janellemonae:


The best decision of my life right now would be to QUIT nairaland.

There are loads of good topics but this site has really made me hate conscious. I pity those who grew up with and around hate all their lives, being taught to hate and deride other people. Such emptiness. They really dont know the joy of a good life.

I agree...Infact i will be quitting the forum soon, I will deactivate and won't return, too much negativity, i've been speaking to people about it and i'm not solo on this..

Girls are cheats, sluts, prostitutes, guys are broke, poor, classless, this tribe is this, the other is that, my next best decision will be removing Nairaland and its negativities from my life....

I love all the replies I've read tonight.. I've not made any life changing decision but I think I'm making one or two soon with this ASUU strike.




Nice post OP..

supersystemsng:


You're welcome...I wish my dad left like 20 acres, i would have sold it ryt now...

Now that you are a man of your own, are you planning to buy 20 acres, so that your children would have something to sell too?

supersystemsng:




What decision did you take that affected your life significantly that you like to share to help others against making such mistakes...I think you need a coutner thread like this bro...Nice thread...

Thanks bro.
Wow! Yeah that will be good.
That's a big question. I think a major one is trusting people too much.
..
Not anymore lol

sonnie10:


Now that you are a man of your own, are you planning to buy 20 acres, so that your children would have something to sell too?

Lol..Banana fall on you. I know what my kids will be..They won't need to sell my 20 acres...

Xfemt:
that wht we all face in life but we difinately gonna make it if we learn and not regret

Abi...Wasn't beans paying house rent by 20.... Paying light bills, water bills, feeding extra mouth...

OrdercityWeb:

Are u fighting for first to comment again? Tell me the online businesses that worked for you pls

@the bolded, its a culture. wink
Kindly read my personal text you'll see what i do online there. I should let you know online income isn't stable so it could be below or above. Thanks!!

exactly. I stopped fighting for first to comment

firebaby:
1.I gave my life to Jesus(this is a decision till date I never regretted making)
2.I care less now what people say about me or about my fanily.(because I have now learnt those who talk about you have more BAGGAGE than you,they are only pretene,sometimes it takes spiritual eyes to see them,I thank God)
3.Right from time I am not a social media person because I believed that most posts are not real....if you get to know most if this people from there home how they live and all that you will always be grate full.
3.But I love nairaland
4.I have made this decision the LIMITATIONS set for my parents won't be mine.... Am moving forward.....thank you Lord....
5.I decided to cut some people off my life to the extents of them not having my phone number....its working ....
6.I changed my environment.... Location... I thank God.......
7.less family drama....
8.And I pray God leads me more ....since I have told him he is the porter I am the clay . ....he is been my supporter.....Psalm27:10
THANK YOU

Nice!!

Jarus:
1, Moving from science to commercial class in SS1, despite the mockery of my friends who felt I was running away and that commercial class was for dull students. Most were only doing Science just to prove they were superior. I realised early in life I was cut out for story writing.


2, Studying Economics. The course I would have done best in.

3, Choosing OAU. Really helped me in post-school exposure coming from a somehow village background. OAU also helped me in religious understanding. It was also a perfect system that wasn't based on materialism and made me remain who I was without undur influence.


4, Writing ICAN during my service year. Got me my first job. Now I have earned my living as an accountant all my post-NYSC years.

Nice!
Are you behind jarushub?

Deleted Blackberry 4rm my fone...
I also quit alcohol
Next is weed.

supersystemsng:


Abi...Wasn't beans paying house rent by 20.... Paying light bills, water bills, feeding extra mouth...

I believ urs was even more complex, unlike me I was feeding and caring for my self alone . we re stronger my brother

Leaving the comfort of my parents house (with no single hope or idea of what the future holds). Left home with just my hanging bag containing my laptop, 1boxer, 1singlet, 2trozers & 2shirts, 1 wrapper, tooth brush, bathing soap and sponge. I left home that faithful morning n my mum dnt call when i dnt return home, at least to knw if am dead, My mum was too angry that she refused to attend my wedding 2yrs later and till date she has not spoken to me. I left home cox 3yrs after NYSC no hope of getting a good job while staying in that house, and the insult was getin too much, the little 15k i get from a small teaching job was going back to the house e.g food stuff, security bill, nepa bill etc i cant even save anything. she said all manner of ill words to me not cox she dnt want me to prosper but she just want me to be with her, any attempt to travel out of lagos for job hunt she will squiz her face, always telling me to be patient, but am not growing any younger so i took that deadly step. At first it was hell cox no were to even sleep, i wunt go into details but today i have a good job, a home, am married and am a consultant etc. God was and is always with me.

Exiting that rubbish country.

To follow my heart and never be follow follow to anyone. With this, I have seen and I'm still seeing tremendous result as regard of this.

babapressy:
Leaving the comfort of my parents house (with no single hope or idea of what the future holds). Left home with just my hanging bag containing my laptop, 1boxer, 1singlet, 2trozers & 2shirts, 1 wrapper, tooth brush, bathing soap and sponge. I left home that faithful morning n my mum dnt call when i dnt return home, at least to knw if am dead, My mum was too angry that she refused to attend my wedding 2yrs later and till date she has not spoken to me. I left home cox 3yrs after NYSC no hope of getting a good job while staying in that house, and the insult was getin too much, she said all manner of ill words not cox she dnt want me to prosper but she just want me to be with her, any attempt to travel for job hunt she will squiz her face, but am not growing any younger so i took that deadly step. At first it was hell cox no were to even sleep, i wunt go into details but today i have a good job, a home, am married and am a consultant etc. God was and is always with me.

Damn!!

Quite sad.

She did not attend your wedding?

Xfemt:
I believ urs was even more complex, unlike me I was feeding and caring for my self alone . we re stronger my brother

yup

OrdercityWeb:
Lalasticlala please if this is not the right section. Kindly move it to the right place. Thanks!
Cc: Supersystemsng
Pocohantas

So fp thing on nairaland has become an issue of man know man... Na wa for you people oo! Small time now we go dey talk government own

banmee:
Exiting that rubbish country.

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I shudder to imagine what might have becone of you jad you stayed

I dropped out of school

castrol180:



So fp thing on nairaland has become an issue of man know man

Lol... Bro no quote me for this mention o...Lol

Toks2008:


Mine was accepting Jesus as my lord and saviour in 1988..since then I have enjoyed an indescribable inner peace that Atheists secretly yearn for.

*Runs out of thread*

If you say so.

Never to give up on life no matter the odds..... Stop chasing girls.......
Be self discipline
........ Pray to God and save more..... All these has been helping me up till today and i pray God bless our hustle

Sabrina18:
That's a big one.

Yeah, But I'm happy I made those decisions.

Fought my dad in year 2014
And that makes year 2015 the best year ever Spent
Focus on my study and that makes me the best
Forget what people say about me and that give more morale to achieve more

Refusing to cry for what Is about happening to me but I know with God I will get over it

GOD can help you - This has helped me to commit all my plans into Gods hands, cos he knows better.

Don't ever listen to what people say ? - This really helped me.

Believing that the future would be bright and hard times are temporary - This has really encouraged me to keep pushing forward.

I started seeking more Information on the Internet.

I started reading inspirational and Motivational books,

They have really helped in shaping my thinking and broadening my perspectives about life.

And so many others

following God.. and quitting ask forms of immorality that has been draining me to the core..

castrol180:



So fp thing on nairaland has become an issue of man know man... Na wa for you people oo! Small time now we go dey talk government own

Hello sir,

You are making a very wrong assumption. I have no relationship with the supermod. I only asked him to move the thread to the right place. Anyone on Nairaland has the right to do that.
You also can do that on your thread. So i really do not know what your problem is?

Please be careful of the statements you make sir. Thanks!
Good night!!

OrdercityWeb:

Nice!!

Thank you....

the day i decided to give my whole life to god

menxer:

Good and fine.

What was your intent or expectation?
What is your spiritual background?

My intent of courrse is to reap what i sow. On spiritual background, i'd give myself 70% but right now i'm beginning to doubt if God really exist cos all the sacrifices i've made has been fruitless I must say.

Leaving the army