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Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by babyfaceafrica: 6:10pm On Sep 19, 2017 |
I cannot judge you bro..you have tried..forgive him..but foegtting is another thing..God bless you and your family |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by Elosi: 12:25am On Sep 20, 2017 |
like father like son. you are really his son and I have been trying to figure out in what way u are better than him but I can't 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by mrstheo(f): 9:15pm On Sep 20, 2017 |
Op if your Dad dies without u reconciling with him it will hunt in in future. Please forgive him and reconcile with ur father. It's not easy but just do it for the sake of God and ur children |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by Nobody: 12:15am On Sep 21, 2017 |
The man is a sadist, thankGod I don't have this kind of father. 4 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by PstBiola: 8:46am On Sep 21, 2017 |
Dear Op, Please do not allow yourself and your wife to fall into the trap of unforgiveness. Man’s spirit – if it is not free, cannot contact the Spirit of God. “Many of us today are victims of the trap of unforgiveness. Many of us have never felt the presence of God, they just use ideas. Many of us have never felt the presence of God due to years of holding unforgiveness - griefs, grudges, pain of the past, bitterness or resentment in their heart. An unforgiving spirit will put you in the dark, outside God. Whether you are right or wrong, you don’t have a right to hold the pain.” We must learn to forgive ourselves so that we would be able to forgive others. A man does not give what he does not have, “Someone may have done horrible things to offend you but for you to receive God, you must forgive your father. How will you forgive? First, learn to forgive yourself. Then, you can forgive others. What you do not have, you cannot give to others. Everybody hurts somewhere. You must give your father another chance”. In conclusion, many who are better than you or live right better than you are in the graveyard. Their dreams hit the rock of disappointment. You are looking, sitting and talking freely. Jesus never disconnects Himself from those who have made mistakes with their lives. Your accuser, offenders, please forgive them wholeheartedly from your heart. Let us pray, Lord Jesus, have mercy upon my life, thank you for laying down your life to die for my sins. Please touch my heart and create in me a new heart of forgiveness to totally forgive (mention this full names) and tell the Lord that from henceforth you want to see his positive sides only in Jesus name. Amen You are blessed. Yours in His Vineyard, Pst Biola 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by Chiquitq(f): 9:22am On Sep 21, 2017 |
I understand you and you are doing the right thing. Most people would not understand that the psychological abuse would continue if you keep in touch with him. Thank God that you made something of yourself despite your father. God bless as you move on with your life. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by cymontempler: 11:21am On Sep 21, 2017 |
Arrogant son. Go and beg your father for forgiveness and let him bless you. You had better reconcile with him. Follow peace with all men. A son who is rejoicing over his dad's lack of fund.. Is that a Son. |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by Nobody: 5:09pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
cymontempler:Imbecilic judgemental commenter, you empty brain missed the pat where his father didn't show up for his weding and still tried to scatter it. 3 Likes |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by Nobody: 5:13pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
cymontempler:Imbecilic judgemental commenter, you empty brain missed the part where his father didn't show up for his wedding and still tried to scatter it. |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by cymontempler: 6:12pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
Eggplant. Shiit Head.... Moronic Fuckwit. Plonker like you don't know what forgiveness means. Your porous brain can't understand basics. Twaat... Bring it on. Piglet |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by 701ecilana: 6:46pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
I am his only son with two siblings. We have never been close as he has been so harsh and abusive towards me growing up both physically and emotionally, I HATED HIM AND STILL DO.Judge you ke? Biko you too try. If he comes home to you, say goodbye to your marriage. Forgive him tho. |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by 701ecilana: 6:47pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
ediama:Hahahahahaha. So, what have you got to say? |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by 701ecilana: 6:51pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
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Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by 701ecilana: 6:52pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
Adaumunocha:And are even still talking. |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by Adaumunocha(f): 7:36pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
701ecilana:All for d fun. |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by 701ecilana: 3:58pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
Adaumunocha:I see |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by ElsonMorali: 4:31pm On Oct 02, 2017 |
MhizzAJ: He's just a sperm donor. |
Re: Why I Won't Attend My Dad's Funeral When He Dies by frozen70(f): 9:25pm On Oct 04, 2017 |
My advice to you, visit him before you travel, if he Say's he wants you to apologize, do so, at this stage of his life, he is being hunted by his wicked deeds, if your mum can endure his hostilities, then you should too. After apologizing if he ever requested for that during your visit, stay away from him and run for your dear life and that of your family |
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