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Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by TiffanyJ(f): 8:24am On Aug 29, 2017 |
notttty:Abun ya faru ko. Ka yi kokari ka karba yaron ka. Ai mama na ta gaya mani kada in kuskura in aure wanda ba southern Kaduna ba. Wallahi kabilu nan ba su da mutunci |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by TiffanyJ(f): 8:28am On Aug 29, 2017 |
notttty:Thank you. Baba na Bajju Zonkwa (fadiya) to be precise while mama ta Adara |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by notttty(m): 8:51am On Aug 29, 2017 |
TiffanyJ:Wannan shawara ne mai kyau. Ku saurari ta don kauce wa labarun da ke ciwo |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by notttty(m): 8:55am On Aug 29, 2017 |
TiffanyJ: Bari in dm ku. Da fatan za ku iya ba ni lambar ku don mu iya magana. Yaya game da wannan. Dan Allah |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by TiffanyJ(f): 8:59am On Aug 29, 2017 |
notttty:Haba,ba damuwa. |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by notttty(m): 9:10am On Aug 29, 2017 |
TiffanyJ:Nagode. DM sent. Wannan lamari ne. Fata za ku iya lalata shi. Zero, takwas, zero, biyar, takwas, zero, biyar, takwas, zero, tara, takwas, ka samu nasarar juya maina zuwa hausa thread. Sannu da aikatawa. |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by obiksam(m): 12:54pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
Kaduna.You people marry so many wife's, more than we Igbos. why complaining. My. notttty: |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by pocohantas(f): 5:53pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
9japrof: ...because we have terrible people nah. Terrible people make terrible in-laws. That's the best I can come up with oo ![]() ![]() Thanks ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by sauceEEP(m): 6:27pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
notttty:You wan kiss tiffanyj ba? |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by sauceEEP(m): 6:30pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
notttty:Digits just rolled, OK you say you've divorced your wife? No wahala go ahead and mingle.. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by notttty(m): 11:26pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
sauceEEP:OMG. OK not what you think tho but it's wit you see. #Eagleeye |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by notttty(m): 11:28pm On Aug 29, 2017 |
sauceEEP:Huh ![]() |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by TiffanyJ(f): 6:24am On Aug 30, 2017 |
notttty:Even if I try defending myself, the guy would believe only what he feels like. Allow him to think whatever he wishes to, after all, he is entitle to his opinion. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by sauceEEP(m): 8:15am On Aug 30, 2017 |
notttty:I understand but you think say we no dey understand una. |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by notttty(m): 9:58am On Aug 30, 2017 |
sauceEEP:Nope. Anybody can understand what's up there. If it's secret I won't put it up. Moving on |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:05am On Aug 30, 2017 |
Richy4: you are right.... my bad... OP accept my apologies. |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by Nobody: 11:33am On Aug 30, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: How can you call somebody's mother 'useless' is that what you call your mother? What nonsense is this, I doubt you have sense sha OP, as u be Hausa, I no wan comment as I don't really understand your culture but if you are a Christian then I'm sure you took a vow of "For better or worse" that vow is dangerous and must be honored. That said, I propose that both of you should live apart for a while until you both can agree amicably on how you will live together in peace and this might mean that both your parents shouldn't live with you at any point in time, be mature for the sake of your child. |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:47am On Aug 30, 2017 |
Pidgin2: are you saying that all mothers are GREAT?! stop writing rubbish online as we all can hear everyday about the many "great mothers" who gladly throw the newborn kids in bushes and dustbin. ... and as much as i have apologized to the OP, it certainly does NOT change the fact that some mothers/wives are indeed USELESS (and probably should have aborted) 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by Nobody: 12:03pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: Not all mothers are great, that's not my point. You are talking about the OP's mother-in-law; his wive's mother, you are also talking about his wife. He might even end up regretting why he posted if he still has some feelings for her(the mother of his child) and it wouldn't solve anything. Get to the point already, you made sense until you started name calling 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:10pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Pidgin2: this demon of a mother in law is INDEED useless, and the reason for the downfall of this union... so yes i will stand by the fact that she is indeed USELESS... and to stay polite, i will refrain to hurt the OP further by saying exactly what i think his baby mama (ex wife ) is. its sad that people expect us to refrain from saying what we feel, and instead have to sugarcoat life and NOT call a spade A SPADE (as if this man doesnt know the type of ex wife he had). if that woman was "that" great, they wouldnt be where they are at today. let us be real people! 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by Nobody: 1:05pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: Do you see why I suspect that you don't have sense? You haven't heard from the spouse or mother in law before passing your judgement. This is why every competent court of jurisdiction must hear from all parties involved before passing judgement except one party deliberately refuses to appear before the court but they will surely be invited because one account without physical evidence is not enough to crucify the other. Use your brain small na, the wife or MIL might not be demons or useless if you hear their own side of the story |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:11pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Pidgin2: if we needed to hear what competent court or jurisdiction had to say on the matter then thats where the OP would have taken his case, and not the online public forum of NL. EVERY issue on NL is solely based on one side, and we all make our findings based on that, and as i say again, based on the OP's story, my findings is that the MIL is useless. when the wife and MIL come to give us their own side of the story then i may change my stand but until then, i stand by MY humble opinion that MIL is useless. but hey, since you do have sense (you answered the OP as well, therefore you must have a crystal ball) why dont you tell us all what the MIL/wifey version is?! 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by yvesboss(m): 2:51pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
pocohantas: Analysis of life ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by notttty(m): 5:08pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
pocohantas:Sometimes terrible people change but this case is a bit different. N. B my ex is right here on this thread. She has seen this but I was waiting for her to speak up so that you all can judge. Meanwhile case already hit the court. Just waiting for first hearing September 18. |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by notttty(m): 5:12pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Pidgin2:The case has been filed already and waiting for first hearing September 18. N. B my ex is right hear on this thread and she has seen it all. If she is deeply hurt about this or I said anything that contradict what happen she should come out and state her own side of the story. She has viewed this thread multiple times and constantly reminding me of what people said. Custody hearing is already loading. You all will hear the end if it. Just sad for privacy reason I can update with pictures. |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by notttty(m): 5:23pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Pidgin2:No one is perfect and sometimes we make bad choices.. . My ex is great. She is a great person that on her best days, she is a woman anybody will love to her. One of the reasons I was seeking a peaceful resolution but in life , sometimes we Trust people and rely on them to help us make decision. She is as much victim as I am. Inexperience played against us. Immaturity and the psychological strength needed to sail thru the trying times was never there. I never want it to get to this point. I tried to avert it and right now she is as much as I am cos it's so much out of our hands already. Family on a wider scale seem to be driving everything. It's not about marriage again. Its power tussle. Family pride at play and unfortunately I have a son stuck inbetween. Please I will so much appreciate if we refrain from calling names. This is hurtful from beginning and it still does. No one will ever want to have it like this. Worst state of my life and I dont pray it to my enemies. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by needful: 1:37am On Sep 11, 2017 |
I need to hear from the other party too before commenting. |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by zinaunreal(m): 5:30am On Sep 09, 2018 |
needful: Lol. Used bitch. Werin you wan comment? Is it your type that solves case? Old cargo. |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by tabithababy(f): 11:45am On Sep 09, 2018 |
notttty:. Hope it has been resolved now ![]() ![]() |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by victorian(f): 1:07pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
Get a lawyer, and fight for the custody of your son. Then date again, someonelse. Shine your eyes well this time and the kind of in-laws u are marrying into next time . Then Remarry and have more kids with the new lady coming. Why complicate your life further with going back to your ex wife? |
Re: Please I Need Advise On Taking Custody Of My Son by LadySarah: 3:26pm On Sep 09, 2018 |
notttty: Oga,tidy this story abeg. |
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