CEEcey:


A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men

My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks

Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family
His money is ours.

IamLEGEND1:
And you know this how?

supersystemsnig:



See mindset oh

funmisticqueen:
it happens a lot especially with yoruba men. Love is not blind abeg, people are just dumb and throw common sense into the lagoon because of a relationship

TLuzzie: This is an obvious, disgusting fact that irritates any right-thinking man and gives him etiolating quivers at the same time. The feminist movement, to a great extent, has morphed into something sinister and despicable and many more are joining this calamitious wave as the days pass, propagating it with their might and thereby accelerating its speed.

At the incipience, they claimed to have wanted equality, equality and nothing more. But what do we have now? A bunch of black-blooded MISANDRIST b!tches and witches who do not only want the collapse and obliteration of the current patriarchial structure, but explicitly and implicitly advocate its replacement with a men-hating matriarchy. I've been confronted on several occassions in the past with the argument that these set of feminists are the extremist minority, and do not represent feminism in anyway, and indeed I once took it for granted that that was the truth of the matter. But I've come to realise overtime that many of the so-called true feminists are in the same category as these bunch of disasters, the only difference being that their matriarchial advocacy is implicitly promoted and their misandrist tendencies are pretty much subtle.

Although, I support gender equality, female emancipation, and the feminist agenda, as legitimately represented, and also accept the fact that not all feminists are malevolent misandrist creatures, it can't be stressed enough that it isn't credible to consider these men-hating idiots as an "irrelevant extremist minority". They must be taken extremely serious.

If this disastrous wave isn't reigned in and made calm by the winds of reason and rationality, it portends a future societal calamity and it would be too late by then to reverse the damage.

funmisticqueen:
so that the husband will run away with the money and give side chic abi. You never ready

CEEcey:


A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men

My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks

Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family
His money is ours.

Rukkydelta:
His money is his, my money is mine
And according to the Bible a husband is the head of the home. So he should be ready to take responsibility financial and I will also assist in arrears I can.He can take 70% of his financial responsibility while I do take 30%
We can open a joint in which I donate 30% monthly and he donates 70% that we can use for the family expenditure

Saintsammurai:
IF i am the husband, i wont run away.

ToZaraWithaZ:
This is my problem with these misandrist idiots that call themselves feminists. They want the benefits of GENDER EQUALITY, while retaining the benefits of PATRIACHY for themselves.

Talk about having their cakes and eating it at the same time! I'm having none of that double standard.

To the "feminists", your husband's money is yours as long as YOU AGREE that yours also belong to him. Otherwise, your marriage is pointless, and a mere excercise in futility.

Or better still, denounce feminism and stay loyal to the patriachal tradition that has been since the dawn of time, if your money is so precious to you that you can't share it with your husband.

It's either one or the other. YOU CAN'T HAVE BOTH!



www.nairaland.com/3891318/annoying-double-standards-men-suffer

funmisticqueen:
The same way men cheat on their wives and still expect them to stick with them, women have been learning how to eat their cake and have it from men

ToZaraWithaZ:
Rubbish. I don't expect a woman to stick with me when I cheat, the same way I wouldn't tolerate a cheating wife.

You have no point. I am for gender equality, and I want equal treatment. Double standards and hypocricy will not be tolerated.

If you're a feminist, follow your feminism to ITS LOGICAL CONCLUSION. You can't then espouse the same standards as women who believe in patriachial tradition.

funmisticqueen:
i am no feminist but if you want true gender equality, men would no longer be the head of the family, men would also have take 50% of orders from the wife, technically both will wear tge pants in the house

ToZaraWithaZ:
Head of the family? What a joke! Soul mates is what it is called; you're partners - you met each other, loved each other enough to settle down together, then it is up to you as adults to come to agreements and decide on whatever works for you. There's no head since no gender is instrinsically inferior.

In the home, the one who is better at something should head that department. Marriage is not a Master-Slave institution, but one established on LOVE, FAITHFULNESS and TRUST, involving people who understand the meaning of what it is they're venturing into.

Where did you read it in my post that men should be the "head" of the family?

ToZaraWithaZ:
Head of the family? What a joke! Soul mates is what it is called; you're partners - you met each other, loved each other enough to settle down together, then it is up to you as adults to come to agreements and decide on whatever works for you. There's no head since no gender is instrinsically inferior.

In the home, the one who is better at something should head that department. Marriage is not a Master-Slave institution, but one established on LOVE, FAITHFULNESS and TRUST, involving people who understand the meaning of what it is they're venturing into.

Where did you read it in my post that men should be the "head" of the family?

L3G3ND:
this why couples need to have a joint savings account where at least 20% of their monthly income goes in there ... and they can also have their individual accounts ..... so we can now have His money,Her money and Our money ...

its that's simple

ToZaraWithaZ:
Head of the family? What a joke! Soul mates is what it is called; you're partners - you met each other, loved each other enough to settle down together, then it is up to you as adults to come to agreements and decide on whatever works for you. There's no head since no gender is instrinsically inferior.

In the home, the one who is better at something should head that department. Marriage is not a Master-Slave institution, but one established on LOVE, FAITHFULNESS and TRUST, involving people who understand the meaning of what it is they're venturing into.

Where did you read it in my post that men should be the "head" of the family?

funmisticqueen:
maybe you, but i have trust issues especially with nigerians

Saintsammurai:
hmm its like you aint in Nigeria..

Daeylar:


All your posts on gender equality are making too much sense

funmisticqueen:
you are more delirous than i imagined, as if those is enough to keep a marriage

supersystemsnig:


Brilliance all over...Nice input

ToZaraWithaZ:
Head of the family? What a joke! Soul mates is what it is called; you're partners - you met each other, loved each other enough to settle down together, then it is up to you as adults to come to agreements and decide on whatever works for you. There's no head since no gender is instrinsically inferior.

In the home, the one who is better at something should head that department. Marriage is not a Master-Slave institution, but one established on LOVE, FAITHFULNESS and TRUST, involving people who understand the meaning of what it is they're venturing into.

Where did you read it in my post that men should be the "head" of the family?

supersystemsnig:



I love the point that states whomsoever is better at a department heads it. 100% on this point brov, this way focus is placed on optimizing performance in the relationships, less or minimal competition, and healthy relationship. It makes sense

ToZaraWithaZ:
Bull's eye, bro. Exacta! You get the point.

ToZaraWithaZ:
Haha. Thanks for the compliment. I'm blushing.

supersystemsnig:



That's what we do at my place... There somethings my sisters are far more excellent so i mellow..

ToZaraWithaZ:
Hehe. That's my niccur. It's evident that we breathe the same "kind" of oxygen.