she must have done something that warrant that, I'm not saying that he was right but sometimes women can annoy you to the core.

Evaberry:
The Quran actually allow men to beat their wives so this is no biggie for them and bauchi practices Sharia law. Quran 4:34. Quran38":44 amongst others

but seriously how can a man inflict pain on someone he claims to love
The mother of his children
someone who he vowed to take care of and protect against all odd

why are some men domestic abusers and why do others think it's cool to hit a woman if she misbehaves

Did the man just hit her without any reason try to hear from both sides first

PaperLace:


Would you say this if it were a man?

gqboyy:
Wife beaters are cowards

try being in their shoes.

nobody deserves beating, both women and men

nowadays women overdo things!!! they should please respect their husbands.

you know you can't overpower a man and you are exchanging words with him, cursing his family and so on, when he beats you , you'll say he's a coward, woman beater and so on!!! but what about you

Evaberry:
[s]The Quran actually allow men to beat their wives so this is no biggie for them and bauchi practices Sharia law. Quran 4:34. Quran38":44 amongst others [/s]

but seriously how can a man inflict pain on someone he claims to love
The mother of his children
someone who he vowed to take care of and protect against all odd

why are some men domestic abusers and why do others think it's cool to hit a woman if she misbehaves

And tomorrow, people like you would accuse others of posting Bible verses partially. If Quran says beat your wife, with what? The fact that you didn't get the wisdom in those verses didn't mean you should come here and be forming King Kong of Islamic expert.

Ademolag:


try being in their shoes.

nobody deserves beating, both women and men

nowadays women overdo things!!! they should please respect their husbands.

you know you can't overpower a man and you are exchanging words with him, cursing his family and so on, when he beats you , you'll say he's a coward, woman beater and so on!!! but what about you

There are ways to settle issues not necessarily by beating. Have you not read recently on this forum how one coward ruthlessly murdered his wife? Don't u know that this merciless beatings can lead to death. All dis tattoos u r seing on her skin is subcutaneous bleeding

He's a doctor
She's his wife

He treats sick and injured people..
She's injured..

He should treat her..

He's a beat and treat doctor

Evaberry:
The Quran actually allow men to beat their wives so this is no biggie for them and bauchi practices Sharia law. Quran 4:34. Quran38":44 amongst others

but seriously how can a man inflict pain on someone he claims to love
The mother of his children
someone who he vowed to take care of and protect against all odd

why are some men domestic abusers and why do others think it's cool to hit a woman if she misbehaves

An Hippocratic mind wrote that without completing the verse.


Islam said with a toothbrush or chewing stick, just to express ur disapproval with her, imagine Christians that worship sun god on sundays and 25 December dey yab ?.
Jesus was a jew not an Italian, well na pope cause dis wahala because na Catholicism get d swag then not now .
If una go change to traditional worshippers, it would have been better atleast sango no get picture talkless of one babalawo changing it to his son own . b4 u yab me kindly google the facts odes

Ademolag:




try being in their shoes.

nobody deserves beating, both women and men

nowadays women overdo things!!! they should please respect their husbands.

you know you can't overpower a man and you are exchanging words with him, cursing his family and so on, when he beats you , you'll say he's a coward, woman beater and so on!!! but what about you

You are sincerely not making much sense. There are men that insult their wives family, most times what those women do is cry. How is insult on the same scale with physical violence?

If couples use violence to settle every verbal misunderstanding, marriage wouldn't be a place to be in.

You sure you are relaying your thoughts correctly?

You are obviously not married. One day, you'll grow and reason properly. Till then _

Last week was a lawyer, today is a medical doctor. The annoying part of the drama is that the women will be the first to go public forming victim, just to gain sympathy. If u are tied of marriage do the right thing by divorcing ur husband. U can't be hiding under the cover of marriage and be tormenting ur spouse and expect him to stay mute.

MissRaine69:
What's the focus on his credentials? That does not negate the fact that he is physically violent towards his wife, doctor or not.

as a friend that has the best of intentions, I implore you to unfollow Arsenal, cos i would like you to see you grow old and see your grand kids, cos Cardiac Arrest and Arsenal are like twins.
Speaking of Doctors, this is more like a prescription.



Its good to see your are still breathing after Anfield.

that moment when you are looking for the stupor in the beating....

PaperLace:


Would you say this if it were a man?

Majority of you that are quick to type this, are not married. If you are married, you'll know husbands are as annoying as wives. It only takes tolerance for both to manage each other.

tolerance do you know if he has had enough?
if you don't want beating stop exchanging words with the man, he's not your mate in anyway, if you claim you are equal, pay the house rent and foot every bill in the family with him, then you're equal. not after feeding you, housing you and clothing you, you tell me we are equal.

you want to be pampered and want to be treated as equals the same time. is it possible?

Yomi007k, this comes as a surprise.

gqboyy:

There are ways to settle issues not necessarily by beating. Have you not read recently on this forum how one coward ruthlessly murdered his wife? Don't u know that this merciless beatings can lead to death. All dis tattoos u r seing on her skin is subcutaneous bleeding

it takes two people to dialogue... ask if she was ready to dialogue Oga!!

a pastor said if you are really the woman God wants you to be, your husband can't beat you even if he's the devil

Sun god worship on sundays and 25 December.

Catholicism cause serious problems in sun worship

Google Cesare Borgia and the truth shall set you freeeeeeeeeee

Ademolag:



tolerance do you know if he has had enough?
if you don't want beating stop exchanging words with the man, he's not your mate in anyway, if you claim you are equal, pay the house rent and foot every bill in the family with him, then you're equal. not after feeding you, housing you and clothing you, you tell me we are equal.

you want to be pampered and want to be treated as equals the same time. is it possible?

This one is obviously still a kid. Lots of women around me feed,house and clothe themselves. I wouldn't know which forest you reside.

That you feed and clothe your wife, not like so many men still do that _isn't a reason to batter her. There are so many women feeding their homes and I am sure you won't see it as a good enough reason for them to beat their husbands. Men insult their wives too. Men cheat on their wives _that's enough insult. It doesn't warrant abuse from these women. So, you see how senseless it sounds now?

This isn't about who you feed, it's about what's right. If you have had enough, divorce him/her. There is no reason to inflict injury on your spouse (man/woman).

thornapple:
Yomi007k, this comes as a surprise.

Im innocent n full of love and positive energy.

Stooping so low aint on my check list.

what did she do that made the husband to rough handled her that way?

Evaberry:
The Quran actually allow men to beat their wives so this is no biggie for them and bauchi practices Sharia law. Quran 4:34. Quran38":44 amongst others

but seriously how can a man inflict pain on someone he claims to love
The mother of his children
someone who he vowed to take care of and protect against all odd

why are some men domestic abusers and why do others think it's cool to hit a woman if she misbehaves

I know I must see a dumb comment like this.
So all those Christian couples involved in domestic violence must be following those Qura'nic verses right?
There are far more cases of domestic violence in noj-Muslim homes.
Granted it's permissible to strike one"s spouse just like you do kids, only when it's considered the only means for correction after exhausting other options but it comes with guidelines and no-go areas of which this fool has clearly violated.

PaperLace:


This one is obviously still a kid. Lots of women around me feed,house and clothe themselves. I wouldn't know which forest you reside.

That you feed and clothe your wife, not like so many men still do that _isn't a reason to batter her. There are so many women feeding their homes and I am sure you won't see it as a good enough reason for them to beat their husbands. Men insult their wives too. Men cheat on their wives _that's enough insult. It doesn't warrant abuse from these women. So, you see how senseless it sounds now?

This isn't about who you feed, it's about what's right. If you have had enough, divorce him/her. There is no reason to inflict injury on your spouse (man/woman).

I'm not saying abuse is right, I'm saying they should quit claiming innocent and do things right. they always want to do the wrong thing and expect nothing in return!,
you're getting me wrong daddy( since I'm now a kid) , you don't even know how to talk, argument isn't an avenue to insult people.
I didn't say men should abuse women because he feeds her, I said they should submit to their husbands he's not their equal.

as for those women feed, SORRY na their matter

when women run their tongue like wildfire,they force d monster out of men

Man wey dey beat Woman... that 1 nah man?

Ademolag:



I'm not saying abuse is right, I'm saying they should quit claiming innocent and do things right. they always want to do the wrong thing and expect nothing in return!,
you're getting me wrong daddy( since I'm now a kid) , you don't even know how to talk, argument isn't an avenue to insult people.
I didn't say men should abuse women because he feeds her, I said they should submit to their husbands he's not their equal.

as for those women feed, SORRY na their matter

Let's have this argument again, when you are married for at least a year _and you have never annoyed your wife or disrespected her seriously.

Then you'll understand that you don't expect her to hurt you in anyway (when you do annoy her). If by any means she hurts you because she has had enough _I wanna watch you make excuses for her. That's when you'll have a point.

Pardon me for calling you a kid, even kids are not oblivious of the ever changing family structure _where husband and wife work to contribute according to their income.

if you don't want beating stop exchanging words with the man, he's not your mate in anyway, if you claim you are equal, pay the house rent and foot every bill in the family with him, then you're equal. not after feeding you, housing you and clothing you, you tell me we are equal.

You message is very clear, Sir.

pryme:


as a friend that has the best of intentions, I implore you to unfollow Arsenal, cos i would like you to see you grow old and see your grand kids, cos Cardiac Arrest and Arsenal are like twins.
Speaking of Doctors, this is more like a prescription.



Its good to see your are still breathing after Anfield.

I am loyal
Just because the road is rocky it does not mean I bail
I will endure it
Gooner till I cease to be

Evablizin:
Men you all should learn how to control your anger,if you keep on listening to what we say with this our mouth even when we are wrong you will die or kill us before our time bikonu make una take am easy abeg

Then, the women folk should learn shut up, cos for every action, there is a reaction. Its called "verbal abuse" and "physical abuse"

PaperLace:


Let's have this argument again, when you are married for at least a year _and you have never annoyed your wife or disrespected her seriously.

Then you'll understand that you don't expect her to hurt you in anyway (when you do annoy her). If by any means she hurts you because she has had enough _I wanna watch you make excuses for her. That's when you'll have a point.

Pardon me for calling you a kid, even kids are not oblivious of the ever changing family structure _where husband and wife work to contribute according to their income.



You message is very clear, Sir.

which changing family structure, Oga you guys keep getting brainwashed everyday all in the name of civilisation. Go observe old marriages if you have an opportunity you can ask for an account of how it went with your grandmother and grandfather and they will tell you the place of women

There must be a story behind that beating.

Ademolag:


which changing family structure, Oga you guys keep getting brainwashed everyday all in the name of civilisation. Go observe old marriages if you have an opportunity you can ask for an account of how it went with your grandmother and grandfather and they will tell you the place of women

This is 2017, maybe you've forgotten. You may need to go marry your grandmother's mate.

Evaberry:
The Quran actually allow men to beat their wives so this is no biggie for them and bauchi practices Sharia law. Quran 4:34. Quran38":44 amongst others

but seriously how can a man inflict pain on someone he claims to love
The mother of his children
someone who he vowed to take care of and protect against all odd

why are some men domestic abusers and why do others think it's cool to hit a woman if she misbehaves

They will soon be here for you

PaperLace:


This is 2017, maybe you've forgotten. You may need to go marry your grandmother's mate.

this is the problem. men are now trying to suit women not the other way round anymore.
2017 my foot. maybe by 2019 if women start asking men to walk with their head before they accept your type will say this is 2019 so it's normal

Ademolag:


this is the problem. men are now trying to suit women not the other way round anymore.
2017 my foot. maybe by 2019 if women start asking men to walk with their head before they accept your type will say this is 2019 so it's normal

The problem is you are killing yourselves over how other people run their homes. Some families are already running the 50-50 system and it's working for them.

Marry your traditional wife, there are still many of them around. If you don't find one in this generation , try older generations. You work like you grandfathers did, and she spends it. Perfect arrangement, as long as it suits you both.

PaperLace:


This is 2017, maybe you've forgotten. You may need to go marry your grandmother's mate.

Marriage is an institution and the basic concept of submission and love can never change if you want the marriage to work.

Don't you wonder why it was so rare to hear that any of those grandfathers beat or divorced their wife?

Respect and love are two forces that keep a marriage in equilibrium.
As a woman learn how to respect your husband. As a husband learn how to love and be patient with your wife. If men and women follow this principle we will not be reading this kind of sad stories.

God help our society to build homes that will endure