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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Sep 21, 2017
Maduawuchukwu:


I think she is wrong too. I sense paranoia and mistrust from her side. The guy is established so what is 500K? He has a fixed location so where can he run to after scamming? He does not pick her calls but he texts her probably because she flares up when talking about the money. How does she know that his business is going well nw? If he is the one that told her then he obviously doesn't plan on scamming her. The poster made a statement about him buying her gifts. This to me shows that he has spent a dime on gifts(she stated it hear because it is to significant to leave out). A guy who wants to scam you won't spend much on gifts for you just because he wants to scam you of 500k. What ya say?

We re wa yo. The guy should call her and recite all you've said... grin
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Sep 21, 2017
makydebbie:
grin grin
I'm sure someone has said what I'll say. The hypocrisy of nl boys irks me. Lol its normal to be confused in this situation, I don't know about others. grin
I am not a fan of lending money to females, especially those you dating it never ends well, speaking from experience, if the story is genuine, hope she retrieves her money and learns a thing or 2 about trusting partners with finances. I won't ever give a loan to someone I date any longer, I hate the fact that money is always a cause of disagreement even between friends.

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by makydebbie(f): 10:54pm On Sep 21, 2017
NAIRALAND GUYS ARE FVCKING HYPOCRITES. angry

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Sep 21, 2017
makydebbie:
NAIRALAND GUYS ARE FVCKING HYPOCRITES. angry


Will you stop this...?


What is it?
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 10:55pm On Sep 21, 2017
nkwuocha:


Really? grin grin
If you say so.

At least I'm happy ,your head don calm down.






I WAS SUSPECTING IT ALL ALONG grin THAT THE CHIMP NO EVEN READ THE POST I JUST HAD TO SHOW YOU YOUR FOLLY. NEXT TIME YOU'LL READ AND THINK DEEPLY grin

Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 10:57pm On Sep 21, 2017
makydebbie:
NAIRALAND GUYS ARE FVCKING HYPOCRITES. angry

Nah. Honey. We just real like that
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Kokaine(m): 10:59pm On Sep 21, 2017
Ginaz:


No be small thing, look at his attitude sef, so undeserving and rude. I hope this girl look carefully before marrying this guy. He will frustrate her when it comes to money and financial issues. He won't appreciate things big or small, sacrifice or whatever she will do for him.

Sometimes God has a way of telling us what are about to enter is not the right place for us. They have been going smoothly with no issues, perhaps this is something God wants her to see, the other side of the guy. I hope she listens and see things clearly before she says I do. sad
very correct. its difficult for humans to act and behave other than what is in character. that is his character, and yes! it will manifest in many other facets of his life
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by nkwuocha: 11:00pm On Sep 21, 2017
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I WAS SUSPECTING IT ALL ALONG grin THAT THE CHIMP NO EVEN READ THE POST I JUST HAD TO SHOW YOU YOUR FOLLY. NEXT TIME YOU'LL READ AND THINK DEEPLY grin[/quote][/s]

Take heart.
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by makydebbie(f): 11:00pm On Sep 21, 2017
Piiko:
I am not a fan of lending money to females, especially those you dating it never ends well, speaking from experience, if the story is genuine, hope she retrieves her money and learns a thing or 2 about trusting partners with finances. I won't ever give a loan to someone I date any longer, I hate the fact that money is always a cause of disagreement even between friends.
I understand you, personally I don't collect gifts or favors. Unless you're family, if my 'boyfriend' decides to buy me a gift, he's on his own. He kuku knows I won't collect.

Now back to this issue. I've worked myself, before I entered school. I know how hard it's to make money. I know how I spend. Even sometimes when I decide to buy stuffs for the house and it finishes earlier than expected, I get really mad. Because it's my HARD EARNED money. Then me, Dzifa daughter of Prosper will have an agreement with you concerning money and you'll be giving attitude and sending wrong signals. I won't waste time ooo police straight! No time.
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Maduawuchukwu(m): 11:01pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:


We re wa yo. The guy should call her and recite all you've said... grin

Lol. I am just trying to sieve out stuffs to resolve the matter.
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by makydebbie(f): 11:01pm On Sep 21, 2017
thesuave10:


Nah. Honey. We just real like that
Take your stupid realness to the thrash can nobody is buying.
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 11:01pm On Sep 21, 2017
nkwuocha:
[[s]quote author=thesuave10 post=60704029]


I WAS SUSPECTING IT ALL ALONG grin THAT THE CHIMP NO EVEN READ THE POST I JUST HAD TO SHOW YOU YOUR FOLLY. NEXT TIME YOU'LL READ AND THINK DEEPLY grin[/s]

Take heart.

Sleep well. She's not that bad wink grin
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Sep 21, 2017
Maduawuchukwu:


Lol. I am just trying to sieve out stuffs to resolve the matter.


Do you know that if it's not in context of a relationship that this is fraud?
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by makydebbie(f): 11:02pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:



Will you stop this...?


What is it?
Come and collect my phone and stop it for me. undecided
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Sep 21, 2017
makydebbie:
Come and collect my phone and stop it for me. undecided

Okay, i command virus to damage that phone this week... grin
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 11:03pm On Sep 21, 2017
makydebbie:
Take your stupid realness to the thrash can nobody is buying.

A person that disregards reality will only dwell in illusions and fantasy. Soon you will imbibe grin
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Sep 21, 2017
thesuave10:


Why can't people speak without horrendous fallacies undecided

thesuave10:



You brain must definitely be a tiger's own. It can't possibly be human undecided

You've been noticed. I hope my reply to you helps you sleep better tonight.

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by stancod(m): 11:04pm On Sep 21, 2017
TheRealestGuy:


You are a callous and wicked person.

You aren't even sure if he's broken even, you're not trying to be supportive, you're not even giving him a few weeks to stabilize after some production problems. All you're after is your miserly 500k that you lent to him.

You don't ever deserve to be married cos your type will turn to Jezebel if your hubby ever has financial issues.

If he wanted to scam you, will it be 500K, don't you know he'll be looking for a way to get more?

I pray for that guy that he doesn't marry you cos you will make his life miserable if he ever has financial problems.



Funny thing is that most of y'all women are like this, always quick to collect everything possible but when it comes to giving it's a problem.

I hope you fall into wrong hands that will teach you a lesson of your life since you can't be supportive of your to be husband.

All the harshness was duly intended and I exercised restraint not to call you names.

guy am 80% sure you the boyfriend she is talkiing about. Bro pls pls pls pay back her money,its her pains&sweat. Guy pay her back!

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by pocohantas(f): 11:04pm On Sep 21, 2017
Maduawuchukwu:


I would honestly not assume that my wife-to-be would end our relationship by duping me of 500k. She has trust issues.

She also honestly doesn't want to assume her husband-to-be would end communication because of 500k.

Why are you not seeing it like that?
He has communication issues.
He has integrity issues.
Which is bad for both male and female.

I don't think he wants to dupe her, but his lack of communication shows exactly how he would handle financial setbacks in marriage. The onus is on him to communicate and water the trust. No shifting goal posts here. She should also be more understanding...but read the OP again, she has tried...lots of guys here can't boast of having a gf like her.

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 11:05pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:



Do you know that if it's not in context of a relationship that this is fraud?

Er.. ...no it's not undecided
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Maduawuchukwu(m): 11:05pm On Sep 21, 2017
alexialin:




You can click on my pm.


But wait! Are u married or single?

And are you above 30years old?

You dey fear married men? grin
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by makydebbie(f): 11:06pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:


Okay, i command virus to damage that phone this week... grin
I just repaired this phone oo bro no try am. grin
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Sep 21, 2017
thesuave10:


Er.. ...no it's not undecided


brother free me abeg... i'm beginning to suspect that you're the guy self..

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Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by makydebbie(f): 11:06pm On Sep 21, 2017
thesuave10:


A person that disregards reality will only dwell in illusions and fantasy. Soon you will imbibe grin
Read my signature. Bye! Hypocrite!
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 11:07pm On Sep 21, 2017
whitetiger511:




You've been noticed. I hope my reply to you helps you sleep better tonight.

Your reply is as irrelevant as K in knife. Do get a human brain
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Sep 21, 2017
makydebbie:
I just repaired this phone oo bro no try am. grin


We go c na... Hope say u get money flash am sha?
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 11:08pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:



brother free me abeg... i'm beginning to suspect that you're the guy self..

like!!!
if he's not the guy, then he scams hardworking women for a living in the name of "I will marry you".
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by makydebbie(f): 11:08pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:



We go c na... Hope say u get money flash am sha?
Oya lemme alone. E don do. grin

Horlohlah come see this rubbish nl boys and their stupid comments here. angry
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by thesuave10(m): 11:08pm On Sep 21, 2017
makydebbie:
Read my signature. Bye! Hypocrite!

Real soon. Trust me, you'll imbibe wink
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Sep 21, 2017
Maduawuchukwu:


You dey fear married men? grin


Leave her alone o abeg
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Sep 21, 2017
Maduawuchukwu:


You dey fear married men? grin





Am not scared of anyone, how much more married men. Are they not human?

I just do not have the time to waste on cooked up lies about their wives at home, all to generate emotional sympathy.

Cos av got no iota of sympathy to shed for any make believe stories that touch.

I hate complications.

That's why
Re: I Gave My Boyfriend N500k, Has He Duped Me? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Sep 21, 2017
supersystemsnig:




Aii. Sent



Ok replied

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