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Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Nobody: 5:58am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Don't be quick to judge. We don't know what transpired between them. You all know women are stubborn. I'm not saying the man is right though. |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by AnanseK(m): 6:14am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Evablizin: Agreed. But they pain you inflict with your sharp tongue sometimes makes a man mad, you should also try some control please. |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by kense88: 6:20am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Evablizin:When we try to ignore what women say, just to at least avoid violence, they will even say worse things or possibly become violent. They see that coolness as a sign of weakness. 1 Like |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Nobody: 6:31am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Evaberry: Stop quoting verses you do not understand, you end up creating more confusions than enlghtment, and for what?, cheap likes & some islam phobic dude to toast you 2 Likes
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Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by LordOfNaira: 6:32am On Aug 28, 2017 |
I am enjoying the conversation here. As a medical doctor and a psychotherapist, these discussions hold a lot for me. Well done, PaperLace, but I do believe that you feel life is as easy as you make it. Well, we professionals know it is not in all cases. Sometimes, the victims may have mental disorders like bipolar disorder or narcissistic personality disorder and the husband may be unaware because their marriage counselor is a pastor and not a professional. A man who marries a woman with narcissistic personality disorder is likely to beat her one day if he does not quickly walk away. Same goes for a woman who marries a man with narcissistic personality disorder. She is likely to become so battered emotionally and physically if she does not quickly seperate herself from him. Having given therapies to a lot of people, I can confidently tell you that not every man who became violent liked it. Some of them only did it once and regret it for a long time. Take for instance, a gentleman who marries this beautiful woman without knowing that she has narcissistic personality disorder. She begins to frustrate his life by throwing blames, abusing his parents whenever she feels like, is so jealous that she wants him to only work with males even though he is not the owner of the company where he works, slaps him and does not expect to be hit back and then one day, he defends himself. And one thing with people with narcissistic personality disorder is their ability to make you feel guilty in order to continue to manipulate you and make you feel worthless without them. So, the day you hit them (even if they have been hitting you for years), they would surely play the victim's card and then they will nag you everyday to make you feel bad for ever daring to stand up to their manipulation. I can tell you that there are men going through frustrations like these. Just as there are women going through same. Cases like these are sometimes unique that it is difficult to judge them. The one that came to social media first might have even been the aggressor. 6 Likes |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by nengibo: 6:41am On Aug 28, 2017 |
EazyMoh:You just confirmed what the "dumb comment" said |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Gtworld001(m): 6:47am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Evaberry:U re a fool for quoting the Quran wrongly if u don't know u keep short |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by BabaO2: 6:49am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Divay22:Picture not completely real |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Mrukk: 6:50am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Evaberry:may Allah cure you of your malady Bro.If you don't know something then you ask 1 Like |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by slurity1: 6:59am On Aug 28, 2017 |
oluwasegun400:Dr not mad. what did the wife do? 1 Like |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Nobody: 7:05am On Aug 28, 2017 |
WORDWORLD:So if Muslims are supposed to emulate the prophet it means they should marry 6 years old girls and consummate the marriage when the girls turn 9 yrs. Evaberry told the truth. The quran instructs men to beat their wives when they misbehave don't run away from what your quran ask you to do, you will be running away from Allah instructions if you do that. 1 Like |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Nina4u(f): 7:09am On Aug 28, 2017 |
If u do that to me I will kill you.. |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by blesoh(f): 7:15am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Some guys are asking what the woman did, like really? Whatever happens to walking away, if you are tired about the relationship why not settle it amicably rather than inflicting pains, please this is an eye sore. Men should start by beating their mates lets see how powerful they are 2 Likes |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by apholaryn: 7:17am On Aug 28, 2017 |
tosyne2much:like she made sense for your moronic mind? |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Nobody: 7:23am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Evaberry: The Quran permits this sh*t? Some people can lie eh! If I shld pray dat God should give u a husband that will beat off lies from u now, people wl start saying dt am wicked ni 2 Likes |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by ItsMeAboki(m): 7:29am On Aug 28, 2017 |
WORDWORLD: Its a pity, some of them can't wait to expose their shameful bigotry and ignorance at the same time. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Nobody: 7:32am On Aug 28, 2017 |
LordOfNaira: I have been married short enough to know that there are days you'll do or say something that you'll regret. In such cases, even if it's as severe as infidelity or beating _I will forgive. 1. I am against people who think violence is the way to put a verbally abusive wife/spouse in place. 2. People who think verbal abuse is exclusive to women, and physical abuse to men. 3. People who are deluded into thinking only women are annoying in marriage. You get to see comments like "women are very annoying", "women are stubborn". Who isn't annoying/stubborn in marriage? Majority of these people knew what they were getting into. Just like I knew my spouse has a caustic mouth. Marriage makes you discover that these tiny faults are not that easy to live with, that's when they start beating each other _if they are not patient or smart enough to explore other means of curtailing the aggressor's excesses. If you marry a spouse with such record on your own volition, it's up to you to have a correctional plan for them, this plan shouldn't include violence. People don't just develop these traits, the signs are always there. The highlighted is spot on. I have said it severally that pre-marriage classes should be restructured. Practical solutions to possible marital issues. These solutions should be professional, not religious. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by tosyne2much(m): 7:48am On Aug 28, 2017 |
PaperLace:Sighs! |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by transient123(m): 7:50am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Evaberry: Please ask question if you don't know. In case you need explanation, I will help you in debt. Thank you. |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Daeylar(f): 7:59am On Aug 28, 2017 |
PaperLace: Preach @ the bolded, Let them continue to look for ways to justify their bad behaviour. No body should lay a hand on anyone except in cases of self defense I yet to see any man who has a big, muscular, very strong wife or maybe a woman who he knows will beat him to the ground if he tries to lay his hand on her beat his wife, no matter how bad what she says is, never have I seen such cases, ( I stand to be corrected), they know the type of wife they can prey on. posters on this nairaland make me so sad/annoyed when I see some type of comments regarding certain topics 1 Like |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Iamzik: 8:17am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Sterope: Keep denying the fact. You can bury your head in the sand all you want. Since you will not listen to sound advice, you can do the below: Be rude and disrespectful to your husband. Be impatient and unloving to your wife. That will give you a very settled home. Your marriage your business 1 Like |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Nobody: 8:24am On Aug 28, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Just sigh when your wife annoys you Tosyne, it's a whole lot better than beating her . Daeylar: Well, you know evil doers will always have a justification for every in the real sense of it. These justification(s) are somehow not enough _ when carefully examined. We'll definitely get there. With time, male and female alike would realise violence only gets you feared, not respected. That's if it doesn't land you in jail. 1 Like |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Sterope(f): 8:26am On Aug 28, 2017 |
Keep changing narrative, lying about what happened in the past. Thank God our mothers are still alive. You are right. My marriage, my business. Iamzik: |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Iamzik: 8:27am On Aug 28, 2017 |
eyinjuege: I never endorsed this shameful action in anyway. You may read my previous posts. No one is perfect and our characters are flawed. A little understanding and forbearing one another can help avoid this kind of sad tale. Someone must lead with love and the other must submit to his leading. When both husband and wife want to lead, there is no follower, no direction, anarchy is the result. Each must know his role and limits. I still maintain that mutual love and respect will always win the day. Many bring their pride into Marriage. If both husband and wife will learn humility, learn how to say sorry/thank you..... Simple stuff like that can avert big quarrels like this. I still don't support any form of physical abuse. No No |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by tosyne2much(m): 8:28am On Aug 28, 2017 |
PaperLace:I don't support wife beating nah. Can't even beat my gf let alone my wife |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by FluffySucre(f): 8:56am On Aug 28, 2017 |
LordOfNaira: What He / She said! |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by pryme(m): 9:26am On Aug 28, 2017 |
MissRaine69: Doctors prescription o |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by LordOfNaira: 9:59am On Aug 28, 2017 |
PaperLace: I like these. But please, don't assume that traits can't be learnt. Don't also assume that all traits can be observed. People with narcissistic personality disorder are the masters of pretence. They are usually the sweetest guys until you have been sucked in. I am not supporting domestic violence but I am just contributing to an argument. It is not unusual for a woman to be stubborn or assertive. It is the African culture that makes it look like an assertive woman is a stubborn woman that needs to be tamed. But that is not my argument here. My problem with your post is the fixation on your confidence that there are ways to deal with a woman without touching her. Your confidence is there because you feel that the worst a woman can be is to be stubborn or caustic and you feel you already have an easy solution to that which puts you way above wife beaters. My point however is that all cases are unique and except you have witnessed all cases, you should not condemn too quickly. There is a certain guy whom I gave therapy. I am working on a book where I will share stories of people who have been in toxic relationships. It is not just about being in a relationship with a woman who has a caustic mouth or a woman who is viewed as stubborn. Being in a relationship with a toxic person is one of the most frustrating thing in the world. And people react differently to it. Some walk away battered. Let me give you an instance of how bad. When I was working in a neuro psychiatric hospital in the Caribbeans, I had a patient who wanted to kill himself. He told me how frustrating his wife had been. I asked him if he had ever beaten her. He said "of course, no, doc. I can never beat my wife." He never beat his wife but he was however not nonviolent because while he wouldn't beat his wife, the aggression was channeled inwards (Suicide). Now, can you think such height of frustration is just due to just having a woman with a harmless caustic tongue or a stubborn woman? However, the wife was soon diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder. Their marriage crashed and she had two other husbands later. One of them went to jail for beating her into coma. So, I believe cases like these are hard to judge using the cliche "violence is not the only way" Of course, violence is not the only way. But judging quickly is also not the only way. It allows even aggressors to run quickly to social media. My solution to these problems would be in my book which would soon be out. LOL. |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by nnokwa042(m): 12:23pm On Aug 28, 2017 |
WORDWORLD:ur question should be, did Mohammed asked Muslims to beat thier wives? At what age did Mohammed married Aisha? So don't confuse us, Mohammed piss be upon him |
Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Nobody: 12:29pm On Aug 28, 2017 |
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Re: Medical Doctor In Bauchi Beats Wife To Stupor (Pics) by Nobody: 12:52pm On Aug 28, 2017 |
ItsMeAboki: Its the world we are living in today and more than ever before where people despise each other and dont want us to live in peace. The first persons who posted this for the eyes of the world seeking for justice are by name ABDULMUMIN SULEIMAN and then MUHAMMED BABA i assume they are Muslims seeking for justice their names infact is more Islamic than 'Samaila Zakari'. I hope you get my point. People deviate from the core of ISSUES and choke in sentiments. Our world is so in a chaos because of mentalities such as hers which is so FULL of PREJUDICE. I love peace and i love peaceful people. People like them are without understanding and are not willing to grow. |
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