Lexusgs430:


They never asked to be born, true. Why did he give birth to children, he clearly could not cater for ?

Ask the father that question. I can't answer that.

MissRaine69:

Ask the father that question. I can't answer that.

Oya Father, report yourself for questioning......

stressedout:
both grandparents are dead. I am considering giving out the older one as house boy

They are not yours to donate.
Send them to an orphanage so they can go to school.

Ameeria:

I think this country is finally in the ruins. Only God can safe us. I would find time to take them to the village head, if I were you. You don't have any choice, just return them.

Finally? People have been doing this kind of nonsense for a long time, probably centuries. It's one of the many practices that needs to end.

Don't have children if you cannot take care of them.

All of the idiots who protest against contraceptives (and abortion) are responsible for this mess. We don't need anymore unintentional, unprepared parents.

Lexusgs430:


They never asked to be born, true. Why did he give birth to children, he clearly could not cater for ?

Did he the father ask to be born? Did anyone ask to be born? He iis just running his biological software programme and children are a consequence It is either they die or suirvive and this latest stunt ]is part of their survival strategy.

aribisala0:
Did he the father ask to be born? Did anyone ask to be born? He iis just running his biological software programme and children are a consequence It is either they die or suirvive and this latest stunt ]is part of their survival strategy.

Survival strategy at whose expense?

aribisala0:
Did he the father ask to be born? Did anyone ask to be born? He iis just running his biological software programme and children are a consequence It is either they die or suirvive and this latest stunt ]is part of their survival strategy.

The host was never warned, he would have clearly rejected.
Hence this dumping strategy.......

elektra:
Ah! Return them to the village or bundle them to an orphanage.
It is like your village people do not want you to have peace. First your friend chase you from his house because of milk. You moved to your own place only for your neighbor's kid to start treating you anyhow, now your relative has dumped his kids on you.

shuo! Na that milk guy for Lagos? Na was o, I nor know say he go back to calabar go rent house o. This guy need to cut ties with e family

Aye le o ibosi oooo....... Use one do ogun owo to take care of the other one....

aribisala0:
Did he the father ask to be born? Did anyone ask to be born? He iis just running his biological software programme and children are a consequence It is either they die or suirvive and this latest stunt ]is part of their survival strategy.

You don't need to continue the chain. We have contraceptives and other means to stop the process.

We also have human intelligence to make rational decisions.

Lexusgs430:


Survival strategy at whose expense?

The weaker or foolisher

stressedout:
I am a hustling young nigerian and although i am comfortable, i cant afford to cater for another. One of my relation from the village visited me last 3 weeks here in calabar. I dont really know him well but i have met him just once in a meeting back in the village.

He came with his 2 boys of 7 and 11 years, begging me to take one and school him while he helps me with house duty. As i am a bachelor i declined and said i did not have money and also did not need a help. He begged that they cant even see food to eat and such things but i still refused. I dont even know how he got my address. I allowed them to sleep over since it was late and told him to go back the next day.

When the next day came (a saturday) he said let him go to the atm to get money to transport them back to the village. He left the boys and went out. Afternoon came and i started getting worried as he had not returned. He wasnt picking calls until 10pm when he called me and said i should not be angry that let the boys just do holiday in my house, that he will pick them the next day and then switched off his phone.

i havent been able to reach him since then. He just disappeared and abandoned his sons with me. Its more than 15 days now. I have called people, nobody knows his wearabouts. Nobody in the village agreed to collect the boys. They said he and the family moved to PH years ago. The boys are finishing my food and they are not telling me where they live. I even threatened to throw them out but they still refused to talk. I am just confused and angry. What do i do? this man has disorganized my life

Sell the boys.

mmsen:


You don't need to continue the chain. We have contraceptives and other means to stop the process.

We also have human intelligence to make rational decisions.

We have You can only speak for yourself

What trying to be relevant will do for people........ Z dz the new method of getting money from pple online by emotionally blackmailing them with your non-existing problem. OK picture of the kids any yours. Or u r a fraudster

That your relation is a bad guy ..next time you won't go to village and be showing big man tinz

elektra:
Ah! Return them to the village or bundle them to an orphanage.
It is like your village people do not want you to have peace. First your friend chase you from his house because of milk. You moved to your own place only for your neighbor's kid to start treating you anyhow, now your relative has dumped his kids on you.

Nairalanders.. You are seriously mad Lmao!

Fake story dot com.

All your stories on nairaland are all fake. how do you encounter all this family and compound wahala within a month. Abeg stop all this nonsense

I haven't gone through any hilarious thread as this for a long while I was really laughing and tears were rolling down.

Change your profile name from stressedout so that your village people can leave you. Peace

diz kind storfy for sweet for movie o

Na d same guy? Nna eh, e suppose start blog for im issues only

elektra:
Ah! Return them to the village or bundle them to an orphanage.
It is like your village people do not want you to have peace. First your friend chase you from his house because of milk. You moved to your own place only for your neighbor's kid to start treating you anyhow, now your relative has dumped his kids on you.

I don't understand what u stand to gain with all these stories. Just last month u posted that ur neighbour accommodated and fed you.
Oga which time u take get house ,pay house rent?
Kwontinue!

This guy must be a good cook in real life, cause he cooks the best stories here on nairaland.

stressedout:
both grandparents are dead. I am considering giving out the older one as house boy

Buhahahhahaahhahahahhahhahahahahhahahah.... Oh lord!.

That is both wickedness and irresponsibility on the part of your relative. Somebody in the village must know where he lives. Also, since you have his phone number, go to his network provider and get his address with them. You have to get the Police involved though.
How about his wife? See if you can get to his wife's relatives.

this milk man that just left his frndz place to rent his own place in lag, so u don go rent another place for calabar loool I see

Beating little kids just because their father left them with you is bad all you can do is report to police go to.media tv media they can help

THIS STORY IS COMPLETE FAKE AND FABRICATED!! U MUST BE RELATED TO LAI MOHAMMED!! IDIOTIC ATTENTION SEEKER!!

laugh done nearly kill me for here.

elektra:
Ah! Return them to the village or bundle them to an orphanage.
It is like your village people do not want you to have peace. First your friend chase you from his house because of milk. You moved to your own place only for your neighbor's kid to start treating you anyhow, now your relative has dumped his kids on you.

The kin network they are using to monitor the op life is stronger than MTN