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Do you know what they experience there? So you expect them to voice everything out? Smh. Kids with rat brain everywhere!

Simoneblosson:
This woman is an angel!! Imagine following your husband to squat with child at a friend's!!! I can imagine the thousands of ill treatments they endured, plenty insults and mind troubling looks!!! She my woman of the Month!!

OrdercityWeb:

Bros............hmmmmmn

It is well

Pamelayoung:
Picture of them sleeping on the floor of their friends house or I don't believe this lame news

thesicilian:
All I kept seeing was "she stayed with..." "she stayed with..."
What exactly were her contributions to the husband's eventual success?

belindar:


You people are just an ingrate . Instead of you to tell her to say thank you to the person that house them even for a single day. Do u know the inconvenience they might have caused the person that house them.
Learn to appreciate things. How many people have you giving shelter to yourself?

Pamelayoung:
Picture of them sleeping on the floor of their friends house or I don't believe this lame news

BumbleBee2ice:
I'm still staying too, Baba joor answer my husband call too oooo.
Me I will nt lie o dis suffer too much

PrimadonnaO:


Put your faith on the line and persevere just a little more. God is a rewarder and not a user of man. Your breakthrough is on the way...

wristbangle:


Thanks for your sincerity. So you want to marry a man with range rover already bah?

Ibkanney:
This article potrays a wrong information, for the record, I use to attend the same church with the guy and his family in the early 90s and his family most especially his father is VERY WELL TO DO. He and his siblings went to BOWEN UNI, so dont paint the pix of the guy had NOTHING.

belindar:
Its a pity that both of them don't appreciate the person that house them rather complaining that they slept on the floor, cooking in another mans kitchen. No mention of thank you to the person that house you even if u sleep on the floor. Nonsense
Do you think it's easy to house someone ( A married couple for that matter) for just a single day.
You just come to these forum to spill trash. You people are ingrate.
There is no where you mention thank u to the person that house you in these epistle you wrote. You need adjustment.

PrimadonnaO:


You don't have to be an extremist right now. But at least, a man getting married should have at least a roof over his head, a house he can call his own. Imagine a couple with a baby and one more on the way squatting with a friend! It's pathetic really.

wristbangle:


She didn't specify which is the reason I asked that question.

You are right as regards your statement. It is immaterial for a man not to have shelter of its own before or during marriage. The ridicule would be too much to bear

thesicilian:
All I kept seeing was "she stayed with..." "she stayed with..."
What exactly were her contributions to the husband's eventual success?

Allwility:

Honestly, 'ayam not understanding'.

I don't understand the message this article is trying to portray. What achievement are we celebrating here? That she stayed put with a guy through his period of hardship?

I think it's mediocrity to preach this kind of message to our slay queens out there. If a lady stays with a guy whether he is rich or poor with the hope of benefitting from him whether now or later, what's spectacular about that?

Is that how we are going to have our own Condi Rice, or the next Okonjo Iweala or Dora Akinyuli?

Dear Nigerian ladies, your life vision shouldn't be to get married to some guy and be cooking rice with beans for him. Wake up.

uglodoh:
Why did she marry the man in the first instance? Is marriage no longer for better for worse? Nothing was said about what she did for the man in this story.

Was she the one that did the struggling and gave out of the proceed to the man or it was the man that did the struggling while she stayed to endure.

It is good for the wife to stay with a man when things are not going smoothly but it should not be taken as an achievement but a norm.

cococandy:
There's probably a lot she accomplished besides being his wife. But I'm sure we won't hear about it.

belindar:


You people are just an ingrate . Instead of you to tell her to say thank you to the person that house them even for a single day. Do u know the inconvenience they might have caused the person that house them.
Learn to appreciate things. How many people have you giving shelter to yourself?

Eluwilussit:


Moral support. Believing in the man, providing companionship and removing konji, no be small contribution. E no easy. If her husband no ask that question, nobody has the right to do so.

Dude knows her contributions and worth. True.

Mindfulness:


Irrelevant. Her life must revolve around her husband.

pocohantas:
She stayed
She stayed!

Was she supposed to go before?
I don't like things like this, makes it look like it shouldn't be the norm. We have lots of materialistic women around, but it's common sense and proof of loyalty to stand by your loved one. That's how it should be!!


She was also broke, and the guy stayed with her too.

Is she the only one that could have left? The guy can also hook a rich woman, do women think they're the only one with richer options?

She try, but na the guy try pass...

Simoneblosson:



As much as I like your aggression and candid POV on this issue I think you're poorly schooled in judgement. The issue is about appreciating a good woman (God Bless Her soul) not dominating on the the other parties. If you'll like to appreciate the friend's family, you could go look for them, do your thing take pictures and come post em here. I'll clap for you then.

belindar:


Appreciating a good woman. You are just funny. Why must she be appreciated. They married for better for worse. The man in question also needs to be appreciated for staying with the woman Bicos he should have also choose to move with other women that are ready to take care of him when the going was tough. So what is spectacular abt the lady staying with the man. They have equal opportunities.
Until some of you can see more than your nose and realize that a woman can run away with another man, so also a man can ran away with another woman. So there nothing to celebrate about the woman. The man is also a good man.

Simoneblosson:


Valid point there another bout of commendable aggression from you there. Sadly just like McGregor it lacks bite. No doubt marriage is for better for worse but in this situation it's something totally crazy!! I employ you to empathize and picture your reaction in that situation. It's really not child's play. She stuck to the man through not just thin but bare visible she deserves commendation as a woman of virtue. She's the type the Bible describes as BLESSED

belindar:


If she stuck with the man as you claimed, The man also stuck with her. Don't u get it? After all they have equal right. There is nothing spectacular about it. You people always says the woman suffer with the man, so the man doesn't suffer with woman? Pls try and escape from this your myopic thoughts. I believe you are one of the people who believe it's only women that suffers domestic violence.
I rest my case. Everything you people will bring bible into it. So there is no man of virtue in the Bible?