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Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by sisisioge: 8:38pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
ogawisdom: Hmmm.. 50k ke? Biko no call that amount in this present times. By the time you take away your cost of doing the job that pays that, OYO becomes your case. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
sisisioge: So in that case, you are earning 100k abi? Cuz you are the babe na. You girls that are stingy with your money in relationship. I want to assume that you would only contribute 5k on that 100k monthly savings. The rest of the money is for iPhone, clothes, makeup kits and Aso Ebi 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by toyinjimoh(m): 8:39pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
I know family that earn 50k per month and they 're enjoying their life....stop all these 250k , 150 k per month stuff abet, hw many of u is a Even earning up to dt amount 8 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by fabre4: 8:40pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Humility017: When they get older they start going to Shiloh and synagogue. There's nothing sweeter than a woman struggling and fighting by your side 7 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by ratioxyz: 8:40pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nma27:lol... Oya na.. Una hear? |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by GOFRONT(m): 8:41pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Have u ever met a lady u ever want to Marry but Money no dey for u to marry her until she gone?? |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by adetes: 8:41pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
No work no marriage, cos financially man must stable |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
sekem:"some" not all... Its in the bible. He that findeth a wife obtaineth favour from the Lord. Its already written its left for u to claim it 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Mypeople2(m): 8:43pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nma27:Naso them dey talk.That is the reason why papa Johnny is in one room with four children and unable to pay school fees. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by almarthins(m): 8:44pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Addicted2Women: Hahahahaha 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nma27: I strongly disagree. My mum, sister and everyone I know says the same you wrote here. But what I see from my day to day experience is different. Poor singles become poorer when they marry. When children starts coming and No money. Pls where is the Favour? 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by triplec93(m): 8:44pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
oluwarichie07:They keep on deceiving themselves, even girls from very poor families are saying not less than 150k, it's either u remain single for ages, you marry an old man, u remain being an olosho or u end up marrying a boy with no dime. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by sekem: 8:44pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nma27: So what of SOME of us wey no sabi wetin Bible be as we no be Christians or Moslems? E still mean say nothing for us at all at all abi? |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Mypeople2:Will comprehend my post... I never generalized. We all have different fates 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by ikombe: 8:45pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Juliearth:Better wife material 1 Like
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Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by toprealman: 8:46pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Maybe only when you earn as little as a Nigerian senator. When you are ready to marry, you will know. 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by sisisioge: 8:47pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
truthsayer009: Stop being mediocre with your thoughts. Stop before its too late. I gave my opinion same as others without myself or anyone in mind. Whew! |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
truthsayer009:Just b positive.. That's all. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by elyte89: 8:49pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
C as ppu dey shout 150k-350k as minimum,am sure those quoting such amount are not in d realm of reality,maybe mostly fresh graduate,undergraduate, or secondary school leaver, Like say e easy,abi no b d same Nigeria we dey tgeda dey hustle, dis earnings re level 14 and above take home for civil servant or for private,u go don read and get experience tayya b4 taking such home at d end of d month,as an employee of a private/multinational companies. Ogbeni,my peeps,don't let us b like uncle monsuru in my neighborhood, dt graduated early and got a job dt could feed his mouth but refuse due to d high standard he has set for himself, like what odas have quoted earlier Uncle Monsuru is now 43,still waiting for dt target, Let's face d reality,once u av a job dt can cater for u conveniently will cater for anoda person too,dts d logic,its more safe and less expensive as a married young man Dan live as a bachelor wout focus and budget, at d end of s day,d previous will turn out better Dan d later 9 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 8:51pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nma27: Lol, positive is not equal to being logical , Me I have said my own sha. If you like Marry a jobless guy and be praying for Favour after marriage. Na OYO oh. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by iamrealdeji(m): 8:51pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
NaijaElba:what's ur own business? why are u begging people? is everybody not entitled to their opinion? you have nothing to contribute to this nation than increase in population when the white folks are inventing wonders. you're a primitive black man who should be ashamed of yourself. if you like,marry at 18,no one is stopping you. 70 year old Donald Trump has a 10 year old child and Donald is far better than your father who has grown up children in every way. Africans with stupid mentalities. nonsense. must you wait for the day you will reap off your children? and must you just settle for any woman cos you want to marry? 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Lionofdjungle: 8:52pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
fabre4:Don't mind them, most of those who are commenting have not yet entered the labour market. Even banks don't pay as much as that for many of it's workers. Most jobs available in Nigeria today pay below #100,000. People are just packaging 8 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by veeberry(m): 8:53pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
May God bless you immensely. I this has been the mistake most guys make. Even the bible told us that he who finds a wife finds a good thing. You do not have to wait for that millions before you get married. Guys, marry now of you think you are ready. The most important thing is to marry someone who understands and who van assist you whenever the time comes. I have said my own o. NaijaElba: |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by ogawisdom(m): 8:53pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
sisisioge: Dts what 50% of male civil servants between 25 n 40 yrs earn u mean they shld never consider marriage On top of dt many states owe salaries 3 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
truthsayer009:Don't get me wrong jor. Wait till u are millionaire sha afterall time will wait for you 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
Nma27:Sorry Ma, actually success after marriage could be linked to double-hustle mindset knowing you have lot of responsibility, newly married tend to search for opportunities knowing he does not fend for himself alone any more or when people sympathetically gifts the newly weded with opportunities to breakthrough materially/financially. @topic, healthy financial status and other key components are constant in every successful marital life equation. |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Humility017(m): 8:55pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
fabre4: yes my brother....you're very ryt a friend of mine will be getting married these year ending.... to be honest his pay is just #50k and likewise his finacee income... but the lady so much believe in him and their future together and she is just in her mid 20s. I so much cherish and admire that my friend not just because of His glorious future but because he is blessed wit a good and virtuous woman by his side 6 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Mypeople2(m): 8:58pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
oluwarichie07:That's very true.Whenever I think about the expenses , I just feel weak.Some ladies feel we guys are not serious but they don't know it is the expenses.50k monthly can feed you and your wife .But two weeks into the marriage, she says "dear I am pregnant" .What will you do?Instead of jubilating ,you will be annoyed.Some persons will say, "we are not ready for a baby now ". 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by James988: 8:58pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
if you don't have 200million forget about marriage 2 Likes |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by iamrealdeji(m): 8:58pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
truthsayer009:don't mind them with their foolish African mentality o. what has marriage got to so with favour? my neighbour that married early sleeps on the corridor floor anytime his in laws are around. the guy is really suffering and already has a child with his wife.one would pity the guy I swear. marriage attracts favour my foot. Zuckerberg wasn't married when he started making billions from Facebook and so many married people are poorer than church rat. many of them do wish they were bachelors again,they're really regretting rushing to marriage and what they dovia try to push other flexing bachelor's into it 1 Like |
Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by Humility017(m): 9:00pm On Jul 22, 2017 |
elyte89:just leave them.... how many jobs in Nigeria truly pay that sum...? and can be gotten without connections and foreign degrees..... for a young man from an humble background without no one to connect him but God..... it will take quite some time to start earning that much. reason why must ladies fall for married man...seeing them as complete package unknw to them... how long and how much sacrifice the woman by his side has put into his present success 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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