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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Humility017(m): 7:23am On Sep 23, 2017
CosmeticChemist:

Are you OK ?.. Looks like you need a mental evaluation.
can't you see his moniker....? he is someone that lack sense

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Kimkardashain(f): 7:24am On Sep 23, 2017
Dmeji4444:

Home destroyer.
i was taught by my parents to never insult people regardless of anytin.
but if dis the level of your IQ. is okay u need a redress
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Pweetyjuddy(f): 7:25am On Sep 23, 2017
Ahah..only 30seconds when am not even OK with two hours..
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by NwaliE01: 7:30am On Sep 23, 2017
My Dear, I had similar problem as your hubby.
First thing I did was to admit before my partner that I had a problem.
Next, We visited the hospital and SPA(sperm Analysis) was done. My result was very poor. Just one drug did the magic of restoration. The drug is MEN ALIVE. I got mine #10,000. you can give it a trial. We men are not happy if we can prove our prowess to our partner in the bedroom &your hubby is not an exception. Convince him to see a physician. Tell him his problem is also yours.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Medallionsoul(m): 7:37am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Malawian(m): 7:38am On Sep 23, 2017
Samsimple:

whether he last 30 secs or one hour he still releases d same sperm... U cant tell his family but u can tell nairaland ha ha ha... I think the problem is with both of u... If its abt d pregnancy then its u bcuz d man released...

Best solution seek help from ur doctor
i dont think so. some of these chikcs falopian tubes needs to be activated by severe piston action for it to take in your swimmers. If not that you are married, i for say make i epp you. undecided
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by pooozeee(m): 7:40am On Sep 23, 2017
Starvation
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by joeyreports: 7:48am On Sep 23, 2017
Nairaland eh!!! One funny place, someone brings her marital wahala here, all some of you could thing is how to bleep her on behalf of her husband..... Truly, Marriage is not for social media...

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Ignatio(m): 7:52am On Sep 23, 2017
emelda86:
U guys need to talk,,,tell him in a way he won't
See it as an insult.... secondly have u heard of kunu aya? Its made up of dabino, ofio & coconut blend it together give him to drink u can drink it also then come back & thank me later.

What is ofio?
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by IamLEGEND1: 8:09am On Sep 23, 2017
odaniel1:

yeah like feed him the pieces too!..TF! Really? He shud kill himself because its entirely his fault.
PE (premature ejaculation) is no man's fault, it is as impromptu as a nosy mother-in-law
He has no qualms humiliating her in front of his family and pinning everything on her....... Instead of trying to work on a solution, he's playing the blame game.

So why should she care about his ego next time he tries to pull something like that on her? I mean, you did see where I said she should only return the favour IF he tries to blame her in front of family again right?

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by victorioushands: 8:14am On Sep 23, 2017
How can you to have a child already in three years and blame has started over a second child. Married couples live even up to five without issues and still are in love. I suggest you do the findings yourself and provide solutions to him and, if he refuses, go to the same family he complains to. He must be too ignorant or weak or even both. But there are many solutions to that. Also make sure you are neat and dress sharp before him to be sure you are not the cause since you guys already have produced a child before even with his 30 seconds claim. May God help you.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by odaniel1(m): 8:20am On Sep 23, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
He has no qualms humiliating her in front of his family and pinning everything on her....... Instead of trying to work on a solution, he's playing the blame game.

So why should she care about his ego next time he tries to pull something like that on her? I mean, you did see where I said she should only return the favour IF he tries to blame her in front of family again right?
i agree with you on the guy growing some 'balls' and accepting it's 'his' responsibility (like dats his major fault really) buh u dnt also advise that she too should forment issues by 'giving it right back' to her hubby in public-that's plain disrespect (the man is aware of this and is taking advantage in this case)
The man is suffering from what most men would rightly suffer from at the initial stage but 'outgrow'. Her Hubby needs to do that, agreed. But two wrongs never make a right.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Kaybaba5(m): 8:24am On Sep 23, 2017
LordIsaac:
It coulɗn't have ɓeen for 30seconɗs, stop exaggerating it; except, of course, you hold a watch to his face from start to finish. In which case, you woulɗn't enjoƴ it as you woulɗ have had a diviɗeɗ attention. grin That ɓeen saiɗ, consult all the stakeholɗers at your weɗɗing, they'd intervene ɗecentlƴ. Flee youthful counsel from some Nairalanɗers! For the thing is, you tooƙ that VOW "for better, for WORSE." This is that part that will not ɓe captureɗ in pre weɗɗing pictures. Now the test.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by blackie01(m): 8:28am On Sep 23, 2017
IkpuMmadu:


Are you a woman ?


Let the woman talk for themselves....do what men are meant to do...women deserve sexual satisfaction but without money your sexual satisfaction isn't worth it


Take it from an older dude that have seen it

Don't brag of lasting 30 minutes on Toto
Brag of having lasting money in your account


That's what women wants and prefer

I will like our women to educate me on this.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by plamonee: 8:33am On Sep 23, 2017
I must commend your thoughtfulness in handling this matter, more especially not exposing him to public ridicule. Indeed you love him. My advice is this, since he still have sex with you, time your sexual initiation to coincide with your ovulation period. That will increase the chances of conception. Secondly be more involved in solving the problems he is facing. Show that the wait he is carrying, you are carrying it as well with him. Humble him by being very loyal to him. When he expect you to react remain cool. I feel you are already doing all this. Finally , PRAY! Very important, you can never know if the devil is after your marriage and happiness. Destroy whatever seed that is implanted in him with your knees. Don't loose sight of the fact you are a good woman. All the best!

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Ajiowe: 8:39am On Sep 23, 2017
THE MAN NEED COUNSELLING ON HIS SEXUAL LIFE AND HE IS SUFFERING FROM PREMATURE EJACULATION. LET HIS WIFE BEG HIM TO A PRODUCT FROM KEDI HEALTHCARE CALLED REVIVE. THE NEED TO carry out TEST TOO.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by LEXYCOM: 8:40am On Sep 23, 2017
I can help, I last for 31 seconds. At least I pass ur hubby. Call me
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Chimex30(m): 8:41am On Sep 23, 2017
muller101:
Look for a way and rape him
Lol.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by sweetilicious(f): 8:41am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!
Op,NEVER and I repeat NEVER you spill this to anyone.You as his significant other owe him the protection of his ego.Pls tell him how you feel first about all he says.Remind him that he has to be involved both physically and emotionally.Try to find out everything that you do wrong from him.I believe this will go a long way in mending your sex life.But if it doesn't,then we see another solution
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by thorpido(m): 8:43am On Sep 23, 2017
enemyofprogress:
was it not the same premature ejaculation he used in making the first baby? grin grin
Premature ejaculation can make a baby but you have to consider frequency of intercourse and timing.
Above all,she's unsatisfied too.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by IkpuMmadu: 8:50am On Sep 23, 2017
blackie01:


I will like our women to educate me on this.

Even if you last 30 hours on a woman and you can't provide for her


Your new would be sorry


No money
No honey
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by semilore123: 8:51am On Sep 23, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...

Lol
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Samsimple(m): 9:05am On Sep 23, 2017
Malawian:

i dont think so. some of these chikcs falopian tubes needs to be activated by severe piston action for it to take in your swimmers. If not that you are married, i for say make i epp you. undecided
hmmm u dey fear married women
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by ochardbaby(m): 9:06am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

(1) he is not cheating on you,so the tank is full and at
any chance of touching the tanks overflows.

(2) if you can't seduce your lover,then you are on the way to sambisa... smiles

(3) you not telling anyone about his bedroom problems,makes you a confidant,a true lover,a good woman keep that up.

(4) I will try and pM a thread of a guy here that sells some oil. You could pour the oil inside a hair cream can and when oga comes. All you need is touch his kini with the oil 3/5 times. Like play like play he go turn to lion � in the room and devour your crying Panama.

Search for Samsu Oil. Cheap and very active. Please be ready or,it's like World Cup.
Lots of penealties to be played.

Wishing you and your family a happy weekend.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by gare(f): 9:15am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!

The problem is that the two of you do stay way from sex for long, he doesn't have any problems at all, you as a guy have not had sex for a long time as three months, 30 sec is even too long to ejaculate, but when you do it very often then he would be able to last for a long time.

So I will advice you move in back to the room with him and let your baby stay in the other room , you can always check your baby from time to time.

But on the other hand if he is sleeping out and have this problems of quick ejaculations then he may have an infection that need to be treated, you may also check yourself.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by greggng: 9:20am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!


His problem is simple if actually you are willing to pay the price for the agbo and he is also prepared to drink it. At the end he will give u a good Bleep that u will come for testimony here
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 9:21am On Sep 23, 2017
Please add Viagra in his food, mostly tea, Viagra is for men so don't add it on the food you will eat together.after he will be the one barging you for sex. contact me privately
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by crunchyDope(m): 9:38am On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!


has he always been like dis?

urm did he see u giving birth?

hv u changed since u gave birth?


if he has always bin like dis den u need to tell him abt he so he can fix it be4 it bcoms worst(10 secs)...as he cnt read minds(my guess)

if he saw u giving birth or u changed den it can be fixed by seducing d shit out of him...pre-intimacy nd stuff buh dnt ...k, dat wld mk him h0rny..nd also check if he is masturbating...if he is masturbating? check his interest , den copy em.!
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by osahon01(m): 9:41am On Sep 23, 2017
Larryfest:
Just spice is food or drink with Mexican Viagra and you will be the one to come here and complain to us again...
Hahaha if she try am na him husband go dey trouble her for sex be dat... enough fun
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by joelpeters: 9:46am On Sep 23, 2017
discuss the issue with in a quiet and respectful manner, you guys look should look for a way out of the problem together. God bless ur home, i love your mature handling of issue as delicate as this
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by SeniorZato(m): 9:46am On Sep 23, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...
284 likes for this rubbish. Change your ways or you will never see God

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