Hello all
I'm a lady in my mid twenties. I have a piece of land in my maternal village. So I've decided to sell it off and use the money to develop our own site( build a school). The land is for my husband and I.

The reason of my epistle is that my hubby has two children from another woman (Cheating things).I'm thinking to use the money to build a school on the land or should I go and get my own land in my name?

I'm thinking about the future because his family knows that he has a Land. I don't want a situation after building the school now his family members will now think it's for their brother.

Please if you are in my shoe what would you do?

you have stated that your husband has the ''sickness of wandering eye'' so I strongly advice you to buy your own land build your own school Because some news am hearing around me of a late husbands family members coming for their brothers property even when the man hasn't been buried. You have you r doubt already so go for your own. pls this is my own opinion though

scentpepper:
Hello all
I'm a lady in my mid twenties. I have a piece of land in my maternal village. So I've decided to sell it off and use the money to develop our own site (build a school). The land is for my husband and I.

If the proceeds from the piece of land is big enough to build a school in another location, then your maternal "village" is not a "village". The cost of a piece of land in a typical village cannot build a school.

The reason of my epistle is that my hubby has two children from another woman (Cheating things).I'm thinking to use the money to build a school on the land or should I go and get my own land in my name?

I'm thinking about the future because his family knows that he has a Land. I don't want a situation after building the school now his family members will now think it's for their brother.

Please if you are in my shoe what would you do?

Get your own land, for obvious reasons.

I would advise for obvious reasons that you get another land to build ur school in your name. I don't mean to say you shouldn't do things together as a couple but if the situation turns around, will you be cool with it like I let all my investments go jex like that. Please let's be wise even in marriage to avoid stories that touch. There is a wisdom that is Godly & pure.

Acidosis:


If the proceeds from the piece of land is big enough to build a school in another location, then your maternal "village" is not a "village". The cost of a piece of land in a typical village cannot build a school.



Get your own land, for obvious reasons.

Let me use maternal place then

scentpepper:
Let me use maternal place then

correct woman

scentpepper:
Hello all
I'm a lady in my mid twenties. I have a piece of land in my maternal village. So I've decided to sell it off and use the money to develop our own site( build a school). The land is for my husband and I.

The reason of my epistle is that my hubby has two children from another woman (Cheating things).I'm thinking to use the money to build a school on the land or should I go and get my own land in my name?

I'm thinking about the future because his family knows that he has a Land. I don't want a situation after building the school now his family members will now think it's for their brother.

Please if you are in my shoe what would you do?

Trust is earned, he clearly has not earned it. Help yourself by buying your own properties in your name. Two can only work together when they agree

scentpepper:
Hello all
I'm a lady in my mid twenties. I have a piece of land in my maternal village. So I've decided to sell it off and use the money to develop our own site( build a school). The land is for my husband and I.

The reason of my epistle is that my hubby has two children from another woman (Cheating things).I'm thinking to use the money to build a school on the land or should I go and get my own land in my name?

I'm thinking about the future because his family knows that he has a Land. I don't want a situation after building the school now his family members will now think it's for their brother.

Please if you are in my shoe what would you do?

Trust is earned, he clearly has not earned it. Help yourself by buying your own properties in your name. Two can only work together when they agree

The day your husband started having children outside is the day you should have started planning for your own future and that of your kids without him. If he is not understanding of that fact then don't tell him about it. Do not mix you own money or inheritance with his. Those children outside have a right to all the share of his wealth. Build your own school if you can afford it. Put everything in your name and even collect from him to build it. You are only securing you and your kids future.

Dear op

please develop yourself and leave your husband out of it

start planning for yours and your children's Future

Sis, I think you should get your own land and don't even tell your hubby about it for now if possible. When you start building it, you might now tell him. Your own is your own while our own is our own. Save your Children's future biko. You owe them that. #My opinion though#

For me, as long as other children are Involved, issues will always pop up. O think you should build a school I. Your name. But if you must invest with your husband, both of you must take time to reach a very sound agreement on paper, or else, that property will be source of bloody fight between your children and step children

Thank you all for the eye opening. It shall not be well with love o.
I will sell the land and buy another one. Even if its only daycare i can afford to build now i will build it then develop later.
Please i appreciate you all. May the good lord be with you.
MERCI