lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

You are 39 years old. Your options of conceiving now were already slim, consider it a miracle that you even got pregnant. If you lose this one you might not get another. As for the boyfriend you'd better forget about him. He doesn't care about you.

princesscool:
At 39 u are still going out with in responsible man, shame on u

Shame on you too

Op don't mind all these hypocrites they are all foolish. at 39 abortion should not be an option, I know keeping the baby is not as easy as it sounds it will totally alter the course of your life and there will be hardship and insults from idiot people. however I know later in life you will not regret it. just make sure you always know the whereabout of the father even if he does not marry you(I doubt he will). may the lord be your strength.

My sister, God decided to bless you with a baby. Be happy and make your baby your everything.
You are 39 and thwan who impregnated you is not ready, and you think he will be ready in the next five years when he know you will be approaching menopause?
Don't miss this opportunity because if you do, you may spend your whole life alone waiting till when a an is ready.
God will give you the grace to go thru pregnancy and delivery. That babuly is God sent

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

Dont risk your life with abortion, just keep the baby who knows he/she can be president of this country.
Meanwhile i like the gal on your dp be my inlaw

things dey happen, at 39 ur talking about wedlock, beta keep d child and dont lose both ways

Sorry o
But u could have controlled ur legs na sister when u knew ur conditions
As for him next tym do this to him

Blood of frogs
39 and not married

MhizzAJ:
..... He's ready to fvck but he's not ready for a child

shut up there
is it not the two who agree to fvck themselves?
fish brain!

You had better keep the baby.

No let me talk wetin dey my mind o

CaptainSALAZAR:


If a man is ready, it's for himself not because his partner's clock is ticking. women and reasoning with vagina.

So she should get rid of the baby because her boyfriend is not ready. Considering her age and her fibroids history, this is probably her only chance at motherhood. If she loses it because of an unserious boyfriend, she'll have no one but herself to blame.

Madam OP, forget about your yeye boyfriend and have your baby ojare. It might be a bit hard doing it all alone at first, but in future you'll be glad you did.

Honestly u needed / need the pregnancy and I bet u wanted it considering your age (Not judging or condemning u in anyway). Don't do anything you may regret forever sis.

goingape3:
shut up there

is it not the two who agree to fvck themselves?

fish brain!

u re very RUDE

You made a big mistake but it could happen to anyone

Keep the baby

sounds like a cooked story

MISSCONGENIALITY:
My sister, God decided to bless you with a baby. Be happy and make your baby your everything.
You are 39 and thwan who impregnated you is not ready, and you think he will be ready in the next five years when he know you will be approaching menopause?
Don't miss this opportunity because if you do, you may spend your whole life alone waiting till when a an is ready.
God will give you the grace to go thru pregnancy and delivery. That babuly is God sent

shut up with this God god things

didn't the bible said not to commit fornication

why will God bless this kind of sinful act?

this baby is not God sent but rather from the sinful act of it.

all this self-righteous hypocrite who know nothing about God will be giving advises.

useless.

goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!

and who are you to judge her predicament,kettle calling pot black. When will this hypocrisy stop self.

goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!

I SO MUCH WISH TO SAY THAT U ARE CRAZY AND THAT U ARE INSANE... COMPOUND FOOL... sorry i said that

goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!

and who are you to judge her present predicament, kettle calling pot black. When will this hypocrisy stop self.

When you are 39 how old is your boyfriend then that he is not ready to have a child. Both of you need deliverance. Is better you for you not to abort it. Obedience is better than sacrifice.

[color=#990000][/color]Op I can nt say dat dis ur question is useless or u at 39 u can nt tell him to use condom or u can nt use one 4 urself, u nw gt d result now u re here 4 advice

fvckme:

That your guy could have been prevented if his Mama used Condom

What of the op. If at age 39, and a lady, she still think she isn't ready for pregnancy, then she is of all women most foolish. And her father could have prevented her even through withdrawal method.

Both of them are foolish, and instead of OP to take advantage and have a baby she can call her own, she is looking for someone that will advise her to abort the baby. Large nippled ladies are senseless. Seems op is like that

This might be your last chance, don't toss it away, yes no one wishes to be a single mother, but you are not getting any younger, so he was ready to fvck without a condom and not ready for a baby
You are 39, that should place him at atleast 40, so at 40 he is not ready for a baby ?, are you sure that guy is not married and didn't just want to tap it and move on?, whatever the outcome ,keep the baby ,for your own good

akinade28:
Babe, u r 39yrs and pregnant Already
Forget about wedlock, keep d baby .
Apart from risking abortion, menopause is at ur door.

ur face looks familiar....

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

no proposal and u agreed to raw mode ?hmm

u are 39years and u call your man a boy friend and your self a girlfriend?.... aunty your mumu don do.


now to the topic, @39 u are now a woman and you only have few chance(s) to have a child of your own, so I will advice u to keep d child dear cos menopause is almost at your door.

goingape3:
na the punishment were God dey punish you be this!

instead to use your youth at something productive you will be using it to fvck preek

you will born a disable child in the future as part of your punishment.

ewu!

I SO MUCH WISH TO SAY THAT U ARE CRAZY AND THAT U ARE INSANE... COMPOUND FOOL... sorry i said that . .Its either u are jambite or in sec.schol . .ur sense of reasoning is zero

daikmona:
lol.. See question

A question most people have failed to ask the Op....a much needed answer is what I wanna lay eyes on

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

Honestly, without judging you. You have nothing to loose ow worry for. At this age, is it a must to be married? It is his loss. Brace up, have your child for it is a blessing. He must surely come around when he knows a part of him is missing. Be the matured one and muster strong. I won't sugar coat it, it won't be easy fending alone especially through the weaning. You will need a lot of assistance. After that phase is over, try to make ends meet. In few years you will be happier for it. Marriage in itself is overrated these days. Its not like before. So don't be fooled into thinking that marriage is an achievement as of now. If you don't have life goals that are outside marriage, then start creating one. I wish you well and wish you courage.