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Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by josite: 2:49pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
how did u get the six trucks.examine your own foundation.did u steal or kill or cheat to acquire them. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Chatflick(m): 2:49pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby:You are somewhat correct. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 2:49pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
kenchop: kenchop , exactly but the worst thing that would ever happen to someone in this case is praying, seeing the effects of the prayers and then cease from praying.. if you start praying, don't stop until you see the end.. spiritual husbands are really wicked. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by reality17(m): 2:50pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
IamKashyBaby: Indeed u are still a kid in d spirit realm. Did u hear d dream part? How he prayed to God to reveal d problem? My brother i think u already knw wat d problem is and av a solution to it.. Yes u knw wat am talking abt..... Act now else u are gonno lose ur life.... Be wise 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 2:51pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
AuroraB:God bless you too 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by fergieboy: 2:51pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Poster you buy big market o.. Edo kwanu? ![]() All this woundnt have happen had it being you married your fellow Igbo woman.. In fact you would have prospered by now Sorry eh 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by ashjay001(m): 2:51pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Frenchfriez: I like u, already! |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by thesuave10(m): 2:52pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
But op wetin carry you go Edo state? ![]() 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by aolawale025: 2:53pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Look for a good pastor. Your wife can be delivered. At this point you have to open up to her. It has to be done jointly. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by thesuave10(m): 2:53pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Frenchfriez: They just keep on coming ![]()
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Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Mrkumareze(m): 2:53pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Bro. Your problem is not peculiar to you alone, more than 60 percent of married men are going through that and, it takes the grace of God to quench it. I feel how critical it is right now for you to post it here in Nairaland. May God through his abundant grace show you mercy. Please go spiritual, keep away from your wife and see how it goes. It wouldn't be an easy thing to do as you 'll see 1001 reasons not to leave or step an inch away from her. Be a man, your success shall return in 100 folds . |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 2:53pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
i have come to realize something in this life, Do you know that the devil can only attack you when you announce your plans or success (when you say it out audibly with your mouth) but when you don't talk, and keep it at heart, the devil will never know your plans. I have observed it alot.. 8 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by nams77: 2:53pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Op, I'm not going to talk to much. Those up there telling you there is nothing like spirit/ demons are like little children; they are spiritually blind. Believe them at ur own. Peril. You were given revelations twice or more in the dream. God speaks to man in diverse ways,one is thru dreams. Now to solutions. Attack the spiritual and the physical will be taken care of. Go to Mountain of fire ministry and carry out deliverance for your self and wife. Now, going to the church will not get u delivered, but your believe in Jesus Christ and your conscious effort of dedicated prayers,. Believe and trust in God. Your wife needs to be separated from the jealous entity that is claiming her. Once again, pay no heed to those who says things like this don't exist. They are blind spiritually. I wish you the best my brother. It's well By the way, I don't attend mfm 5 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by rayobaba(m): 2:55pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Bro, u in a mess. I believe ur problem is connected to ur wife. But why do u keep telling her ur plans. U funny oo. In ur write up, u said she reported u to ur boss that u beat her. So she could do dt knowing-fully well Dt could make u loose ur job. Bro, am not saying u shd divorce her, but u know d way to ur problem. U need prayer to solve this. I want to think she knows she has spirit husband and she knows Dts d cause of ur problem. What has she even do to make ds problem go away! Bro, run to God before they finish u like motal kombat. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by tuscani: 2:56pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
My brother, I feel for you. For those that think you are being superstitious, I don't know how they arrive that . My personal experience is this. I have had some very serious issues that I have been with for years, during the last 70 days MFM prayer and fasting,I joined and behold lets than one month into the fasting, God answered my prayers. The choice is yours. For me I believe there is s living God, that directs the affairs of men. He is willing and able to deliver if we bring our problems to him because his son Jesus has paid the price 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 2:57pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
josite:day star, Kicc reforms the mind of Christians already free. Couple inclusives. Not couples that cause the other to loose job. For God sakes, which spouse takes bedroom matter to the other's office so he can loose his job. 1stcor 16:9. There are man adversaries brother. I said it before a woman is able to subdue a weakman to her level. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by tballeyy(m): 2:57pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
luxy44:amen I fell like crying for u, sorry |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Ishilove: 2:58pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
freshvine:By parents, you mean 'foreparents'. Spirit husbands have different categories, and it seems like his wife's own falls under the ones who render the husbands of the women useless. They won't stop until they bring the man down to zero level. These men can only get back to their feet if they separate from the woman, which is really the whole point of the oppression- to ensure the woman does not have a stable home because she is attached in the spirit realm to demons. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by ofuonyebi: 2:58pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Hello, success or failure in marriage is not base on wealth or amount of money in ur account... what if u didn't have a child? Honestly, your problem has nothing to do with your wife....You confessed that she is very supportive! Then, what was she to do that is out of being supportive?....To me, your problem developed because you never believe that it was GOD Almighty the creator of wealth that made you what you are and hence, you never had time to submit yourself and all you have to him, for more blessing...if you have by now become a multi-millionaire, would you accuse her of witchcraft?...You can become greater than you are before if you believe GOD and pray and repent ur former ways of life.... Her spiritual husband problem you are afraid off can be solved by the power of God. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 2:58pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
PaperLace:dem tell you say na truck business dangote dey do? |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by shophut(m): 2:59pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
I really feel your predicament. I would like to add to what other people have said so far concerning your problem. Brotherly, you don't need a soothsayer to confirm what your problem is. God has revealed already to you what the problem is. You have even confirmed that bad things happen when you have a particular dream or tell your wife about any plan you want to execute. These signs are not mere coincidence. God has shown them to you because he wants you to be delivered. God is looking for a way to rescue you but He needs you to initiate the way for Him to come in. The first mistake you made was marrying your wife without proper visitation to the mother as tradition demands. She doesnt even need to say anything just her tears can act like fire. So what you will do, go to your wife's mother, apologize to her like a son, talk to her about what really happened when you were about to marry her daughter, get a list of things from her, buy them and present to her. Get her the best of drink in the midst of your family elders. Let her pray and bless you. Secondly, seek for a spirit filled church and attain with your wife. Get the pastor of that church involved. Declare a fast in your house, maybe for 7 days, then go to the pastor in the church to pray for both of you. Yes your wife may be afflicted by a spirit husband. That bond between her and the spirit husband has to be broken. Anoint yourselves with the blessed oil from the church. You can buy it for the pastor to bless for you. Finally, go back to your wife's family and perform the rights for her late father. You should know what i am talking about. Go with your family elders. If possible make it look like another marriage introduction ceremony. Give unto caesar's what caesar's, and unto God what's God. You are free indeed. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by bikat: 3:00pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Poster, you ARE MAKING A MISTAKE, don't bite the fingers that fed you. Your mentality is too poor, so now your wife is a witch? Ah men... 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Sylvaaustine: 3:00pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Its a blessing |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 3:00pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Hmmmmmm |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by LordKO(m): 3:00pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
@OP Foremost, have it in mind that there's no absoluteness aside the creator of the world. Therefore, dreams as important and intrinsic as they could be, for a spiritually awake person, aren't always deducible to walking life experiences. It takes more than being religiously inclined to interpret dreams. What I'm saying in essence is that you shouldn't demonize your wife, at least not now, just because of your dreams. What you had could as well be mere nightmares. So far you don't have any fact against her, and even if you do, it still behove on you as her husband to help her politely to find solution to her need. Believe you me, the most important thing you should do now is to restrategise and repackage your lifestlye. . . This is time for you to embrace realism even if it's temporary until after you get off from your personal recession then you can revert to idealism. Make your wife to see reason with you on while she has to go put up with her mother at the time being, while you relocate to a less expensive environment. So, you need to sell off your small car and use small portion of its proceed to fund your relocation while the other part of the proceed serve as your seed capital for business (venture into any low volume but high margin business - you don't need to have a million naira to start a multi million naira business) or to hunt for a relatively good job - use what you have to gain what you need on principle. An amicable temporary separation from your wife will resolve about 75% of your current problem, this is not really because she's the source and cause of your problems, no, but because of the presence of ethical philosophical disparities that currently exist between the two of you. With regards to your collapsed business and hitch on your travel venture, you need to tell yourself truth, all you experienced aren't new in the haulage business in particular and other life ventures in general. Look inward and you will see the reason why those unfortunate incidences happened - good attitudes remain major party to lasting success. Failure of a sane, sound and principled person isn't a sign of ignorance rather it's always an act that leads to perfection. Kindly begin to accept responsibility of your actions and inaction because that is the first hallmark of maturity and responsibleness. Last but not the least, since obviously you're of the idealistic worldview, seek for spiritual help most importantly within yourself and by yourself. You can exorcise yourself without the need to intentionally or unintentionally handing over your dominion to another mortal out there, unless if you already know a tested and trusted one. The solution to your temporary problem lies within your own hands. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 3:01pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Frenchfriez:don't mind Nigerians most especially. Dem go dey form foreign when it's obvious there are strong forces around. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Icon79(m): 3:01pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road. I didn't get a chance to read everything but, if the above quotes are true, then your problem is definitely spiritual and must be handled through serious fasting and prayers. Not sure whether you're still living in Enugu. If you are, and if you are serious, feel free to send me a PM so I can give you the phone number of a friend of mine in Onitsha. He's a deliverance minister and a powerful man of God....God is using him tremendously and I am sure that he can help you. O pari allenroundabout: |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Jokkarm2: 3:03pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
though I don't believe in such but at the same time I knw such thing exist . come to Dominion city head quarters Lekki before LBS from Ajah ask of pastor sola meet him he will link you to our GO. pastor david , all these your issues will be a history after prayers . I also hope you made your money without devils hand in it because if you did, is give and take. you need to clean your hands if you really did some funny things. God is the only answer to every prayers . |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Veetee(m): 3:03pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
I pray the good Lord who has revealed the source of your problem help you on this, you have entered into this already, there is no going back.. if you have to separate from your wife for a while and face the problem squarely, but still you cant do this without your wife. Obviuosly she is the source of the problem or rather the enemy is using her to purnish you, she needs deliverance too, you have to let her know what is going on and then let a power and honest man of God help you on this too, this cant definetely go away with prayer and fasting.and i think she is the one that needs it the most .This should be a caution to those of us who are not married yet, you shouldnt go into any marriage without doing a serious spiritual background check, otherwise you will be fighting battles that are bigger than you, its not by physical appearance, let God always direct you on who will spend the rest of your life with 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by ststyreal(f): 3:03pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by FitnessDoctor: 3:04pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
allenroundabout: Sir, I really hope you take this advice... From the story, even an illiterate would know that you are being attacked by spiritual powers. You said it happens whenever you both quarrel and your dreams are been terrorized by a man... I know you love your wife and want the best, but I would advice you to seek spiritual help. I am not going to talk much because I believe someone wants everything to be better for them, could be ready to try anything. Give Christ a chance to change this for you even though it does not seem normal. It has been 7 years already and things are already going from bad to worse, it would be best you try this alternative... Don't go to the small churches, but instead go to one of the big ones, it would really help... I sincerely hope you take your life and the future of your son seriously. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Daboomb: 3:04pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
mazimee: I bet you did not read th epart where a Husband who had six tucks before marriage, had to seek and got a "Driving job" for #35,000..... only for thios wife to still come to that place of work, lie against him and ensure he lost that job? ![]() ![]() This man will eventually lose hi slife, if he does not act swiftly against this his demonic wife. "Alertness and Deductive reasoning" are the greatest weapons of the wise Man. ![]() ![]() Go figure. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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