supersystemsng:



Lol... Chai Chai Chai. you're cracking me up..I don't fall into that regimen sha...You reminded me of my friend's fiancee who asked me for sex a few times 6 months to her wedding, also telling me to propose to her and she would leave the guy.I got so mad, i quit the fellowship we both beloned so my brother would have peace of mind.. How can ladies be so...?

if your wife has been struggling with you and has barely benefited 1k from you and has been supporting you without benefit, the only benefit she has gotten from you is sex and then someone is flashing 500k at her and is ready to open a big supermarket for her,money wey she never see for her life and the man says I'll give you if you're ready for me to fok you in the presence of your husband and she looks front, she looks back,she looks at how many years she has been in that marriage and the guy has never bought 150 naira pant for her and someone is flashing 500k,you think she will not willingly and happily fling her thighs open and give him different styles in the presence of the husband?

Don't you know its very easy to snatch a poor Mans wife and disrespect a poor man and also get away with it?

Any kind of egbin can tale a poor man.the nickname of poor married men in Yoruba is "oloriburuku" meaning an unfortunate man

Anybody has a right to call you that if you're poor.that's why you hear anybody calling okada men "oloriburuku" or touts

shaybebaby:

I would have given my 2 cents but you are throwing down all the cents this topic requires. Any thing I say would be double post.

I don't get your point ma?

shaybebaby:

I would have given my 2 cents but you are throwing down all the cents this topic requires. Any thing I say would be double post.

The topic doesnt require much ma'am.

A man a babe, eats twice daily, let's say 600 Naira per day for just husband and wife for daily feeding, how much doe this amount to monthly ma? Don't forget after buying foodstuff, fish or meat, one tkilo of titus now is how much? or a kilo of turkey? How much is a gallon of kerosene for the whole month? palm oil, ground nut oil, star times 1500 monthly, credit, data, transport fare, should a baby come in, a baby eats 4tins of baby food per week which costs 4k each these days, trust me even if one buys cerelac 100naira sachet, the baby will consume about 50 in a week, so 40 x 100naira equals 4k, or if one wanna raise a child on just ogi, and when the child reaches five, the cognitive skills aren't well developed...No wonder many politicians can't think, i'm sure they weren't well developed at infancy. Nepa bill, water bill alone costs 10k per month, if the woman fetches water daily, after seven years she looks like a tea bag soaked in water...

Does this break it down for you..

Bottomline, never think of marriage without prior planning is the message for this generation

I didn't mention school fees o

wat brand of weed is d op puffing

supersystemsng:


I learnt the hard way. They killed my biz and i almost died. Now no one knows where I stay, my number, my picture, my email, nothing....we don't have friends anymore, just leechers everywhere...funny enough if one still goes out of range, they employ local tactics...

hahahaah you make yourself elusive. They only see you from afar but cannot get to you.you make sure you have no old time friends that's too close to you because na old time friends dey betray the most

dangotesmummy:
if your wife has been struggling with you and has barely benefited 1k from you and has been supporting you without benefit, the only benefit she has gotten from you is sex and then someone is flashing 500k at her and is ready to open a big supermarket for her,money wey she never see for her life and the man says I'll give you if you're ready for me to fok you in the presence of your husband and she looks front, she looks back,she looks at how many years she has been in that marriage and the guy has never bought 150 naira pant for her and someone is flashing 500k,you think she will not willingly and happily fling her thighs open and give him different styles in the presence of the husband?

Don't you know its very easy to snatch a poor Mans wife and disrespect a poor man and also get away with it?

Any kind of egbin can tale a poor man.the nickname of poor married men in Yoruba is "oloriburuku" meaning an unfortunate man

Anybody has a right to call you that if you're poor.that's why you hear anybody calling okada men "oloriburuku" or touts

This is a wicked descriptive...which is why ladies should look for a guy with potentials before marriage... if one can't save 500k in a year now, under this current dispensation then we have problems o...the economic situation of the country isn't smiling and the picture you painted is how many marriages look like..

A friend of mine will say, after them don sell to-to finish, them go use the devil money open wine shop sit down in front like holy holy...

dangotesmummy:
hahahaah you make yourself elusive. They only see you from afar but cannot get to you.you make sure you have no old time friends that's too close to you because na old time friends dey betray the most

I still haven't recovered fully..No enemy in life like old time friends...I change address easily thesedays, phone numbers, social media accounts...they can rot in hell for all i care

Benita27:
You're right, for those who expect others to fix their mess for them. Going into marriage with 20k salary, you'll definitely take loans in order to catch up with bills.

I'm not surprised people support this 'cause they think marriage is a walk in the park.

no it's not because they think marriage is a walk in the park,it's because misery loves company. A miserable or struggling Person wants others to be like him and join in the patching up here and there they call marriage

MansaHenry:
Gucci pants ?just kidding o

Haha na epp I dey epp Op Na so he can understand how serious that 20k is

dangotesmummy:
no it's not because they think marriage is a walk in the park,it's because misery loves company. A miserable or struggling Person wants others to be like him and join in the patching up here and there they call marriage

True.

supersystemsng:


I still haven't recovered fully..No enemy in life like old time friends...I change address easily thesedays, phone numbers, social media accounts...they can rot in hell for all i care

lol.na person wey know you in and out,know your story or history dey do person the most.that's why this days people don't have friends for a long time. Just seasonal friends for a situation, event or period of time

askseunoladele:
HOW TO GET MARRIED ON A 20K SALARY!

If age is no longer on your side, you have found the woman you want to marry but your salary is the barrier between you and your marital promised land, you earn 20k or a little more per month, your sexual urge is getting uncontrollable, you are over 30 and your fiancee wouldn't mind settling down with you, here is the practical way to survive on a 20k salary!

1. Pay your tithe 10%

2. Save 10%

3. Get a room apartment where you will not be paying more than 2k per month.

4. With neighbours, your NEPA bill should not be more than #500:00.

5. Feeding for both you and wife not more than 10k. Always buy your foodstuff in bulk every month, you will save lots of money.

6. Keep 10% for emergencies, that is 2k.

7. The remaining #1,500 will be shared between you and your wife as pocket money. You 1k, wife, #500.

Now listen: you can only do this on the conditions given below:

1. Your wife will get a job to assist you financially so that both of you will put money together to start a business, look for a higher paying job or run your vision that will yield profits, enlarge you and move to a higher level of comfort and wealth. Discuss this thoroughly in courtship and ensures she agrees. That is what courtship is about: to discuss your future and see if you can walk together (Amos 3:3).

2. No baby for the first 2 years while you both work harder and get something better or extra doing to cater for the baby. Discuss this thoroughly. Visit a family planning clinic and get an advise on which family planning method will work for you. Withdrawal sometimes fail and calculating the ovulation period is not completely reliable but if she is very diligent, can consistently monitor her ovulation, you may take the risk but combining with CD is better (I'm talking to mature adults here).

3. There will be pressure from your family especially your mother for her to get pregnant. Stand up for her, shield her, be a man and let your mum know that for personal reasons, it's your decision for her to delay pregnancy. Marriage is for mature men and women, not for boys and girls. You should be responsible and have the final say in your marriage. Your decisions are between you and your wife, whatever anyone else says is secondary! Protect her from your family, stand up for her!

4. Pray diligently and consistently for God to enlarge you.

5. Map out practical plans for you to achieve your dreams.

6. Have the faith that can move mountains! The Bishop Oyedepo and Fela Durotoye's type of faith: These men had almost nothing when they started but their wives were working and assisted them till they broke through.

You can make it before you get married. You don't have to get married on a salary of 20k. The Lord can surprise you with a better job, profitable business or great contracts before you marry, if not yet then don't wait till you are in your 50s before you settle down.

"Two are better than one..." is what the Holy Book says. With your wife's full support and strong faith in you, you will break through the ceiling of limitation and emerge into your glorious destiny. FEEL FREE TO SHARE. God bless you, cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.
www.askseunoladele..com

You did not mention anything about bride price and wedding. Anyway it is possible to people living in your own part of this country.
Those from the East cannot try it because in some areas, they're collecting "killer" bride price.

dangotesmummy:
I don't get your point ma?

I mean, all the sense I could made, you have exceeded it and doing justice to the topic.

joeace2020:


Because you don get small brezz and wide hips now nobody go hear word. Abeg shift make i pass. Make i go find food, i dey hungry i nor get power.

Because ur face u wan frustrate me abeg u seff shift go one side .. pounded yam n egusi on my mind


Benita27 morning sweets how body.. taking a break before my brain explode

dangotesmummy:
lol.na person wey know you in and out,know your story or history dey do person the most.that's why this days people don't have friends for a long time. Just seasonal friends for a situation, event or period of time

Yeah, that's what i do, seasonal friends...

Back to marriage, how much do you think a couple should earn, the guy and the female to have a decent marriage

ololadeking:
dammmn, savage yu so ruthless d poor boy thought it was his regular danfo trip,

Na u come savage pass u no get joy wahlahi

supersystemsng:



This is a wicked descriptive...which is why ladies should look for a guy with potentials before marriage... if one can't save 500k in a year now, under this current dispensation then we have problems o...the economic situation of the country isn't smiling and the picture you painted is how many marriages look like..

A friend of mine will say, after them don sell to-to finish, them go use the devil money open wine shop sit down in front like holy holy...

that's because women know their time in the market is short.after they use Toto sell market,they use the dividends of the Toto to open wine store

There's a Yoruba celebrity,I don't want to mention her name that dumped her poor husband and married a sugar daddy of course she knew the politician will not marry her or be with her forever, they both "HELPED" themselves, after the politician had his fill dumped her and she used the money she got from that politician to open a intimacy gadget shop.

People were telling her to go back to her husband, she said the guy is still poor and struggling, he has nothing to offer her and her mouth is bigger,she's tired of "God will do it man" she wants "God has performed a miracle man" or no man at all.

supersystemsng:


The topic doesnt require much ma'am.

A man a babe, eats twice daily, let's say 600 Naira per day for just husband and wife for daily feeding, how much doe this amount to monthly ma? Don't forget after buying foodstuff, fish or meat, one tkilo of titus now is how much? or a kilo of turkey? How much is a gallon of kerosene for the whole month? palm oil, ground nut oil, star times 1500 monthly, credit, data, transport fare, should a baby come in, a baby eats 4tins of baby food per week which costs 4k each these days, trust me even if one buys cerelac 100naira sachet, the baby will consume about 50 in a week, so 40 x 100naira equals 4k, or if one wanna raise a child on just ogi, and when the child reaches five, the cognitive skills aren't well developed...No wonder many politicians can't think, i'm sure they weren't well developed at infancy. Nepa bill, water bill alone costs 10k per month, if the woman fetches water daily, after seven years she looks like a tea bag soaked in water...

Does this break it down for you..

Bottomline, never think of marriage without prior planning is the message for this generation

I didn't mention school fees o

These are irrelevant. If you are on such level of earnings, you have no business considering marriage.

"Time is not on your side" pffft! That statement annoys the heck out of me. Why is time not on your side?

If you are unable to earn more than that when all you are responsible is yourself and all your time is yours to do with as you please, tell me, in what way will bringing in a partner make things better? Not to mention kids.

I suppose you could get married and share the burden.
The rent is halved or maybe by pooling incomes together, you can afford more.

However, under no circumstances should kids be brought into the mix until finances improve.

supersystemsng:


Yeah, that's what i do, seasonal friends...

Back to marriage, how much do you think a couple should earn, the guy and the female to have a decent marriage

minimum of 150k for a start

And that's after you have made investments that's already yielding better profits o,no be change

mofeoluwadassah:
abi nw

hadassah, hadassah, mofeoluwahadassah........ ordinary pm,she doesn't want to acknowledge..... not fair

supersystemsng:


Yeah, that's what i do, seasonal friends...

Back to marriage, how much do you think a couple should earn, the guy and the female to have a decent marriage

Decent life.

Lalas247:

Because ur face u wan frustrate me abeg u seff shift go one side .. pounded yam n egusi on my mind


Benita.27 morning sweets how body.. taking a break before my brain explode

All right hun, but you failed to reply my question on what happened to Reina.

shaybebaby:

These are irrelevant. If you are on such level of earnings, you have no business considering marriage.

"Time is not on your side" pffft! That statement annoys the heck out of me. Why is time not on your side?

If you are unable to earn more than that when all you are responsible is yourself and all your time is yours to do with as you please, tell me, in what way will bringing in a partner make things better? Not to mention kids.

I suppose you could get married and share the burden.
The rent is halved or maybe by pooling incomes together, you can afford more.

However, under no circumstances should kids be brought into the mix until finances improve.

Many couples delude themselves and ten years later, the finances is even worse off


We are just chatting, do you mind not personalizing or bringinging me into the discuss? I.e... If you are on such level of earnings, you have no business considering marriage.

Benita27:
All right hun, but you failed to reply my question on what happened to Reina.

Seen it was getting there to it few mentions above it

shaybebaby:
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Decent life.

whichever way goes smartie. your point?

Lalas247:

It will cost Pound Sterling besides don't think you'll survive in this cold
Winter is Here....

Abeg I have visa send the address.

justifiedcoyy:
hmmmmm

life isn't fear for real. there are people with children who even earn less.

how do they cope

hmmmm i reali dont know, buh dy survive.... Growing up, My mum earned less dan dat buh we did survive(dad is late).... Its being all God cus now my lyf is a living testimony... Dats y i share d pain of people suffering financially and all des commentors or wateva formin big boy and big queen wud never know how it feels lyk until dy experience it......take note d real big boys dont brag. Som people for here neva even chop today ...

femi4:
I don arrive to see the pant

Oya come oza room una no like to see person enjoy sha ... so na 20k pant cause all this wan

gentle136:
Anty Alalas, ur pant na gold

Me I tire ooooooo!!