistaken to still regard me as an introvert? If yes, why? And if no, could that mean a new brand of personality is on the rise? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by jclassiq(m): 3:01am On Jul 21, 2017 |
IamSingleDad: you want to fix her?!! |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nov6(m): 3:05am On Jul 21, 2017 |
Am just one that gets his energy from another source |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by SurestG(f): 3:06am On Jul 21, 2017 |
hinky:that's true |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by jclassiq(m): 3:12am On Jul 21, 2017 |
sorextee: fight what off? his introversion? I doubt it bro. its not like a character flaw. its how he is wired. you don't fight it off. its either the babe wants to stay or she can take her leave. everybody knows what they want in a relationship. ppl don't go into relationship just for the fun of it. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts, Share Your Challenges Here by Nobody: 3:14am On Jul 21, 2017 |
lol.. me I dey disturb friends ni.. I can make frends easily no doubt but I av a personality flaw.. when in d midst of a group of frends.. I wil want to be d funniest so I say things dat vex ppl.. lol I don vex a lot of pple for dis life to d point dat we av physical fit..esp girls..I am annoying bt I don't know why. i annoy pple every seconds and can't do without going near sum1 to disturb.. dats why I am currently experiencing depression and anxiety.. I am trying to overcome and stop dis annoying attitude because pple av criticised me a lot and a lot of frends av left me.. esp d quiet ones.. to b sincere na becos of introverts I dey suffer presently oo.. God punish dem.. life is boring without frends n I wonder aw sum1 will cope without a frends to hangout wit.. I tink all dis pple claiming introverts here dey lie jare |
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