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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 1:38pm On Aug 04, 2017
embarassed
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Kobicove(m): 1:38pm On Aug 04, 2017
From 2006 to 2017 is about 11 years

She has over mourned...

Pls stop being selfish and let he get some happiness

Consider yourself lucky that it's a wealthy guy who could have his pick of women that wants to marry her and not some gold-digger undecided

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by shadfoye: 1:39pm On Aug 04, 2017
Hmm
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 1:39pm On Aug 04, 2017
brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls




u no well,y cant u stand anoda man drlling her?na wa
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 1:39pm On Aug 04, 2017
You can die if you want but the woman have to be happy. How many widow have you seen getting another chance like this. She is lucky to still found a lover and you are jealous. Enemy within

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by forbizconnect: 1:40pm On Aug 04, 2017
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Cope1(m): 1:41pm On Aug 04, 2017
Bro if you can't stay with them, maybe you should get your own apartment.
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by passey: 1:41pm On Aug 04, 2017
Please let her marry and find companionship. As for sex, would you rather risk hearing that some young man is befriending your Mom? Encourage her to re-marry and have joy, let her enjoy the physical consummation too... I respect you and respect the memory of your Dad but let Mummy have some love again, you hear... it's not a sin. i pray she marries a good man.
brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls




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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Lifestone(m): 1:41pm On Aug 04, 2017
You are being selfish. Allow her and be happy with her
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by sonoforogun(m): 1:41pm On Aug 04, 2017
The woman don try na! I beg give your mum a break! She deserves to be happy.
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Chiebunigom: 1:41pm On Aug 04, 2017
brandydaniells:


[b][/b] cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die





Have you been eyeing your mum? Abeg swerve...

On a more serious note, please allow the woman to be happy, she deserves to be happy.
She really tried to have waited for many years, probably trying to raise you and your siblings well.
Be happy for her too.
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 1:42pm On Aug 04, 2017
You are selfish. Simple. If she is the one now that doesn't want you to marry, we will not hear word. Do unto others as you want them to do unto you. Since 2006...pls she has tried. I am sure your Dad wouldn't have waited this long to re-marry and you kids wouldn't have allowed him wait this long too. Let Mum feel loved again. Just ensure you guys check on her regularly to be sure she is truly happy.

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by cyborg123(m): 1:43pm On Aug 04, 2017
I know it can be hard but you must consciously fight being unforgivably selfish. Allow your mum to be happy or karma will later deal with you.
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Sterope(f): 1:43pm On Aug 04, 2017
Troll oshi!

If you were serious, you would be 6ft below. I don't think your mum would appreciate a selfish uncouth son.


brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls




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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by idu1(m): 1:43pm On Aug 04, 2017
You are very stupid.

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 1:44pm On Aug 04, 2017
Let her marry na..
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by binsanni(m): 1:45pm On Aug 04, 2017
borehole is for everybody to use shocked
and have you ever see a borehole without water, no worry he won't drill her finish undecided
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by brandydaniells(m): 1:46pm On Aug 04, 2017
Kondomatic:
Right here, you sounded like you have been having sex with your mum since your father died but the word drill could mean something else in this context so I just hope the emboldened is not what I am thinking otherwise you have some questions to answer the gods.


Do you have a girlfriend??
no i dont hv a gf ...and i dont drill mums
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Okoyiboz3: 1:46pm On Aug 04, 2017
swiz123:
If my mom is more than 40yrs old and wants to re-marry, I'd consider that high treason

Sorry o, Buratai!

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Oche211(m): 1:46pm On Aug 04, 2017
ibkayee:
Why are you even visualising your mum getting 'drilled' undecided
don't mind d dude jare. What a selfish nd follow statement.

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by VickyRotex(f): 1:48pm On Aug 04, 2017
ibkayee:
Why are you even visualising your mum getting 'drilled' undecided

Exactly my first problem with the post. Imagine the use of word. Very disrespectful!

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Turbocharged: 1:48pm On Aug 04, 2017
Kondomatic:
Right here, you sounded like you have been having sex with your mum since your father died but the word drill could mean something else in this context so I just hope the emboldened is not what I am thinking otherwise you have some questions to answer the gods.


Do you have a girlfriend??
Exactly what I wanted to ask guy.


He need a lot of hugs.
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by brandydaniells(m): 1:48pm On Aug 04, 2017
Mynd44:
No disrespect bruh but your mum is a grown woman and after 11 years, she has been loyal.

Allow her be happy.

About your not comfortable about your mum having sex, would you be so uncomfortable if your dad is the one? Get your mind off it and be happy for her.

thanks mynd ...i appreciate ur opinion
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 1:50pm On Aug 04, 2017
brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls




You need help, no offense undecided

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Jazmiynne: 1:50pm On Aug 04, 2017
brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls


@emboldened you had better die quickly and remember to post it on NL before you do.

A woman has grieved for 11 years, she wants to move on and that sounds like she's betraying your Dad? If you are sexually active, how long can u stay away from sex? The woman has stayed celibate for 11years and your selfish brain cannot absorb that she has needs and urges too?

How long do you think your dad would have remained single if it were she who died? Oga stop being selfish and allow the woman to live. She's found a reason to move on in this new man, don't stand in the way of her happiness.
Or would you have preferred that she died along side your Dad to prove her loyalty?

You and your siblings should let the woman be. Its not like she's doing it for money, You yourself have said that she obviously loves him.
Let her be

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by brandydaniells(m): 1:50pm On Aug 04, 2017
Okoyiboz3:


If understand your predicament. You should understand that your Mom is an adult who deserves to be loved too.

Would you prefer her to be properly married to one man and be happy or for her to be jumping from bed to bed looking for elusive happiness?

I guess the reason you and your siblings don't like her prospective husband is because you're afraid of him taking all of your Mom's attention. Also, you wrongly consider fighting him off as defending your father's legacy.

Bro, I suggest you find out more about the man. Hope he's not someone who wants to take advantage of a widow. What does he do? Where are his wife and kids (if any).

Your mom has a right to be happy and it's not only your duty to ensure that she's happy, you must ensure that she gets her happiness from the right person.

Her happiness would make her live long to enjoy the fruits of her labor over you and your siblings.
bro ur the best ...thank u
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Oche211(m): 1:51pm On Aug 04, 2017
Cope1:
Bro if you can't stay with them, maybe you should get your own apartment.
correct
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by doyinbaby(f): 1:54pm On Aug 04, 2017
brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


you can't another man drill your mum....smh...... so your mum should not remarry after 11yrs..........but if it were your mum that die(God forbid) and your dad alive.....would your father wait up to 11yrs before marry....most men don't wait long before remarring after losing their wives..,..
abeg let your mother remarry and enjoy the remaining part of her life




Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by LagosismyHome(f): 1:55pm On Aug 04, 2017
brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too

cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die

i feel as if she betrayed my dad

advice pls


selfish way of thinking ..........you are her child not her hole watcher . Your father resting in peace

11 years alone is more than enough. if she happy let her be free to remarry
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 1:59pm On Aug 04, 2017
brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls




Betrayed d dead? Don't b self centered. Will you b there to hold her at night? Abeg rush and collect the bride price. Don't know y we have selfish people everywhere.
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by stormborn28(m): 2:00pm On Aug 04, 2017
TINALETC3:
Op free her abeg, I blive u ar grown 2,u shud start planning on hw 2 start ur own, u dnt like d man, yet, u didn't gv a reason 4 dat, mayb u ar jst being jealous or ar u feeling dat she wl now focus her attention on d man , it's normal, so grow up
u don't understand....he is talking about d drilling stufff.....I mean porting from Etisalat to MTN....he is feeling how his father will feel(wearing his father's shoes).....hmmmmmm
Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by stormborn28(m): 2:02pm On Aug 04, 2017
Nma27:
Betrayed d dead? Don't b self centered. Will you b there to hold her at night? Abeg rush and collect the bride price. Don't know y we have selfish people everywhere.
hmmm.. .holding her at night

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