Good question, I wonder too.

kemmyk:
God is indeed great, was she not menstruating or spotting at all, I wonder for her to be 9 weeks gone and not know?

Redeemed:
To all my wonderful e-sisters, mummyJJ, dep07, 4realwoman, fruitfulray, janix2, miraclebaby, pweetymii, fruitfulnathia, dependable God, tsquare, omojudy, cuppy mummy, dutchessgoddess and everyone, thank you for your responses and prayers.

Who else would know where the shoe pinches except the person who wears it. I tried searching my heart to know if the statement was actually true. Hmm! many waters have passed under the bridge but I bless God's for His sufficient grace upon my life, it can only be God. I'm six years in marriage, done three hsg, myomectomy, countless HVS, scans and lot more......, not to mention various drugs, injections and herbs.
In all, I give God all the glory because only the living can TTC, though it may tarry but God's promise will surely come to pass.
I'm a happy woman though I still soak my pillow with tears sometimes but it has never deterred me from having good relationship with people and this has made so many persons not to know I'm waiting for Ayomide.
Moreso, no matter how close I am with people, i dont discuss my ttc challenges with anyone except mamas that here or GTC mamas because they are the only people that can feel my pains, so why bother carrying sorrowful face or been petish when I know God's word must definitely come to pass in my life and other GTC mamas in the whole world.

Baby dust and fertility blessing toveveryone.!

*i'mnotanobjectofpity*
*nothing domeinjesuaname*
* makeupmodeactivated*
*ttccantkillmyswagger*
*thejoyofthelordismystrenght*
*it shallendinpraise*

My sister keep up the positive spirit,God will visit U just in the nick of time,Be happy always,remember he settles the barren woman and makes her a joyful mother of children praise the Lord Ps 113: 9,You are a settled mother,just know that!! Delay isn't denial,that I know for sure!

Roseey0:

Some how scarce but not totally. It's not a routine drug so they usually don't buy in bulk. Keep checking, u will see. Or just buy BComplex for now till u see

Ok. Thank you

Someone may find this interesting.
Babydust to us all.

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Lolz!!! No be small matter.. Alright aside from resigning to be with dh, was there anything you took?

kemmyk:
A friend of mine gave birth not quite long but she didn't tell me about it well I didn't knw she was pregnant though but the funniest thing is she told my brothers wife which she met through me, now she keeps posting her pix and the baby's pix on Facebook calling herself mama gold mama that, me just kip quiet do as if say I no see am oooo,but deep down e pain me,make I no lie....I told my mum about it but she said I shud call her to wish her well maybe she does that not to hurt my feelings by not telling me....well have decided to unfriend her on fb because I dey vex for her.....but am happy she gave birth to a beautiful and healthy baby.

God will give you your own testimony.. I have a similar case, my friend of almost 12years. She had her baby in America and also a friend of hers had her baby too in America. So automatically we are no more in the same class and level as she now rolls with American people. I just decided to park well and love from a distance. God will do my own too. No need to be hurt dear, just let it go so you won't hinder your own miracle and testimony.. God is in control.

SingleEdition:
I have seen Parkland mentioned in this chatroom more than once, please where is it?
I guess it is a hospital.

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Its a fertility hospital at surulere. Since the place is usually crowded, they must be good.
Just go there with a bucket full of patience. Also confirm the days and time for gynea visit on their website before going in order to avoid stories that touch.

kemmyk:
A friend of mine gave birth not quite long but she didn't tell me about it well I didn't knw she was pregnant though but the funniest thing is she told my brothers wife which she met through me, now she keeps posting her pix and the baby's pix on Facebook calling herself mama gold mama that, me just kip quiet do as if say I no see am oooo,but deep down e pain me,make I no lie....I told my mum about it but she said I shud call her to wish her well maybe she does that not to hurt my feelings by not telling me....well have decided to unfriend her on fb because I dey vex for her.....but am happy she gave birth to a beautiful and healthy baby.

ha! That one pained you. Lemme tell you what happened to me. Hubby's best friends(twins) wives have been giving birth up and down. Ever since we got married, not even once have they come to say hello to us. What am I even saying sef, not even a call or WhatsApp message. I just see pics on face book and I smile. Of course I am happy for them. I'm not jealous in anyway. When you are TTCing, you get to know the real character of those around you. Sometimes I think my temperament is a blessing in disguise cause my " I don't give a bleep" attitude is on a whole other level.

arrJay:



God will give you your own testimony.. I have a similar case, my friend of almost 12years. She had her baby in America and also a friend of hers had her baby too in America. So automatically we are no more in the same class and level as she now rolls with American people. I just decided to park well and love from a distance. God will do my own too. No need to be hurt dear, just let it go so you won't hinder your own miracle and testimony.. God is in control.

this reminds me exactly of a friend of mine. Hubby was warning me that she was just my friend because we were "in the same boat". I just taught hubby never liked her. When my eyes go clear, it was already too late!! I was so dissapointed. Immediately God answered her she forgot me. I was so hurt cuz I barely keep friends and my circle has always been small. I prayed to God to help me forgive her
It was hard because I loved her. I remeber when she was an object of constant domestic violence with her husband, I was there for her. Though thick and thin in all ways( I'm a giver when it comes to friendship and generally anyone I care about). What did I get in return? Gradually I've removed her from my mind cause I don't want unforgiveness to hinder my blessings. In this my little sojourn in life, I've seen tire. I give God the glory.

mztubsy:
ha! That one pained you. Lemme tell you what happened to me. Hubby's best friends(twins) wives have been giving birth up and down. Ever since we got married, not even once have they come to say hello to us. What am I even saying sef, not even a call or WhatsApp message. I just see pics on face book and I smile. Of course I am happy for them. I'm not jealous in anyway. When you are TTCing, you get to know the real character of those around you. Sometimes I think my temperament is a blessing in disguise cause my " I don't give a bleep" attitude is on a whole other level.

nawa ooo, wetin person eyes no go see, dis life eehn.....maybe me too go copy your attitude ooo

kemmyk:
nawa ooo, wetin person eyes no go see, dis life eehn.....maybe me too go copy your attitude ooo

My dear characters plenty jareh......lol
All my friends that we got married in 2014 are still believing God for the fruit of the womb and we are like 4 but the other three who got married 2015/early 2016 now have babies.....we all used to be besties but this girls threw baby showers we didn't know....fast forward to when they gave birth we just saw pics, I say shuuuu I mean we are so close we have a WhatsApp group for just us ooo... I found out they had some sort of click lol omo I just like the picture call them and congratulate them when they say "priye afar na?" I know what they mean but I just ignore lol when I uploaded my faith bump pics in my whastaap dp and status u needed to see msg I read and didn't reply lol I nor get time abeg lol its annoying but like cuppymummy abi happymummy said u have to reaslise that not every one is nice lol.......
TTC has taught me a lot ooooo lol I always tell myself Don’t be discouraged. It’s often the last key in the bunch that opens the lock and also I have faith that It’s going to be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end.”

U will notice I used "LOL" a lot in this post because laugh wan kill me die as I dey here d way people behave sometimes eh chei God of isreal like my neighbour when i don deal with for here hahahahhahahahhahahahahahah

legendsmother:


My dear characters plenty jareh......lol
All my friends that we got married in 2014 are still believing God for the fruit of the womb and we are like 4 but the other three who got married 2015/early 2016 now have babies.....we all used to be besties but this girls threw baby showers we didn't know....fast forward to when they gave birth we just saw pics, I say shuuuu I mean we are so close we have a WhatsApp group for just us ooo... I found out they had some sort of click lol omo I just like the picture call them and congratulate them when they say "priye afar na?" I know what they mean but I just ignore lol when I uploaded my faith bump pics in my whastaap dp and status u needed to see msg I read and didn't reply lol I nor get time abeg lol its annoying but like cuppymummy abi happymummy said u have to reaslise that not every one is nice lol.......
TTC has taught me a lot ooooo lol I always tell myself Don’t be discouraged. It’s often the last key in the bunch that opens the lock and also I have faith that It’s going to be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the .end.”

my boo is here!!!! . Wetin. Person no go see. You avoid me like a plague becos I never born? Who freaking does that? Am I going to kill your babies or do I have bad luck? Why are we women our own greatest enemies. Sometimes I marvel. U side talk, you chuckle, you laugh at me cause I don't have a child yet. Having a child na visa. Person wey u dey laugh sef no send you. You dey laff, dey wear rags and and carry "spongella" hair( my nickname for cheap synthetic hair)lolzzzzz. I dey shine and the Glory of God dey radiate for my life. If one is not mentally strong to fit into this our backward society where everyone feels they have an opinion over your life, person for don commit suicide teh teh ooo! Because our number 1 mockers and oppressors are family and friends.

mztubsy:
my boo is here!!!!

@spongella kuku kih me

u know me na
@bennyboo how is u? @lynda1 @heebah how is u
@towerofgrace and other mamas that pm me to reach out to me I love u guys scarra.......

Pls is anyone here taking parlodel? For pcos? They wanna add it to my protocol although my hormonal said its normal I donno why.....

Towerofgrace:
@ Legendsmother

You are a LAYA, what did I say? you are LAYA!!!

MGeey, how far sis, trust you are good.

Hahahhaa OK I yaff post na he don do lol

Redeemed:
To all my wonderful e-suaname*
* makeupmodeactivated*

Abeg na zaron abi na marykay come and dash me some ooooo u know say I sabi borrow pancake

kemmyk:
nawa ooo, wetin person eyes no go see, dis life eehn.....maybe me too go copy your attitude ooo

please my dear. That's the best. No send anybody jare. We've got one life to live. Make sure your are genuinely happy irrespective of what surrounds you.

mztubsy:
this reminds me exactly of a friend of mine. Hubby was warning me that she was just my friend because we were "in the same boat". I just taught hubby never liked her. When my eyes go clear, it was already too late!! I was so dissapointed. Immediately God answered her she forgot me. I was so hurt cuz I barely keep friends and my circle has always been small. I prayed to God to help me forgive her
It was hard because I loved her. I remeber when she was an object of constant domestic violence with her husband, I was there for her. Though thick and thin in all ways( I'm a giver when it comes to friendship and generally anyone I care about). What did I get in return? Gradually I've removed her from my mind cause I don't want unforgiveness to hinder my blessings. In this my little sojourn in life, I've seen tire. I give God the glory.

Just let it go. God will do our own , we shall testify����

SingleEdition:
Good question, I wonder too.

in pcos their menstruation may not b regular or too long even months without menstruating. So its normal for d woman to think "hmmm this menses don dey misbehave" not knowing she's preggy

arrJay:


Lolz!!! No be small matter.. Alright aside from resigning to be with dh, was there anything you took?

I stopped taking all d major drugs prescribed by d dr (clomid and co because hubby was in a diff state) like 6 months before I finally got a +ve result. Though early this year I started taking folic acid, b complex and vit e on days i remember to take it, also went for prayer sessions in front of Blessed Sacrament, praise sessions as well...hubby on d other hand was taking lots of "kunu aya"..

I ll say it was just God cause u need to see d kinda report i got from d doc early this year too...high prolactin so my period was irregular, staph+ candida, blah blah..I bought all d drugs he prescribed but before I cld take any of them I was already preggy...

My dear just keep believing in God and also do ur part, go for tests, take ur drugs and it shall end in praise!!!amen

SingleEdition:
Someone may find this interesting.
Babydust to us all.

What is this recipe for?

Does anyone know any ijaw woman who is into womb setting in Benin?

gabby18:


I stopped taking all d major drugs prescribed by d dr (clomid and co because hubby was in a diff state) like 6 months before I finally got a +ve result. Though early this year I started taking folic acid, b complex and vit e on days i remember to take it, also went for prayer sessions in front of Blessed Sacrament, praise sessions as well...hubby on d other hand was taking lots of "kunu aya"..

I ll say it was just God cause u need to see d kinda report i got from d doc early this year too...high prolactin so my period was irregular, staph+ candida, blah blah..I bought all d drugs he prescribed but before I cld take any of them I was already preggy...

My dear just keep believing in God and also do ur part, go for tests, take ur drugs and it shall end in praise!!!amen

Praise God!!!! You shall carry your baby to full term and deliver safely in Jesus mighty name. Amen.. Let me tap from your testimony.

Dhimmy:

Thanks for the response cravingchic. I stay at Agbara but won't mind the distance of any good Gynaecologist clinic

Great physician @ Badaagry is the best I know in dt area. Very affordable and he is good. I can send u his number if u wish.

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SingleEdition:
Someone may find this interesting. Babydust to us all.

Please what is Soda? is it the baking soda?

arrJay:


What is this recipe for?

It's a natural way to induce ovulation.

Benignasweety, yes it's baking soda. How's your Zizi doing?

Welcome back to Legendsmother. Good to have you back.

Good morning everyone
Welcome legendsmother

@Legendsmother....i just dey look u with one eye,thank God say u come out,i for come ya house come grab u out. Welcome back love. Mztubsy,if i tell u my own story ehn,dis page go full. People r very funny,u will think its by their power dat they get kids.
Ttc is a bastard o,may God answer us all speedingly. Amen. @Redeemed,hope u r good? Its well sis.

Still on the subject of deserters and ttc matters, lemme share my own experience. My cousin was ttc too. My mum and I prayed a lot for her because she had several miscarriages. Finally she got pregnant, and this time around did not share with anyone. My mum was a bit hurt and was like is she scared of me too?

But I was very much in support of her decision and by the time I explained to my mum, she understood.
I told my mum, "it's not you she's afraid of. She had to keep it a secret from everyone because sometimes in our joy, we may share with diabolical people unknowingly.

Maybe that's what worked for her because she had a safe delivery. I don't know for sure, but maybe keeping her secret helped.

My point is, it's better to make excuses for people. When I'm hurt I tell myself, "Cuppy, people are not suspicious of you because they want to be. It's because of the way they met the world, the whole world lies in cruelty. Many people have been destroyed by those closest to them. So you can't blame people when they're suspicious. How do you expect them to know the real thoughts of a person's heart? Only God truly knows your heart."

My philosophy of life is this: "It's normal for people to hurt me, sometimes unintentionally or not. My duty is to train myself to love them and not be easily offended."

What has inspired this philosophy:
the teaching by Jesus that offences must come, but you are blessed when you choose not to be offended;

I do know there'll always be the "Peninahs" to taunt and mock, but if not for them, the Spirit of the Hannahs will not be provoked to pray until something happens.

Another thing is, the world does not revolve around me. Everyone shouldn't be sad just because I'm temporarily going through a trial. Just because mine haven't come yet doesn't mean that someone should not gush about their baby where I am. And it's natural for them to get carried away by the stress of motherhood so much that they forget to say "hi".

In all things, rejoice with them that rejoice, mourn with them that mourn.

Here's an old wise saying: "To understand everything is to pardon everything!"

P/S: I apologize for the long epistle. Pardon me abeg

Cuppymummy:
It's a natural way to induce ovulation.

Benignasweety, yes it's baking soda. How's your Zizi doing?

Welcome back to Legendsmother. Good to have you back.

He is doing fyn ma.
lemme quickly share dix info to my friend.

hmmm....my dear sisters wetin person never see?

A friend outrightly told me, "we are not on same level again". Chai, I don suffer..lol
needless to say, GOD'S GRACE speaks for me.

@cuppymummy, this line got me, "To understand everything is to pardon everything!"

@Legendsmother, welcome back.

Morning all.

Bennyboo:
Thankful Thursday

To me what has kept me so strong is the fact that my self esteem is 100% and I don't keep friends (what worked for me might not work for you) I have come to an understanding that not all those so called friends are really friends, sometimes they even compound issues by acting as a monitoring spirit.
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After I wrote this for thankful Thursday I felt really awkward tru out the day because memories of friends and family that later turned their back after getting pregnant kept coming back. Its really a tough one but thank God I learnt my lessons .they showed me pepper
by hiding their pregnancy until they gave birth, by saying they cant do aso ebi with I and dh because they are family now (I and dh nko we are wat then ) , by saying her husband is a good man that is enough for her too she can't have it all (people of the world), many unthinkable things ...Hmmmm If I start to type I will eventually write a whole book but now am at peace with myself and I have enough time to focus more on God.
@legendsmama I sight you.
Baby dust to us all
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