Please let your mum find happiness. Life is too short.

She needs someone who finds her desirable, and not just children who just want to keep on collecting from her.
Get yourself busy and independent. You won't be bothered about your mum moving on.

You will eventually marry, and your wife will make it clear sooner or later that your home is not her home. Unless as usual, she's selfishly needed for nanny duties.
Please let her live life, before You kill her with your problems

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls

Imagine what your problem is... the person who drills her. Smh.. oya go n drill her ursef... hediot

stormborn28:
hmmm.. .holding her at night

Ask d selfish op.. I'm sure the guy is in his 20's

ItalianWine:


Drill her yourself if you cannot stand the thought

She cannot stand the thought of you drilling another girl

Tell the selfish boy!

Allow her please. The vow was until death do your daddy and mummy apart. She is free to marry and you become the man's step daughter or mother. You cannot stop her if you really love her. Your daddy would have done same

Nma27:
Betrayed d dead? Don't b self centered. Will you b there to hold her at night? Abeg rush and collect the bride price. Don't know y we have selfish people everywhere.

Well if he wan dey bang her mama no wahala

Maybe there is something u are not telling us here, are u suspecting she was being drilled by the wealthy man when ur father was alive? So talking about marriage reminds u of the past. If not u should be very happy for her and respect the man as ur father

Martin0:


Well if he wan dey bang her mama no wahala

Never quote me with such comment next time pls... No disrespect intended.

If truly you love your mum, you should be after her happiness and not after a boring hole. That woman has mourned her husband for a long time. Or do you think your father would have stayed that long if the table had turned.
Please, grow up and face your own life. There's more to lonely widowhood than hole drilling.

Op is afraid the attention might shift from him and his siblings.

TINALETC3:
Op free her abeg, I blive u ar grown 2,u shud start planning on hw 2 start ur own, u dnt like d man, yet, u didn't gv a reason 4 dat, mayb u ar jst being jealous or ar u feeling dat she wl now focus her attention on d man , it's normal, so grow up

No it seems op wanna be banging her

emilyone:
Your mum deserves to be happy

which happy ,his mama diserves to bang simple

OP is simply "jealous", it is allowed. It is absolutely NORMAL to have that feeling.


Nevertheless, your mom is an adult, she has the right to date/marry whoever she deems fit, even if the man is a ritualist. Allow her make mistakes, stand up, make mistakes again, until she gets it right.

Sorry o bros...if you can't stand another man drilling ya mum, why don't you take up the responsibility afterall tautau waits for no man

Nairaland girls go finish this small boy.


Johnny Drill.

I understand your love you have for your DAD and trying to protect what belong to ur dad, but in this case, "the bible says they are one UNTIL death separate them...your mum need to move-on, she even try for 11 good years. haba..... I don't even think if your dad can wait upto that 11 years before having another wife.

"For a married woman is bound by law to her
husband while he lives, but if her husband dies
she is released from the law of marriage."
God never said widows were bound to their
husbands after death. Please allow your mother to
be happy"

Kobicove:
From 2006 to 2017 is about 11 years

She has over mourned...

Pls stop being selfish and let he get some happiness

Consider yourself luck that it a wealthy guy who could have his pick of women that wants to marry her and not some gold-digger

True.

Some Gold Diggers specifically target divorced or widowed women.

Op is simply Jealous.

brandydaniells:
bro ur the best ...thank u

bro, I feel ur pain.. just let go of any bad thing you feel for the man provided it won't hurt you guys and ur mum.
And if you are finding it hard to let go, just simply allow ur mum and the man to do their thing, you and mum will do ur thing too, don't interfere in anything concerning the man, don't allow the man to exist in ur mind. with that, everybody will be at peace and you will be happy.

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls

By the time you leave her house, who should she have for company? A dog or cat?

Life continues and I know your Dad would not want her remaining lonely....

She has done well 2006 - 2017........ She has found happiness, enjoy the happiness with her......

deepwater:
Have you considered the fact that some other people may have drilled you mum mercilessly before your dad married her,

Concentrate more on how to drill your wife better or get drilled properly if you are a female.

Cheers and Happy Drilling

you bad o.

Hia na wa ooo negodu akokor

Abeg op I hear say that place itches dem when dey stay too long without been get banged don't know if it true she,but u allow ya mama marry now eh?

Abi u go dey bang her??

Hia your mother need to enjoy what other women are enjoying oooo ...

If u nor start engine for too long hmmm
Well maybe she do start's the engine sometimes hence she wanna be starting the engine constantly by getting married

Acidosis:
OP is simply "jealous", it is allowed. It is absolutely NORMAL to have that feeling.


Nevertheless, your mom is an adult, she has the right to date/marry whoever she deems fit, even if the man is a ritualist. Allow her make mistakes, stand up, make mistakes again, until she gets it right.

exactly what i wanted to type.

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls

You are crazy.


Very soon you will bring one girl home, marry her and leave the poor woman alone. lonely again.

I don't have any word of encouragement for you than to look for hole to drill and leave your mum's hole..

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls

You can't stand another man drilling her? Ain't u ashame to make such statement about ur mum?

What makes u even think it's all about drilling, she needs a companion, and a partner. ...

If that's what make her happy, let her have her way.. .

Oniranu, go and drill her na.. ....

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006

she is lonely

a wealthy man wants to marry her again
me ans my siblins dont like him
but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too

cant stand another man drilling her .. i will die

i feel as if she betrayed my dad

advice pls

thats if they aint doing it alredi...
Bt wich wud U prefer...

Legally or Illegally doing it?

Nma27:
Never quote me with such comment next time pls... No disrespect intended.

aaaaaaa na wa oooo if we get any problem b4 abeg lemme know oooo

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006


she is lonely


a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too


cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die


i feel as if she betrayed my dad


advice pls

if he wants to marry her hes been drilling her already.




Get over yourself man

Your mom has tried. Pls allow her to marry the man if he is responsible and well mannered. And you children should look out for one another including your mom.

your dad died in 2006 and your mum wants to marry in 2017 and u want to die abi


in case you don't know, if it was your mum that died in 2006 your dad would have remarried in 2007.


pls let this woman be, she is still young

I hate that part u said u can't bear another man drilling her , u want to drill her yourself? abi u nor dey drill another person pikin?

Op what is the age of your mother? Let's start from there.

Wow. That's quite a creepy thing to say about your mom.

...end time children.


O pari o

brandydaniells:



cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die

Mynd44:
No disrespect bruh but your mum is a grown woman and after 11 years, she has been loyal.

Allow her be happy.

About your not comfortable about your mum having sex, would you be so uncomfortable if your dad is the one? Get your mind off it and be happy for her.