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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Victornezzar: 9:05am On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92:oshe rich dude we agree we are all poverty minded hope u don't mind if I send u my account number 4 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 9:06am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Victornezzar: lol I am just saying the hard truth though. |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by falconey(m): 9:09am On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92: Bloody moron_ visit the northern part of the country and see how people comfortably live with below 20k I'd school there. I don't have time for baseless arguments, I've got to work now. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Victornezzar: 9:09am On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92:I didn't doubt u b4 na since u said most of us are poverty minded just transfer small change so I won't be poverty minded again 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by WeNoGoDie(m): 9:11am On Sep 05, 2017 |
rosalieene: There you are. If such a woman can endure in the marriage where the man can't offer anything cos he's incapacitated, why can't she endure where the man earns 35k per month. You can be sure they already have kids in the scenario we're talking about. I mean go to LUTH and Orthopedic Igbobi and you see such situations in real life. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by SalomonKane: 9:19am On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92:If I were I girl i'd know just cos a man earns 35K today, doesn't mean he can't earn 350K the next day, or 3.5 mill in some months time. It's my sister's decision to marry whoever she deem fit. Whether he be a million or a pauper. What count is her happiness. I hate all this gender biasness you guys exhibit of the forum. Say the truth and stop making excuses for men. No man earning 35,000 a month should be thinking about marriage. And any woman who agrees to marry him is either not ambitious or just addicted to poverty lifestyle.This is the reason why you're shallow like those girls. You fail to see the future. All you care about is now forgetting that now doesn't mean forever. I bet it's people like who collect 2 cups of rice from politicians. 7 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by rosalieene(f): 9:27am On Sep 05, 2017 |
ashewoboy: SMH for you don't you know I am the president of the nigerian virgins association if you want to get word from my mouth, tell them say you no See Me. |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 9:29am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Evaberry: Actually, he did. |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by refiner(f): 9:33am On Sep 05, 2017 |
rosalieene:My luff..dont mind them..they always attribute things to miss nl competition.. By d way...izit because my brother that wants to marry u is been paid just 35k,tha prompted u to create this thread? |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by mrblessed(m): 9:34am On Sep 05, 2017 |
rosalieene:Facebook? Hmm. The critical part of me fails to agree your with claim. On the contrary, I think you are merely testing the waters, to see what people's opinions might be. 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 9:41am On Sep 05, 2017 |
falconey: You keep casting aspersions at me but you are obviously the one who those aspersions rightly describe. The only slowpoke here is you and you aren't just a slowpoke you are an ignorant and mediocre minded one. This question is not excluded to people who live in Northern Nigeria and when you give answers you shouldn't couch your answer in a Northern Nigerian context. We are talking generally, based on the economic situation of Nigeria and based on the kind of needs people in general have, irrespective of where they live and I say it again: 35,000 a month can't give anyone in Nigeria a comfortable lifestyle. 35,000 a month can't afford many needs a couple would have, talkless of their children. You have lived in northern Nigeria and I've lived on the Island. It's clear we both have different perspectives on how we view comfortable living. But for godsake, there is more to life than living on breadcrumbs and managing in low standard environments. Open up your mind, aim for better and better will come to you. A man who earns 35000 a month should aim to better his life not aim for marriage. And you should stop making excuses for such an unwise man. Of course you have work to do - Like going to another thread to post your ignorant comments. No wonder you are making excuses for financially mediocre lifestyles. When all you do from morning till night is comment on Nairaland. How can someone like you break free from your poverty mentality and financially inadequate lifestyle? 6 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by rosalieene(f): 9:44am On Sep 05, 2017 |
refiner: Ahaaaaa, ur brother has 30billion for his akant na |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 9:46am On Sep 05, 2017 |
IamaNigerianGuy: Bros, leave that one let her be yarning dust. These ones don't know that you need money to make money. 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by refiner(f): 9:46am On Sep 05, 2017 |
rosalieene:Chop kisses jaree..i know u wee not break his heart! |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Proudlyblack(f): 9:47am On Sep 05, 2017 |
This got me speechless |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by falconey(m): 9:56am On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92: Sorry I didn't read....... |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by rosalieene(f): 9:57am On Sep 05, 2017 |
refiner: |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Rukkydelta(f): 9:58am On Sep 05, 2017 |
I can't not in this present economy we are facing now Personally me as a Lady I can't get married when what I earn in a month is below 50K. I want to live more than my parents and not far below them If I have a fiance that is earning such amount I will advise and support him to start a business of his own that will bring more income 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 10:05am On Sep 05, 2017 |
SalomonKane: LMFAO. It seems you exist in a delusional reality. The chances that a man earning 30,000 would earn 350,000 the next month or year is very very slim. Almost nonexistent. Life isn't a Nollywood movie, dude. And if as a girl this is your reason for deciding to start a family with such man, then it's proof of how unwise you are. So what if he doesn't earn better in a year or two? You'll keep on managing with him abi? Soon the children will start coming, what then are you going to do about that? Fail to see what future? Look here, a lot of things determine salary pay. Some of it is luck and connection, but a lot of it is skill and qualification. If a guy earns just 35,000 in most cases it's because he isn't qualified or possess enough educational requirements or skills to earn higher. So the chances that he'll earn higher is very low if he doesn't acquire the right qualifications and credentials. Such kind of man should focus on getting those qualifications first and then getting a better paying job before thinking for marriage. It's easier for someone earning say 500,000 to earn higher than it is for someone earning 30,000 to earn higher, because the former likely has more qualifications, more educational credentials and more lucrative skills than the later. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 10:06am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Rukkydelta: Smart lady. Not like all these mumus taking nonsense. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Crazytrump(m): 10:08am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Nice and Epic reply !!! In other words , she be hoe? falconey: |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Amarabae(f): 10:11am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Those who are saying that they can are hypocrities,
35,000 as salary is very poor for a man to start a home. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nwaoma198(f): 10:12am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Ok 9jayes: |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Intrepid01(m): 10:15am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Lol.......what a confused set of opinion we have here. In the time past, Guys here will insult and call ladies names for not been understanding, enduring and humble enough to give a man with a low pay a chance. But here we are, some ladies are saying they can marry such and Guys again are insulting them. I am sure some ladies are already thinking, what do the Guys want really? Men will say Ladies are confused being but here I can see that even Men are more confused than ladies. Like someone asked, the fundamental question to ask is, why will a Man that earns 35k in this day and age, be thinking of marriage? It is not a crime to date a man that earns as low as that or even less, but to think of marriage is suicidal. In as much as money isn't the key to good marriage, it is an important recipe to sustainable marriage. I would advise ladies who are currently dating such guy, to encourage him to change his priority to improving his earnings. and assure him that once that improves, they can roll out the drums for wedding. Abeg, Marriage no be moin moin o....na married men talk am o, no be me. 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 10:15am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Baba married Aisha when he was still rearing cow, so if you say 35k is not enough, you will get married at the age of 50 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Crazytrump(m): 10:16am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Most niggas are not even thinking of getting married, if I'm earning such amount and I'm thinking of getting married, I need a deliverance then...who marriage don EPP? |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 10:17am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Amarabae: Either they are hypocrites or they are just addicted to poverty. |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 10:17am On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92:You are proud and you are living a fake life, if we check now, you might be staying in a face me I slap you apartment at Ajegunle, Baba would deal with ipob miscreants living fake lives 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by ProudtobeaMUMUM(m): 10:17am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Amarabae:Ipob wailers always saying trash 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 10:18am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Victornezzar:I hope Martin0 is OK... His absence is quite conspicuous |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by jericco1(m): 10:18am On Sep 05, 2017 |
Too low |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by vivie01(f): 10:18am On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92: You are a pathetic being and i choose to ignore you henceforth. So a man earning 35k a month means thats how he will remain all his life? #smh. In real life you are the type living on 0-1-0 but coming online to form big guy. If your IQ is so low to read the conditions mentioned in my post, then it shows how miserable your education life is and the fantasy lifestyle you are living. Like I said, next time if your opinion does not align with another person's own, you pass or do you still need a tutor to tell you we have individual differences and preferences? 4 Likes |
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