Bisjosh:

Im really enjoying this 9ice "living things" song
Kin sha ti lowo o..
Dancing

Trottle:


Sir, with due respect, you should exercise decorum as everyone is entitled to their opinion.

You don't know his job or advocacy as such, you should not be hasty with your opinion. Direct your questions to the rich men and politicians who probably have not contributed significantly to the the building of Nigeria, even with our collective wealth in their purview.

So because some people are inventing (taking into cognisance constant electricity, good road and government support at their disposal) then you should pick on him? Is he the government or the one in charge of the wealth and affairs of Nigeria? Give Nigerian youth same opportunity, and you would see wonders. Direct your questions to the appropriate quarters.

When has Donald Trump become the "standard"? Probably your own standard of " good" your opinion. Why on earth should you insult his dad? Even if he has 50 children, that's not your concern. Just because Donald Trump is the U.S president and a billionaire, with fame and glitz does not make him better than anyone. His money and influence, his business.

He never expressly that he wants to feed off his children. I kind of agree that nobody should marry just about anybody.

N:B Any guy that can cater for 2 or more mouth, has a shelter, and can fufil the basic life requirement, please get married, it is better in all ramification; even if you are 22!

MevsU:
The funniest thing is that there are guys who earn more than enough and remain unmarried but guys who earn 40k or less jump into marriages hoping things will get better which is not logical.

Don't make yourself poorer by jumping into marriage.

Alikote:
many guys roasting and bringing up kids in terrible low incomes forming happy family

Humility017:


yes my brother....you're very ryt
a friend of mine will be getting married these year ending.... to be honest his pay is just #50k and likewise his finacee income...
but the lady so much believe in him and their future together and she is just in her mid 20s.
I so much cherish and admire that my friend not just because of His glorious future but because he is blessed wit a good and virtuous woman by his side

Gerrard59:


In all honesty, is that the kind of lifestyle you intend living? Tomorrow you'll come complaining when he has 10 children he cannot take ADEQUATE and PROPER care of.

Marriage is not a child's play. Someone accused the present generation of placing money at the top in marriage.

Newsflash: Things are different today. The economy is tough. Standard of living expectations is high. Finance plays a very important role in relationships of the opposite sex.

Yes, one must not be a billionaire before getting married. However, one should have a reasonable amount of resources to live a decent life.

iamrealdeji:
one well I regret the fact that I over reacted but Nigerians should stick to their own personal opinions. with due respect,you shouldn't say it's better,you should rather say it's better for you. you guys just talk about marriage and act as if divorce doesn't exist. if you divorce,it somehow crumbles the future of your children and you deprived them of having to live with dad and mum and God will purnish you for it. even if you're rich as Bleep and young,one still have to prepare so well and be very mature mentality and tolerant enough before jumping into marriage.what leads to marriage is immaturity of couples because they didn't prepare fully for it and they're not mature mentally. another thing I'm sick of is the way people see marriage in this part of the world like it's a great achievement . people don't even mind their businesses and respect other people 's opinions when it comes to marriage. everybody is entitled to his own opinion. if a girl says she can't marry a broke guy,why are you to question her based on what she believes in,its her choice,if a guy says he wants to marry this or that type of woman and have this or that before marrying,why must you question him based on what you feel is right for you? will you feed his family for him? will you be there whenever his wife gives birth through CS? no,Nigerians will never help you ifvyou need them,they will not be there for you,but when it comes to marriage discussion,they would rush to say this and that to you and it doesn't mean they like you,they just want you to act like them. if anybody chooses not to marry at all,what's your business with it? that's why Oyinbos will always progress,they respect what everybody believes in. I'm not saying people should be very rich before marriage o but we should learn to respect each other's opinion. Isaac Newton never married nor have a child and he is well respected and contributed to human race more than an Alhaji in the north with 70 children

thesuave10:



Do you call this an advice or a call for pity. Carry this truckload of crap that you call an advice. So my kids must be grown up when I'm 60 OR what? If your billions didn't come Mine will. This is a mediocre advice that I will not accept. Some people pick the wrong methods to making money and start throwing crappy advice. You obviously weren't persistent OR smart enough to make money. You don't chase success my man you attract it. Here's an advice for you if opportunity hasnt knocked on your door yet, build a BIGGER DOOR

iamrealdeji:
one well I regret the fact that I over reacted but Nigerians should stick to their own personal opinions. with due respect,you shouldn't say it's better,you should rather say it's better for you. you guys just talk about marriage and act as if divorce doesn't exist. if you divorce,it somehow crumbles the future of your children and you deprived them of having to live with dad and mum and God will purnish you for it. even if you're rich as Bleep and young,one still have to prepare so well and be very mature mentality and tolerant enough before jumping into marriage.what leads to marriage is immaturity of couples because they didn't prepare fully for it and they're not mature mentally. another thing I'm sick of is the way people see marriage in this part of the world like it's a great achievement . people don't even mind their businesses and respect other people 's opinions when it comes to marriage. everybody is entitled to his own opinion. if a girl says she can't marry a broke guy,why are you to question her based on what she believes in,its her choice,if a guy says he wants to marry this or that type of woman and have this or that before marrying,why must you question him based on what you feel is right for you? will you feed his family for him? will you be there whenever his wife gives birth through CS? no,Nigerians will never help you ifvyou need them,they will not be there for you,but when it comes to marriage discussion,they would rush to say this and that to you and it doesn't mean they like you,they just want you to act like them. if anybody chooses not to marry at all,what's your business with it? that's why Oyinbos will always progress,they respect what everybody believes in. I'm not saying people should be very rich before marriage o but we should learn to respect each other's opinion. Isaac Newton never married nor have a child and he is well respected and contributed to human race more than an Alhaji in the north with 70 children

Bigsteveg:
I agree totally

Laralag:
It is true that there are lots of mature single sisters in our society today, it is also true that there are loads of single men in our society. could it be that men not settling down is the reason most women are still single. Most of the men we dated as undergraduate migth still be single 10years afer leaving school ( I know a lot). Most men I have asked, excuse boils down to money even though they have jobs.
This brings me to my question how much should a man be earning before he should start thinking of marriage all things being equal.

MevsU:


The achievement part is what baffles me.
Some even think if you are not married, you're irresponsible.

truthsayer009:


Asin ehn, Even these foreign embassies here I'm Nigeria will hardly give you Visa if you are not married. Their claim is you are not responsible yet and you might become a nuisance to our country when you eventual travel. So no. We are not giving you Visa

vizkiz:
minimum of 150k monthly

dumodust:

Rubbish... just say that you dont have a good paying job or money. Guys dey travel up and down alone

truthsayer009:


My brother. Countries diff from countries oh. Dubai and U.S no be the same for Example.

tosyne2much:
That's all that matter bro. Getting married to someone that understands you. Even if a man earns 500k per month, a stupid wife will make it seem like he earns nothing

Laralag:


Like how much, for lagos dwellers

dumodust:

Bro.., i have travelled well... yes, they try to assess whether you will return, marriage with family in naija is a strong point but at the same time these countries are smart, they want you to come and spend your money in their country, and so if you are gainfully employed and comfortable, no wahala

smartkester:
hehehhe..lwkmh that dog must be a mad dog or it just finished smoking cocaine. .see the way e glue the dude like superglue

truthsayer009:


No p sha. Let's not derail the thread. I actually have some questions for you tho. Maybe a PM ?

truthsayer009:


I rather wait.

What's the point. To marry & give birth and children to suffer? Ordinary kindergarten school fees is ranging from 100k and above in Lagos. Unless its public school you want to send your children?

thesuave10:



Do you call this an advice or a call for pity. Carry this truckload of crap that you call an advice. So my kids must be grown up when I'm 60 OR what? If your billions didn't come Mine will. This is a mediocre advice that I will not accept. Some people pick the wrong methods to making money and start throwing crappy advice. You obviously weren't persistent OR smart enough to make money. You don't chase success my man you attract it. Here's an advice for you if opportunity hasnt knocked on your door yet, build a BIGGER DOOR

dumodust:

I agree totally with you...People now get married so that their children can be 40yrs old when they are 60... incredible. Be prepared before rushing into marriage, many of us come of dysfunctional homes and luckily made it out good. Please prepare well for your kids or dont have any at all... dont subject them to the kind of torture that you didnt even have as a kid. I can marry at 40 and have a 20yr old grand slam champion or rear a Zuckerberg when i hit 60yrs while the 40yr old with a 60yr old parent was raised so shoddily that he cant find his way. Quality over quantity any day.
Make sure you marry a good woman and that you are ready to be a model father. Imagine marrying and your kids get to see you coming home late to beat your wife up in their presence, how will they turn out as adults? We already have enough miscreants in the society, please dont produce more by going into marriage without satisfying the mental, emotional and financial support conditions

MevsU:


Most are always asking when I will get married.
Logical thinking has been replaced with religious belief, for someone to even think one's success is tied to marriage is appalling.