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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:02pm On Sep 29, 2017
megareal:
I've seen women whose BFs and husbands travelled out, they waited like forever visiting one church or the other praying for them to come back .

Personally, I would delete any BF immediately he leaves. I free you and free myself. If e go work, we will find ourselves again. (I no send that broad tins). Na only husband I go wait for(not the arrangee abroad based type o) grin

I know a man who left for canada since over 20 years didn't come back. The lady in question only gave up after 15 years..if you see how tall the only child is now... grin....Many men have bastardize relationships, so we take the blame... grin

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by megareal: 12:02pm On Sep 29, 2017
luminouz:

Megareal with a megazeal...
If I travel.... U go wait for me ooo...na just 3 years naaaa

luminouz, even you? grin

Why na? cry cry

You wey go illuminate, torchlight and shine every part of white woman's congo, na you pesin go wait for? shocked shocked shocked

Oya, swear say I dey lie. cheesy

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by thesuave10(m): 12:03pm On Sep 29, 2017
luminouz:

Hmmm....tell me about d latinas....they faithful

A lot are but they are hot and can be crazy at times but that's because they're very passionate
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:03pm On Sep 29, 2017
Out of sight, out of mind.

My dad won't even allow me marry abroad based husband and end up staying in Nigeria while he is abroad.
Why waste my time dating them at the first place?

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:03pm On Sep 29, 2017
Taiwo20:
which country can i travel to for relaxation and will cost less than 300k in naira

Just african continent
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Flashh: 12:03pm On Sep 29, 2017
Lawlahdey:
Duhhh.
Show me na. cheesy
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:04pm On Sep 29, 2017
iAlpha:
My woman waited!! And now she's engaged. It depends on the lady if the guy decides to be loyal. I will be marrying her soon. As long as perseverance and understanding is key, we dated 4years In Naija and she waited 3years while I was there. I brought her over and now she's studying and now we'll be travelling with return ticket to Naija for introduction. It's not the dudes fault. At least he was honest enough to keep communication going until she flopped.



Excellent, wish I can meet one like this. We get too many complaints about Naija girls overseas...

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:04pm On Sep 29, 2017
Rubbish! story! but continue angry
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by shakswealth(m): 12:06pm On Sep 29, 2017
Lawlahdey:
Take me along biko. grin
hwfa nau, me I d live naija go relax soon for NY, USA. u go follow me grin
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by thesuave10(m): 12:06pm On Sep 29, 2017
Sydney17:
@trapqueen! Nothing like that! Curves and shapes ain't the only reason u fall in love!

no mind am people don't know that cheating doesn't mean love gone.sex doesn't mean love.people are just daft
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:06pm On Sep 29, 2017
Flashh:
Show me na. cheesy
In privatewink
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by megareal: 12:07pm On Sep 29, 2017
supersystemsnig:


I know a man who left for canada since over 20 years didn't come back. The lady in question only gave up after 15 years..if you see how talll the only child is now... grin....Many men have bastardize relationships, so we take the blame... grin

Thank you. I know some like that. It's those kind of experiences that make some women no gree wait again.

The heartache is palpable. And before you know it, time is up.

I swear some guys no dey try at all. It's better to tell the lady to move on, rather than let her keep hope alive for what will not be.

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by fpeter(f): 12:08pm On Sep 29, 2017
If you ever loved her, you should take her back. Long distance relationships aren't easy to maintain.
Forgive her and take her back, eventually you will still hook up with a 9ja babe on social media and come back home to marry her
No be person she sef dey kpansh before you go marry her? So just forgive your ex and work things out with her ASAP.

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by thesuave10(m): 12:08pm On Sep 29, 2017
megareal:


Thank you. I know some like that. It's those kind of experiences that make some women no gree wait again.

The heartache is palpable. And before you know it, time is up.

I swear some guys no dey try at all. It's better to tell the lady to move on, rather than let her keep hope alive for what will not be.

They don't know that It will not be
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:10pm On Sep 29, 2017
shakswealth:


hwfa nau, me I d live naija go relax soon for NY, USA. u go follow me grin
When are we leaving,honey? kiss kiss

I like your dp oh, it's really beautiful. grin
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:11pm On Sep 29, 2017
megareal:


Thank you. I know some like that. It's those kind of experiences that make some women no gree wait again.

The heartache is palpable. And before you know it, time is up.

I swear some guys no dey try at all. It's better to tell the lady to move on, rather than let her keep hope alive for what will not be.

Well as for me, one year come join me straight up. I wonder what's wrong with our men. Securing a visa for a lady isn't expensive nau. With some money any guy that loves a lady can arrange her visa, and in one year, they can be there together. Anything beyond 12-18months to me is too much...It's wasting the girl's time.


I heard of a ldy that aborted over 7 pregnancies for a guy, she still hustled his ticket fee, when he got visa, immediately he entered Germany, he stopped communicating, the girl waited and waited, lawyer came, banker came, politician came, she turned them all down. As of now, time has gone, she has lost her womb, she's single...But guess what, the guy's company broke down, as of last year, he was deported back to Nigeria...He's begging for money to survive now...Karma prevailed...We men should do what is right and should stop treating people like trash.

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by TheEminentLaity: 12:13pm On Sep 29, 2017
Don't understand what this post meant to achieve. You left Nigeria for overseas and overstayed as an illegal immigrant and you come here bragging that you are better than your girlfriend that you left behind undecided Why don't you tell us exactly what you do in obodo yonder and how you got your paper issues sorted or is it that you have looked around you and see no one you're better than in your immediate environment so you turn around to pick on your girl in Nigeria. Shame on you! Paul says shame on you!! undecided

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by koboko69: 12:13pm On Sep 29, 2017
NairaSand:
I'm interested in how you changed status

Illegal to Legal

Tell me about it!!!

My brother...i tire for some guys. I dont undetstand the meaning of this foolish thread, cos that is how they end up landing in trouble.
He wanted bae to wait, so he can come back and he is even making jest of her.
The only way he could get is papers was marrying someone else to divorce later to be with bae....which simply means hurting someone else to make someone else happy or using money which is ........, why he has to put this on the internet...i really dont know.

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by koboko69: 12:13pm On Sep 29, 2017
TheEminentLaity:
Don't understand what this post meant to achieve. You left Nigeria for overseas and overstayed as an illegal immigrant and you come here bragging that you are better than your girlfriend that you left behind undecided Why don't you tell us exactly what you do in obodo yonder and how you got your paper issues sorted or is it that you have looked around you and see no one you're better than in your immediate environment so you turn around to pick up on your girl in Nigeria. Shame on you! Paul says shame on you!! undecided

Bros...some naija guys foolish...i nor even see this ur comment before mine.

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Chidinmaluv22(f): 12:15pm On Sep 29, 2017
and u r the innocent one that didn't Bleep over there

never believe a onesided story

so for three years now u never Bleep ?

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Taiwo20(m): 12:15pm On Sep 29, 2017
Lawlahdey:
Take me along biko. grin

how much you carry for hand.....
#RussianDateThings

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:17pm On Sep 29, 2017
Taiwo20:


how much you carry for hand.....
#RussianDateThings
Na only my luggage I carry oh. grin grin

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by shakswealth(m): 12:18pm On Sep 29, 2017
Lawlahdey:
When are we leaving,honey? kiss kiss

I like your dp oh, it's really beautiful. grin

"boo Of Life" grin, no time ooo, next month, around 15. then Dec we will go UK, enjoy xmas and watch Man U match live and direct cool
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Flashh: 12:19pm On Sep 29, 2017
Lawlahdey:
In privatewink
No disappoint me óó! cool
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:21pm On Sep 29, 2017
shakswealth:


"boo Of Life" grin, no time ooo, next month, around 15. then Dec we will go UK, enjoy xmas and watch Man U match live and direct cool
Hehehehe..
My love, where have you been hiding since heh?

I'm an arsenal fan oh so we'll watch arsenal's match too.wink
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:22pm On Sep 29, 2017
Flashh:
No disappoint me óó! cool
Lmao.
I will. grin
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:25pm On Sep 29, 2017
fpeter:
If you ever loved her, you should take her back. Long distance relationships aren't easy to maintain.
Forgive her and take her back, eventually you will still hook up with a 9ja babe on social media and come back home to marry her
No be person she sef dey kpansh before you go marry her? So just forgive your ex and work things out with her ASAP.

I agree, she'll even make a better wife from the lessons she learnt through the experience

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:26pm On Sep 29, 2017
Chidinmaluv22:
and u r the innocent one that didn't Bleep over there


never believe a onesided story


so for three years now u never Bleep ?


It's possible... Are you the bleeping police?

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by megareal: 12:27pm On Sep 29, 2017
supersystemsnig:


Well as for me, one year come join me straight up. I wonder what's wrong with our men. Securing a visa for a lady isn't expensive nau. With some money any guy that loves a lady can arrange her visa, and in one year, they can be there together. Anything beyond 12-18months to me is too much...It's wasting the girl's time.


I heard of a ldy that aborted over 7 pregnancies for a guy, she still hustled his ticket fee, when he got visa, immediately he entered Germany, he stopped communicating, the girl waited and waited, lawyer came, banker came, politician came, she turned them all down. As of now, time has gone, she has lost her womb, she's single...But guess what, the guy's company broke down, as of last year, he was deported back to Nigeria...He's begging for money to survive now...Karma prevailed...We men should do what is right and should stop treating people like trash.

Hmmmm, the xcuses some guys will give as to why they can't secure visas for their women go full dangote truck.

As for that guy, karma has dealt him a hand. He deliberately blanked a woman who held him up. Shows he was just using her all along.

Now most ladies who know or hear this woman's story will advise themselves and turn the tigress in any abroad relationship. Unfortunately, it may just happen to be against a genuine guy whose poor heart will be broken and he will swear off trusting women. He will now use and dump other innocent ones who will return the act in kind on another poor guy. It's a never ending cycle. SMH.

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Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by shakswealth(m): 12:27pm On Sep 29, 2017
Lawlahdey:
Hehehehe..
My love, where have you been hiding since heh?

I'm an arsenal fan oh so we'll watch arsenal's match too.wink

yes ooo, u wil seel all them Walcot and Wenger live and direct grin I must see my oga jose and ma boy Martial too ooo
Re: Ladies! Before You Curse Your Abroad Based Guy For Dumping You by Nobody: 12:32pm On Sep 29, 2017
megareal:


Hmmmm, the xcuses some guys will give as to why they can't secure visas for their women go full dangote truck.

As for that guy, karma has dealt him a hand. He deliberately blanked a woman who held him up. Shows he was just using her all along.

Now most ladies who know or hear this woman's story will advise themselves and turn the tigress in any abroad relationship. Unfortunately, it may just happen to be against a genuine guy whose poor heart will be broken and he will swear off trusting women. He will now use and dump other innocent ones who will return the act in kind on another poor guy. It's a never ending cycle. SMH.



It's a cycle oh. It's a never ending cycle. The painful part albeit is when we speak to ladies thesedays, the vibes they give is as though we're benefactors of a previous guys mess.... Hmm, at this rate, i'm afraid for our generation. The mistrust and skepticism is off the charts...I'm beginning to lose hope on love self...Make i kuku face my book squarely... grin


There are no excuses for not being able to get a loved one visa, if there's a desire to do it, it is easy. No matter the country, there are travel agents that can get visas to any country on the planet. Guys are just mischievous and petty

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