Ladies is playing hard to get still in vogue?

Some years back, it was almost inconceivable to see a Nigerian lady asking a guy out under any circumstance. It was believed that guys should have the exclusive obligation to ask ladies out and in turn ladies should instinctively play hard to get.

However, the wheels have turned as new Nigeria ladies have come forth with the 21st century. These new set of ladies, assisted with more western social skills and lastest technologies such as social media can now ask guys out openly without any reverence.

Some of these ladies even go to the extent of offering to cover financial expenses of any guy they want to ask out. Many guys now have the luxury of not asking any girl out before meeting their missing rib.

So, it begs the question, should ladies still play hard to get for the guys willing to ask them out or should they let go of such mindset. Is playing hard to get really in the interest of ladies any more?

It is still in vogue. It is just that you are into much money not to realise that.

It's only in Nigeria it still happens. But alas, Time cometh when those Naija babes will be dishing out their mobile lines anyhow and begging the guys to call them. All sorts of forming will disappear. ..

yes ofcourse

Guys are the ones playing hard to get, ladies on the other hand rarely play hard to get. What they're playing now is "wait make I confirm". Girls that play this one are those in a relationship but not sure where it is going.
Another thing that they play is "never gonna happen" These set of people will never date you, no matter what.

Well,only kids and those about to grow up slay mama wanna be still play hard to get and in some cases,they are not only won over by the wrong kinda men,they end up used and tossed aside.

Ladies (older/younger) who are ready for something that could lead to settling down don't wait for the man to ask them out the second time. They stylishly accept at first approach and start taking your name to church to confirm if you are the one.

On a side note,the birth of the beautiful ones started last year so as he sees you and begins to woo you, thinking you are most gorgeous and you start playing hard,another extremely sensational beau comes up. - Men no longer waste time on one woman playing hard to get.

That mindset of playing hard to get is gradually fading out. Ladies still do it, but not like yesteryears.

Nowadays, majority of girls are more bold & more enlightened, hence they don't act shy whenever the guy they like approaches them. Some will go to the extent of even wooing you & they do it perfectly well more than we guys

It's a Sweet thing When a girl woos You, You automatically feel loved & cherished

Well, it's a kinda still necessary

if they dont play hard to get some guys tends to look down on them or label them as cheap girls

Dillusionist:
yes ofcourse

you that gave me your number on a platter of gold?.

Why play hard to get when you like a guy.

No need, unless I don't like you and I don't want you, I will not only play hard to get, you really will not get me.

why play hard to get
will they give you prize or a cow

I've never seen the need to play hard to get.

@op,hard to get is no more in vogue,most of the ladies this days dont really act up,only if shes not interested in you in the first place.With the high rate of female folks everywhere,if you are attracted to her she just confirm u without much bruhaha.

Yes 16-24, From 25 they would be playing easy to find.

Hard to get when she is still slaying then Easy to get when she has been slayed and desperately looking for husband

Emodeee:



you that gave me your number on a platter of gold?.

lolz..in your dreams

Rorachy:
Why play hard to get when you like a guy.

No need, unless I don't like you and I don't want you, I will not only play hard to get, you really will not get me.

If I know that you don't give a hoot about me, then I will make you an offer you can't refuse.

Evablizin:


Hard to get when she is still slaying then Easy to get when she has been slayed and desperately looking for husband

Lols
That's the irony of life.

Ladyjumong:
Well, it's a kinda still necessary

if they dont play hard to get some guys tends to look down on them or label them as cheap girls

But what happens after he has conquered her or married her? Hope we will still continue to play hard to get to keep him bewitched?
For me, if you like a guy just kick off already. He will behave himself to gain your trust for him.

divinehand2003:


If I know that you don't give a hoot about me, then I will make you an offer you can't refuse.

What offer?

divinehand2003:


But what happens after he has conquered her or married her? Hope we will still continue to play hard to get to keep him bewitched?
For me, if you like a guy just kick off already. He will behave himself to gain your trust for him.

behave himself ke ?

that does not applies to every guy dear, some guys just see that as an opportunity to play u around

divinehand2003:
It's only in Nigeria it still happens. But alas, Time cometh when those Naija babes will be dishing out their mobile lines anyhow and begging the guys to call them. All sorts of forming will disappear. ..

Hahaha very funny

gabinogem:
That mindset of playing hard to get is gradually fading out. Ladies still do it, but not like yesteryears.

Nowadays, majority of girls are more bold & more enlightened, hence they don't act shy whenever the guy they like approaches them. Some will go to the extent of even wooing you & they do it perfectly well more than we guys


It's a Sweet thing When a girl woos You, You automatically feel loved & cherished

Na wetin husband scarcity don cause ooo, as guys no wan gree woo girls again

divinehand2003:


If I know that you don't give a hoot about me, then I will make you an offer you can't refuse.

Evryone has a price. . EVEN NIKITA MEARS DOES.

Rorachy:
What offer?

Just refuse me first and then you will hear the strong offer now.

Ladyjumong:
Well, it's a kinda still necessary

if they dont play hard to get some guys tends to look down on them or label them as cheap girls

the point I don't get till now

so after playing hard to get, you agree and he fvcks you for just two weeks, are you not still labeled cheap and worthless after dumping you ?

hard to get is unnecessary

I always accept hard to get challenge though..... the moment she agrees to date me, she just met her doom

If them like they should play hard to lay down on bed who get time for hard to get? you play hard to get I laid down your bestie... who hard to play epp here? and when they are many hoes outside there to Bleep... Am not a bad dude just trying to be blunt.

lilmax:
the point I don't get till now

so after playing hard to get, you agree and he fvcks you for just two weeks, are you not still labeled cheap and worthless after dumping you ?

hard to get is unnecessary

We are not taking this personal, weda its mockery or what i dunno what u intend to achieve by that

u make it sound like every relationship revolve around sex. dnt knw the direction of your thought buh i will tell em jus tryna air my view on why i think some girls play hard to get. nothing serious.

Evablizin:


Hard to get when she is still slaying then Easy to get when she has been slayed and desperately looking for husband

Trying to tell me all girls slay ?

divinehand2003:


Just refuse me first and then you will hear the strong offer now.

OK, I refuse you.

Ladyjumong:
We are not taking this personal, weda its mockery or what i dunno what u intend to achieve by that

u make it sound like every relationship revolve around sex. dnt knw the direction of your thought buh i will tell em jus tryna air my view on why i think some girls play hard to get. nothing serious.

how does asking someone out continously makes them not look cheap exactly? pray tell

Ladyjumong:
Trying to tell me all girls slay ?

nope