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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by makydebbie(f): 10:32pm On Sep 21, 2017
This thread is on fire. kiss

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by nkwuocha: 10:32pm On Sep 21, 2017
400billionman:


Guy, that dude will not pay that money.

Some of you underestimate the evil power behind THE LOVE OF MONEY.

She said that after some seeks, the guy has not fulfilled his promise of paying weekly interests.


I am saying this because I have seen this same scenario happen to 2 different people. It will just get their love messed up. The ladies assisted their fiancées. One guy just eloped and dumped the lady. The second guy paid back. In both cases, no love again.

This is also one of the problem I'm having with this issue. He asked for one million and got half a million,yet the business according to the lady is running well.My question is this;"what is he up to?"
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 10:33pm On Sep 21, 2017
nkwuocha:


[s]Dogs are smart,I'm flattered!
You are a complete jelly fish!
You bastard from several fathers!!!
People like you are the cause of this desperation we see in women of today.Just take a look at what you're comparing, ARE YOU A MAD MAN?!YOU ARE INDEED MENTALLY DERANGED.
Get lost with the background of the company,you keep saying this Shiite over and over like a convulsive cretin. Fucccking bastard!How sure are you that the said guy will pay back?Are you the guy in question?You must be silly! The lady wants out,there's no trust.Why is it such a big deal.This boy dey craze![/s]


I Knew it I fûcking it. The wasted sperm did not even read the post. You're a baboon without a brain. You see how it sounded abi. Your comments are even more stupid. Your mother should removed you with a hanger. She gave birth to an environmental pollution. Go and read that post again you ÎDIOT

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by pocohantas(f): 10:34pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:


Aunty lawyer....pity our brothers please...these words are too heavy, they'll crash the site... grin

If you wanna see crashing, open a thread next week saying I borrowed money from you without paying. You'll see the difference in their comments.

You date broke guy...wahala.
You date rich guy...they call you gold digger.

Nigerian men, una get conscience at all?? grin grin

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by nkwuocha: 10:35pm On Sep 21, 2017
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Daeylar(f): 10:36pm On Sep 21, 2017
Maduawuchukwu:


The guy is 100% going to payback. U wan bet?

I'm not against the guy, I'm against the posters that are attacking the lady for way she is feeling which is completely justified for no other reason than the fact that she is female and they can never agree that a female can be in the right while the guy is wrong in an issue that involves both sexes

I hope he pays back also. smiley

Cc supersystemsnig I modified it
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by nkwuocha: 10:37pm On Sep 21, 2017
thesuave10:



I Knew it I fûcking it. The wasted sperm did not even read the post. You're a baboon without a brain. You see how it sounded abi. Your comments are even more stupid. Your mother should removed you with a hanger. She gave birth to an environmental pollution. Go and read that post again you ÎDIOT

Na,she wouldn't dare it.She needed me.she kept me.I'm more concerned about the wretched low life that bore you. I bet your father used one of his dirty shirts to wipe it off her thinking he scored a good point.







If only he could afford a balloon instead.
You first class bastardized son of a lunatic!
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Sep 21, 2017
Daeylar:


I'm not against the guy, I'm against the posters that are attacking the lady the way she is feeling which is completely justified

I hope he pays back also. smiley


The guy will pay back 100%. I don't know him but can vouch for him. I rather let the investment go personally than ask a chick i'm involved with for finances, chai, well it depends on how deep their relationship had...
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by makydebbie(f): 10:39pm On Sep 21, 2017
TheRealestGuy:


You are a callous and wicked person.

You aren't even sure if he's broken even, you're not trying to be supportive, you're not even giving him a few weeks to stabilize after some production problems. All you're after is your miserly 500k that you lent to him.

You don't ever deserve to be married cos your type will turn to Jezebel if your hubby ever has financial issues.

If he wanted to scam you, will it be 500K, don't you know he'll be looking for a way to get more?

I pray for that guy that he doesn't marry you cos you will make his life miserable if he ever has financial problems.



Funny thing is that most of y'all women are like this, always quick to collect everything possible but when it comes to giving it's a problem.

I hope you fall into wrong hands that will teach you a lesson of your life since you can't be supportive of your to be husband.

All the harshness was duly intended and I exercised restraint not to call you names.

You tried so hard to make sense. This is rubbish!!

Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 10:40pm On Sep 21, 2017
Daeylar:


I'm not against the guy, I'm against the posters that are attacking the lady the way she is feeling which is completely justified

I hope he pays back also. smiley

Let me break it down
1) her feelings of disappointment and sadness for her money IS justifiable
2) her feelings of mistrust is definitely NOT justifiable
3) her actions or thoughts of actions are NOT justifiable
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:



This comment got me rolling on the floor...No one wants to re-visit the past, trust me, i've got my own past-phobia too....

Yeap, could hookup, but not about the past...Far from Union Homes?




Yes far from union homes, wheres that?

Am not around Palmgrove.


And sorry i cant divulge where i stay here.



Public forum
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 10:41pm On Sep 21, 2017
nkwuocha:


Na,she wouldn't dare it.She needed me.she kept me.I'm more concerned about the wretched low life that bore you. I bet your father used one of his dirty shirts to wipe it off her thinking he scored a good point.







If only he could afford a balloon instead.
You first class bastardized son of a lunatic!


HAHAHAHAHAHA e pain am. Shey you have seen that you didn't read that post well. Nonsense! grin
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by ibkayee(f): 10:42pm On Sep 21, 2017
Nawa, I think the poster's issue was more about how elusive he was being which would come across as sketchy to anyone. All he needed to do was be straightforward and explain himself

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Sep 21, 2017
alexialin:





Yes far from union homes, wheres that?

Am not around Palmgrove.


And sorry i cant divulge where i stay here.



Public forum


Wanna come private?
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:42pm On Sep 21, 2017
makydebbie:
This thread is on fire. kiss
the OP always needs advise tho, check her profile, she's always confused

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Sep 21, 2017
pocohantas:


If you wanna see crashing, open a thread next week saying I borrowed money from you without paying. You'll see the difference in their comments.

You date broke guy...wahala.
You date rich guy...they call you gold digger.

Nigerian men, una get conscience at all?? grin grin




You get time to wan date sef


Just focus on your life and career..

When the serious and capable ones are ready, they will humbly contact u.

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Adebowale89(m): 10:46pm On Sep 21, 2017
for you lend out 500k it means u worth some millions. now the question is what's 500k that's now giving you anxiety about your relationship with him?



even if he's not interested in relationship with u, whatever thing u do while in the relationship would always stick to his head


I did my ex admission and I paid her first year school fees. the day I met her with her husband and kids, she still tell her husband in my presence how I tried for her back then. relationship should be memorable, passionate and kind. neutralise your mind from the scamming syndrome


if he scam u or not. why not give him sometimes to know what he's really upto. don't rush into conclusion just like that

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by nkwuocha: 10:46pm On Sep 21, 2017
thesuave10:



HAHAHAHAHAHA e pain am. Shey you have seen that you didn't read that post well. Nonsense! grin

Pain me?!!continue to masturbate on my mentions with your mother's last drop of palm oil.I was thinking you'll have a good comeback, was waiting to decimate you like"trailer jam keke!"

Donkey! That's what happens when mothers feed kids without proper breast milk. I bet you swallowed lot of cum with it !Hope its not from different men........Ya mama go know!




Now get lost!

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:



Wanna come private?



You can click on my pm.


But wait! Are u married or single?

And are you above 30years old?
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 10:47pm On Sep 21, 2017
Piiko:
the OP always needs advise tho, check her profile, she's always confused

HAHA IM NOT SURPRISED. WOMEN DON'T UNDERSTAND THEMSELVES OR RELATIONSHIPS AT ALL AND WHEN THEY WANT TO UNDERSTAND MEN, IT'S AN EPIC FAIL
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by pocohantas(f): 10:47pm On Sep 21, 2017
Linux007:

He has a factory, and a functioning business, she has even liased with her junior colleague at work to help out. how do you suppose he will orchestrate the scam? Relocate the factory to another state because of 500k? The truth is because of the setback he had, he couldnt meet up to tge agreement the had earlier, and he is obviously avoiding a confrontation with her. His ego is depleted already ,imagine a girlfriend lending you money and u f**k uo the agreement due to unforseen circumstances.
But u wont see that cos u are overwhelmed with hate for guys..i pity u

LOL. Be like them just born you ooo.
A female friend did this to a guy, the guy knows her business location, he helped in setting up the business and ordering things.

He helped with capital. Was involved in logistics too...

Babe moved on with the money and nothing happened!
There was no written agreement. What will the guy do?

I don't talk much with her till today because of that action. The guy came to meet me and explained every.

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Sep 21, 2017
alexialin:




You can click on my pm.


But wait! Are u married or single?

And are you above 30years old?

Just a guy,girl companion gist oh...Not available...I'm dating myself.... grin I'm above 30 ma
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by makydebbie(f): 10:48pm On Sep 21, 2017
Piiko:
the OP always needs advise tho, check her profile, she's always confused
grin grin
I'm sure someone has said what I'll say. The hypocrisy of nl boys irks me. Lol its normal to be confused in this situation, I don't know about others. grin
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by davillian(m): 10:49pm On Sep 21, 2017
chynie:

Is your brain paining u? undecided u cant even praise her for giving him in the first place.
issues like this is why girls don't give guys financial support until they are rightfully married.
if she has lost her trust in him, then don't blame her, something caused it
So it is ok for guys to give financial support abi,when it comes to money women will not let person hear word.
A man needs a supportive woman and not a woman that will start screaming of #500k I'm sure that dude has spent more than 500k on her ass. If not he is going to spend more than than on their wedding.
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:


Just a guy,girl companion gist oh...Not available...I'm dating myself.... grin I'm above 30 ma




Ok

Am jusy trying to be careful.


i dont want to get entangled with any married man.


Ok then smiley


Send a pm
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 10:50pm On Sep 21, 2017
nkwuocha:


[s]Pain me,continue to masturbate on my mentions with your mothers last drop of palm oil.I was thinking you have a good comeback, was waiting to decimate you like"trailer jam keke!"

Donkey! That's what you get when you feed kids without proper breast milk. I bet you swallowed lot of cum with it !Hope its not from different men........Ya mama go know!




Now get lost![/s]

LOL.. OK grin I'M HAPPY I IMPACTED SENSE INTO YOUR EMPTY SKULL grin
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Maduawuchukwu(m): 10:51pm On Sep 21, 2017
Daeylar:


I'm not against the guy, I'm against the posters that are attacking the lady for way she is feeling which is completely justified for no other reason than the fact that she is female and they can never agree that a female can be in the right while the guy is wrong in an issue that involves both sexes

I hope he pays back also. smiley

Cc supersystemsnig I modified it

I think she is wrong too. I sense paranoia and mistrust from her side. The guy is established so what is 500K? He has a fixed location so where can he run to after scamming? He does not pick her calls but he texts her probably because she flares up when talking about the money. How does she know that his business is going well nw? If he is the one that told her then he obviously doesn't plan on scamming her. The poster made a statement about him buying her gifts. This to me shows that he has spent a dime on gifts(she stated it hear because it is to significant to leave out). A guy who wants to scam you won't spend much on gifts for you just because he wants to scam you of 500k. What ya say?

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Sep 21, 2017
alexialin:





Ok

Am jusy trying to be careful.


i dont want to get entangled with any married man.


Ok then smiley


Send a pm




Aii. Sent
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by nkwuocha: 10:52pm On Sep 21, 2017
thesuave10:


LOL.. OK grin I'M HAPPY I IMPACTED SENSE INTO YOUR EMPTY SKULL grin

Really? grin grin
If you say so.

At least I'm happy ,your head don calm down.
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by pocohantas(f): 10:52pm On Sep 21, 2017
Sterope:
Women discuss tooundecided. They discuss how stupid men really are, how gay the most heterosexual man is and how men suffer from inferiority complex. They talk like you do. Everyone talks, not my business

1) He would still cry. Blue sea or not. If he cared for that relationship, he will care about it if she jilted him

2) Financial status does not matter. If there was a relationship, he will care


Loving women does not stop you from being a sexist.

You can spare me the usual trash about not borrowing a dime from a woman. Men can be vengeful too but then it would be easier to remember a vengeful womab than vengeful man. If you borrow and you are rude about repayment, you deserve what comes to you. You don't act entitled when you are a debtor. You can be an egoist when you arein debt.



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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by tbliss22(m): 10:53pm On Sep 21, 2017
Immee:
Hello fellow nairalanders, pls advise needed on this issue.

My bf and I have been together for a while now and planning on having our marriage introduction by November and marriage proper early next year.

Im an independent woman with a gud job. As a matter of fact, ive never made any financial request from this guy though he buys gift for me without requesting. He is doing well financially too, he runs a recycling factory while I work with a manufacturing company.

Things are working well between us since the relationship started untill recently when we had some business deals together ( my opinion though) cos I don't understand him anymore. He was broke at that time and needed to get some materials which he never budgeted for. He requested that I invest in his company by paying for those materials since they're coming cheap and he doesn't have enough to get them at that time and wouldn't want to loose the opportunity. I consented to the idea cos I knew he's business was very lucrative and that I'll get my money back with interest. He promised to be paying me a weekly dividend so I thought of giving 1 million naira. I made an instant transfer of 500k to his account as dts the maximum I can do daily without a token and I wasn't with it then.

The 2nd day dt I was suppose to send the remaining money, some issues occurred in his company in my presence. He had some major issues with some of the equipments in his factory. He had to stop productions for some days. So i with held the balance as it wont be neccesary since there was no production.While repairs were ongoing? I had to liase with some of my junior colleagues at work who are engineers to help my bf cos I found out he's engineer's aren't capable of handling the situation as dts the first time he would experience such. As God will have it operations started back in few days with the support of my engineers.

My concern now is since things went back to normal in my bf compan' he's yet to keep to his promise of the weekly dividend he said I would be receiving from the investment. As a matter of fact , things has changed between us cos he no longer call and hardly pick my calls. I communicate with him mostly thru SMS now since he wouldn't pick my calls. I'd sent messages to him to return my money without interest and he has promised to pay back with no time and date of when he's going to pay back. I even had plans of going to his place today since im off work so as to force him to go to the bank with him so DT I can get my money but he left the house early in the morning with excuses that he has a place to go and would return to my place after leaving there.

Pls guys how best can I get this money back from him cos I know he has it but playing pranks on me. I don't mind loosing my relationship with him as I don't trust him any longer.

Hello Op, the fact here is that if care is not taken u will loose him and also probably loose your money too. It's surprising that u suddenly felt he's going to dupe u after concluding initially to help.

If truly you have true love for him, your fund shouldn't be the priority now but following up on the business ensuring it bounced back to normal.

If you build this guy's business, you are indirectly building ur unborn child's future.

Finally, try and visit him unexpected and talk things over. If by then he's showing some funny moves, get his parents arrested asap.
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Sep 21, 2017
davillian:

So it is ok for guys to give financial support abi,when it comes to money women will not let person hear word.
A man needs a supportive woman and not a woman that will start screaming of #500k I'm sure that dude has spent more than 500k on her ass. If not he is going to spend more than than on their wedding.






Make wedding happen first nah.


Then they will know who spends more.

Its easier said than done.

Fake empty assurances.

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