JeffreyJamez:


Science get where e power reach na. There are many things science can't explain but Spirituality can. E.g The Bermuda Triangle.

0m0nnakoda:
It is funny how people cannot be foolish alone they MUST insist on recruiting others to fall victim to the same scam as them.

Instead of using the greatest miracle on earth( the Human Brain) to solve problems they resort to superstition dresssed up as religion.

It is spiritual , go to MFM ,go to SCOAN go to this go to that. Reading through this thread would explain why our nation is so backward and going nowhere soon
It is true that people perish for lack of lnowledge

Search in Google for percentage of businesses that fail .

In many advanced countries only 4 out of 10 make it to 5 years . I wonder what the figure is in Nigeria.
Please pause and reflect on that. 60% of new businesses consistently fold up by their 5th birthday in advanced countries
Surely there can't be that many spirit spouses around??

Now if I said to the OP instead of going to MFM and SCOAN . let me introduce you to my accountant bring the accounts of your business from day one so you can analyse them together.. I can bet a million naira. There will be no accounts produced and yet you claim to be in business. But that is business 101 and is the same for most so called Nigerian businessmen.They lack a fundamental understanding of business and so when they appear to be doing well in reality they are just lucky but as time goes on this lack of knowledge and understanding will tell just like Arsenal which leads the table at the start and crashes at the end of the season.
A business can be taken to a doctor if it is sick just like a person. That means records and accounts. When you use your business to pay your personal expenses you are looking for trouble and often get it.

I know many will continue in their Mountain of Fire and Brimstone mode because that is how they are programmed and this message is not for them but for the few who still have a chance of putting their brains in gear and using for what it was meant for.
This internet and computer technology is the output of that brainpower and it is a living miracle let us stop acting like children and behave like real adults by TAKING PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR LIVES

allenroundabout:

Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

Coldfeets:


Thank God we still have people like you who can reason.

Foolish Africans always looking for a shortcut to their problems.

They will never take their time to understand how business works.

Once there's small comma in their business, ah no, it's their wife that's the problem, it's their mother or uncle in the village, it's their neighbour... IT MUST BE SOMEONE ELSE'S FAULT!!!

Fools.

And to the man who brought this topic to nairaland, I have this ONE question for you:

IS YOUR WIFE PROGRESSING IN HER OWN BUSINESS?

IF NOT, ARE YOU SURE YOU ARE NOT IN ANY WAY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR WIFE NOT PROGRESSING IN HER OWN ENDEAVORS?

CAN YOU CATEGORICALLY AFFIRM THAT YOUR OWN 'SPIRIT WIFE' IS NOT DESTROYING YOUR WIFE'S DESTINY?

Naughtysite:


She is not an witch. She may not even know what is going on.

Both of them need deliverance and the man needs to change business. Transport no be am.

A lot of business threads we encountered on Nairaland frontpage led lots of us into wrong businesses. Businesses propounded by excited and inexperienced people..

I won't advice an enemy to invest in transportation. I have first hand experience in it.

Rockyrocky:
Those are real but his solution is not church he should pray by himself. Christ died so he can have direct access to god through Christ, cut out the middle men.

cheikishfarms:


Imagine your reasons!
This man was doing very well for over years not until he got married. Anyway no need to digress further but note that there are greys between white and black and that grey portions are subconscious and nearly unexplained part of our lives.
I don't totally believe in church deliverance is final solutions so also I don't believe his business was not properly runned.
Did he cause accidents to most of his cars? Was he the driver? How come it happened all of a sudden Remember these drivers drove these trucks for long now meaning there are experienced drivers. What happened with his trip to Europe? Was that a coincidence too
Abeg let's stop wallowing in ignorance , these things happen ....they are very real... Very very real...

newyorks:
am just grt nd u?

Oselu28:


fine

newyorks:
ok,so hw was urday like.

Oselu28:




fun and urs

newyorks:
we're already on a new day pretty,how was ur9ite her majesty?

Oselu28:



fine and urs

0m0nnakoda:
They were trucks not cars and accidents did not happen "all of a sudden" that kind of hogwash only happens in Nolllywood. Why were they not insured? Even if it happened all of a sudden he would have been compensated.
The starting point is to ask him to show the written accounts of his business.
He talked about selling a building and I am guessing that as the trucks were generating money he started the building(s) without setting money aside, as he should, for insurance and depreciation. In short financial ignorance was the problem.
Even a country with trullions of naira must HAVE A BUDGET

djon78:


I have been reading your posts. I believe science is good and has helped humanity. But there are realms higher than science.

See I ha seen things in this life. Any man that is just a mere natural man, when the storms of Life beats that individual, he or she is finished. Money, connections can never save you. I know a very wealthy man, worth 100s of Billions in Ikoyi, when cancer struck, his money and th best overseas medical doctors couldn't save him. Another Woman I know, she was diagnosed with cancer, every other of the people she was diagnosed with cancer with all have died, but this woman not only got healed, but is sound today because she keyed in an believed in the healing power of God.

I know another man who had a terrible sickness that required a machine to bring out all the blood in his body pass it through a machine and take a into the body again. The American Doctors gave the man only 1percent chance of surviving, but his wife an family stood upon God's word that he will be delivered, whole an healed. So he underwent the procedure, within that period another 11 persons underwent the Same procedure, all of them died. Only him survived, recovered, he was as thin as bonga fish, but after full recovery, this ha put on flesh, very healthy, still alive up till today.

I am so sorry for people that only trust on science an hand work of mere men, but don't believe in th power of the Living God. They are just chaff and when the storms of life hit them they don't last.

You were castigating Africans saying we are backward, this a that. But you are far from the truth. The problem we have here is that the worst of us are the one in charge of things.
We have the calibre of people that can go even ahead of the white man. We have some of the best sound brains, we have some of the best cultures and way of life, marriage still has value in this our clime, Africa has 60percent of fertile farmland in the world, we are th continent most blessed with abundance of natural resources, our birthrate is OK, we a better of than the rest very soon th era of the blackman in the development will Emerge like China emerged.

Tega9999:

emmanuel1990:
oga i dnt have much to say to u, but pls and pls u and ur wife should try and go to SCOAN, there is a marine power fighting u.

she may nt even know that she is a queen underworld, most people who are posses do nt even know apart from the witchs and vizards. bt if u are living in Benue state u can contact me.
....08168608601.......08177086864....

ScienceWatch:
Emmanuel1990, I agree 100% with the kind advice you gave to Allenroundabout. It is sad to see all this suffering after Jesus came to offer the world the most powerful and effective help more than 2000 yrs ago.

Thousands of Fake pastors have accelerated humanities problems and have driven many into Satanism, Atheism, and other useless belief systems. Millions world-wide are grateful to Emmanuel TV were they can witness for the first time, that Jesus is truly alive.
The teachings of the Holy Gospels come alive in the daily mind-blowing miraculous healing, demonic deliverance and material blessings.

Your studies of Scoan or Emmanuel TV will prove that Scoan is not a religion, thats why people of all religions grace it. Muslims, Christians of all denominations, Jews, Atheists, etc, etc.

Medical science now realize that their "god" of science is impotent and has a shamefully weak erection on the job. People world-wide testify to the dismal failures of medical science in healing them. They pay thousands of dollars without a money-back guarantee.
After those doctors, specialists etc, took all those suffering patients money, they were told that there is nothing more they can do.
Thousands of personal, live testimonies reveal that if those patients came to Scoan in the first place, they would have been healed
for[b]FREE[/b]. Jesus Christs mighty healing power is available in the humble Scoan Church Nigeria for FREE !

Watch and study Emmanuel TV for only three days, it will save your life.
Your studies will prove that Scoan is not a religion, thats why people of all religions grace it. Muslims, Christians of all denominations, Jews, Atheists, etc, etc.


segunojo866, vaxx, budaatum, Samsimple, helpfulposts, hopefulLandlord

segunojo866:
I have been to tb Joshua church back in the days. Honestly that man has supernatural powers. Am an agnostic, meaning am not so sure about God for now but i see atheism as foolishness

ScienceWatch:
Mmmm, your humble admission is indeed powerful. What helped me during my days as a truth seeking Atheist, was that I was very aware that there are invisible forces of dark and light that manifest evil and good. That was my starting observation, then I planned on making a list with two columns to help me clearly identify thing from the dark side and the light side.

I carried that list with me to observe myself and others wherever I went. From what I learned, I decided that I must do everything possible to stay in the light because the light produce corresponding actions, just as the dark produce corresponding actions.

To make a long story very short, when I watched the activities of TB Joshua I quickly realized that he was deep in the light, deeper than anyone I have ever studied. It became clear that the powers that the humble TB Joshua is using can only be from the source of light because it only manifest in the lives of others as incredible light, burning away any problem they may have.

I also learnt that Scoan is not a religion because it is the only place where Muslims, Christians of all denominations, Atheist, Buddists,
Etc worship together to praise the source of the light.

Now the history of Scoan and the thousands of daily live global testimonies verify that light.

Be bless by the light on your tough journey, Segunojo866

segunojo866:
am not going through any tough journey. I prefer to be alone without religion. That's why i said am an agnostic

ScienceWatch:
I suggested that Agnosticism is a journey because the Agnostic Huxley said, "That which is unproved today may be proved, by the help of new discoveries, tomorrow.”

Many atheists slam Agnostics for not fully accepting science as absolute proof that God does not exist. We all know by know that science is largely impotent and has a weak erection when it comes to spiritual things.

allenroundabout:

Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

I personally do not believe in this "spiritual"
thing or ish...

This will not solve ur problem if u keep relying on this matter..u lost ur biznesz, u lost ur job & now ur broke...

Why not talk to ur wife how to sort out all ur problems especially in financial aspect sha? Too many rich ppol who hit the rock bottom as well..Now, pointing fingers on whose to blame is NOT an option..