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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by Iamzik: 10:32pm On Oct 03, 2017
MrBigiman:
I have a neighbour who bleeps the hell out of his wife every single day, I can't even sleep esp wen there's no light as the lady keeps screaming Richard!, Richard!, that lady needs her money and her husbands money to take care of herself, I even wonder how her she and her husband still make it early to work. But one day the man go slump. No be curse.

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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by PDPGuy: 10:32pm On Oct 03, 2017
The money earned by either party should be termed "our money". After all, people get married, they become one essentially.

So, I do not understand why, for e.g. the woman will claim that the money she earns belongs to her alone. If she wants to tow that path, then the money earned by the husband should be his alone.

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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by HallaDaTruth: 10:33pm On Oct 03, 2017
The increase in Feminism has also been linked to an increase in broken homes and failed relationships, yet some ladies are extremely blind to see

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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by DAMMYORES: 10:33pm On Oct 03, 2017
Don't be suprise that most of the ladies that argue that they can't give out their money to their husbands are actually the breadwinner of the family. #FACT#

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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Oct 03, 2017
Daeylar:


Didn't get this mentioñ.

Lol, glad I could make your night.
And if you're being sarcastic eh angry

Goodnight smiley
Lol....... I'm currently in the Seventh Heaven feasting with my subjects. I'm inviting you to the party. smiley

Alright. Good night. Sleep tight, and chase away invading bedbugs with your snore. tongue
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by Rastamann: 10:33pm On Oct 03, 2017
They do not necessarily need to have a joint account but they both own the money and spending decisions should be agreed by both. that is is why they are 1 + 1 = 1.
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by castrol180(m): 10:34pm On Oct 03, 2017
MhizzAJ:
I don't think i can even operate a joint account

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We know you before now...
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by Iamzik: 10:35pm On Oct 03, 2017
Thisnut:
someone like you is good to Bleep and pass on to the next over and over till your pussycat can't take no more. Big liability and not wifeable. Dicks fall on you

Haba guy

You got zero chill....
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by sheDD(m): 10:35pm On Oct 03, 2017
supersystemsnig:



So, his money is ours, and yours remains yours.. But what would you be doing with your money since he'll be taking care of your needs and that of the family?

nice question

Aunty abeg answer
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by themonk(m): 10:36pm On Oct 03, 2017
makydebbie:
That'll be cheating. His money is our money same with mine as our money too.
Debbie, where did you travel to. I always wanted to meet you cry
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by iamNifemi(m): 10:38pm On Oct 03, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
Wrong.
My money is mine. Her money is mine as well.

Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by makydebbie(f): 10:38pm On Oct 03, 2017
themonk:

Debbie, where did you travel to. I always wanted to meet you cry
I'm home now
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by makydebbie(f): 10:39pm On Oct 03, 2017
ccollins:
so U are sapiosexual perfectly like me. I have a desirous love for intelligence and books
Same here. wink
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by MrBigiman: 10:40pm On Oct 03, 2017
Iamzik:


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I tire my brother. But my point is simple, u Bleep a lady, give her pregnancy, slacken her puci, Bleep her even more day by day, turn her breast to slippers, and then still want to claim her money, then u are a terrorist.
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by themonk(m): 10:40pm On Oct 03, 2017
makydebbie:
I'm home now
Hope your journey was smooth.
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by Kimcutie: 10:41pm On Oct 03, 2017
Rukkydelta:

But I did gave you a option back then
And you went for brother and not friend
And I did change.
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by ademusiwa3r: 10:41pm On Oct 03, 2017
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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by ccollins(m): 10:41pm On Oct 03, 2017
makydebbie:
Same here. wink
you stay in lagos, msg me on collins4reall@gmail.com
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by vivalavida(m): 10:41pm On Oct 03, 2017
funmisticqueen:
you are more delirous than i imagined, as if those is enough to keep a marriage

Is that all u have to reply to him?
Lmao

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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by makydebbie(f): 10:43pm On Oct 03, 2017
themonk:

Hope your journey was smooth.
Yea thanks
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by makydebbie(f): 10:43pm On Oct 03, 2017
ccollins:
you stay in lagos, msg me
I'm not in lagos
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Oct 03, 2017
CEEcey:
undecided

A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men

My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks

Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family
His money is ours.
A woman that depends on her husband's money is a disgrace to womanhood. In this 21st century she will still be depending on a man for everything, it's a shame.
Your money is yours but his money isn't yours.don't forget he was alone before he meet you. If you can't share with him then don't expect him to share with you. It's a 50/50 thing, I scratch you back you scratch mine too.

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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by dingbang(m): 10:45pm On Oct 03, 2017
My money is our money..... Her money is our money....
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by themonk(m): 10:45pm On Oct 03, 2017
makydebbie:
Yea thanks
You are in Ghana right? Hope you took some nigerian jollof rice to them to confirm their worst fears. cheesy
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by theapeman: 10:45pm On Oct 03, 2017
supersystemsnig:
Should a Wife's Money be '' Hers '' , while the husband's be " Ours " ?


With the rising influence of feminism, and/or divergent ways of doing things, ladies are beginning to re-define the way things should be done in marriage ( Not saying it is wrong for ladies to have expectations and look out for it though).

One important aspect of the family that is affected in a marriage is the issue of " finance "

Now, I heard a lady saying she can't collect money from any man, because she doesn't want to be told the husband made her or made her wealthy. It touched my heart. This meant that in the marriage she wanted to keep her money, hence her money is hers, while the husband's money is either his or " theirs ".

What is your view on this subject? Do you agree? I thought marriage should be 50/50. Or better still couples should look for ways to work with a formula that works with them... What do you think?

Suggestions please.. Wife's money, Our Money...

OR

Joint Account, and separate individual accounts.



Is Your Wife's Money Hers, and Yours Our Money?

Should Couples Operate A Joint Account?


What do you think?
this are one of the reason I don't what to get married to a naija woman!

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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by vivalavida(m): 10:46pm On Oct 03, 2017
Thisnut:
someone like you is good to Bleep and pass on to the next over and over till your pussycat can't take no more. Big liability and not wifeable. Dicks fall on you

Isheeeeee

Ameeeen oooo

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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by theapeman: 10:47pm On Oct 03, 2017
CEEcey:
undecided

A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men

My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks

Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family
His money is ours.
only an imbec1le will want to put a ring on ya hand undecided

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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by Darligold(m): 10:47pm On Oct 03, 2017
CEEcey:
undecided

A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men

My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks

Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family
His money is ours.

Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by femi4love(m): 10:50pm On Oct 03, 2017
CEEcey:
undecided

A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men

My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks

Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family
His money is ours.

Clap for yourself cheesy then come back and tell us your experience once you're married.
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by Divay22(f): 10:57pm On Oct 03, 2017
Understanding is just the key
Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Oct 03, 2017
CEEcey:
undecided

A husband that depends on his wife's money is a disgrace to men

My money is mine alone and I can only decide to give him if he asks

Besides isn't he suppose to be the head of the family
His money is ours.

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Re: Should A Wife's Money Be '' Hers '' , While The Husband's Money Be " Ours " ? by princeadams11: 11:00pm On Oct 03, 2017
supersystemsnig:
Should a Wife's Money be '' Hers '' , while the husband's be " Ours " ?


With the rising influence of feminism, and/or divergent ways of doing things, ladies are beginning to re-define the way things should be done in marriage ( Not saying it is wrong for ladies to have expectations and look out for it though).

One important aspect of the family that is affected in a marriage is the issue of " finance "

Now, I heard a lady saying she can't collect money from any man, because she doesn't want to be told the husband made her or made her wealthy. It touched my heart. This meant that in the marriage she wanted to keep her money, hence her money is hers, while the husband's money is either his or " theirs ".

What is your view on this subject? Do you agree? I thought marriage should be 50/50. Or better still couples should look for ways to work with a formula that works with them... What do you think?

Suggestions please.. Wife's money, Our Money...

OR

Joint Account, and separate individual accounts.



Is Your Wife's Money Hers, and Yours Our Money?

Should Couples Operate A Joint Account?


What do you think?
As a man, it's you responsibility to take care of your family. Just forget abt what your wife has, if she decide to help fine, if she doesn't, just focus on ur responsibility.

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