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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by delishpot: 8:47pm On Aug 09, 2017
mexxyaaron:


Please which silly law? So the man will be paying for child support for a child that has been proven not to be his.make I see such law force me to pay, and I will ask the judge to go to hell and do his or her worst.

Yes. Depending on the circumstances surrounding the child. Google it. Man forced to pay child support for a baby that is not his. It happens from time to time in the abroad.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by aviationguy: 8:47pm On Aug 09, 2017
the man could have made a mistake during love up to use his wife name on some of the properties, so with this the woman can claim them if he fails to acts fast on the original with a compitent property lawyer.

the dna could proof the man is not kind of a real man to father a baby,but I will advise the man never to lost hope but keen in keeping his properties from this irresponsible woman called wife
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by brightalo17: 8:48pm On Aug 09, 2017
Dopeyomi:
Mtcheeeew the guy man fvck up.. sontin wey be say u go just add otapiapia to her food..

Shift for me lemme Dab jhOor..
Lol Evulu fiful everywhere grin
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by REDDEVILS1(m): 8:48pm On Aug 09, 2017
Greenbullet:
Hello nairalanders, and no I am not married , but my friend is, he has a one year old child or so he thought , his kind of work requires him to travel regularly, and so he hardly stays at home, on a faithful day , he came home early to meet his wife having sex with another man, he filed for a divorce, and was already thinking of child support but I advised him to do a DNA test and he discovered the child wasn't his ,the wife has hired a lawyer to get half of his property, please what can be done to stop this.
since it's 9ja, throw her cheating ass out. Again she has no issue for the guy so she is entitled to nothing. In fact if na I will first sue her for emotional pain and wasting yrs thinking am a husband and a father

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by OCEAN2000(m): 8:48pm On Aug 09, 2017
...Your friend should get a good lawyer and the problem is solve most especially if he is in Nigeria... all the best.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by delishpot: 8:48pm On Aug 09, 2017
Omotaday:
Does these myopic reasons justify why the h0e gave him a bastard?.

Ask her na. You that is smart go her house and ask her. He prolly was infertile. Aren't men encouraged to go try outside when their wives can't have babies? Why can't the woman also try her luck outside? At least now men know how it hurt women when you bring in a baby from another woman in the name of it was an accident.

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by bobbybrown007: 8:48pm On Aug 09, 2017
My guy ehn, its nt only red handed but make it video handed because she will stil do it.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by goldedprince: 8:49pm On Aug 09, 2017
Dopeyomi:
Mtcheeeew the guy man fvck up.. sontin wey be say u go just add otapiapia to her food..

Shift for me lemme Dab jhOor..
lol, i dey tell you. some guys dey Bleep up. any woman wey do that kain nonsense to me or any of my relative, i go sniff her life mercilessly
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by patola080(m): 8:49pm On Aug 09, 2017
Greenbullet:
Hello nairalanders, and no I am not married , but my friend is, he has a one year old child or so he thought , his kind of work requires him to travel regularly, and so he hardly stays at home, on a faithful day , he came home early to meet his wife having sex with another man, he filed for a divorce, and was already thinking of child support but I advised him to do a DNA test and he discovered the child wasn't his ,the wife has hired a lawyer to get half of his property, please what can be done to stop this.
wen did ur friend base? because I know some lawyer who will do the job free 4him n how old is the child sef ?
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by kaziblake(f): 8:49pm On Aug 09, 2017
Mind your business Amebo

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by correctguy101(m): 8:50pm On Aug 09, 2017
jjjjj2017:


Its good that the DNA shows that the child involved is not your friends. Tell your friend to sue both the lawyer & his wife for threatening his life & trying to take his property by false. if he needs a human right activist, I can recommend good one that will not take a kobo from him & they will be there for him in court.

Brother I need the contact of the human right activist please. I need professional advice.
Can I pm u?
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by tuscani: 8:51pm On Aug 09, 2017
In the EU, the issue is simply like this : was she in a recognized relationship with you ? if yes then she gets half of the property, child or no child, cheating or no cheating

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by dirtyhokage(m): 8:53pm On Aug 09, 2017
Is your friend in Nigeria? When that one start? Share property for a woman that was caught cheating? I don't believe this fake story
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by chizzy161(f): 8:54pm On Aug 09, 2017
His Lawyer will advice him better.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by BelloAshakunu: 8:54pm On Aug 09, 2017
overdrive:
which country does he reside
grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by olanshi: 8:54pm On Aug 09, 2017


Gbege! shocked


This one kon weak me! embarassed cry



Some women and infidelity are like Moi-moi and Akamu...


A lot of this filthy b.itches roam the street, they always form holy holy.

angry angry

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:55pm On Aug 09, 2017
OBAGADAFFI:


With the bold.

The woman can't get anything from that man. Anywhere not even the US.

Just get a good lawyer, show proof of Infidelity and deception.


you got it wrong whatever they aquired while married is shared thats the law

the problem with many african and asian countries is that half of the time people use traditonal social laws which half of the time were always against a woman

hence you find that most women wanna days women want a civil wedding meaning the protected from tradition were brothers or relatives would take property etc in death situation, in this case she is protected by civil law to get what the bought together even if one was working

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by MadCow1: 8:56pm On Aug 09, 2017
Greenbullet:
Hello nairalanders, and no I am not married , but my friend is, he has a one year old child or so he thought , his kind of work requires him to travel regularly, and so he hardly stays at home, on a faithful day , he came home early to meet his wife having sex with another man, he filed for a divorce, and was already thinking of child support but I advised him to do a DNA test and he discovered the child wasn't his ,the wife has hired a lawyer to get half of his property, please what can be done to stop this.

Under what laws are they married? Nigerian or Foreign.

If Nigerian; Customary or Federal Laws.

Also under federal laws, infidelity is good grounds for divorce. If the child isn't his, I don't think he will be made to pay Child maintenance. But he may need to speak to a lawyer verse in marital laws to pit him through. I think he may still habe to pay his wife "Spousal Maintenance for a set period of time. All properties purchased under both their names (e.g Mr. & Mrs Smith) will be split and that's it. Everything else should remain with the title owner (not too certain).

Also what people do nowadays is place their assets under a company or business name. The risk being if your business goes into receivership, everything tied to that business goes down with it.

My advise is get a lawyer.

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Badgers14: 8:56pm On Aug 09, 2017
Greenbullet:
Hello nairalanders, and no I am not married , but my friend is, he has a one year old child or so he thought , his kind of work requires him to travel regularly, and so he hardly stays at home, on a faithful day , he came home early to meet his wife having sex with another man, he filed for a divorce, and was already thinking of child support but I advised him to do a DNA test and he discovered the child wasn't his ,the wife has hired a lawyer to get half of his property, please what can be done to stop this.

Where does this your friend reside? In Nigeria or Abroad?

In Nigeria, I am not conversant with the marriage laws but i don't think it's 50/50. If it is , your friend should hire a law to read the fine prints for loopholes.

As a general advise, before anyone should file for divorce, it is recommended they do there home work first.. So they could catch the other party unaware and take care of few stuffs before the other party lawyer up.

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by helpee(m): 8:57pm On Aug 09, 2017
delishpot:


If the child had known him as father, if he has given the child his name, if he has signed to be the child's father, he may be forced to pay child support. Law takes the child into consideration in some cases.



Sexual frustration or cheating can happen to males and females. Just like men also cheat esp if the wife's job takes her outside 5he home for extended periods of time and people would say sex is important in marriage, so does a wife also need her husband to have sex with her too. So yes, the temptation may come. You don't blame a cheating man when his wife is a workaholic and is always not around why then do you think the woman should be abandoned in a cold bed and the man feigning he doesn't know she misses sex too?
bullshit. So he was deceived into believing the child is his. He was given a bastard as a child and you are saying he xan be forced to pay child support. Just tell me how?

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Nobody: 8:57pm On Aug 09, 2017
OBAGADAFFI:


With the bold.

The woman can't get anything from that man. Anywhere not even the US.

Just get a good lawyer, show proof of Infidelity and deception.

That is not true in the US. Even if the child is not his, that is completely separate from division of property. If he assumed the role of a father during the marriage, the court views him as the father regardless of DNA.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Chivadoski(m): 8:57pm On Aug 09, 2017
D children not his and she's talking about property, Am not sure u are a Nigerian.

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Zdoh(m): 8:58pm On Aug 09, 2017
God forbide bad things,which property she is demanding for??.Betrayal if the highest order and she even have the gut to claim anything.That can't happened in my own family except maybe we don't know
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by tuscani: 8:59pm On Aug 09, 2017
majekdom2:
are you for real.... all of those were done in deceit. @ bolded, you are thinking with your p*ssy now. A man is out there struggling to provide for his family and you want to blame him for being away. I fear women like you ooo. If he is broke now, another problem.
it is even worse if he is broke, then she and people like her will justify the adultery , they will say she was trying to help her family
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Flashh: 9:00pm On Aug 09, 2017
I hope your friend has something to prove like having a picture of that scenario? These type of women can deny it to their last breath.

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Flashh: 9:00pm On Aug 09, 2017
Greenbullet:
Hello nairalanders, and no I am not married , but my friend is, he has a one year old child or so he thought , his kind of work requires him to travel regularly, and so he hardly stays at home, on a faithful day , he came home early to meet his wife having sex with another man, he filed for a divorce, and was already thinking of child support but I advised him to do a DNA test and he discovered the child wasn't his ,the wife has hired a lawyer to get half of his property, please what can be done to stop this.
The bítch had the guts? angryangryangry

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Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by delishpot: 9:01pm On Aug 09, 2017
helpee:
bullshit. So he was deceived into believing the child is his. He was given a bastard as a child and you are saying he xan be forced to pay child support. Just tell me how?

Simple research on Google na! Let me help you half way, type can a 'man be forced to pay child support for a baby that is not his' and you will get some feedback.
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Yhelay(m): 9:01pm On Aug 09, 2017
Greenbullet:
Hello nairalanders, and no I am not married , but my friend is, he has a one year old child or so he thought , his kind of work requires him to travel regularly, and so he hardly stays at home, on a faithful day , he came home early to meet his wife having sex with another man, he filed for a divorce, and was already thinking of child support but I advised him to do a DNA test and he discovered the child wasn't his ,the wife has hired a lawyer to get half of his property, please what can be done to stop this.

Let the guy find settlement outside court room, in as much as it's the guy that calls for divorce, law will take its course.... There are 2 solutions for u at the moment

1. Withdraw ur divorce papers and then pressurise her so she could file for divorce herself then ur lawyer can make a better deal on ur behalf
2. If the most properties are owned by you u can make " sale" to another firm for ur safety
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by Opakan2: 9:01pm On Aug 09, 2017
The rate at which married people cheat these days is alarming..

Even on Nairaland here, you'll see supposed married women having indecent chats with young guys via PMs all in the bid to seduce them and get laid. Even if ya'll get away with it on earth, you will all burn till eternity

@OP It's next to impossible, he has to part with something according to marriage laws
Re: How Do I Keep My Property From A Cheating Wife During Divorce? by PDPGuy: 9:02pm On Aug 09, 2017
In Oghoyone v. Oghoyone (2010), the Court of Appeal essentially held that a respondent has joint interest in property belonging to both parties.
So, if any of the property has joint title i.e. real property such as houses or commercial buildings, the trial court may indeed award half of the property to the wife. Meaning that if they jointly owned, say, two homes, one of the homes could be awarded to the wife by the judge.

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