femi4:
Correct!

Not everyone will get marry and not all that married stayed married

YOU GET SENSE, ONLY INTELLIGENT AND WISE PEOPLE KNOWS WHAT AM TALKING ABOUT.

boldking:
Let me tell you guys the truth, THERE IS nothing like spare money in Nigeria, money na money and mind you MMM is dead and gone
robbing peter to pay PAUL thats a scam .....I DON LEARN MY OWN D HARD WAY 250K WEY I SUPPOSE USE BUY LAND FOR VILLAGE MMM SAY NA FROZEN MAVRO.....DEY CALL MY HARD EARN MONEY MAVRO

still looking for a link between your post and the topic

Nma27:
Any1 who allow these point to hinder them from marrying no ready in d first place. You owe it to yourself to be happy.

the truth is that I have seen what OP stated as facts... I know of ladies in such predicament

majekdom2:
Very sordid points here... attitude, character, personality, appearance and somewhat luck are reasons why people get or don't get married.

na here dem go ever see you, it's amazing how an untrained, uncouth fellow like you expect the best behaviour from another human being when you are a natural born jerk

Where are the "marriage is not for everyone" crew nah?

boldking:
Let me tell you guys the truth, THERE IS nothing like spare money in Nigeria, money na money and mind you MMM is dead and gone
robbing peter to pay PAUL thats a scam .....I DON LEARN MY OWN D HARD WAY 250K WEY I SUPPOSE USE BUY LAND FOR VILLAGE MMM SAY NA FROZEN MAVRO.....DEY CALL MY HARD EARN MONEY MAVRO

250k stylishly transformed to Macro.

thesuave10:


Who the fûck is holding them? the virginity thing is still stupid regardless of anything. And by the way eating dirt is ok to a mad. So your case is invalid

Exactly. It's okay for them to eat dirt,so let them eat. It's their madness and not yours. It's stupid to you,thank you. Fortunately for virgins,your opinion isn't ultimate. You should frame it and put it on a wall where you can see it and chant the lines each time you're getting f*cked.

Blackhawk01:
6) Cooking

These set of girls hate the kitchen pass the delivery room and food, they say izz the way to a Naija man's heart.
E.g Blackhawk

You no lie at all

GloriaNinja:
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE, INFACT MARRIAGE IS OVER-RATED, SOME PEOPLE HAS LOST THEIR LIVES AS A RESULT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN MARRIAGE.

You are fruitlessly trying to paint the institution so bad and dangerous.

This is understandable.

Pusyiter:
Hi ladies, this is not a platform to express your frustration. The fact that a guy dumped you or you had had a failed relationship does not mean all men are screwed. Marriage is a beautiful thing. Abi lalas247 I lie?

Ur head dey der jare u no lie
There is always one stallion out there it is a beautiful thing to have a companion for life if done in the right way ...

sadly I belong to 1 and 3! may God help me.

A man or woman can get married at any age.
Money answereth all things.

Vivly:
It's sometimes baffling the kind of research Nairalanders put energy into.

I tire oh, I actually blame spectranet

noscarn91:

Fine girl , I would like to lick you from head to toe

that is gross..

Dillusionist:
where is it written that everyone must marry??....

Ho abt u..y dont u speak for urself my dear

omoharry:
that is gross..

Was I talking to you , mind your business

thesuave10:


Who the fûck is holding them? the virginity thing is still stupid regardless of anything. And by the way eating dirt is ok to a mad. So your case is invalid

Now I know ur very daft
Bad parental upbringing

Make i dey stroll comot!

mikeycharles:
Africa and marriage, since when has marriage been an achievement, I concur with what this girl is saying

Excuse me o no vex hw will the girl have children if she remains a virgin

ikorodureporta:
A guy in his 50's may still end up marrying a succulent teenager, but when a lady gets to the 40-range & still single, it becomes an issue. Its a fact that they are unhappy people, & some are 'hopelessly' single I'v understood various issues leading to this & i wanna motivate you all in your 20's & 30's not to fall into this sh*t!


1. THOSE CARING FOR THEIR AGED PARENTS


Some ladies, being the younger siblings are the ones left at home to manage the affairs of their parents. Other older siblings live their lives how the feel like, get married, have kids, while those ones left @ home cannot do other things due to the responsibility of looking after their aged parents- jobs, outings etc becomes limited, thus, they are left behind by the society...


As a senior sibling, dnt always wait for them to ask for support. It is by those little support they get from you they can put other things in place, 'cos they'll neva ask you since u've failed to see life from their angle....



2. THOSE LIVING WITH THEIR SIBLINGS & CARING FOR THEIR KIDS


Some ladies have been living with their siblings & caring for their kids since their early teenage days. They have become their househelp & do not have time for themselves. Their busy parents too dnt care. They leave in the morning & get home late @ night, but these caretakers remain indoor- can't pursue their career, not job, they just rely on them for everything they need. Some of those kids even graduate & get married while they are still single.


If you have anyone under your roof, make sure they'r empowered, 'cos in future, they may start hating you for being the cause of their loneliness...


3. ENVIRONMENT


Someone relocating from a much lively neighbourhood to a very 'dull' place may have issues with their social life. Comparing my former area to my current area, i know how it feels like as a guy. If a lady in her 30's is in this condition, i wonder how she wld get out of it. That means you must double-up your efforts to keep up with your social class, but laziness wl not allow them to make changes. They prefer attending mushroom churches behind their house instead of worshipping @ bigger parishes; they remain indoors - dnt visit old friends anymore because of the distance, & thats how they become lonely & isolated....


4. CAREER


These ones focus so much on their career & loosing out on their relationship. Even when they realize that things aren't right with their lifestyle, they still set bars (class) on the type of guy they need. When are you gonna find that 'Mr. Perfect'?? Serena Williams has taken a break from tennis to raise a family; Funke Akindele too has taken control of her destiny


5. CHASTITY:


These set of ladies were able to keep themselves clean in their teens, 20's, & 30's.....and somehow have lost interest in sex. They have become 'frigid' & even scared of having babies at their age. They even prefer being singles for life....

My dear,Not all ladies in this our generation will get married n stay in marriage coz what we have now is the opposite of how my mother married my mum n some other parents too

GloriaNinja:
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE, INFACT MARRIAGE IS OVER-RATED, SOME PEOPLE HAS LOST THEIR LIVES AS A RESULT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN MARRIAGE.

Its like saying that a car is not for everyone ,some people have lost their lives as a result of car accidents

Vivly:
It's sometimes baffling the kind of research Nairalanders put energy into.

E pain am.
you must be one of the #papagomarry

MichaelBlake40:

Excuse me o no vex hw will the girl have children if she remains a virgin

she'll probably become mother of Christ

GloriaNinja:
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE, INFACT MARRIAGE IS OVER-RATED, SOME PEOPLE HAS LOST THEIR LIVES AS A RESULT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN MARRIAGE.

Is like you are in there category. I pity for you, anyway call me I am available

Number 7 dos looking for God fearing man , tall, handsome, working in oil company , rich

ikorodureporta:
A guy in his 50's may still end up marrying a succulent teenager, but when a lady gets to the 40-range & still single, it becomes an issue. Its a fact that they are unhappy people, & some are 'hopelessly' single I'v understood various issues leading to this & i wanna motivate you all in your 20's & 30's not to fall into this sh*t!


1. THOSE CARING FOR THEIR AGED PARENTS


Some ladies, being the younger siblings are the ones left at home to manage the affairs of their parents. Other older siblings live their lives how the feel like, get married, have kids, while those ones left @ home cannot do other things due to the responsibility of looking after their aged parents- jobs, outings etc becomes limited, thus, they are left behind by the society...


As a senior sibling, dnt always wait for them to ask for support. It is by those little support they get from you they can put other things in place, 'cos they'll neva ask you since u've failed to see life from their angle....



2. THOSE LIVING WITH THEIR SIBLINGS & CARING FOR THEIR KIDS


Some ladies have been living with their siblings & caring for their kids since their early teenage days. They have become their househelp & do not have time for themselves. Their busy parents too dnt care. They leave in the morning & get home late @ night, but these caretakers remain indoor- can't pursue their career, not job, they just rely on them for everything they need. Some of those kids even graduate & get married while they are still single.


If you have anyone under your roof, make sure they'r empowered, 'cos in future, they may start hating you for being the cause of their loneliness...


3. ENVIRONMENT


Someone relocating from a much lively neighbourhood to a very 'dull' place may have issues with their social life. Comparing my former area to my current area, i know how it feels like as a guy. If a lady in her 30's is in this condition, i wonder how she wld get out of it. That means you must double-up your efforts to keep up with your social class, but laziness wl not allow them to make changes. They prefer attending mushroom churches behind their house instead of worshipping @ bigger parishes; they remain indoors - dnt visit old friends anymore because of the distance, & thats how they become lonely & isolated....


4. CAREER


These ones focus so much on their career & loosing out on their relationship. Even when they realize that things aren't right with their lifestyle, they still set bars (class) on the type of guy they need. When are you gonna find that 'Mr. Perfect'?? Serena Williams has taken a break from tennis to raise a family; Funke Akindele too has taken control of her destiny


5. CHASTITY:


These set of ladies were able to keep themselves clean in their teens, 20's, & 30's.....and somehow have lost interest in sex. They have become 'frigid' & even scared of having babies at their age. They even prefer being singles for life....

How on earth will she hv kids if she is still a Virgin
Oga d pic no mak sense she has 2 brk d stuff 2 hv kids 2 b an example to.

I bet cars are overrated and not meant for everybody cos so many have lost their lives via accidents o, ba? Nothing is overrated, it depends on the readings and how wired your mind is. Marriage isn't overrated and it's for everyone who can afford it. The truth is, not everyone can afford it, that's not the fault of marriage nor the fault of God who instituted it but the fault of you and I who just can't afford it.

GloriaNinja:
MARRIAGE IS OVER-RATED, AND NOT FOR EVERY BODY, SOME PEOPLE HAS LOST THEIR LIVES ALL IN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AS A RESULT OF MARRIAGE.

frenzyduchess:
na here dem go ever see you, it's amazing how an untrained, uncouth fellow like you expect the best behaviour from another human being when you are a natural born jerk

obviously, you failed english in your Waec

majekdom2:
obviously, you failed english in your Waec

a jerk you are, a jerk you will always be.By the way, I saw you reported me the other time ,after being a jerk you then cry to the mods

They are full of artificial.

GloriaNinja:
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE, INFACT MARRIAGE IS OVER-RATED, SOME PEOPLE HAS LOST THEIR LIVES AS A RESULT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN MARRIAGE.

So my dear friend U will not venture for fear of failing right? U will not go into a business for fear that some people have failed in that line of business in the past?