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Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Ken4ward: 4:58pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Spirituality is different from religion, this is very important to know. From your observations it could be a valid point your wife belongs to an occultic group which may not even be known to her even if your question her she might not have an answer. Check her family, I remember there was a time I eavesdrop a conversation between a mother and her witch doctor when she was enquiring of the future of her children. She's got able 12 of them. From the ones I could pick, about the second born, the witch doctor said, she's a product of the Marine kingdom when she's about to marry parcel the elements of the Marine kingdom for her. So he said of many of her children. The mother too agrees she's from the Marine kingdom. Life is more than what we can see with our physical eyes. As your Pastor advised at least, no matter how insignificant the move is try it once. Abraham didn't tell Sarah he's going to sacrifice Isaac when he was commanded by God to do so. Mind you, it's field he'd had experiences so don't ignore a wise counsel. If this proves to be wise, as you claimed that through prayers God revealed to you, go to Him in prayers and ask Him what you should do? |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by tightsunnybobo: 4:59pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
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Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 5:00pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:and in you own thought the OP is not looking forward an thinking about what gone that he had to get a 35k job. A man that had 300 percent return on investment in 3 years doesnt really know what to get about :oOga stop being critical critical pray life continues to be fair to you and stop this rant of being bouyant. If someone had told the likes of Obasanjo and Abiola they would be in jail in the 1970. They will boast just the way you are doing. Btw, you don't ha to be anonymous, let's learn about you.. reveal yourself 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by samsam2019: 5:01pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
It's your marriage and your life but personally I wouldn't remain with such person again |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by adatemi: 5:03pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Chascop: I do appreciate your comments but I don't believe in things like that and my kids are not brought up to believe that anyone has the spiritual means to hurt them. When God is for us, who can be against us! People go to pastors to pray for them because they believe that these pastors have the means to communicate with God. Do you know what that your pastor did last night? If he slept with his sister in-law, stole money from the offering table or just killed someone. You don't know so why put your trust/life in their hands. Go boldly to God your father and he's ready to help you and he should thinking it's the wife's fault that he has problem. Have a great evening sir! |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by neonly: 5:03pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
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Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by ikukuhero: 5:05pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
cococandy: My dear, don't be ignorant. This young man's problem has its root in his marriage to his wife. His wife definitely is the cause of his problems. If he separates from her for a while, he will surely see how he'll begin to prosper again. I have seen grace to grass stories of men as a result of marriage. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 5:05pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
TheKingIsHere:how did I condemn. If you are so unintelligent to understand my point.. my poi is simply, it's uncalled for for a spouse to make public scene of the partner especially when it didn't start at that instance. The office is a formal place, an educated lady ought to respect that. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 5:05pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
majekdom2:I have not said with certainty what he is doing or not doing I am talking generally. For all we know the entire story is another one of those Nairaland fictions I really am not interested in knowing you or to be known by you I find you pushy and obnoxious .I don't see you as a worthwhile acquaintance of any value intellectual or commercial So really if you don't mind can you find another superstitious bumpkin of your ilk to wallow with |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Segun61(m): 5:06pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
This is an issue that needs serious attention, never joke with your life, both of u need deliverance from possession,obsession and oppression of demonic forces, locate a living church that do minister in deliverance, soak yourself into thorough fasting and prayers, dedicate your life to God and prepare for real warfare by having personal vigil between 12am-3am daily, something strange will happen, then begin the prayers of total recovery,by his grace your victory is sure, just tell her that your family needs God's attention than before. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by LordIsaac(m): 5:07pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Nkan ɓe....Marriage! I'm sure this is just one of a thousanɗ marital proɓlems out there. May heaven sever us from all evil alliances. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by JeffreyJamez(m): 5:07pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Ishilove: ..and most of the time these women are ignorant of the spiritual burden they carry. I used to see all these "Spiritual husband and wife" shii as bullshit until I witnessed the "Spiritual divorce". The voice I heard that day ehn!...that was the day I knew that indeed there is a spiritual world!. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Housing(m): 5:09pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
allenroundabout I am sorry for your misfortune. The problem could be spiritual but you don't start solving problems using spiritual means alone. Don't you insure any of your trucks? As lucrative transportation business is, it is equally highly vulnerable hence the need for proper insurance cover. You can only term a problem spiritual if it defiles all logical reasonings. How can you have six trucks without insurance cover, it is like a suicidal mission for your logistics company. How often do you change your truck and replace them or you believe they can last forever? Practical approach will solve your problem better. Talk it out with your wife and be good to her. Draw up plan on how to revive your logistics business as you have learnt lessons and with better experience. Pray and fast about, please do that on your own without approaching any body. If you still have goodwill and integrity among your clients and associates with prayers you can get financial partners. Working for someone with such a salary can not be a way out unless you want to steal. May GOD guide you right 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by baby124: 5:09pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Naughtysite:Lol. You must be a nollywood writer. Spell ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by jamesbridget13(f): 5:09pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
For those saying spirit husband does not exist. I want to tell u that it does exist I had a gf back in school that tells me her ordeal. She doesn't like it but can't help her self. She tells me how d spirit hubby comes to her n they have sex in something that appears like a dream to her but when she wakes up she would be totally wet down below. If your wife is like my friend op, if u discuss it with her, I believe she ll reason with u n not get angry. Such kind of people needs deliverance. You also need to be prayerful. Remember we overcome him by the blood of the Lamb n by the words of our testimony. Prayer is the key On the other hand, ur wify might not be d reason for ur sorrow. Check n check very well. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Ishilove: 5:11pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
H JeffreyJamez:That's why I shake my head at people when they say the phenomenon of spirit spouses is not real. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Duru009(m): 5:13pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
You are battling with the spirit husband 4rm your wife!! |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by chronique(m): 5:13pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Donjazzy12: When you want to talk in public, try and at least, make use of your brain. Do I start stereotyping all the Ibo and Yoruba girls in Lekki who are into prostitution because I saw them living that life? Or should I suddenly start saying all Yoruba women are useless because I have seen so many of them sleeping around and because a lot of them in Lagos are being fvcked even for the most trivial of gifts? My point is that you can't just generalize because some people from a place misbehaved. Treat his case separately from others. There are Yoruba, Ibo, Calabar, edo, delta, hausa, etc,prostitutes all over the place. I once made the mistake of dating a runz girl in Lagos and things became extremely difficult for me to the point she started feeding me often... When I realized what I had gotten into, I ran and tried to sort my life out. Where I would be attending deliverance prayers, she'd call me and ask me what the problem was and if we were fighting. Lest I forget, I once made the mistake of giving her my full names which she took somewhere to go and start doing whatever and they started revealing my life history and future to her... I remember how telling me about having spirit of lust and spirit husband, etc. That being said, I can't just start generalizing and saying Ibo girls are bad. I learnt from that experience and disciplined myself from putting my manhood into every pussy I see. As a matter of fact, it made me more disciplined. Don't go about generalizing and throwing an entire tribe under the bus because of some people's misdemeanor. People say yorubas are promiscuous but I have seen disciplined ones amongst them. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 5:15pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
I have one question for the spirit husbamd believers : As a child was your food cooked with Gas kerosin or firewood? 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 5:16pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Ishilove:I shake my head at people who say it is real. Now I know better it is real FOR THEM BUT NOT FOR ME |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by baby124: 5:18pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:The fact that they do not believe in God's sufficiency to deliver them from any issue on their mind shows that they do not believe in God. They believe in pastors who see all sorts of things due to mental issues. When a mad man controls your thoughts, you start to see things in a mad way. It's absurd. It's similar to the ones that believe beggars can steal their prick or pus*sy away. Nothing like spiritual husband and wife exist. Just brain dead and lazy people looking for an easy explanation. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 5:19pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
adatemi: I understand you quite alright. Yeah, some families are so lucky that some powers or spirits (like ancestral spirits) don't disturb them. it all depends on the foundation of the family. Anyone who has not experienced a particular thing will definitely not believe what ever another says as regards the subject matter, so you see, there must be diversities in agreement. Yeah, we can all communicate to God only if we connect in the right and direct way through prayer but sometimes the reason why people fail to reach God is as a result of being faithless. The reason why God anointed or let's say chose a person is as a result of fast and easy access to him. The Grace upon a man differs. Mr A may not have that Grace to reach God directly because something may be behind that and that's the reason why he needs Mr B asap depending on the degree of the wahala. infact, it's just by God's mercies that we breath and witness success because there are whole lot of things which we do not know. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Duru009(m): 5:20pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
freshvine: Bitter truth!! Make haste while the sun shines. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by prinxpalax(m): 5:22pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
My dear, there is no fire without smoke. You and your wife are now one body, one entity. Do not run away from your problems but rather confront it spiritually. Both you and your wife should attend SCOAN, lagos for divine intervention. And you will be glad u did. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by 0m0nnakoda: 5:22pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
baby124:For anyone to believe in God they have to know God first. How can one believe in what they don't know? |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by YelloweWest: 5:23pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga:The op is not blaming his cos she is Edo. He is blaming her cos he thinks she has spiritual husband which is affecting him. It would be same if she were Igbos or any other tribe. U can't deny that this is a popular view amongst igbo guy! Be honest. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by xrisdon(m): 5:26pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
allenroundabout:i feel your pain bro, remember every problem have a solution, the end of your problem is near! yes, you heard me right! thats only if you believe. know it that your wife may not be the problem. mention me if you are intrested 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by arthurshelly: 5:27pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Evaberry: You are a joker if you don't believe in spiritual husband or wife....hos natter worse because his wife give birth to a boy..if the wife give birth to a girl it's likely you are not this very sad stage now |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Nobody: 5:27pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
YelloweWest: I'm now telling you that it is not a popular view among igbos carry your bigotry and shift. |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by baby124: 5:28pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
0m0nnakoda:Good way of looking at it. They definitely do not know God. The thing I am afraid of is that this OP will go around spending money on pastor's for endless deliverance and lies. Then he will get more frustrated and leave his family. Only to probably engage in crime to survive. The truth is when you have a partner and you do not listen to your partner you are heading for disaster. It happens in my home because I know hubby well. I can tell if some things he is doing will end in disaster. If he does not listen, disaster will happen. He has gotten his hands burnt several times after fighting me verbally on issues and now he knows better. He seeks my opinion and we sit down together and both discuss all sides as I see things from another angle and i know him and how he thinks. He has been moving from grace to grace as a result. A bad woman would have run away from him and his 35k job. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by YelloweWest: 5:31pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
Proudgorgeousga:Denial never changes facts... The op is a clear example. Igbo man: as I marry wife I fall. Instead of denying why not try to change the stereotype of u love your tribe? |
Re: My Marriage; A Blessing Or A Curse. Please Advice by Yul025(f): 5:31pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
please visit any omega power ministry or better still come to the main branch in portharcourt. You can check out the church via facebook. Type the name of the church or type it on google. General overseer is apostle chibuzor gift chinyere. You will see his real number. Any church that ask you to pay money is not real. OPM will never ask you to pay rather you will take assignment(is a prayer) and God will settle the matter. You can start with water spirit assignment. God bless you |
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